Post: #51

(02-14-2017 07:52 PM)Rusplaya Wrote:  girl was very attractive solid 7.5 I shit you not.

Also people tell me all the time I am very good looking etc. I am 6'2 240lb at around 10% bf.

This is the worst part of the thread.

Your a big dude, so this gives you an advantage.

She probably thought you were going to bang her to kingdom come, not finger her for 20 minutes.

Post: #52

(02-16-2017 10:07 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

(02-14-2017 07:52 PM)Rusplaya Wrote:  girl was very attractive solid 7.5 I shit you not.

Also people tell me all the time I am very good looking etc. I am 6'2 240lb at around 10% bf.

This is the worst part of the thread.

Your a big dude, so this gives you an advantage.


She probably thought you were going to bang her to kingdom come, not finger her for 20 minutes.

Yes I agree with you.

In the future won't waste time like this. I will lead to sex or just move on right away. I wasted way to much time with her and did get to blow my load. Only reason stuck it out for so long with her was because a few weeks prior met a club girl night club in NYC and after two hours we went back to her place had amazing sex so assumed this girl would be the same and just needed time to build comfort never thought she would jet on me like this.

Post: #53

^Every girl is different.

XXL and others gave you on point info.

Like you said, you wanted to blow your load. This could have been done in the other bathroom in the rooftop lounge.

If she isn't a dirty gal, then I am a Mormon.

I need to revisit NYC again.

Post: #54

(02-16-2017 10:44 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  ^Every girl is different.

XXL and others gave you on point info.

Like you said, you wanted to blow your load. This could have been done in the other bathroom in the rooftop lounge.

If she isn't a dirty gal, then I am a Mormon.

I need to revisit NYC again.

Yes buddy definitely come to NYC amazing place. I love it here. Night life and the women are the top of the food chain.

In regards to unzipping my pants and making her suck my cock in the bathroom. Well for some reason hesitated and thoughts of rape clouded my mind. Still should of at least attempted it. Can't change the past can only learn from this and move on.

Post: #55

(02-14-2017 12:08 AM)Rusplaya Wrote:  Met her in a bar. Girl was a solid 7.5 with sexy leather pants and no panties nice big tits. Hot to say the least. Okay here is the story. Open her with "Hey why are you here alone" She answered with my friends are somewhere around here. I am like okay my name is blah blah blah and move her to lounge chairs so we could get closer to each other. She consistently keeps asking me this stupid question. "Why did you choose me in this bar when you can have any girl you want" I am dumb founded by this question and just ignore. Continue pressing the touching and finally she makes out with me after about 20 mins I am fingering her. Finally I say we are going back to my place she is like no we are not. I am like okay lets go to another place. I take her to a rooftop because I knew one of the bouncers and he let me in no problem. There we dance and make out talk bullshit she keeps asking me why chose her ugh at this point I am annoyed she does not want to go back to mine and does not want to back to hers. Finally I decide to take her the bathroom its unisex where I finger her a bit more and afterwards she is like take my number. I answer with sarcastic okay ill take down your number. I start washing my hands and she jets away. I am annoyed don't even bother to look for her and just bounce.

wtf went wrong?

Failure to push-pull.. "Why did you choose me in this bar when you can have any girl you want" Seeking validation

Your silence was taken as agreement/validation.

Short answer.
Say something..anything that leaves here wondering or confused, or even slightly (though not harshly) rejected.

Some samples:

Gambit 1

Level 1
"You think so? <Looking around>Which girl do you think I should choose?"
Level 2 (bolder)
"You think so? <Looking around>Which girl do you think WE should be talking too?"

Gambit 2

"Why do you think I chose you?" Said in such a way that she isn't sure if it means
1 Why do YOU think I CHOSE you?
2 Why do you THINK I chose you?
Savvy?

Post: #56

(02-14-2017 12:08 AM)Rusplaya Wrote:  Met her in a bar. Girl was a solid 7.5 with sexy leather pants and no panties nice big tits. Hot to say the least. Okay here is the story. Open her with "Hey why are you here alone" She answered with my friends are somewhere around here. I am like okay my name is blah blah blah and move her to lounge chairs so we could get closer to each other. She consistently keeps asking me this stupid question. "Why did you choose me in this bar when you can have any girl you want" I am dumb founded by this question and just ignore. Continue pressing the touching and finally she makes out with me after about 20 mins I am fingering her. Finally I say we are going back to my place she is like no we are not. I am like okay lets go to another place. I take her to a rooftop because I knew one of the bouncers and he let me in no problem. There we dance and make out talk bullshit she keeps asking me why chose her ugh at this point I am annoyed she does not want to go back to mine and does not want to back to hers. Finally I decide to take her the bathroom its unisex where I finger her a bit more and afterwards she is like take my number. I answer with sarcastic okay ill take down your number. I start washing my hands and she jets away. I am annoyed don't even bother to look for her and just bounce.

wtf went wrong?

Failure to push-pull.. "Why did you choose me in this bar when you can have any girl you want" Seeking validation

Your silence was taken as agreement/validation.

Short answer.
Say something..anything that leaves here wondering or confused, or even slightly (though not harshly) rejected.

Some samples:

Gambit 1

Level 1
"You think so? <Looking around>Which girl do you think I should choose?"
Level 2 (bolder)
"You think so? <Looking around>Which girl do you think WE should be talking too?"

Gambit 2

"Why do you think I chose you?" Said in such a way that she isn't sure if it means
1 Why do YOU think I CHOSE you?
2 Why do you THINK I chose you?
Savvy?