Post: #1

Is there ever, EVER a scenario in which you take a girl out and should not go in for a kiss on the 1st date after you got her #.

I can't remember one personally, was wondering if anyone purposely didn't go in for it. If you went in and got rejected that's life, I'm not talking about that...

Post: #2

maybe if you can tell she isnt feeling you....?.......

Post: #3

Perhaps if your first date is at a funeral

Post: #4

Or she turned out to be some "crying game" type and you still have doubts about her oversized Adams apple and huge hands.

Why would you ask this?


Mixx

Post: #5

Ya, I'm not sure what prompted this one. I'd delete it if I could.

Post: #6

I can think of two... when you don't want to have sex with her, or if she has a huge mouth sore...

Post: #7

(08-03-2011 11:08 AM)Jaz Wrote:  I can think of two... when you don't want to have sex with her, or if she has a huge mouth sore...

Or if her breath stinks.

Post: #8

the girl had lots of pimples near her lips and cheeks....i felt not kissing her.

Post: #9

(08-03-2011 04:53 PM)ANACONDA Wrote:  the girl had lots of pimples near her lips and cheeks....i felt not kissing her.

Why would you even be asking a girl like this out on a date to begin with?

Mixx

Post: #10

(08-03-2011 11:08 AM)Jaz Wrote:  I can think of two... when you don't want to have sex with her, or if she has a huge mouth sore...

If you don't want to have sex, and she has a huge mouth sore, why would you be asking her out on a date to begin with?

Mixx

Post: #11

Ok I definitely should not have posted this thread. My bad, I'll be more careful in the future! She had SORES? Pimples near her mouth and cheek? Naaaaasty dude...How the hell did you end up on a date with someone like that!

Post: #12

This hot crazy chick I picked up on the train on New Years Eve had a cold sore on her face. I tore that shit up and was scared shitless for quite a while that I was gonna get the herpe, no dice.

Though I agree with Mixx, this question is so common sense... You either want to or you don't, or something gross is stopping you. A lot of these bitches will stop you, saying they don't kiss on the first date. Plow through that shit.

Post: #13

What if it is unplanned date/wrong time of the day? This girl who knows me from my beta days, texted me and wanted to do something together ( she probably wanted me to be her orbiter). Long story short, we did not go anywhere but instead I invited her to my apartment. It was at 3pm, and she told me from the beginning that she had to pick her friend up at 5 pm.
I turned the conversation to flirty, started touching her lower arms, then shoulder and then hug (sitting next to each other on couch).

She also works with me (I hate to be involved with co-workers, but this was all unplanned). She told me about our other co-worker who she thought was "creepy" etc. I wanted to kiss her but I didn't want to be labelled creepy the next day at work. So I did not end up kissing her. I wasn't sure if she was totally into me. She was giving me mixed signals.
What should I do in similar scenarios in the future.

I know this is a newbe question, but I thought this thread was a better place to ask the question.

Post: #14

(08-03-2011 05:56 PM)Gilgamesh Wrote:  What if it is unplanned date/wrong time of the day? This girl who knows me from my beta days, texted me and wanted to do something together ( she probably wanted me to be her orbiter). Long story short, we did not go anywhere but instead I invited her to my apartment. It was at 3pm, and she told me from the beginning that she had to pick her friend up at 5 pm.
I turned the conversation to flirty, started touching her lower arms, then shoulder and then hug (sitting next to each other on couch).

She also works with me (I hate to be involved with co-workers, but this was all unplanned). She told me about our other co-worker who she thought was "creepy" etc. I wanted to kiss her but I didn't want to be labelled creepy the next day at work. So I did not end up kissing her. I wasn't sure if she was totally into me. She was giving me mixed signals.
What should I do in similar scenarios in the future.

I know this is a newbe question, but I thought this thread was a better place to ask the question.

This is the forum for your question: /forum-20.html

Post: #15

From my experience...if she's not really feeling you. Like you can tell there's disinterest on her part. Other than that, I say try. Sometimes an attempted kiss can amplify a girl's attraction considering its impossible for you to be in the friend zone. She has to either accept or reject the frame. If she's still there and seems to still be involved, i think she's accepted it for the time being.

Post: #16

(08-04-2011 03:33 PM)TheWolfHowls Wrote:  From my experience...if she's not really feeling you. Like you can tell there's disinterest on her part. Other than that, I say try. Sometimes an attempted kiss can amplify a girl's attraction considering its impossible for you to be in the friend zone. She has to either accept or reject the frame. If she's still there and seems to still be involved, i think she's accepted it for the time being.

smart

Post: #17

I can't get this thread.
Can someone explain me how it is possible go out on a date and don't try to kiss someone that you are into? When it is possible? How it is possible? Why would you go to a place where is not possible go for the kiss?

Post: #18

Fuck first, then date, problem solved.

Post: #19

(08-03-2011 05:12 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(08-03-2011 04:53 PM)ANACONDA Wrote:  the girl had lots of pimples near her lips and cheeks....i felt not kissing her.

Why would you even be asking a girl like this out on a date to begin with?

Mixx

didnt see her first...only saw her photo on FB.