Post: #1

So what are you married guys doing these days to find some strange?

I've been still using CL - VERY low hit ratio but I don't have to have a pic of myself out there in the world....can be discreet.

Have tried Tinder on the rare occasion I travel. No luck there yet. I think it's because of where I travel to....

I'm around 40 - fit and good looking - prefer younger (of course).

So what are you guys doing to discreetly find girls these days - in your home city? I'm in a medium size city (over a million peepls)

I realize some of guys have a problem with married game - I get it - but we're not here to preach :-) Please skip this thread if you don't like it.

Post: #2

Not that I'm married, but I'm cohabitation in a LTR. Tinder and CL are my go to's as well. I here some guys have success with kik and even reddit personals as crazy as it sounds. I haven't tried either of those options yet. All have relatively low hit rates besides tinder.

Post: #3

Use hot or not as well.

DO NOT use a site like Pof that has an easily accessible profile that you're woman's friends can see and snitch on you about.
I cannot stress this enough. A friend made that mistake and now he's paying alimony to his ex-wife because he got lazy.

Post: #4

(09-22-2016 08:53 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  Use hot or not as well.

DO NOT use a site like Pof that has an easily accessible profile that you're woman's friends can see and snitch on you about.
I cannot stress this enough. A friend made that mistake and now he's paying alimony to his ex-wife because he got lazy.

Can't this happen on Tinder as well?

I say keep a zero online presence policy and daygame everychance you get.
Better quality anyway.

Post: #5

yeah I won't use anything here in my hometown that requires a pic. I've thought about using a look a like if I could find one...but then I feel like I'm baiting and switching.....

Yeah day gaming - agreed it's best....I guess it's just hard because I work in a small office - just not around many people during the day. I go out to eat but even then possibilities are few - that said I _have_ gamed when there was opportunity.

Now - here's the thing - I do work really close to a private University - I eat over there sometimes but I'm not going to walk around the campus - I would look out of place in my work clothes (business casual - pants and button down). I guess what I should do it just eat at the places next to campus more and maybe one of these days the stars will align.

Post: #6

Tinder & Bumble

If you use POF or OKCupid log out when you're not actively searching for poon