Post: #101

I will make sure that i will never get my ass to India.

Post: #102

@skulled- great post, couldn't have written a better one.

(02-08-2011 01:14 PM)Lief Wrote:  (provided no one finds out).

This is key. I have said it before in a previous post that you need to game girls who are working and living alone in the big cities. All my friends get laid with these kind of girls.

Post: #103

The key is to never come to India. I'm just doing my time here and then getting the fuck out.

If you want an India girl, get her in the US or UK -- they are 100 times easier there and better looking too. In a bar in the US, an India girl I was talking to GAVE me her number without asking. Can you imagine?

Post: #104

(02-09-2011 03:37 PM)The Duke Wrote:  The key is to never come to India. I'm just doing my time here and then getting the fuck out.

If you want an India girl, get her in the US or UK -- they are 100 times easier there and better looking too. In a bar in the US, an India girl I was talking to GAVE me her number without asking. Can you imagine?

The tip was for people who have an Indian fetish and want to take up the challenge of fucking an Indian girl in India. I never said come to Indian and do this nor did I say hey! this is the secret and and now India would be a fuckfest.

Post: #105

(02-09-2011 03:37 PM)The Duke Wrote:  The key is to never come to India. I'm just doing my time here and then getting the fuck out.

If you want an India girl, get her in the US or UK -- they are 100 times easier there and better looking too. In a bar in the US, an India girl I was talking to GAVE me her number without asking. Can you imagine?

What were you doing in India? Business?
I plan to go to India next summer for a couple of weeks to do some hiking in the Himalayas, meet friends/family, and eat Indian food. India is the worst place in the world to try and find women. The quality there is extremely low. Indian parents are very overprotective and girls are ugly.

The reason you probably didn't like India is because you had to stay in the big cities. I try to limit my time in Delhi to 2-3 days and then just go deep into the Himalayas to enjoy nature. The big cities in India are just a pain in the ass to stay in.

Post: #106

I think the only reason anyone is talking about hunting in India is bc they may not feel they got a flag if they bagged an Indian girl outside of India (ie a western girl of indian background). Which may or may not matter to you.

Certainly, a tough flag to get.

Post: #107

(02-09-2011 03:44 PM)Mystik Wrote:  The tip was for people who have an Indian fetish and want to take up the challenge of fucking an Indian girl in India.

Ok. My point is that for the effort of getting an average girl in India, you could get a gorgeous babe somewhere else.

This another topic but Indian (raised in India) girlfriends are the most jealous girls I have ever known. For example, if a random girl posts on your FB wall, get ready for a third degree interrogation. Indian girlfriends call you so often you have not choice but to turn off your phone. They are hard to get, but if someone you get one, you got one clingy girl. This is what I experienced and what I've seen with other guys' girlfriends here (not just ex-pats).

@torontokid, I'm here for work -- the money is good.

Post: #108

(02-12-2011 06:25 AM)The Duke Wrote:  Ok. My point is that for the effort of getting an average girl in India, you could get a gorgeous babe somewhere else.

This another topic but Indian (raised in India) girlfriends are the most jealous girls I have ever known. For example, if a random girl posts on your FB wall, get ready for a third degree interrogation. Indian girlfriends call you so often you have not choice but to turn off your phone. They are hard to get, but if someone you get one, you got one clingy girl. This is what I experienced and what I've seen with other guys' girlfriends here (not just ex-pats).

Fair enough. My rant was uncalled for, apologies. Sometimes I get pissed at the beating that India gets on this forum but the truth is that the country is a horrible place for pick-up.

Post: #109

(02-13-2011 11:47 PM)Mystik Wrote:  

(02-12-2011 06:25 AM)The Duke Wrote:  Ok. My point is that for the effort of getting an average girl in India, you could get a gorgeous babe somewhere else.

This another topic but Indian (raised in India) girlfriends are the most jealous girls I have ever known. For example, if a random girl posts on your FB wall, get ready for a third degree interrogation. Indian girlfriends call you so often you have not choice but to turn off your phone. They are hard to get, but if someone you get one, you got one clingy girl. This is what I experienced and what I've seen with other guys' girlfriends here (not just ex-pats).

Fair enough. My rant was uncalled for, apologies. Sometimes I get pissed at the beating that India gets on this forum but the truth is that the country is a horrible place for pick-up.

Mystik,

Be thankful you come from a place with culture and that you have a place to "go home" to. Imagine living in a place where culture consists of just 9 to 5 with the occasional fast food run, add a strong feminist culture, and you will find yourself forced too look beyond the boundary just for a quality girl as you ponder the meaning of your corporate-induced existence. See how blessed you truly are. India may be horrible for dating (for them, not you), but it still is a gem and a bastion of a rich human experience.

Mabuhay!

/rant end

Post: #110

(02-20-2011 12:23 PM)manilaguy Wrote:  Be thankful you come from a place with culture and that you have a place to "go home" to.

This idea that India has a culture is quite overrated. There was a time when India was culturally rich, probably 50-60 years ago but now the only culture here is 'hypocrisy'.

To further add to this I do not think that I should love a piece of land just because I was born within its boundaries aka patriotism. I feel much more at home in lets say Spain where the ideas and culture are more to my liking.

(02-20-2011 12:23 PM)manilaguy Wrote:  Imagine living in a place where culture consists of just 9 to 5 with the occasional fast food run, add a strong feminist culture, and you will find yourself forced too look beyond the boundary just for a quality girl as you ponder the meaning of your corporate-induced existence.

Yes that would be the case in the US. I am not a big fan of living in the US.

(02-20-2011 12:23 PM)manilaguy Wrote:  See how blessed you truly are. India may be horrible for dating (for them, not you), but it still is a gem and a bastion of a rich human experience.

Dating is hard for me as well. I do not date Indian women at all. In fact I haven't dated one for the last 3 years. I just don't want to go through all the pain and hassle.

As for rich human experience, its again an overrated concept.

Have you even been to India and New Delhi in particular?

Post: #111

Well, no I can't say I have. I guess I was wrong in giving my 50cent about a place I haven't been to.

The only experience I have is that I work with Indians (IT guys), and they always struck me as proud of their place of origin. I've dated an Indian girl in college, but she was Americanized and disdained her culture and wanted to break out of it; after the university she was "arranged" for a marriage and have not heard anything from her since.

Post: #112

(02-25-2011 07:29 PM)manilaguy Wrote:  Well, no I can't say I have. I guess I was wrong in giving my 50cent about a place I haven't been to.

The only experience I have is that I work with Indians (IT guys), and they always struck me as proud of their place of origin. I've dated an Indian girl in college, but she was Americanized and disdained her culture and wanted to break out of it; after the university she was "arranged" for a marriage and have not heard anything from her since.

There's good and bad to Indian culture. Its naturally easier to remember the good when you're out of the country and don't have to deal with the constant shit. To be honest, its part of who I am and I will always love India. However, I don't have any delusions about all the stupid shit that is constantly going on in India. I'd rather live in the west but I will still visit India occasionally.

Post: #113

(02-25-2011 11:02 PM)torontokid Wrote:  There's good and bad to Indian culture. Its naturally easier to remember the good when you're out of the country and don't have to deal with the constant shit. To be honest, its part of who I am and I will always love India. However, I don't have any delusions about all the stupid shit that is constantly going on in India. I'd rather live in the west but I will still visit India occasionally.

Well said.

Post: #114

I was just in Delhi on my second trip to India (still here, now in Surat).

1. These are tanned girls, and i have seen many with the booty +1 point
2. For a country with 1.3 billion people, there should be way more drop dead gorgeous girls. (they are here, but they are few) -1 point
3. 97%+ are unattainable to non-Hindus because of parents/arranged marriages and you will never fuck that 3% without some serious long term work (no tourist). -1
4. This place is both depressing and exhilarating. 0 points

For me, I think a hot Indian girl can give any hot girl from any other country in the world a run for their money. Bottom line, If you are white/black/green/non-indian and want to fuck a hot Indian girl it will cost you $200-$400 USD.

Post: #115

This thread made me to sign up for this forum.

Indian Dude here, 27 years old, fair skin, and still got no chance remotely of getting laid. I have pretty decent game too. I guess I just want to affirm that India is not the place to pickup. I have been picking up chicks since last five years through day game. I got some numbers too but they want men to be begging them for dates before they finally meet. Fortunately I dont call them more than twice. I have a few friends who bang whales and shit but they literally spend 12 hours on phone with them and ask them to meet atleast 12 times before they meet. I dont have that attitude, my friends say that my ego is too or i should be giving more time to women to make them comfortable to go out with you or blah blah. But my reasoning is this, if she liked you when she first saw you, what is the need to spend 12 hours begging to come meet?

Post: #116

I'm in (around) Delhi right now - staying at the Courtyard in Gurgaon - I arrived today early in the am. I stayed in the hotel today, saw nothing but families/kids and old Indian and white people. There were a few young arabic girls (one of them was eying me) but they seemed too young and too shy. I'm getting to work tomorrow at my firm and hopefully things will look brighter there.

Post: #117

I lived in India for 6 months last year.

India is an incredible country full of amazing sights with great food and amazingly friendly people.

Its also one of the toughest places to hook up I’ve ever been. When I got back to Ireland I couldn’t believe the attitude of women here and couldn’t stop going out to greasy bars just to FLIRT with them, never mind take them home. Indian men in general are the most sex starved i’ve ever encountered. It gets scary. I hung out with some highly successful, wealthy, good looking Indian guys, and none of them were ever getting any action. They tend to be really immature and make terrible wing men (with hilarious but frustrating consequences)

Lets assume you’re there for a few months working like I was, as opposed to backpacking around which has got to change things and make it much harder to get the social proof required to hook up with an Indian girl.

Most Indian women are going to be married into arranged marriages by the time they are in their mid twenties. With these chicks, it doesn’t matter if they live under a plastic sheet in a slum, or are wealthy and attend discos wearing short skirts: the problem is the same: they have absolutely no interest in you.

Populous Indian cities have night clubs where the women go, they’re dressed up well and they look great. Everyone is dancing and having a good time. Guys are talking to girls who are laughing at their jokes. Happy Days! No. Nobody is getting drunk and nobody is hooking up.

In these clubs, the percentage of girls that you have a chance with is tiny. You need them to be single, and you need them to either be total rebels or come from very liberal families. There’s loads of wealthy families in the big cities and their children tend to be very westernised and may have even studied in the states or in Europe. Your target is the subset of these that are prepared to have a relationship with a foreigner. She will have a family that will support her choosing her own husband. If she has big sisters who are already married, ask if they were arranged marriages. Its pretty easy to spot the ones that are liberal after a while: they’ll illustrate how independent and into western culture they are.

Its a tiny minority! But its there. Dont be disheartened. Find the most westernised Indian people you can and befriend them. One good way to do this is to get in with the NGO crowd, there will be westerners working for NGOs in your city and they know lots of liberal young Indians who are volunteering for NGOs cause they don’t need to work. Or find the cool young people in the company you are working for and go out clubbing with them (till 11.30 or whenever the club closes!) Make sure you dress really sharp and look good when you go out.

You have a chance of a relationship with a westernised Indian girl. One night stands are almost nonexistent in my experience.

Your other option is to score with the frustrated housewives in the office. Don’t let the term put you off: some of these chicks are still in their early to mid twenties. They’ve been married off to fat slobs of the same caste who come from good families, who are absolutely useless at pretty much everything and have no idea how to satisfy them. This however, is pretty risky business if you are worried about losing your job or worse! You would want to be pretty certain they knew what they were getting themselves in for before you actually made a move.

Chicks from the Christian areas of Goa and Kerala are worth a bit more effort, it seems like you’ll have a better chance with them as they tend to be a bit more liberal.

Oh, and there is always the other expats. There’ll be loads of them in your city provided you are in Delhi, Mumbai or Bangalore. Find out which 5 star hotels do all you can eat / drink buffets on Sundays and you’ll be sorted. They can also introduce you to their Indian friends.

In Bangalore, you want to hit the Oberoi brunch on Sundays for expats. For Indians, try the bars around Church Street. If you are trying to get into a club on your own and the bouncer says you have to have a girl with you to come in, look mildy annoyed and tell him “no, my friends are already inside” and breeze on by. Will work 7 / 10 provided you are clearly a westerner in my experience.

Women with bindi ink smeared in the parting of their hair are married. Also, toe rings tend to indicate marriage (this could be regional im no expert).

I don’t think language really comes in to it, because if they are liberal enough to date a foreigner they will have excellent English.

If all else fails hit the backpacker routes for a weekend, Goa or Hampii or somewhere like that, and see if you can bring yourself to bang some 21 year old English hippie chick with dreadlocks and beads hanging out of everywhere (if you can get her to put down her bongos for long enough). Get a lonely planet and make sure you know the bars and sights they recommend in your city so you know where to meet the backpackers. They’re not all hairy mingers, i met some really beautiful chicks in places like Hampii and Cochin.

Good luck. You’ll need it :-)

Post: #118

Further update : I met a french girl and a dutch girl at work today in Delhi (they're training the Europe teams, I'm training US). I met them to say hi. The dutch girl sort of ignored me so I'm not going after her again - she can come to me if she wants. French girl wanted to meet up but wanted to do dinner. Based on what I've read hereabouts, that could be a friendship-trap but she seemed really excited to meet up. It could be that she sees a mutual link through work or I may be playing the game wrong or she may not even be interested in me but one thing for sure is that she was pretty forward. I dress really well - darker indian guy, clean cut but not so alpha yet. We all stay in the same hotel and she gave me her number. Thing is she has a lot of friends in Delhi and I have zilch. This may even be a good opportunity to get with her social network. I haven't gamed like this before and I'm taking some stumbling steps. Not sure what steps to take at this point.

Post: #119

(04-05-2011 01:02 PM)rkp208 Wrote:  Further update : I met a french girl and a dutch girl at work today in Delhi (they're training the Europe teams, I'm training US). I met them to say hi. The dutch girl sort of ignored me so I'm not going after her again - she can come to me if she wants. French girl wanted to meet up but wanted to do dinner. Based on what I've read hereabouts, that could be a friendship-trap but she seemed really excited to meet up. It could be that she sees a mutual link through work or I may be playing the game wrong or she may not even be interested in me but one thing for sure is that she was pretty forward. I dress really well - darker indian guy, clean cut but not so alpha yet. We all stay in the same hotel and she gave me her number. Thing is she has a lot of friends in Delhi and I have zilch. This may even be a good opportunity to get with her social network. I haven't gamed like this before and I'm taking some stumbling steps. Not sure what steps to take at this point.

Ha!! French girls are the shit!! French girls are always DTF! Wether she is from France, or Montreal - these girls rule! They especially seem to love guys who are not white (if she herself is white)

Actually, I met one French girl (from Canada), and she was black. I started hitting on her, but then I realized she was only going for pure white guys.

Go for yours if she is white, and you are not.

Mixx

Post: #120

I just finished 2 months there for work and have a little more data. Like Takeda said, it doesent matter if their parents are millionaires or if they live under a tarp, they dont want to be with a foreigner. Just imagine that a girl that lives under a tarp wouldn't want to be with you at the Oberio 7 star, lol, I find that mind blowing. They are waiting for their arranged marriage. There is however a new craziness that is sweeping India. Its called the 'love' marriage haha. This means their parents will allow them to choose the person they want to marry in their early twenties, and then when they are 26 or 27 they are allowed to get married to a person they love. Marriage is a huge deal, the greatest event in their life. It takes place over 5-6 days and then the girl comes to live with you at your parents house where you reside forever if you are a male. If you are waiting for the break down of their society it going to be a while. People have just started to get divorced in the last 10 years, and I think if they marry again it will be to another Indian. One girl who worked for me just got married at 30. I can guarantee you she has never so much as held the hand of a boy until her wedding night. You will not crack India.

TD

Post: #121

(04-11-2011 08:31 AM)MiXX Wrote:  Ha!! French girls are the shit!! French girls are always DTF! Wether she is from France, or Montreal - these girls rule! They especially seem to love guys who are not white (if she herself is white)

Actually, I met one French girl (from Canada), and she was black. I started hitting on her, but then I realized she was only going for pure white guys.

Go for yours if she is white, and you are not.

Mixx

This is true. When I was in France, even though they don't really like non white or non French from my take in general (they have just banned the muslim veil from being used in public in France), they was a LOT of mixed people. Half white french, half black, etc..

I personally know a french woman who flew all the way from France to get her cherry popped by this cat who lives in Toronto.

It's an interesting, quirky culture. They like to criticise a lot, just like the Brits.

Post: #122

Well said!

India is a great country with fantastic culture, religion and food.

However it is a horrible country for getting laid.

To all my Indian brothers, who are still living in that wasteland, get the fcuk out of there. And if you can't, not even God can help you (maybe your hand can, but that's a different take and forum altogether).

I'm just glad that I am out of India when I am still able to appreciate a full blooded hot young woman (and bang a few occasionally).

The challenge now is how to avoid going back.

(04-11-2011 08:48 AM)truedat Wrote:  I just finished 2 months there for work and have a little more data. Like Takeda said, it doesent matter if their parents are millionaires or if they live under a tarp, they dont want to be with a foreigner. Just imagine that a girl that lives under a tarp wouldn't want to be with you at the Oberio 7 star, lol, I find that mind blowing. They are waiting for their arranged marriage. There is however a new craziness that is sweeping India. Its called the 'love' marriage haha. This means their parents will allow them to choose the person they want to marry in their early twenties, and then when they are 26 or 27 they are allowed to get married to a person they love. Marriage is a huge deal, the greatest event in their life. It takes place over 5-6 days and then the girl comes to live with you at your parents house where you reside forever if you are a male. If you are waiting for the break down of their society it going to be a while. People have just started to get divorced in the last 10 years, and I think if they marry again it will be to another Indian. One girl who worked for me just got married at 30. I can guarantee you she has never so much as held the hand of a boy until her wedding night. You will not crack India.

TD

Post: #123

I remember reading a field report from some guy over on RSD who said that he met an Indian girl who worked in Bollywood as a costume designer. She was quite well known and well off apparently. He met her at a club and then banged her at a hotel the same night, and then the following morning as well.
But, here's the twist to the tale, it didn't happen in India, he actually met her in new york city!

Post: #124

I just have to say that this is the funniest damn thread. As an Indian-American guy I love the bashing of the Indian social scene because it is so damn true from the five trips I've made over there. Indians are still at least fifty years from reaching a 21st century maturity level.

Post: #125

Sounds like they are several hundred years behind.

Kind of glad I skipped India on this trip now.