Post: #1

Hello everyone. i have decided to join this forum because,unlike other PUA sites and forums, this one seems to have a sense of fun behind it. i must ask, i am 39 and i feel that is too old to go out and try daygame etc. any thoughts on this? i should point out that i am very funny and cheeky and feel i would do very well,but my age is making me stall. cheers.

Post: #2

Hello.

This will probably be moved to the newbie forum, but whatever.

39 is not too old, and especially not if you look younger than your age and are semi-successful.

Post: #3

(08-01-2011 08:08 AM)Russ Wrote:  i should point out that i am very funny and cheeky

Tell a joke, then we'll decide.

Aloha!

Post: #4

You're never too old man. If some annoying girl tells you you are too old, who cares?

You might not have that much luck with college-age girls, but there's dudes on this forum much older than you who get their fair share.

Where are you thinking about day gaming?

Post: #5

(08-01-2011 08:08 AM)Russ Wrote:  Hello everyone. i have decided to join this forum because,unlike other PUA sites and forums, this one seems to have a sense of fun behind it. i must ask, i am 39 and i feel that is too old to go out and try daygame etc. any thoughts on this? i should point out that i am very funny and cheeky and feel i would do very well,but my age is making me stall. cheers.

Old is how you look and feel. And it depends who you are day gaming. If you are day gaming 45 year olds, then 39 is too young..

Post: #6

Your not old until 60.

You can still work out and look good all the way through most ur 50's.

Hit the gym and buy some fashion magazines

Post: #7

A guy asked something similar yesterday:
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Post: #8

Hey thanks for the replies,guy. I'm ALL about the funny and cheeky.

It would be in the west midlands area. I'd rather not get too specific at this point, in case one of my many stalker ex's is scoping my messages. i jest.

Ok, so, what do i do? what e books do i buy? or would you suggest a daygame boot camp? are we allowed to mention non roosh material on here?

Post: #9

Don't do those stupid daygame boot camps. Check this forum when u have time, buy roosh's BANG, and practice as much as you can in the real world. I believe one of our main playas around here (mixx) is only a few years younger than you.

Post: #10

Houston, i did wonder if BANG was a night game and club PUA e book? Why should i avoid the daygame bootcamps? the yad one looks Ok to me. any thoughts?

Post: #11

(08-02-2011 07:50 AM)Russ Wrote:  Houston, i did wonder if BANG was a night game and club PUA e book? Why should i avoid the daygame bootcamps? the yad one looks Ok to me. any thoughts?

Avoid any sort of bootcamp until you're decent. Find guys to learn with and learn from experienced players.

As for Bootcamps, If you are a multi millionaire and you want to take them go right ahead. I know Roosh does day game workshops occasionally in DC but hes in Poland right now.

If you are near London you should probably check out Ozzie's RSD bootcamp if you have the money. Not sucking his dick but the principles he uses work and lead to rapid improvement so taking a bootcamp with him is better than taking it with clown like Sasha(Idk about Yad, I heard he's pretty decent).

But you don't need a bootcamp to get good. So don't bother with one unless you have a lot of spare cash floating around.

Post: #12

yes you are too old now and you should stop thinking about getting sex.

seriously...often guys start after they are in their 30s.

Post: #13

(08-01-2011 08:08 AM)Russ Wrote:  i am 39 and i feel that is too old

You're only as old as the women you feel.

Wald

Post: #14

(08-01-2011 09:32 AM)Dash Global Wrote:  Your not old until 60.

You can still work out and look good all the way through most ur 50's.

Hit the gym and buy some fashion magazines

I am 59 and I intend to bang until the day I die.

And I have a long way to go before that happens. See my post:

/thread-5661-p...l#pid76129

Post: #15

Thank you for the supportive replies,guys. Tenderman, your reply was a tonic. i think "society" has much to blame for this idea that you are old in your 30's [the UK seems to push this agist idea]. I got laughed at my a man in his 80's the other day when i said "well, i'm knocking on now, i'm 39".

So, i intend to go for this and i must also add that that my age range will be teens to 60. Maybe you can buy MY bang book a couple of years from now!

Post: #16

(08-05-2011 12:10 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

(08-01-2011 09:32 AM)Dash Global Wrote:  Your not old until 60.

You can still work out and look good all the way through most ur 50's.

Hit the gym and buy some fashion magazines

I am 59 and I intend to bang until the day I die.

And I have a long way to go before that happens. See my post:

/thread-5661-p...l#pid76129

Thats all good and well you just gotta be realistic. You wont be fucking hot young women when ur say 65 in the US (non escorts). Unless ur some genetic FREAK, your gonna look OLD. This doesnt apply for celebrities and wealthy people.

Good thing for all of us when can jump on a plane and head to SA or SEA and fuck hot chicks for ever. Albeit for money or the anticipation for financial gains.

Like I said, you can stay in shape and hide ur age all the way up to about 60. After that there is no hiding or getting around the fact that you are old.

Post: #17

(08-02-2011 07:50 AM)Russ Wrote:  Houston, i did wonder if BANG was a night game and club PUA e book? Why should i avoid the daygame bootcamps? the yad one looks Ok to me. any thoughts?

Russ - BANG has a little bit of everything in it. Roosh has a new book coming out soon that will focus on strictly day game though. Daygame camps and all that PUA shit just seems...lame. All those stupid terms and shit. I would just work out, make sure you're dressed decent and get out there as much as possible to talk to girls and see what works for you. You'll confuse yourself if you try to memorize all these lines and things u "should do". Good luck man

Post: #18

(08-05-2011 03:45 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  Thats all good and well you just gotta be realistic. You wont be fucking hot young women when ur say 65 in the US (non escorts). Unless ur some genetic FREAK, your gonna look OLD. This doesnt apply for celebrities and wealthy people.

Good thing for all of us when can jump on a plane and head to SA or SEA and fuck hot chicks for ever. Albeit for money or the anticipation for financial gains.

Like I said, you can stay in shape and hide ur age all the way up to about 60. After that there is no hiding or getting around the fact that you are old.

Well, wait till you're my age -- 59 -- and realize you are JUST as horny as ever. What are you gonna do? Give up? Become a beta? Marry some fatso?

I refuse. I am banging two 40 something MILFS right now. I just this week finished banging the 20 year old Harvard sophomore who I have had a thing with the last year.

I am smart, know more about technology, politics, culture, literature and wine than 95% of the PUAs on here. I know more about making a woman scream in ecstasy than that same 95%. I can do 35 situps and 50 pushups. I can bench 200 and do lawmowers with 90 lbs. I don't need the little blue pill.

YOU can give up at 60. I refuse.

Post: #19

(08-05-2011 07:31 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

(08-05-2011 03:45 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  Thats all good and well you just gotta be realistic. You wont be fucking hot young women when ur say 65 in the US (non escorts). Unless ur some genetic FREAK, your gonna look OLD. This doesnt apply for celebrities and wealthy people.

Good thing for all of us when can jump on a plane and head to SA or SEA and fuck hot chicks for ever. Albeit for money or the anticipation for financial gains.

Like I said, you can stay in shape and hide ur age all the way up to about 60. After that there is no hiding or getting around the fact that you are old.

Well, wait till you're my age -- 59 -- and realize you are JUST as horny as ever. What are you gonna do? Give up? Become a beta? Marry some fatso?

I refuse. I am banging two 40 something MILFS right now. I just this week finished banging the 20 year old Harvard sophomore who I have had a thing with the last year.

I am smart, know more about technology, politics, culture, literature and wine than 95% of the PUAs on here. I know more about making a woman scream in ecstasy than that same 95%. I can do 35 situps and 50 pushups. I can bench 200 and do lawmowers with 90 lbs. I don't need the little blue pill.

YOU can give up at 60. I refuse.

What am i gonna do when im ur age you ask? I will most likely be married to women aged 40 - 55 by that time. She will be as fit as can be. She or my hand will have to do, depending on how many years past 45 she is.

I never said you couldnt bang 40 somethings at that age. I said you will not be banging hot 18-25 yr olds. Without being a celeb or being LOADED here in the states.

The 20 yr old from Harvard if true is prob below a 5. Id have to see it to believe it.

You might be smart and know all about everything but non of that will change the fact that in 1-3 years you will be OFFICIALLY OLD. There will be no more hiding it through working out, dressing good, dieting, ect. Unless your some genetic FREAK, time has caught up with you. Nothing wrong with that player. It will happen to all of us.

With escorts, trips to latin america and south east asia there is no need to GIVE up if you wanna bang hot YOUNG chicks.

Even without that, you can still find some 40 - 50 somethings to bang once ur 60.

But the days of gaming and banging 18-25 yr olds here in the states are over for 99 percent of 60+ yr old cats.

Post: #20

You arent too old! The key is to be consistent with your looks. One of my wingmen just turned 50 and he still gets pretty good traction with girls that are in their 20's.
The most interesting pattern I noticed is that he gets better results when he dresses up in a more upscale way (white shirt, suit, nice shoes), and it is not because better dressed is more beneficial per se, but because those type of clothes are more congruent to his age/looks. When instead he tries to "look young" and dresses like a guy in his 20-30's, with t-shirts and jeans, it tends to backfire on him - suddenly he appears as that older guy that tries hard to appear younger than what he is. In other words, as someone not comfortable with his own identity. Just calibrate carefully and you are good to go, 39 isnt too old AT ALL!

Post: #21

(08-10-2011 01:00 PM)Oblivion77 Wrote:  You arent too old! The key is to be consistent with your looks. One of my wingmen just turned 50 and he still gets pretty good traction with girls that are in their 20's.
The most interesting pattern I noticed is that he gets better results when he dresses up in a more upscale way (white shirt, suit, nice shoes), and it is not because better dressed is more beneficial per se, but because those type of clothes are more congruent to his age/looks. When instead he tries to "look young" and dresses like a guy in his 20-30's, with t-shirts and jeans, it tends to backfire on him - suddenly he appears as that older guy that tries hard to appear younger than what he is. In other words, as someone not comfortable with his own identity. Just calibrate carefully and you are good to go, 39 isnt too old AT ALL!

Great observation. Thats interesting. I've recently been updating my wardrobe to better fit my age and attitude. I was still dressing like a college kid. When I dress a little sharper, I usually get a better reaction. Clothes matter. Alot of times I dress down because I like more working class girls.

Post: #22

I like working class girls too. Often I find they have simpler demeanors and are more feminine than your average post-grad chick. They tend to be younger and have nicer bodies. But since I'm your average salaryman who works in an office, I keep thinking there's no way I can connect with them - any general pointers? I'm late 20s.

Post: #23

stein,

You have to get around them. Interact with them. Basic conversation should build connection and comfort.

Are you talking to working class girls everyday? Or at least on the weekends?

If not, you gotta find situations to mingle with them. The more personal the better.

Some related examples, from guys I know:

White guy dances at Latin clubs. gets latin girls
Latin guy works in wealthy white shopping district. gets white girls
Black guy bartends in downtown San Francisco. gets everything
Mixed guy plays basketball in Asian leagues and tournaments. gets asians
Asian guy is a great skateboarder. gets everything

Post: #24

These are some excellent tips Gio. So far I've only interacted with them from the customer angle. I can start doing this right away.

Post: #25

Hello, this is my first post.
I believe that I'm also in a similar situation. I will be 43 in 3 months and I feel that I've reached the end of the line. I did discover the pick up scene quite a while back, I took a bootcamp about 5 1/2 years ago as well as buying loads of products etc, but I never found the confidence or belief in either myself or the products to actually go out and try to approach women.
However, during my adult life I have been lucky on a few occasions with the odd short-term fling and 1-2 night stands. But the last time I even so much as kissed a girl was over 3 years ago and right now I am at the lowest ever point of my life, hope wise, when it comes to my chances with women.
Maybe it's because I found the scene/community too late in life and I was too hard-wired, I'm not sure, but the light at the end of the tunnel has certainly faded.
I'm not saying that I believe it's not possible for guys in their late 30's/40's to be good with women - and even perhaps attract nice women considerably younger than themselve's, but I do believe that you would have to have a fairly decent amount of positive past experience to be able to pull it off. If you're like me and are lacking the necessary confidence and self esteem through having the identity of someone who can't get girls, then I'm sure being this age can be a massive disadvantage.
This is just my own experience though, I'm not trying to make it sound worse for you - I'm sure you have a much better chance than I do.