Post: #26

I think some good signs if you're say, out at night, that your game and SMV is headed in the right direction:

"5s" and below will actively ignore and avoid you, if not outright behave cuntishly. They know you're out of their league.

"6es" will usually be friendly if you are, and once in a while go direct/approach you proactively.

"7+" will usually be aloof as always, but sometimes give you the eye-fuck.

Post: #27

I completely disagree with the above, but I'm too tired at the moment to respond. I'll post one in the morning.

Post: #28

(08-28-2016 05:24 PM)kaotic Wrote:  The OP is more of a humble brag more than anything, regardless, it's a good problem to have.

That's like girls handing me their numbers left and right and posting about it.

There is nothing to assess here, you're a good looking guy apparently, and the girls are reaching out to you.

You can choose to engage those women or be polite say thanks and move on.

Thank you for this insight. I've had confidence issues growing up regarding my looks. Some really cruel girls told me I was really ugly when I was about 12/13 and I kind of internalised it. It's only in the past few years that I realise I'm good looking, but I think I still have that voice inside me that doubts it - stupid as it sounds. I'm getting over it.

Really great insights posted here. Thanks lads. It makes so much sense to see it from the girl's perspective instead of the male logical perspective

Post: #29

Girls that hit on guys have zero femininity. Usually they have been masculinized to the point where behaving like men makes them feel powerful. Whether they're hot or not isn't the point, feminine girls do not initiate the interaction.

Post: #30

(08-31-2016 08:19 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  I think some good signs if you're say, out at night, that your game and SMV is headed in the right direction:

"5s" and below will actively ignore and avoid you, if not outright behave cuntishly. They know you're out of their league.

"6es" will usually be friendly if you are, and once in a while go direct/approach you proactively.

"7+" will usually be aloof as always, but sometimes give you the eye-fuck.

5-6s will be giggling in a corner and staring at you. Blatantly staring at you. They may even dare each other to go talk to you.

7s will position themselves close to you, but will wait on you to start talking to them. They may even look at you every 25 seconds or so(or any other interval where they know you saw them glance away at the right as you looked at them more than a few times).

8+s will give you the time of day, but you're going to have to work for it.

The problem with your metric is that uglier girls tend to be honored an attractive guy even looked in their direction. Every woman these days thinks they deserve Chad Thundercock.

And if you're good at the game and have your shit together those 7s won't just stare at you from across the room as all that is to them is a way to fuck with the odd guy or two. An interested 7 will also make it a bit easier for you by coming your way a bit.

I don't ever trust an eye fuck from a distance more than 6 feet away. Especially if she's in a group.

Post: #31

(09-01-2016 05:18 AM)NomadofEU Wrote:  Girls that hit on guys have zero femininity. Usually they have been masculinized to the point where behaving like men makes them feel powerful. Whether they're hot or not isn't the point, feminine girls do not initiate the interaction.

That's actually a cultural thing. Feminine girls can/will initiate contact in some places, but you know it's completely out of their element and they will say something really stupid almost to the point that it sounds like some Aspergers kid trying to learn game complete with stutter.

The masculine women that approach are much more direct and very clearly have a Valley Girl voice or are ugly.

Post: #32

(09-01-2016 08:46 AM)Comte De St. Germain Wrote:  5-6s will be giggling in a corner and staring at you. Blatantly staring at you. They may even dare each other to go talk to you.

7s will position themselves close to you, but will wait on you to start talking to them. They may even look at you every 25 seconds or so(or any other interval where they know you saw them glance away at the right as you looked at them more than a few times).

8+s will give you the time of day, but you're going to have to work for it.

That seems reasonable, for a reasonable location. For the moment I'm in the belly of the beast, not a reasonable location.

If you live someplace like the Bay, Toronto, Boston, DC, or anywhere else in the US with topsy-turvy gender dynamics, my "metric" might be useful. Being snubbed by average girls there should be considered a badge of honor; hyper-masculine blue-hairs are often not looking for an alpha.

In general, how I'm treated when out at night solo by women, in public when they're in either groups of girls or mixed, seems to have little relation to how I do with them one-on-one.

Post: #33

(09-01-2016 09:55 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(09-01-2016 08:46 AM)Comte De St. Germain Wrote:  5-6s will be giggling in a corner and staring at you. Blatantly staring at you. They may even dare each other to go talk to you.

7s will position themselves close to you, but will wait on you to start talking to them. They may even look at you every 25 seconds or so(or any other interval where they know you saw them glance away at the right as you looked at them more than a few times).

8+s will give you the time of day, but you're going to have to work for it.

That seems reasonable, for a reasonable location. For the moment I'm in the belly of the beast, not a reasonable location.

If you live someplace like the Bay, Toronto, Boston, DC, or anywhere else in the US with topsy-turvy gender dynamics, my "metric" might be useful. Being snubbed by average girls there should be considered a badge of honor; hyper-masculine blue-hairs are often not looking for an alpha.

In general, how I'm treated when out at night solo by women, in public when they're in either groups of girls or mixed, seems to have little relation to how I do with them one-on-one.

Fair enough

Post: #34

Hey guys I have a serious problem. Whenever I go outside, girls just throw themselves at my feet. It's seriously so annoying. It's like they're raping me with their eyes! What do you guys do about this!? I mean I get that I'm a 10/10 but sometimes I just wanna buy my organic protein powder at the store or eat a turkey bacon & sausage biscuit from Starbucks without being solicited by numerous women simultaneously. How do you guys deal with this?

Post: #35

(09-01-2016 12:57 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  Hey guys I have a serious problem. Whenever I go outside, girls just throw themselves at my feet. It's seriously so annoying. It's like they're raping me with their eyes! What do you guys do about this!? I mean I get that I'm a 10/10 but sometimes I just wanna buy my organic protein powder at the store or eat a turkey bacon & sausage biscuit from Starbucks without being solicited by numerous women simultaneously. How do you guys deal with this?

I usually give them a fake name and a fake number.

Post: #36

(09-01-2016 01:11 PM)Pride male Wrote:  

(09-01-2016 12:57 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  Hey guys I have a serious problem. Whenever I go outside, girls just throw themselves at my feet. It's seriously so annoying. It's like they're raping me with their eyes! What do you guys do about this!? I mean I get that I'm a 10/10 but sometimes I just wanna buy my organic protein powder at the store or eat a turkey bacon & sausage biscuit from Starbucks without being solicited by numerous women simultaneously. How do you guys deal with this?

I usually give them a fake name and a fake number.

"I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND"

Post: #37

(09-01-2016 01:20 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(09-01-2016 01:11 PM)Pride male Wrote:  

(09-01-2016 12:57 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  Hey guys I have a serious problem. Whenever I go outside, girls just throw themselves at my feet. It's seriously so annoying. It's like they're raping me with their eyes! What do you guys do about this!? I mean I get that I'm a 10/10 but sometimes I just wanna buy my organic protein powder at the store or eat a turkey bacon & sausage biscuit from Starbucks without being solicited by numerous women simultaneously. How do you guys deal with this?

I usually give them a fake name and a fake number.

"I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND"

That never works. Telling them I have a wife or girlfriend makes them want me even more.

Post: #38

There's no better sign of preselection than a wedding ring...

Post: #39

(09-01-2016 12:57 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  Hey guys I have a serious problem. Whenever I go outside, girls just throw themselves at my feet. It's seriously so annoying. It's like they're raping me with their eyes! What do you guys do about this!? I mean I get that I'm a 10/10 but sometimes I just wanna buy my organic protein powder at the store or eat a turkey bacon & sausage biscuit from Starbucks without being solicited by numerous women simultaneously. How do you guys deal with this?

Women call me 'Spinal Tap' 'cos I'm an 11. I can't even go outside without some Hollywood actress presenting her rear to me like some bonobo monkey. My balls are drier than the Sahara desert 'cos I'm basically getting sucked off round the clock by supermodels, like a cow hooked up to a milking machine. It's a real burden - how do I handle this, guys?

But seriously, there are many factors as to why average women are hitting on you:

- Women are more masculine and aggressive in general nowadays so will approach more readily
- It's more socially acceptable to be 'equal' in this interaction
- Even 5's and 6's get orbiters on social media, inflating their self-worth. She might think that she's a 7 looking for an 8.
- Humble brag: I used to get hit on a lot in my late teens to late twenties by all grades of women. Now in my mid 30's they simply make themselves available to be hit on. Perhaps women innately know that younger guys have weaker game and are generally more clueless about how to read their signals so they take the ambiguity out of the interaction. Looking back, I missed so, so many signals that I would never miss now. A close female friend once told me "You have no idea the effect you have on women" - and she was right. Now I do, and boy was I dumb.