Post: #51

1.) Continue improving my financial situation.
2.) Finish reading several books I've got in my queue, knowledge is power.
3.) I've also been debating whether to add a side bitch or two in 2017.
4.) Meet some fellow RVF'ers.

Post: #52

Get my teeth fixed.
Quit smoking, again.
Save money.
Get laid and end my year long drought.

Post: #53

My game goal for 2017 will be going more direct with my daygame. Showing interest quicker. Small subtle interest of course. Also, experiment with "trolling woman" game. Example: Was in grocery store last night and opened with a "yuck, sure you want to buy that, I hate that blah blah"...

I normally don't like to game while i'm in the gym training but may change that in 2017, havn't decided for sure yet.

A bit contrast to my previous sentence but, i'd also like to decrease my side bitches down a bit. My main starts to get suspicious around the 3-4 mark so going to try 2-3 sides, see if that helps calm things down.

Post: #54

I'll just stick to game goals, since that's the thread title and I'm anal retentive.

I was in a relationship until yesterday (I broke it off)...no new chicks in 2016. So my goal:
- Take more charge with women

That's it. I want to have a 3 some, and I want to be more in charge and do more what I want in the bedroom. Bang more chicks, hotter chicks. But those aren't really goals, just things I think could/would happen if I'm simply more assertive.

Post: #55

(12-23-2016 02:29 PM)heavy Wrote:  I'll just stick to game goals, since that's the thread title and I'm anal retentive.

I was in a relationship until yesterday (I broke it off)...no new chicks in 2016. So my goal:
- Take more charge with women

That's it. I want to have a 3 some, and I want to be more in charge and do more what I want in the bedroom. Bang more chicks, hotter chicks. But those aren't really goals, just things I think could/would happen if I'm simply more assertive.

Oh shit. Heavy is back. I may have to take a trip up to GR soon.

Post: #56

1 Crush the LSAT (170+)
2 Develop my side business
3 Get a job that I love, so that it is conducive to #1 & #2
4 Achieve a 3-person harem of a white chick, an Hispanic chick, and an Asian chick. After a Year-TR with an Hispanic, I've realized I think that's the type I want to settle down with, eventually (beautiful complexion, submissive qualities, and has the "minority" experience here in USA - I'm a 24yr AA male for reference)
5 Eat healthier/develop good workout routine (so, become more attractive)

Aside from that, just keep approaching woman and not letting one rejection invalidate an entire approach strategy. I schemed on a particular girl this week, it failed. I plan on scheming on another particular girl next week. Whether or not it works out, for 2017 I want to...

6 scheme on a new girl each week

Post: #57

Oh my god, and this too! I got out of a relationship the week prior (she broke up with me - I lost my frame over the latter half of 2016)

I'm at the point where I realize I can get laid. I'm at my 15 or 16th lay - I want to get to 100 before marriage. From seeing the posts here, 100 just seems to indicate "I'm good on quantity, so now time to improve on quality - the 5 girls I fucked from 2015-2016 are my top 5 notches, and two of them were in LTRs, and my hottest.

I found "Day Bang" in late 2014, and this forum in 2015 - id like to think y'all helped with that. So thank you.

Post: #58

1. No longer bang or date half assed bitches. I'm sick of swiping right on chicks that are "meh" then feeling dissapointed when we match. Time to be more stringent in my bitch selection. I find myself not really giving a fuck about notch count any more as I enter my 30's. My next girlfriend, if I have one (no plans to) will be nothing short of a fucking dime.
2. Utilize my band to get said bitch(es) and stop wasting my time with 7's who are crazy, entitled and annoying.

Post: #59

1. Stop fucking 6s and below (yikes, rough year)
2. Work out more
3. Use game to find a girl that will do my dishes

Post: #60

Approach more.....I need to average 7 approaches per week...at least.

Post: #61

1. Give up Tinder: Deleted before New Year and no desire to use it yet. I live in Korea and am not a model so it's no big sacrifice but it still gave me excuses not to do approaches in person.

2. Have more sober sex: I've come a long way in keeping my sloppiness (and even general drunkenness) in check but my stone sober sex is less frequent than I like and I enjoy it a lot better (and generally the women do too).

3. Add at least 40 notches: I only broke double digits last week but more than half of them were since I ended my LTR near Halloween. It's definitely ambitious but easy goals don't motivate you and I really only need 39 since I started off the New Year right.

4. Raise my level of consistency: When I'm good I'm great. When I'm bad I'm a total chump. I think the key to this one is thinking a lot less and trusting my instincts. Most of my best results in life come from when I don't overthink and follow what I know/learned. I'm smart, interesting, funny, and people like me already. I just need to let more women know I'm out there to give them what they need.

Post: #62

My roommate and I decided a friendly wager of who can get the most new notches for the year. So beating him is definitely my end goal. We haven't put any money on it yet but I'm thinking we should just to make it a bit more enticing.

But even before that, I want to get to 40 notches by the end of the year AT LEAST. I am at 34 now, so I only need 6 more. I just got out of a 6 year relationship early last year so it took me awhile to get back into the swing of things (plus I found Red Pill around March 2016). I did end 2016 with 6 new notches, which beat my previous best of 5 for a year.

Another goal the roommate and I agreed to is to wear condoms on ALL future bangs. We both have a bad habit of raw dogging and we have to break it. So hopefully we can push each other to be smart.

Post: #63

I want to have a threesome. And I want to do it myself. No girl helping me. Just meet two girls and make it happen.

Post: #64

Bang at least three chicks (no online) in January for a good start, then build some decent rotation.

Post: #65

(11-27-2016 03:55 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  

• Start grad school--MBA with entreprenuership or data analytics
• 50 bangs for the year. I like that goal you set OP. Just now starting find my stride so seems like a good initial goal. Also I think its perfectly healthy to set a goal to validate yourself. Thats what achievements are suppose to do. In no other walk of life is setting a goal to prove something to ourselves frowned upon--getting laid should be no different ya feel me.
• Learn to code
• develop a form of passive income
• get a business idea I had as a high schooler in motion
• Maintain a quality harem. Had my first one this year and it feel apart spectacularly lol
• Be in aerobic and physical shape to begin training for 2020
  

Hope you guys are making progress outchear!!
Im an over the top competitive so I'm tryn to win this thread lol

This week I may have a few of my goals in accomplished

Quote:

• Start grad school--MBA with entreprenuership or data analytics
  

Not even close lol. I've really been focusing on getting my business up and running and haven't even bought GMAT books for the GMAT I'm taking on march 10. Maybe a blessing in disguise as I'm about to start a business maybe I should focus on something other than entrepreneurship.

Quote:

• 50 bangs for the year. I like that goal you set OP. Just now starting find my stride so seems like a good initial goal. Also I think its perfectly healthy to set a goal to validate yourself. Thats what achievements are suppose to do. In no other walk of life is setting a goal to prove something to ourselves frowned upon--getting laid should be no different ya feel me.
  Learn to code
  

I managed to bag two girls for the month of January so I'm making progress but this area has also takin a hit with me focussing on my business. When I get my cash flow up and move to the actual street where the bars are I should be able to make up for lost time..

Quote:

• develop a form of passive income
• get a business idea I had as a high schooler in motion
  

This is one in the same. Right now I work 4.5 hours per day m-f and sometimes weekends. This job/business I'm starting will only increase my hours by 6 total in a week and push me to around $70k-$80k if I cross my T's and dot my I's.

Its actually funny now that I think about it. The competition I participated (see my last point) in was in front of a bunch of prospective clients. Talk about great timing.

Quote:

• Maintain a quality harem. Had my first one this year and it feel apart spectacularly lol
  

Found a solid main chick. mid to late 30's spinster chick. Foreign born and looks like a late 20's american girl. She's great! Won't let me pay for shit (she buys food, drinks, gas, etc), she even lets me borrow her fly ass Mercedez.
She's a dominant in the business field who needed someone to make it ok for her to be feminine again. As long as she stays successful I could have a quality bottom bitch.

Quote:

• Be in aerobic and physical shape to begin training for 2020
  

Competed for the first time in 2 years and going only 2 "workouts" a day I was pretty sharp. Not close to handling elite level training but a lot closer than I thought considering the little work I had done.

Hope your working hard homies cuz Mufasa is coming!
#HumbleBrag

Post: #66

Kill it bro. Love the grind.
Only thing I'll say it pick up the pace on the new lays! If your going to keep averaging 2 new girls a month, you will hit 24 for the year - will be quite shy of your 50.
I've done 5 for this month but unfortunately only 2 I would consider to be above an 8, the other 3 I'm going take an L on that.

Post: #67

My goals are simple: have a better year than I had last year. I also want to mix it up a bit and try some day game whether it be direct or indirect.

Also to anyone down in the dumps already, there's 11 months left this year and anything is possible.

Post: #68

(01-31-2017 12:45 AM)Mufasa Wrote:  Hope you guys are making progress outchear!!

Yep! I sold myself a bit short when I said I wanted 40 notches before the end of the year. I already have 3 new notches in January alone (putting me at 37 total). So I'm going to set me a new goal. I turn 40 in April, so my new mantra is '40 by 40'.

I have 2.5 months for 3 more notches to complete this.

I also made a pact to start wearing condoms on all new bangs. Of the 3 new bangs this year, I have worn a condom a grand total of 0 times. So that's already fucking dead, haha.

Post: #69

I would love to able to go out solo and just have a great time approaching women and not feel awkward to be honest. With buddies it's easy but alone is somewhat different for me.

Post: #70

(11-27-2016 03:14 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  This year I have surpassed every other year in the amount of bangs and quality since moving to Germany.. I am consistently doing better out here but like everyone else there is room for improvement. So.. Game Goals you say?

I have been in the game for 10 years at least (if you want to minus a few years i was in LTRs) but I still consider myself a veteran and im still NOT perfect. Even we make stupid mistakes or fall back into old bad habits.. So that being said lets go....

- FRAME - I lost an 8 this year due to losing frame in a time of duress. I really want to create an IRON CLAD frame and I think this is an extremely important thing in order to get and keep those high level 8+ girls. I think its a fairly easy fix for me.. just something to keep in mind at all times.

- Online game - Like how you should treat your sources of income, I really need to diversify how I meet and pickup girls. I only do nightgame and I think its really limiting me. I'm having EXTREME problems getting girls on Tinder, Lovoo and Instagram. I think this is coming from an attraction thing and not a game thing since I have no problem on dates and picking up girls in clubs.

- Attraction - My NUMBER 1 priority of 2017. I was in fairly decent shape at 5,10 and 183 pounds but already have decided to try and drop down to a more hardbody, sixpack type with low bodyfat at 160-165. I'm really going to try and leverage my fitness and body and turn that into better bangs and higher quality girls. I'm also going to get that sleeve tattoo ive been wanting for years... Teeth whitening.... just a complete overhaul. I really think this is the last place in my skill set that need the most work.

- More 8 and up girls... I want to start and close higher level girls and hopefully in the second half of 2017 get into an LTR with a higher level girl. This is the final frontier for me.

- Travel - I would like to get to some of the places in Europe that guys have mentioned.. that travel forum is my favorite place on the set. I have been missing out way too much on that.

The name of the game for me for 2017 is attraction, attraction, attraction. I really think its the last hurdle before nirvana.

Ok fellas 1st Quarter is over. How are you progressing with your game goals? its time to check yourself before your wreck yourself.

How is it going?

Me:

-Frame: I have not had any incidents where I have lost frame in front of a girl so thats good but I dont think ive cured myself of it just yet.

-Online Game: I have made great strides in online game. I figured out a combination of pictures that works for me and I managed to get two Tinder dates with above average looking girls. One of them even a 8+. I wasn't able to convert them to a bang but again Rome wasn't built in a day. At least I am moving forward....

Now that I can get matches I need to figure how to pour gas on the fire and increase my match to swipe ratio because I think its too low.

-Attraction: I have finally NAILED a style that works for me and its helping with attraction greatly and I am currently adding to this wardrobe and trying to push it to the max. I need to add some accessories to it and some more top notch pieces but I am satisfied with the performance.

I am extremely behind on my gym goals and tattoo goals. I really tried to get an appointment with my favorite tattoo artist but it turns out that they are booked up all the way through 2017. So its either I wait till 2018 or find an artist who I am also happy with. I have just been behind on the gym through pure laziness and disorganization in my life. I have to really try and pull myself together in this area. Discipline is extremely hard for me.

- Travel - I am going to Belgium/Netherlands once a month for work and that is helping to get me additional targets I would have not otherwise had. Since I have access to multiple cities I can swipe and match in multiple places.

I need to find the extra money and time to go gaming 3 days in Poland or Scandinavia. I just started a new client so a major cash injection should be coming and I hopefully I can make this happen this summer.

2nd quarter goals recap: (deadline end of June)

-Increase Tinder success and get a QUALITY bang from Tinder.
-Get back in the gym and diet 5 or 6 days a week
-Make a decision and get direction with this sleeve tattoo
-Commit to a trip to Poland, Denmark, Sweden or Norway or SOMEWHERE
-Sort out the rest/improve my fashion sense
-More Aggression during nightgame.. Open more girls and girls that I think are interested in guys like me.

2017 second quarter.. Lets get it.

Post: #71

Slow start, but momentum is starting to pick up for me. Some goals I have for this year

Got my finances in check: For a college student I have some money saved up to play around with. Sold some stuff I didn't need. Ideally, I'd like to sell this leather jacket I don't have, and I am looking to unload my car by the time I finish college

Getting my degree: Had to cram a ton of classes this semester, but they're all under control and I survived mid terms quite easily. Should be getting my degree on time.

20 Lays: I just got my second lay since January on Sunday. My dry spell came from being really lazy pretty much and getting distracted by school. I'm starting to pile on my contacts and I'm gonna look to convert. I'm fairly certain I'll get there now that I have more free time and I've gotten in the habit of going out again.

Day Game: I made some good approaches in Feb, but never found time to follow up, so a lot of them kinda grew old. I'm going yolo mode now that I am leaving college, and I am now making meeting up with people a priority.

New wardrobe: Got 3 nice fitted shirts, couple of good shoes that I get a lot of compliments on, a new watch, three pairs of nice pants/jeans. I threw out a lot of my old clothes.

Still need to find time to do a good 200-300 rehaul of my clothes. My standards for what are good fitting clothes is much different this year than last. Casual sneaks, couple good pair of boots, some chinos, dark pair of jeans, couple of well fitted shirts, should get me through the spring looking good to go.

Learn a dance: I signed up for an intro swing class, it was alright, but I got sick and missed a crucial week. At least I managed to actually get my ass up and do it. Going to pick up a new dance most likely, if not I might dump my time into language learning.

Photography: Started going out on shoots, I know a lot more than I used too. I could still do more, but I am not as interested in photography as I thought.

Online game: Re-did my pictures, reset my online accounts, I chose who to swipe with much more selectively now, the quality of my matches SKY rocketed. I started using snap chat which helps a lot. My next step is another upgrade of my pictures.

Would love to get into instagram.

Learn a marketable skill: I've been procrastinating on this, but I have been writing fictional stuff as a new hobby. SEO or Programming would be ideal, but it's looking pretty hard to do while in the school year.

Go out to a bunch of events and shows: This I've done a lot, I've experienced a operas, art galleries, musicals, plays random parties with people I barely know, sporting events, concerts - I've missed out on this stuff because I've been too cautious with my money. I've definitely done a lot more cultural jibber jabber this year.

Make at least 3 abroad trips: I'm in the middle of booking a spring break trip right now to Manila hopefully (having problems with my debit card). Already had a decent trip to Poland. I'm well ahead on schedule with this.'


Work out: Haven't done this at all. Bought a tub of whey and it has just been sitting in my room.

Learn to cook: Haven't done this at all. I just discovered food porn, and this isn't helping.









End of June priorities/realistic goals:

Re-do my wardrobe and get geared up for summer

Re-do my pictures for online gaming, maybe get an instagram going

Visit another country

6 or 7 lays, if I can't do this it would be a massive disappointment

Get job applications done

Start one of the following: Dancing/Marketing/Programming/Language learning

Catch a professional play

At least start doing body weight exercising, for my sake I hope I can at least do some damn push ups :\

Post: #72

I'm late to this thread, but I've been going after the goals below since the start of the year. This is the 2nd or 3rd time that I plan out annual goals and put them into a spreadsheet with monthly reviews. I can't believe it took me so long to start doing this, it's such a game changer.

Game goal:
+ Bang 12 new girls in 2017, so one new girl/month. I've always been a quality over quantity guy, so I think that's a good balance to keep me motivated without having to lower my quality. Plus I've had 4 girls in my rotation for about 2 months and I have so much going on with life, work and school, that it's hard to fit everything into my schedule.
- Currently at 3/12.

Game related goals:
+ Bulk up more until about 85kg. I have a super fast metabolism and a very active life, so it's not easy, but I'm sure it will be worth it.
- Currently at 81kg, at 6'0''.

+ Improve my style and push the envelope with the looks. I think I dress better than 90% of guys in my demographic, but I want to get to the 95-99% range. This is a harder goal to measure, but I can see from the reactions I've been getting that I'm clearly improving, specially when it comes to stuff I never used before - wearing accessories, being bolder with colors and combinations, having an edgier hairstyle, and so on.

Post: #73

(02-02-2017 10:15 AM)[email protected] Wrote:  '40 by 40'.

I hit my goal in early March.

My new goal is a new notch every month, for sexual goals.

As far as weight lifting goals, I would like to get 225 (bench press) up a few times before the end of summer.

Post: #74

(04-05-2017 06:22 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

(11-27-2016 03:14 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  This year I have surpassed every other year in the amount of bangs and quality since moving to Germany.. I am consistently doing better out here but like everyone else there is room for improvement. So.. Game Goals you say?

I have been in the game for 10 years at least (if you want to minus a few years i was in LTRs) but I still consider myself a veteran and im still NOT perfect. Even we make stupid mistakes or fall back into old bad habits.. So that being said lets go....

- FRAME - I lost an 8 this year due to losing frame in a time of duress. I really want to create an IRON CLAD frame and I think this is an extremely important thing in order to get and keep those high level 8+ girls. I think its a fairly easy fix for me.. just something to keep in mind at all times.

- Online game - Like how you should treat your sources of income, I really need to diversify how I meet and pickup girls. I only do nightgame and I think its really limiting me. I'm having EXTREME problems getting girls on Tinder, Lovoo and Instagram. I think this is coming from an attraction thing and not a game thing since I have no problem on dates and picking up girls in clubs.

- Attraction - My NUMBER 1 priority of 2017. I was in fairly decent shape at 5,10 and 183 pounds but already have decided to try and drop down to a more hardbody, sixpack type with low bodyfat at 160-165. I'm really going to try and leverage my fitness and body and turn that into better bangs and higher quality girls. I'm also going to get that sleeve tattoo ive been wanting for years... Teeth whitening.... just a complete overhaul. I really think this is the last place in my skill set that need the most work.

- More 8 and up girls... I want to start and close higher level girls and hopefully in the second half of 2017 get into an LTR with a higher level girl. This is the final frontier for me.

- Travel - I would like to get to some of the places in Europe that guys have mentioned.. that travel forum is my favorite place on the set. I have been missing out way too much on that.

The name of the game for me for 2017 is attraction, attraction, attraction. I really think its the last hurdle before nirvana.

Ok fellas 1st Quarter is over. How are you progressing with your game goals? its time to check yourself before your wreck yourself.

How is it going?

Me:

-Frame: I have not had any incidents where I have lost frame in front of a girl so thats good but I dont think ive cured myself of it just yet.

-Online Game: I have made great strides in online game. I figured out a combination of pictures that works for me and I managed to get two Tinder dates with above average looking girls. One of them even a 8+. I wasn't able to convert them to a bang but again Rome wasn't built in a day. At least I am moving forward....

Now that I can get matches I need to figure how to pour gas on the fire and increase my match to swipe ratio because I think its too low.

-Attraction: I have finally NAILED a style that works for me and its helping with attraction greatly and I am currently adding to this wardrobe and trying to push it to the max. I need to add some accessories to it and some more top notch pieces but I am satisfied with the performance.

I am extremely behind on my gym goals and tattoo goals. I really tried to get an appointment with my favorite tattoo artist but it turns out that they are booked up all the way through 2017. So its either I wait till 2018 or find an artist who I am also happy with. I have just been behind on the gym through pure laziness and disorganization in my life. I have to really try and pull myself together in this area. Discipline is extremely hard for me.

- Travel - I am going to Belgium/Netherlands once a month for work and that is helping to get me additional targets I would have not otherwise had. Since I have access to multiple cities I can swipe and match in multiple places.

I need to find the extra money and time to go gaming 3 days in Poland or Scandinavia. I just started a new client so a major cash injection should be coming and I hopefully I can make this happen this summer.

2nd quarter goals recap: (deadline end of June)

-Increase Tinder success and get a QUALITY bang from Tinder.
-Get back in the gym and diet 5 or 6 days a week
-Make a decision and get direction with this sleeve tattoo
-Commit to a trip to Poland, Denmark, Sweden or Norway or SOMEWHERE
-Sort out the rest/improve my fashion sense
-More Aggression during nightgame.. Open more girls and girls that I think are interested in guys like me.

2017 second quarter.. Lets get it.

Did anyone achieve their game goals for 2017? I am trying to plan for 2018 now and I learned alot this year and I have a fresh strategy for it.

What I accomplished in 2017

-I got a bang from Tinder and a few dates with 8+ girls but not more. I need to do much much better in the online area. I had bad pictures and out of pure laziness I havent gotten better ones.

- I am 100% satisfied with my new fashion sense. I am still not sold on the big beard look I recently added to it but the street style/bad boy look works for me hands down. I am going to stick with this 100% going into 2018 and beyond. I might cut the beard. I am not sure yet.

- I was a bit more aggressive during night game and got a plate im just content with for now but I could have again done more in this area. Not satisifed with it but I didnt fail either.

What I failed on:

Completely failed on the Tattoo Goals
Completely failed on the gym goals.

I did NOT make it to Poland. I went to France instead and gamed which was interesting in itself but a complete waste of time. Gonna do better research next time.

What I did ok on:

I did alot of travel to the Netherlands and did some game there and learned that its the best place from black men between Germany, Belgium and the Netherlands but I got lazy towards the middle of the year and stopped gaming too hard.

I just gotta work harder. I am the only one holding myself back from really winning on my game goals. Just too fucking lazy between work and motivation.

Post: #75

(12-03-2016 03:43 AM)Zanardi Wrote:  For 2017:

1. Expand my social circle. Because in my city the opportunities for cold approach are mediocre, I will focus more on this part of my life. Besides the actual expanding, I also want to meet many girls and up my notch count
2. Make progress with bodyweight training: successfully performing the harder exercises from Convict Conditioning 1.
3. Make progress with running: increased endurance. Right now, I can run 1.8 km. I want to run 10 km with no problems at all by the end of 2017. Strava will help me here.
4. Make progress with cycling: pedal faster. Strava will help me here as well.
5. Make money from my first Udemy class. I'll begin creating it in January.
   

Let's see what I did:

1. Expand my social circle: checked, but it can be improved. As a quantity, I have a wider social circle, but I am lacking consistency, because most people I hang out with have jobs which make them busier than I am (not necessarily more efficient).
2. Make progress with bodyweight training: checked. I advanced a few steps in the Convict Conditioning program, which made me stronger. This, along with some dieting, made me lose belly fat and have a 0.5-pack (not a 6-pack yet).
3. Make progress with running: here I slacked off, but I made progress. I cannot run 10k, but I can run 3.5k or so much easier than last year.
4. Make progress with cycling. I pedaled 783 km and improved my average speed from 20 to 23 km/h (I have a mountain bike, which is heavy). I am very pleased with what I did.
5. Make money from my first Udemy class. 35$ isn't much. Now I am back in attracting more students. Should I mark this objective as checked?