Post: #76

(08-26-2016 03:37 PM)AboveAverageJoe Wrote:  The more you travel the more you realize women are the same everywhere. Hollywood and social media have an otherworldy reach. Even in the 80's Eddie Murphy was talking about having to go to the boonies and find a goonie-goo-goo bitch to get an uncorrupted one. What happens when he brings her to America? You guessed it.

Eddie murphy and his current girlfriend:



She's about 20 years his junior, but also an Australian model...

He was only married once from 1993 - 2006 to model Nicole Mitchell who he had FIVE children with, then she filed for divorce citing none other than "irreconcilable differences." Now she surely collects an insanely fat check from Murphy.

Dude has got 9 kids from 4 different women. I can only imagine what his child support bills look like every month. Fucking hell...

Post: #77

(08-26-2016 12:20 PM)AboveAverageJoe Wrote:  I think it is clear that OP can not make a recovery from his early pedstalling and thirstiness. It is ok.
Don't make the same mistake on your next 7 and for God sakes stop rating women above 9. There is no such thing. Push her in the pool and I bet she comes out looking like a 7 at best. Asian women are the undisputed masters of makeup.

I don't know if it's absolutely over yet. I did get a text from her saying this (attached)

She seems to be making herself pretty available on her birthday week. I know next Friday, she'll be leaving for vegas with her girls (I'm sure they're gonna hoe out). But She gave me Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday (birthday eve, birthday sex?). I think I can recover?

Thoughts, seasoned vets...

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Post: #78

She's throwing herself at you at this point.


Look at the ratio of your texts to hers.

Try not to double text, put both of your texts into one text.

Don't ask her if she can do later, just tell her "Monday 8:30 you're mine"


Yeah she'll probably hoe out in vegas, but she ain't your girl, just a girl you're fucking, it's expected.


Look at how she's texting your about her availability, and trying to hangout with you more than one day.

Those are very good signs, she's on your dick, you just have to play it right.


In this case I'd probably meet up and fuck the shit out of her before your bday and right before she leaves for Vegas.

Post: #79

(08-27-2016 03:47 PM)kaotic Wrote:  She's throwing herself at you at this point.


Look at the ratio of your texts to hers.

Try not to double text, put both of your texts into one text.

Don't ask her if she can do later, just tell her "Monday 8:30 you're mine"


Yeah she'll probably hoe out in vegas, but she ain't your girl, just a girl you're fucking, it's expected.


Look at how she's texting your about her availability, and trying to hangout with you more than one day.

Those are very good signs, she's on your dick, you just have to play it right.


In this case I'd probably meet up and fuck the shit out of her before your bday and right before she leaves for Vegas.

We actually haven't been texting but that just happened randomly one night. I responded a little quicker than usual and it turned into a mini conversation. Now at radio silence, and I won't hit her up till monday of our meeting.

Thanks to kaotic, WIA, General Stalin and everyone else who has helped out. I will keep you fellas updated. Cheers to not giving a shit about 8.5s.

Post: #80

Is she abit like one of these girls? they seem like 9s.

Post: #81

Closer to this

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Post: #82

That girl is a hard 8 at best. You will find many more like her, if this doesn't work out.

Post: #83

(08-28-2016 05:56 PM)churros Wrote:  That girl is a hard 8 at best. You will find many more like her, if this doesn't work out.

Everyone's 1-10 scale is different - we'll never come to a consensus of what girl is hot and what girl isn't.

Post: #84

She's hot – but there's hotter. And this guy needs some perspective.

Post: #85

(08-28-2016 06:11 PM)churros Wrote:  She's hot – but there's hotter. And this guy needs some perspective.

What would make her look better

Post: #86

Check out the asian 10s thread! This one's clearly americanized, for starters.

Post: #87

Post: #88

Nice face. Doesnt look like Chinese at all.

Post: #89

(08-28-2016 06:31 PM)churros Wrote:  Check out the asian 10s thread! This one's clearly americanized, for starters.

Is being Americanized a bad thing? lol

Post: #90

(08-28-2016 06:19 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

(08-28-2016 06:11 PM)churros Wrote:  She's hot – but there's hotter. And this guy needs some perspective.

What would make her look better

Larger breasts, wider hips, and less eyebrows.

Pretty though.

Post: #91

Millions of girls in China with this body type. Only her face is not that Chinese.
It's interesting how girls like this suddenly becomes 9/10 in the west.

Post: #92

(08-30-2016 06:28 AM)worldtraveler3 Wrote:  Millions of girls in China with this body type. Only her face is not that Chinese.
It's interesting how girls like this suddenly becomes 9/10 in the west.

That is very true - a LOT of Chinese girls have the body type but with a VERY asian/fobby look. The reason I gave her an 8.5 has to do with her personality too. But like kaotic pointed out: we all have different scales.

She just left my place and she noticed that I have been less engaged via SMS, but "so fun in person". She complained that I didn't even check her snapchat stories. She also asked if she was getting birthday sex on thursday evening, and

I said: don't plan that far ahead with me

She: I guess no birthday sex for me then

I: you're going to vegas, you'll have no problem finding that there

She: you think I'm the type to just hookup with random dudes???


I shrugged and changed the topic. We bang it out at night and this morning. Let's see if that gets her hamster spinning. Seems like I'm slowly taking control.

Post: #93

(08-30-2016 10:17 AM)articulatecool Wrote:  She also asked if she was getting birthday sex on thursday evening, and

I said: don't plan that far ahead with me

She: I guess no birthday sex for me then

I: you're going to vegas, you'll have no problem finding that there

She: you think I'm the type to just hookup with random dudes???


I shrugged and changed the topic. We bang it out at night and this morning. Let's see if that gets her hamster spinning. Seems like I'm slowly taking control.

Dude why are you sabotaging yourself like this ? Seriously, that's what a bitter jaded bitch says.

That makes you look less and less secure in yourself, don't ever bring that shit up, you're just giving her more ideas.

You could've used that to your advantage:

"Depends on what you're wearing" This can lead to lingerie, toys, lube, etc.

"Depends on what you get me" - with a smirk, which can lead to the above and some pretty cool gifts from her.


You guys did bang after, was it way better than before this conversation, if so it did get her hamster spinning.

Just be careful not to lash our and throw shade at her when none is needed.

She's more worried about fucking you right, on your birthday.

You're more worried about who she fucks in vegas.

Post: #94

You don't need to be salty with her, man. She mentioned how you're hard to reach on text message but fun in person. That's perfect. Just keep playing it cool and stop over thinking or trying to "be alpha" in every interaction. Handling a chick isn't about being dismissive or making her feel bad.

As kaotic said, if she is asking about getting birthday sex, a simple quib like "hmm depends what you're wearing" with a teasing smirk is just a fine response. Absolutely don't be bringing up hypotheticals about her fucking other dudes. Sheesh.

Post: #95

Update: So she gets back from her trip and wants to pillowtalk and catch up with me. She's starting to reveal more that she may be invested.

She: Are you a heartbreaker?
Me: Yes, so becareful around me ok?
She: No fair, I couldn't even break your heart if I tried!
Me: What makes you say that?
She: You're just way too in control of everything, and you're bossy. I don't like it, but at the same time, I do. (females and their logic)

Then during sex, she looks at me in the eye and says, "hit me!". I wasn't prepared for this and I'm not the type to really hit girls during sex, so my only way out was telling her "you're not ready for it, don't make me turn it on". She makes a face and we finish the 1st round.

She asks again during the 2nd round, and I tell her, the same thing. Finally, after sex, she says "I'm not this little girl that you have to coddle, I'm not liek all the other princesses you've slept with. I'm a big girl and I can handle you roughing me up. When are you gonna finally hit me?"

I don't know if what I did was a good strategy but I don't normally hit girls in the face or anything. And she didn't mean slap her ass or anything, cuz I do that often. She literally wanted me to slap her face and be super rough with her.

How would you guys have handled it?

Post: #96

This thread has been really funny and interesting to read. Everything kaotic and GS have said have been spot on. Re-read all their posts.

Next time you smashing her just randomly spit in her face and spank her a bit, surprise her. Then smash it real hard see what happens.

Post: #97

(09-02-2016 10:47 PM)articulatecool Wrote:  Update: So she gets back from her trip and wants to pillowtalk and catch up with me. She's starting to reveal more that she may be invested.

She: Are you a heartbreaker?
Me: Yes, so becareful around me ok?
She: No fair, I couldn't even break your heart if I tried!
Me: What makes you say that?
She: You're just way too in control of everything, and you're bossy. I don't like it, but at the same time, I do. (females and their logic)

Then during sex, she looks at me in the eye and says, "hit me!". I wasn't prepared for this and I'm not the type to really hit girls during sex, so my only way out was telling her "you're not ready for it, don't make me turn it on". She makes a face and we finish the 1st round.

She asks again during the 2nd round, and I tell her, the same thing. Finally, after sex, she says "I'm not this little girl that you have to coddle, I'm not liek all the other princesses you've slept with. I'm a big girl and I can handle you roughing me up. When are you gonna finally hit me?"

I don't know if what I did was a good strategy but I don't normally hit girls in the face or anything. And she didn't mean slap her ass or anything, cuz I do that often. She literally wanted me to slap her face and be super rough with her.

How would you guys have handled it?

I like this girl. Keep her around, OP. She feels a dominating vibe from you and wants you to own it more. She wants to feel your power.

Also, you should have given her a slap on the cheek. Not enough to bruise, just enough to leave her a little red.

Post: #98

Hello guys, just an update for you all.

So after reading and taking Travesty's and everyone's advice, I've decided to not make her the usual fuck buddy, 1x/week and be more unavailable. I am working towards being aloof, unavailable, and giving her the impression that she needs to work for my attention. I am actively dating other girls, staying busy and working out more.

Last week, I saw her 3x, once because I had to get her the Plan B pill (I busted a good healthy load in her). This week, I've been much more unavailable. We haven't met once, texting almost no messages. She seemed to catch on and didn't text me as much either, but remained snapchatting me plenty of what she's been up to.

Last night, she was celebrating her girlfriend's birthday and snapchatted me. I text her asking where it was. Attached is our conversation. What would you guys reply? Should I even reply?

If I were to see her this week, it would have to be tonight, since I leave town tomorrow till Sunday. I want to keep her waiting, but I wouldn't want her to get bored of me this week and text another dude.



Also - I recently found her very attractive best friend on a dating app. Would you guys swipe yes and have them talk to each other about it? Is that risking what I have with this girl?

Post: #99

You text like a fag and your shits all retarded.

Post: #100

(08-17-2016 05:43 PM)Travesty Wrote:  This is the worst thing about American women.

Never ask about other guys. Never show your cards. Never hint at a future. Anything relationship oriented blow it off with "happy spending time with you and going with the flow". This is why with American girls that are high quality it is almost imperative to have other plates spinning while you are seeing her in the beginning.

The only time you do anything is if she gives you an ultimatum usually after 2-3 months with "where is this going?" in a very serious "let's talk" tone. Before that try to subject change away from it as best you can with humor until she breaks down and confronts you. Breaking the horse.

Even then if you want the relationship you better get her to answer what she wants out of things very clearly first. Even if she says "yes I want you to be my boyfriend I don't want to see anyone else, I really like you." Don't say yes there and then! Say you really like spending time with her and care about her and say you need to think about it. Even make up that you got out of a relationship within the last year and need some time to reflect if you really want this. Keep her on edge.

Best is to make her work for it for another few months before giving in and tell her things about her that you want to see out of her before you make a decision.

On her phone too much? Point it out. Letting guy friends too close to her? Let her know that will never be a real relationship then. Dresses sloppy sometimes? Bitches too much at certain times? This is the make or break time where you need to be willing to walk to get the best deal. If your Game is good you can demand quite a bit. You have to be firm or it means nothing though.

This is the bargain table when you have the most leverage to mold her into the girlfriend you want. The more you expect out of her using a sense of poise and Game the more she will invest and mold to what you want.

Unfortunately in today's climate guys will have to drop a few glasses, break a few eggs on their first go-arounds fucking things up during this love negotiation process.

This is great advice and I wish I had followed it.

The girl I was seeing was putting out regularly, doing freaky stuff with me and it was all good, but when she asked me to be her boyfriend I just said yes, that would be great, because at the time it all was. Within minutes I had a facebook request to confirm I was in a relationship and the sex stopped almost as soon as I said yes.

She claimed to be on her period for two weeks, I said I didn't care and she totally shut it down cold. We went on a road trip and in the hotel she refused to smash. I got so pissed and was texting my friend "This is what side girls are for" and she was like "what are you texting?" I hid my phone and said nuthin. She later smashed just so I wouldn't think was she an awful gf. She's always apologising for not having sex but she's never having sex.

Last night, she came over and asked to order chinese food. I did, we watched a scary movie and she told me she forgot to take her pill one day and got her period again, which means no sex. I was like I don't care. She doesn't let me touch her hair anymore because she says it means she has to wash it the next day, I tried kissing her and grabbing her ass and she started to cry saying she didn't want to. I stopped and said alright and bam- tears off like an off switch, and she was like "Okay Lets finish watching the movie"

She's already told her whole family about me and all her friends. And other than this sex issue, she's a great girlfriend - baked me a cake for my birthday last week, it's classically beautiful, I'm 30 she's 21, she hasn't had a bf since she was in grade 9 which makes me think maybe she was just hooking up with guys for several years, I don't know much about her sexual history at all but she was really freaky when we first started hooking up.

I don't know what to do with her. She wants to spend the whole weekend at my place and I don't wanna suffer the indignity of blue balls while I had a gf in bed next to me for three fukkin days.

I haven't had a "relationship" in 4 years, if a girl doesn't put out, I ghost. But there's a commitment involved now and she calls me "my love" and is actually really sweet, and innocent. Great relationship with her parents and brother. No pics with other guys on her social media. I just don't know.

Some one weigh in on this please? I've been sneaking chiks on the side to deal with it, don't know what else to do