(11-10-2011 08:32 AM)dc1000 Wrote: you guys are just crying and using an excuse to make yourself feel better for sucking at this apparently.
i am living proof that you can 1) have multiple worthy girls on rotation and 2) find a 8.5/9 to settle down with all in dc. why i am the only guy that found a model in dc? or an actress? or know that there are 35 hot chicks in yoga pants at 15th and P every hour on the hour?
you talk about shitty places and complain that they suck.
yes, DC sucks if you ARE IN FACT the blue shirt khaki guy. but if you are anything slightly different, its a field day.
yes i'm tall, yes, i'm white, yes, i have a great job. but you think thats all it takes?
put yourself in the right places and make that shit happen.
I suggested going to Black Jack, a new bar on 14th st, last week.
Have any of you gotten off your asses to go there and check it out? Or are you still complaining that this town sucks?
Hi again from London fellas.
dc1000 - In my opinion, an extremely optimistic post on DC but I'm happy to have it in the discussion. I'd be interested to hear more of your experiences cause it's fair to say your say your experiences in DC are RADICALLY different from mine and those of many other members.
To start, in defense of others, I wouldn't accuse them of sitting at home and crying about it. I created this thread so we could have a constructive discussion for members regarding how they deal with the cesspool of talent in DC. (Someone made the point earlier that there has been a noticeable dip since 2009 and I'd agree. It didn't use to be THAT bad. It's a topic for another time but I do think it has to do with the rapid expansion of government/contractor jobs, and the type of girls those jobs draw, for reasons already noted.)
Yes, some of your posts have been constructive and contained suggestions for members. There are obviously many guys with considerable skill in this forum living in DC that are all encountering the same difficulties in keeping a quality 8-9 rotation going however, so there must be something to it. Such an overwhelming opinion can't be easily dismissed. As for your pulls, they're ok but again as Roosh mentioned, it's possible you may have different standards than some of the other members on here. Just an important fact to keep in mind before critiquing others.
Many of us here are well past the point of keeping a few 7s on standby for an easy bang. I'm fairly confident most of us can do that. I'm well past that. I'm at the point, as I think many of us are, where I'm looking to keep a CONSISTENT, SOLID rotation of 8s and 9s and truly reach that level. It's not hard to be very good, but it is hard to be truly world-class. There are many who struggle with making that jump. Like college to the pros, many can't adjust to the speed of the game at the very highest level. Elsewhere, it's more easily done but I think making that jump in DC, and again I must explicitly state,
to the point where you're rotating 8s and 9s AT WILL, is nearly insurmountable. If you know anyone that's able to do it, we'd love to hear from them.
As for myself, I'm not sitting at home crying about it, I've taken action and taking it decisively. If you've seen some of my earlier threads I've committed to getting on a plane and skipping town EVERY WEEKEND since July because (and this is where we disagree), DC really is that bad. So far, until I move elsewhere, it's been a great strategy with plenty of payoff.
Not bashing your opinions - I'm just curious, actually fascinated, as to why you have such a different opinion than most. Like yourself, I'm tall, white, great job, great apartment, etc. I'm no Hall-of-Famer but I'd happily put my skills on the field with most on any given day. Not wealthy by any stretch but I do have enough to travel the world at will. (Though as some have accurately noted, money counts for very little when it comes to pulling quality whether you're in DC or not. Apart from letting you travel at will and experience different cities, it's vastly overrated when it comes to pulling talent. I know some decent looking dudes with millions in DC that struggle to pull anything more than a 7.)
"why i am the only guy that found a model in dc? or an actress?"
You're not. Like yourself, I've had success in DC but it's just not steady enough. I had a sweet Corona promo girl in rotation last year for about 4 months but even so, they are few and far between. Besides, I want 4 Corona promo girls on standby in DC, not one! Actresses? Wow, you'll have to clue me in on that one. It's one of the least artistic cities in which I've ever set foot. The vast majority of my model/promo girl type pulls come out of town.
Roosh made this point earlier - Getting laid isn't a problem in DC. What is difficult is consistently having beautiful girls (that you actually value to some extent) salivating to see you all the time in DC.
With respect to your venue selection, I'm almost rendered speechless cause I honestly feel like we're watching a different match here... You seem to be hung up on the 14th St. scene. I've done most of it and found it terrible and certainly not worthy of going back. Policy? Awful. Not one group worthy of my time. Churchkey? You must be joking! Fine if you're looking to pull a 5. (I'd put Churchkey in a similar vein as St. Ex.) Bar Pilar is just as unremarkable. Cork and Blackjack? I haven't been so will refrain from comment, but in all honesty given where they're located I can't imagine them containing an untapped well of 8s and 9s. Next time I'm back I'll try them. (Yeah, ok the photo of FUR was a little over the top, and not totally representative. Places aren't usually THAT bad. Still, if you hit some of the sausage-fests south of Dupont, i.e. Public, Lucky Bar, Midtown, it really does look like that at 1am on Fri/Sat) I do agree with you on the W Hotel bar and Ritz-Carlton Georgetown however. Hotel bars are actually the one wildcard in DC as you get a decent turnover from the out of town crowd and some rare gems can be found. It's also worth having a crack at some of the hired guns in these places.
I'm wondering - Have you ever tried getting out of town regularly? I ask because it seems like you have considerable skills so I'm wondering why you choose to use them in DC. If you're willing to put in all the hard work in DC for 7s, and many 7s do take hard work in DC, I think you'll do quite well out of town. The difference is astounding. As many have noted, living in DC and being shit tested by 5s and 6s, even ones you have no interest in, can sharpen your game decisively to the point that when you're out of town it's like a new dawn. I'll get rejected by 6.5s regularly in DC (really!) but am able to pull solid 8s and the occasional 9 in New York, Philly, and Vegas. How can one explain that?
You noted earlier: "i'm here, have been here and will be here, so i'm talking my book and trying to make the most of it for sure."
Why? Unless you have other reasons man, don't waste your time staying. You only live once. Reach for more. Unless you can
regularly wake up and be proud of what you've pulled and what's lying in your bed, get out of Dodge. Push yourself! As Gmac said, get to NYC, LA, Vegas, maybe South Fla. The grass is truly greener. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised at what you find. Till then, thanks for your opinions man - All contributions, positive or negative, are certainly welcome in this discussion. On a rare weekend back in DC, see you around and good hunting.
PS - Off topic to all: For coffee, I stand by my earlier statements. 7pm is it!! Haha ok I'm being a bit lazy. I live in the West End (22nd and M) and yes, admittedly that shuts down a bit earlier than the 14th and P area. But it's the goddamn capital of the United States. I shouldn't have to walk 10-12 blocks for a cup of coffee at 8 or 9 pm. You should see Europeans, both on vacation and on business, walking through my area asking where they can find a cup of coffee at 8pm (In summer the sun's still up!), they're absolutely stunned.