Post: #201

I would love to go to Eastern Europe but I just can't afford that right now.

Had a good phone conversation with Gio last night. He's positive and HIGH ENERGY just like his posts.

Post: #202

So here's a noob question (I know you guys are going to face-palm... ) - if I'm meeting this girl for the third time, should I get some condoms, just in case? Isn't that "traditionally" where stuff happens?

Post: #203

Yup, go for the thin skin ones (trojan, etc brands)

Post: #204

(11-01-2016 05:19 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  So here's a noob question (I know you guys are going to face-palm... ) - if I'm meeting this girl for the third time, should I get some condoms, just in case? Isn't that "traditionally" where stuff happens?

I'd always have some around just in case. Otherwise you're just giving yourself an excuse not to escalate.

You should also keep in mind, anyone who has lost 100 pounds has a ton of excess skin. I've seen it in person myself. I think you have an idea from an earlier post.

Normally I'd expect the bang on this date. But she may be very self conscious about her skin. So don't take it bad if she shuts you down. It might really be her not you.

Post: #205

Oh. Perhaps I'll not escalate then.

Post: #206

(11-01-2016 08:34 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  Oh. Perhaps I'll not escalate then.

Why not? You'll never know if you don't try!

Post: #207

(11-01-2016 08:34 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  Oh. Perhaps I'll not escalate then.

ALWAYS BE CLOSING.

Through repeated proxies you'll eventually become better at circumventing LMR and all these mental blocks women build around themselves.
You SHOULD escalate, if nothing, to sharpen your game.

Post: #208

(11-01-2016 05:37 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  Yup, go for the thin skin ones (trojan, etc brands)

I'd say get the thicker ones. I think they are called extended pleasure or something.

I bust in 10 pumps if I haven't had sex in a few weeks. After 20 years, his balls are probably ready to explode.

Post: #209

Thinking of ideas for the next date. First one was drinks and second one was shooting range plus a burger joint. I want to keep it cheap (ammo is too expensive). I'm thinking maybe drinks again, but a darker venue.

Post: #210

Invite her over for dinner.

Post: #211

(11-01-2016 10:11 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  Thinking of ideas for the next date. First one was drinks and second one was shooting range plus a burger joint. I want to keep it cheap (ammo is too expensive). I'm thinking maybe drinks again, but a darker venue.

Don't overthink it. At this point she's likely comfortable with you.

Either dinner and a movie at your place or a quick drink and go to your place for round 2 (pick the closest venue to your home, even if you don't think it's a less than optimal spot).

If both of you drink, have a glass of wine with dinner - just one, don't go overboard.

If both of you smoke weed, have a small joint - again, don't go full stoner, just enough to take the edge off and have a great time.

Post: #212

Rex and I talked on the phone!

Rex is articulate and intelligent. Seemingly, very "normal" and pleasant.

We discussed ways in which he can improve his situation.

No need to repeat what we talked about because most of it has already been discussed here

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(10-29-2016 12:46 PM)Designate Wrote:  While I'm not perfect at maximizing my time and don't like to tell another man what he should do with his, but judging by your post history you seem overly engrossed in trivial news/politics and it could very well be robbing you of valuable time, attention and focus.

Real talk. You haven't had sex in 20 years, and yet you're pondering and musing on about an Italian Constitutional Referendum? I really can't figure out why you should be giving a fuck about this when there are clear need areas elsewhere in your life.

Regardless of what others will say from that section of the forum, the truth of the matter is that the majority (if not all) of these news/political items are a zero value add toward helping you achieve your personal short/intermediate-term goals.

Opportunity costs are real and they come in different forms, so I'd take better stock of where and with whom you are giving your attention and time as it relates to your goals.

I'd make that a priority along with the numerous other great self improvement recommendations posted here.

This is a spectacular post about how we invest our time and energy!

This post has helped me to improve my life.

Thanks Designate!

Post: #213

(11-01-2016 09:31 AM)RexImperator Wrote:  I would love to go to Eastern Europe

I hope you go.

It would change your life!

(11-01-2016 05:19 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  should I get some condoms

Yeah, just in case!

(11-01-2016 10:11 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  Thinking of ideas for the next date.

Lots of good ideas here..

Post: #214

I've heard that the Philippines is super easy as an American, but would Eastern Europe really be 'easy mode'? Sounds too good to be true! The girls there are gorgeous! I imagine if Rex (or me) went somewhere like EE expecting to get laid and came back 'empty handed' it could be a real kick in the cornflakes and maybe do more harm than good in terms of confidence!

But if you wanna go Rex, i'll go with you!!

(I'm in the UK and very unsuccessful with girl here!!)

Post: #215

I think Roosh has said if you can't bang at home you probably won't bang in EE. Nevertheless, I have some EE ancestry so I would think I could probably do okay there once I got some practice in. I actually have yet to get my American "flag".

I would consider moving there and looking for a wife, eventually. I find EE girls very attractive.

Post: #216

(11-01-2016 10:11 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  Thinking of ideas for the next date. First one was drinks and second one was shooting range plus a burger joint. I want to keep it cheap (ammo is too expensive). I'm thinking maybe drinks again, but a darker venue.

Rex, without knowing where you are located, might I suggest an Improv show?

For some reason, I believe you're in boston but I might be wrong.

The Improv Asylum is a fool proof place to take a girl. Told one friend to take a girl there on a second date, they're married. Every girl I've ever taken to an Improv show ends up in sex.

WHY, you ask?

BC Improv is spontaneous+laughter so you both get into a great mood and its relatively effortless+plus suspenseful. Heightened state afterwards. High energy.

Post: #217

(11-03-2016 04:10 PM)greekgod Wrote:  

(11-01-2016 10:11 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  Thinking of ideas for the next date. First one was drinks and second one was shooting range plus a burger joint. I want to keep it cheap (ammo is too expensive). I'm thinking maybe drinks again, but a darker venue.

Rex, without knowing where you are located, might I suggest an Improv show?

For some reason, I believe you're in boston but I might be wrong.

The Improv Asylum is a fool proof place to take a girl. Told one friend to take a girl there on a second date, they're married. Every girl I've ever taken to an Improv show ends up in sex.

WHY, you ask?

BC Improv is spontaneous+laughter so you both get into a great mood and its relatively effortless+plus suspenseful. Heightened state afterwards. High energy.

Improv is a great idea for a third date ONLY if the girl you are pursuing is good looking and you like her personality however bad idea if those don't match. Not only is Improv expensive (depending on comedian/celebrity performing that night) but also can easily take up a lot of valuable evening time.
I would not take a girl there unless I knew I was digging her and could foresee myself in the future with her or action was guaranteed post-show. Usually I save fancy improv or Theatre dates for STR's or my overseas travel where it can be 80% cheaper.

Post: #218

I've hung out with Rex multiple times when I lived in New England. He's one of the most authentic, intelligent, and friendly dudes i've ever met. When I left Boston, I was genuinely bummed to have lost him as a friend I could invite over for the weekend. He was with us at my going away party!

Rex, this is one of the biggest steps. I wish I knew what you were going through when we met! I completely understand the difficulty of talking about this. I'm just grateful to see that you're making great strides to overcome this.

Keep it up my friend! The advice here is gold and it will help you figure everything out.

Post: #219

(11-03-2016 02:16 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  I think Roosh has said if you can't bang at home you probably won't bang in EE. Nevertheless, I have some EE ancestry so I would think I could probably do okay there once I got some practice in. I actually have yet to get my American "flag".

I would consider moving there and looking for a wife, eventually. I find EE girls very attractive.

Roosh is correct.

No Game in the West? Dry dick.

No Game in EE, and especially FSU? Not only a dry dick, but also an empty wallet.

Post: #220

(11-05-2016 04:10 AM)262 Wrote:  

(11-03-2016 02:16 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  I think Roosh has said if you can't bang at home you probably won't bang in EE. Nevertheless, I have some EE ancestry so I would think I could probably do okay there once I got some practice in. I actually have yet to get my American "flag".

I would consider moving there and looking for a wife, eventually. I find EE girls very attractive.

Roosh is correct.

No Game in the West? Dry dick.

That's my instincts, too. From what I gather you can get away with zero 'game' in the Philippines or somewhere, but not in EE.

So Rex needs to get better game. I'm assuming he's read all of the game books, though. (certainly bang and day bang being what forum we are on)

Does anyone have a clue as to what he does differently when he approaches a girl as opposed to someone with 'game', though? - I haven't seen much in the way of fieldReports from him. I guess much more information about what he actually does/says when he approaches a random girl,say in a bar, and what he *should* be doing when he talks to a random girl is required?

Post: #221

Rex,

What part of interaction with women do you start to lose them?

Is it in the beginning? Do you fail to escalate? Etc.

Post: #222

Quote:Does anyone have a clue as to what he does differently when he approaches a girl as opposed to someone with 'game'

Gorgiass suggested that my conversations have a tendency to veer towards more serious or intellectual topics, instead of being lighthearted and funny.

Post: #223

(11-05-2016 07:25 AM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote:Does anyone have a clue as to what he does differently when he approaches a girl as opposed to someone with 'game'

Gorgiass suggested that my conversations have a tendency to veer towards more serious or intellectual topics, instead of being lighthearted and funny.

I've had problems with similar.

After a lot of practice, I can keep it lighthearted;

Also, to keep conversations flowing, make sure to use the open ended question style on something that interests you about what the other person is saying, or something you want to guide the conversation towards or tease the girl with:

Who?
What?
Why?
When?
Where?
How?

Asking yes/no questions often can get the girl stumbling with a "no" or "maybe" response with little else to hang on. Open-ended questions tend to get them to open up with whatever is flowing through their subconscious. After a while, you can read between the lines and become a pussy whisperer.

I usually only ask yes/no questions when I already have her strongly attracted and I want to double down on her being compliant and talking her own way into having sex with me.

Example:

Dead-end question: Do you like the music here?
Good question: What do you think of the band?
Better question: How does this music make you feel?

Post: #224

At the moment I've kind of lost my enthusiasm for this whole "dating" process. I have things to do and it just feels like another "chore".

Post: #225

(11-05-2016 12:56 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  At the moment I've kind of lost my enthusiasm for this whole "dating" process. I have things to do and it just feels like another "chore".

I'm done with this thread. He doesn't want to get laid. He went on 2 dates and now its a chore. I have a friend like this -- complains about sex drought/people set him up with women/he rejects the women/continues to complain about his drought. Eventually we just ignore his complaining. He's still alone.