Post: #51

These witty comebacks read well on the internet, but in real life they tend to fall flat. You never gain anything by engaging in this sort of verbal back and forth with women. Women talk. That's sort of their thing (have you noticed?). By talking back to her after she drops a bomb like that (a bomb designed specifically to elicit an emotional reaction on your part, by the way) you fall into her frame. She's successfully baited you onto her chosen battlefield. She's about to experience the high of an emotionally charged verbal exchange, and as a bonus she gets to see what kind of man you are based on your response. You, meanwhile, stand to gain nothing. Whatever verbal response you give will inevitably display either neediness, obviously exaggerated indifference, defensiveness or butthurt. You can never communicate genuine indifference verbally. The very act of communicating verbally necessarily entails a degree of interest - because if you truly had no interest at all, you wouldn't have said anything. So the very act of saying something back to prove how little you cared and were affected by her remarks is inherently self-sabotaging. As a woman, she understands this intuitively and can see right through all of your witty comebacks and put downs.

The correct response to this sort of comment is not talk, but action. Feminine power is expressed through talking, masculine power is expressed directly through action. By acting instead of responding verbally, you refuse to enter her frame and deny her the satisfaction of drawing you into an emotional verbal exchange. This is the only way to pass this sort of shit test. Some possible actions in response to this particular insult:

Amused laughter
Yawning, bored look
Look of disgust
Ignoring it and continuing doing something else
Leaving immediately
Spanking her
Slapping her in the face
Roughly initiating sex

We are men. We act. We don't sit around talking about how we feel, especially not with a woman who's attempting to weaponize conversation in service of her ego. If you're letting her pull your emotional strings like that you've already lost.

Post: #52

^I stand by your analysis. Acting>Talking. You can slap her face with your dick.

Post: #53

Op, you were needy and therefore in a woman's eyes, weak.

She HAD to punish you for it.


Just learn from this mistake and don't do it again.


(For what it's worth my response to this kind of thing is always "awww, you're so cute" and a pat on the head)

Post: #54

'As long as I am not the smallest you have ever had. Am I?'

Post: #55

Laugh it off.

Post: #56

The need for precise context makes it hard to comment.
A girl could say this to me matter of factly in a context where it wouldn't matter.
Some great put down / come back ammunition here though.
As a kid - early teens I used to be paranoid about having a small penis because I thought that 6 inches was less than average and 12 inches was standard. Later life has taught me I have done okay.
I fucked a whore a few years ago who, after blowing my mind once,refused a second go. She explained a big Nigerian had been jamming his fingers hard inside her all the night before. Also, he had a massive dick. I pointed at my hard member and said "but so have I !" She shrugged and said "you big but you small.. He big big"
I did not take that well but fair enough..
If you're worried about size I would say linguistic and finger skills can make up for a lot.. As for rude sluts who are just trying to provoke you the best is to shrug it off and use one of these comebacks mentioned above.

Post: #57

Anyone see the problem with 90% of the responses to this kind of situation?

You are trying to put a bandaid on an internal injury.

The reason why they do will undercut you like that is that they smell weakness and insecurity on you.

The only response I like in here is "and?". But you gotta mean it from within, not be wearing the mask. She can tell if you do give a shit.

Post: #58

You showed insecurity by bragging about your sexual prowess and brought the response onto yourself:-

"I was jokingly bragging about my sexual prowess and she just kinda threw that out there.

Admittedly I kind of walked into that one. Still stung though."

Don't brag, just show them your sexual moves. As to what to say next, it's pretty pointless as the game is over at this point but the only comeback that came to mind (complete with moving your hips in and out in a humping motion) was :

"it's not the size of the nail that matters, but the size of the hammer that drives it in", said with a smirk.

Post: #59

You guys might not like the origin of this one.. but a lot of gay friends have told me that guys with big cocks have also had the soft consistency of a bicycle inner tube and that they prefer smaller harder cocks. They also complain that those with big cocks are lazy at love making in general. That could be sour grapes but given the amount of cock these old and young men have taken then I believe there is a grain of truth ..

Post: #60

Agree with TBK, where's the debate.

"good for you" and next.

Spending more time with her after her speaking to you like that is disrespecting yourself.

Post: #61

1) "OK, but I'm about to fuck you harder than anyone ever has"

2) Do a grinning, sarcastic take away: "if only big black cocks are good enough for you, then I guess I'll just have to put mine away."

Post: #62

I forgot to mention something in my earlier post on this thread.

Women love drama. They'll sometimes just say shit to get a rise out of you. Today it's dick size. When you get married, it'll be all those things you see on talk shows: Fertility, the husband not being "attentive," sports, etc.

I wish I had known this sooner. I've said many times on this forum that we all have to learn what our grandfathers instinctively knew.

In the 1940s and '50s, women watched soap operas, listened to radio serials, and read "sob sister" columns in the newspapers. Then men brought them into the workplace and gave them more power in relationships. Now they recreate that drama in our lives.

I can't tell you the amount of things women have said to me simply to get an emotional rise. I was once told my a single mother I was "unpolished." I was a professional with a college degree and she lived in the projects. Figure that one out.

Women, by the way, do this because they can. Men can't, for the most part. If a guy had said that to me, it could have ended in a fight or something of the sort. But when you're immune from getting punched, you can take liberties.

Finally, getting someone emotionally riled up is a way to get power over them. Women do this to get the upper hand. (SJWs do this too.) Don't let them. Today it's dick size; tomorrow it will be salary. None of it matters.

Think to yourself: What is the status of the person telling me this? Odds are, they're not someone who looks like a supermodel, has Warren Buffett's money, or runs a business. What do they matter?

***

This is very peripheral but worth noting. The other group of people who love to stir up drama is fat men. I think jealousy is the reason for this. They tend not to get laid a lot, so seek to bring other men down.

Be careful of this, esp. in the workplace. Every time I ever worked with fat men, they were the ones who were constantly feeding me rumors about (imaginary) layoffs and bosses who were going to "crack down" on whatever I was doing at the time. None of it turned out to be true. But I wasted a lot of energy worrying.

Post: #63

'It is not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean.'

Post: #64

(08-05-2016 02:53 PM)Pride male Wrote:  'It is not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean.'

That's true, but you don't fuckin SAY it.

Quote:No man who says I’m as good as you believes it. He would not say it if he did. The St. Bernard never says it to the toy dog, nor the scholar to the dunce, nor the employable to the bum, nor the pretty woman to the plain. The claim to equality, outside the strictly political field, is made only by those who feel themselves to be in some way inferior. What it expresses is precisely the itching, smarting, writhing awareness of an inferiority that the patient refuses to accept. And therefore resents.

- C.S. Lewis


That's the message that your sending when you say shit like that. That you are inferior, know it, and will not admit it.

Post: #65

The only response necessary:

Post: #66

(08-04-2016 07:50 PM)scorpion Wrote:  These witty comebacks read well on the internet, but in real life they tend to fall flat. You never gain anything by engaging in this sort of verbal back and forth with women. Women talk. That's sort of their thing (have you noticed?). By talking back to her after she drops a bomb like that (a bomb designed specifically to elicit an emotional reaction on your part, by the way) you fall into her frame. She's successfully baited you onto her chosen battlefield. She's about to experience the high of an emotionally charged verbal exchange, and as a bonus she gets to see what kind of man you are based on your response. You, meanwhile, stand to gain nothing. Whatever verbal response you give will inevitably display either neediness, obviously exaggerated indifference, defensiveness or butthurt. You can never communicate genuine indifference verbally. The very act of communicating verbally necessarily entails a degree of interest - because if you truly had no interest at all, you wouldn't have said anything. So the very act of saying something back to prove how little you cared and were affected by her remarks is inherently self-sabotaging. As a woman, she understands this intuitively and can see right through all of your witty comebacks and put downs.

The correct response to this sort of comment is not talk, but action. Feminine power is expressed through talking, masculine power is expressed directly through action. By acting instead of responding verbally, you refuse to enter her frame and deny her the satisfaction of drawing you into an emotional verbal exchange. This is the only way to pass this sort of shit test. Some possible actions in response to this particular insult:

Amused laughter
Yawning, bored look
Look of disgust
Ignoring it and continuing doing something else
Leaving immediately
Spanking her
Slapping her in the face
Roughly initiating sex

We are men. We act. We don't sit around talking about how we feel, especially not with a woman who's attempting to weaponize conversation in service of her ego. If you're letting her pull your emotional strings like that you've already lost.

This post sums up very well a fundamental game concept every man MUST understand fully when dealing with women.

One of the worst mistakes I've made with women in the past is to think I could have a level conversation with them or "talk things out" to resolve significant inappropriate behavior. By and large, it's a complete waste of time, makes you look weak/lowers your value, and it is energy intensive. Honestly, almost nothing ever good comes from it.

Conversely, one of the best things I've learned with experience is the enormous power of simply ignoring a woman or walking away without hesitation when she does/says something inappropriate. It takes virtually no energy, it's time efficient, and it increases your value since you are showing via ACTION that you have a spine. Not talk. ACTION. Plenty of men can TALK about how tough they are but few can back it up with action however.

When you take action, you are sending a very clear message about how you role, how you deal with bullshit, and in an era where women deal with mostly limp-dick losers most of the time, you will stand out in a VERY positive manner. The only issue is that in the west, the women are so fundamentally broken; individual action is not enough alone to alter long-term behavior and attitudes with many women. You can win the battle but you will lose the war. You will get laid no problem but LTRs will become impossible to deal with it.

Basically, if a woman isn't condition to some degree to respect a man with a spine, there is only so much you can do in the long-run. The real paradox is that by being a red pill aware/non-bitch man in the west, you will attract all sorts of women like flies on shit; a man who doesn't accept their bullshit is irresistible at first. But in America at least, the personalities are so toxic and beyond the pale that it is impossible to keep these women's behavior in-line indefinitely; eventually 20+ years of feminist/anti-male programming via their loser single mother, fat hipster BFF, television, the media, etc will be re-triggered by one or more of the aforementioned.

Anyhow, the first time you take action when a chick is acting up (getting an attitude, saying something stupid/rude, etc), it's both very comical and pleasurable at the same time to watch a girl do a 180 in attitude all of a sudden. To see her go from belligerent and combative to panicking and apologetic in a hot second will almost give you a boner. When you replicate this with other women successfully, you feel like you just figured out the secret cheat codes in dealing with any woman.

If every men dealt with women the CORRECT WAY, we wouldn't have to deal with A LOT of the issues we deal with today on so many fronts. A lot of the problems today stem from the very simple fact that we have a TON of weak and/or ignorant men in the world who refuse to ignore or walk away from women who act in a disrespectful or inappropriate manner. It truly is the root of much of the bullshit and non-sense we as men deal with today in modern western society.

If every man became a Black Knight, the world would be a MUCH better place.

Post: #67

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OP.

VERY NSFW "you suck": http://www.youporn.com/watch/40645/doggy...-you-suck/ . VERY NSFW


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Post: #68

You still can do anal...

Post: #69

My default answer to comments or tests like this is to semi-sarcastically say "ha, you're funny", and then look to the side slowly as though I'm embarrassed by her stupidity.

I have a bad habit of over-thinking or analysing things so if I try to outsmart her with a witty response it just sounds like I'm trying to hard.

If in doubt laugh it off but note it all the same as a black mark on her record.

Post: #70

Silence is another form of argument.

Post: #71

*Shrug shoulders*

"Still got the bang"

*Walk out

Post: #72

It's basically her testing you if you have any insecurities of your dick. If you are very reactive to her comment she will get turned off. If you don't she will respect you more. Just see it as an opportunity to show her that you are a grounded alfa male that doesn't give a fuck about such comments.

Post: #73

(07-30-2016 05:37 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  This is the nuke of all shit tests / wounding tactics.

Aggressive comeback whilst not appearing to be flustered is the way forward here.

"You are not the tightest or most talented I've had either" should suffice.

This is what sets crappy American apart from crappy women in other places.

A. They will actually try to personally insult you
B. They want want you to one up them on the insults.

I find the whole thing bizzare. It is like they want to be dominated but American societal programing tells them this is wrong so they act like bitches hoping a guy will verbally dominate them. Its very vanilla really. In other countries, a women who wants to be dominated will be happy to submit to a dominant guy without all the retarded verbal jousting.

Post: #74

Last year I managed to bang a very thin part Asian chick who was a pleasure to hang with. Unfortunately, it only lasted that one night.

I didn't get hard right away once we were naked due to my own nervousness, and I could tell she was a little nervous about it. She started blowing me and really put in the effort, and I got a super hard on immediately. She knew what she was doing. Being that I'm a grower as opposed to a shower, she was visibly shocked.

The dialogue then went this way:

Her: Your cock is huge! (staring, backing away a bit,
head tilted)
Me: it's all your fault!! (She gives a little laugh)
Her: I'm...kind of scared...
Pause for a moment.
Her: you've got the...

And then she stopped herself. I acted like I didn't know what she was about to say.

Me, acting clueless: what?
Her: you've got one of the bigger dicks I've ever seen.

This girl was 28, and during the date kind of mentioned that she used to be more monogamous when younger, but now...

Maybe she stopped herself to not give me the satisfaction(which is something some girls will do), but it's far more likely she went flipping through her mental Rolodex of cock and remembered some bigger ones, and thus chose the correct phrasing.

I had another one who talked of three other comparables the first time we got down.

Another girl I dated for awhile, a 30 yr old serial online dater, used to always talk about her exes ad nauseum, and I definitely got an earful. Thankfully, I only had to hear about Russian thick cock guy and Asian big dick guy during non-sex time.

It's kind of like the dick acts as a truth serum in the moment. I'd say a good percentage of girls in the U.S. do this, and it says more about them than it ever could about you- namely about their sluttiness level and degree of social tact. It's annoying, but a little bit of running her mouth about other dudes never really bothers me so long as I'm getting laid.

Post: #75

I didn't see this anywhere in the thread, but it just occurred to me that all of us might have missed the answer because it's so obvious. It's right in front of our faces. Literally.

Her: "You're not the biggest I've ever had."

You: "And your boobs sure aren't the biggest I've had."

Most women are insecure about their breasts because unlike our private parts, theirs are on display. Women see Jessica Simpson in magazines and on TV and have to deal with it that they're not Jessica.

For us, this would be as if we had to look at male porn stars on mainstream TV every day while our girlfriends and parents were there watching too. Gee, no wonder some feminists are always so angry. But I digress.

From experience I learned women get really, really "perturbed" when they find you dated someone who has the massive, natural boobage of Ms. Simpson.

All you have to do is tell them that. Then watch them respond with envy-tinged comments like "Don't you think when they're too big they're ugly?" Or "I think she looks disproportionate with boobs that big."

So, in essence, they're now making arguments against what their initial statement was. And they'll be sorry they ever mentioned dick size in the first place.

PS: If you really want to stick the shiv in, you can mention that a man's sexual experience is contingent upon how sexy he finds the woman, and women with larger, natural breasts generally provide a better sexual experience -- even if they're quote-unquote "lousy in bed."

In other words, Simpson could just lay there and it would be better for most men than other women who had the moves, so to speak. Maybe this is what John Mayer meant when he called her "sexual napalm."