Post: #51

(08-01-2011 11:47 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  I was just reading an article about the former Obama green energy czar Van Jones. I noticed he has a white wife. No homo shit or nothing but he's a fairly good looking dude.

Did he marry up or down? I'm talking only looks-wise of course, she may be awesome person and a great fit for him. But based on the physical, I think he could've gotten a much better looking black woman.

Of course he married down. I wish some people would be honest with themselves and others about why they exclusively date IR. I've found that it is hard to find black people who will admit that they exclusively date 'others' because that is who they are most physically attracted to. This seems to be an issue that is exclusive to African-Americans, and hence we seem to be the only group who fight so much over IR dating/relationships.

I think it is very hard for black men who feel this way to accept their attraction to women who look completely different from themselves and their family so they try to justify their attraction by turning it into something else and playing the blame game.It is much more acceptable to make generalizations regarding the personality and character of black women than to stand up and saying "I prefer white women because I just find them more attractive than black women" they turn it into "I prefer white women because there are no suitable black women out there and x,y,z..." For them to admit to themselves that they find white women more attractive would justify the same Eurocentric beauty standards that work in favor of white men. It's an ongoing internal struggle. Who wants to risk the backlash from such a statement when you could simply justify your preferences by playing the victim?

This same internal struggle is less likely to exist with other groups, especially whites, because they do not feel guilty about finding another race more attractive than their own. Ask a white man/woman who exclusively dates IR to explain why and I guarantee the first thing they will say is "I find men/women of color more attractive." Ask this same question to a black person and they'll start talking about how black men/woman ain't sh1t, have attitudes, are lazy, suck at life, etc...

Post: #52

Marriage is more than good looks. Looks will not carry a marriage through for 10-20 + years so saying someone married down based on looks is rather silly unless the lizard is absolutely atrocious.
From my observation based on the picture, she has a nice face. Her clothes aren't so classy but a simple switch in garms can take a lizard up at least two points.
I deem her 5.5 right there, she has a nice smile and a pink complexion. Pull her hair back, throw on a better dress and she could hit the higher 6's, maybe even get into 7's (depending on how her body is).

Now, as long as she passes his boner test, we have to look at the qualities she brings for a long term.

In this day and era, a man cannot have a lizard as a partner who brings NOTHING to the table but looks.
I wouldn't do it because if my situation was to go down and I needed moral support or someone with some ideas to get my situ right again, that very lizard with her 8/9 looks would put my ass in the gutter.

For marriage, I think looks shouldn't play too much of a strong part..as long as she is reasonably attractive, I think the bonding of personality and looks should be the key..otherwise, why get married?

Post: #53

For some reason in America it's ok for a black man to date a Fat/ugly, Gabourey Sidibe looking black chick but if he marries/dates an average looking white chic with a good job he's "dating down".

It's pretty sad. If i walk into a black club with a girl looking like Gabourey Sidibe nobody would think i'm dating down(even tho I'm tall and in shape). But if I walk into the same club with a plain jane white girl..somehow that equates to me hating my mom and loving European features.

Post: #54

(08-03-2011 10:05 AM)rakishness Wrote:  For some reason in America it's ok for a black man to date a Fat/ugly, Gabourey Sidibe looking black chick but if he marries/dates an average looking white chic with a good job he's "dating down".

It's pretty sad. If i walk into a black club with a girl looking like Gabourey Sidibe nobody would think i'm dating down(even tho I'm tall and in shape). But if I walk into the same club with a plain jane white girl..somehow that equates to me hating my mom and loving European features.

I guess one of the whole idea is that if you are going to date outside of your race, you will deal with a lot of issues (especially if it is black in white) so you need to make it worthwhile by getting yourself a bomshell. You need a stunner that will make you not regret your movement when you go somewhere where the regular patrons or bar owners refuse to serve you or deliberately overlook you when you are trying to get service like everyone else etc..

Post: #55

(08-03-2011 10:17 AM)Moma Wrote:  

(08-03-2011 10:05 AM)rakishness Wrote:  For some reason in America it's ok for a black man to date a Fat/ugly, Gabourey Sidibe looking black chick but if he marries/dates an average looking white chic with a good job he's "dating down".

It's pretty sad. If i walk into a black club with a girl looking like Gabourey Sidibe nobody would think i'm dating down(even tho I'm tall and in shape). But if I walk into the same club with a plain jane white girl..somehow that equates to me hating my mom and loving European features.

I guess one of the whole idea is that if you are going to date outside of your race, you will deal with a lot of issues (especially if it is black in white) so you need to make it worthwhile by getting yourself a bomshell. You need a stunner that will make you not regret your movement when you go somewhere where the regular patrons or bar owners refuse to serve you or deliberately overlook you when you are trying to get service like everyone else etc..

Exactly Moma. The idea is this if you are going to be dating trash make sure its trash within your own race.

Post: #56

(08-01-2011 11:47 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  I was just reading an article about the former Obama green energy czar Van Jones. I noticed he has a white wife. No homo shit or nothing but he's a fairly good looking dude.

Did he marry up or down? I'm talking only looks-wise of course, she may be awesome person and a great fit for him. But based on the physical, I think he could've gotten a much better looking black woman.

I definitely agree. Fyi, OP spend a weekend at any Mombasa hotel. SHIT IS CRAAZZZYY! Married honeymooners from Italy/Holland/Germany/UK/US getting dicked occasionally with the full knowledge of the husband. Those bitches just want the blacksnake-you can comment on our post racial world/new morality or modern situational ethics but those are the facts. So I do believe those black teens could be onto something,though I admit am too far away to have any definite knowledge.

Post: #57

Theogreat Wrote:Of course he married down. I wish some people would be honest with themselves and others about why they exclusively date IR. I've found that it is hard to find black people who will admit that they exclusively date 'others' because that is who they are most physically attracted to. This seems to be an issue that is exclusive to African-Americans, and hence we seem to be the only group who fight so much over IR dating/relationships.

I think it is very hard for black men who feel this way to accept their attraction to women who look completely different from themselves and their family so they try to justify their attraction by turning it into something else and playing the blame game.It is much more acceptable to make generalizations regarding the personality and character of black women than to stand up and saying "I prefer white women because I just find them more attractive than black women" they turn it into "I prefer white women because there are no suitable black women out there and x,y,z..." For them to admit to themselves that they find white women more attractive would justify the same Eurocentric beauty standards that work in favor of white men. It's an ongoing internal struggle. Who wants to risk the backlash from such a statement when you could simply justify your preferences by playing the victim?

This same internal struggle is less likely to exist with other groups, especially whites, because they do not feel guilty about finding another race more attractive than their own. Ask a white man/woman who exclusively dates IR to explain why and I guarantee the first thing they will say is "I find men/women of color more attractive." Ask this same question to a black person and they'll start talking about how black men/woman ain't sh1t, have attitudes, are lazy, suck at life, etc...

I really have no major disagreement with anything you said here. I think for blacks there is a strong sense of "peoplehood" and to prefer something outside of your group is tantamount to being a defector. Especially with the group that is your historic oppressor/enslaver. So yeah, it's obvious why there is shame involved and a lot of hangups and hurt in the black community about this topic.

That said, many black women aren't exactly doing their best to make themselves competitive in the dating market. While you can't change your skin color, you CAN easily change your weight. Getting in shape is not that hard. Can someone explain to me why 4 out of 5 black American women are either overweight or obese? Forget the attraction issue, think of what this is doing to the rates of diabetes, heart disease and cancer. There needs to be more awareness on this matter.

Post: #58

(08-03-2011 11:50 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

Theogreat Wrote:Of course he married down. I wish some people would be honest with themselves and others about why they exclusively date IR. I've found that it is hard to find black people who will admit that they exclusively date 'others' because that is who they are most physically attracted to. This seems to be an issue that is exclusive to African-Americans, and hence we seem to be the only group who fight so much over IR dating/relationships.

I think it is very hard for black men who feel this way to accept their attraction to women who look completely different from themselves and their family so they try to justify their attraction by turning it into something else and playing the blame game.It is much more acceptable to make generalizations regarding the personality and character of black women than to stand up and saying "I prefer white women because I just find them more attractive than black women" they turn it into "I prefer white women because there are no suitable black women out there and x,y,z..." For them to admit to themselves that they find white women more attractive would justify the same Eurocentric beauty standards that work in favor of white men. It's an ongoing internal struggle. Who wants to risk the backlash from such a statement when you could simply justify your preferences by playing the victim?

This same internal struggle is less likely to exist with other groups, especially whites, because they do not feel guilty about finding another race more attractive than their own. Ask a white man/woman who exclusively dates IR to explain why and I guarantee the first thing they will say is "I find men/women of color more attractive." Ask this same question to a black person and they'll start talking about how black men/woman ain't sh1t, have attitudes, are lazy, suck at life, etc...

I really have no major disagreement with anything you said here. I think for blacks there is a strong sense of "peoplehood" and to prefer something outside of your group is tantamount to being a defector. Especially with the group that is your historic oppressor/enslaver. So yeah, it's obvious why there is shame involved and a lot of hangups and hurt in the black community about this topic.

That said, many black women aren't exactly doing their best to make themselves competitive in the dating market. While you can't change your skin color, you CAN easily change your weight. Getting in shape is not that hard. Can someone explain to me why 4 out of 5 black American women are either overweight or obese? Forget the attraction issue, think of what this is doing to the rates of diabetes, heart disease and cancer. There needs to be more awareness on this matter.

Speakeasy,
Please take a look at the statistics for obesity among white and hispanic women, they are very similar to Black women. Even if every Black woman in America today decided to lose weight and lose the attitude they would still be low in the SMP. Getting in shape does not change facial features, skin color, or hair texture.

Post: #59

(08-03-2011 12:31 PM)Theogreat Wrote:  Speakeasy,
Please take a look at the statistics for obesity among white and hispanic women, they are very similar to Black women. Even if every Black woman in America today decided to lose weight and lose the attitude they would still be low in the SMP. Getting in shape does not change facial features, skin color, or hair texture.

I disagree strongly. This may be controversial but I think the standard of beauty is based off of the black lizard. Look at lipstick. It accentuates the lips and makes them bigger and redder. Many black lizards have naturally big lips so all they need is some lip gloss and done.
I know some lizards that whinge and complain because their lips are thin.
Look at the new rage about ass. Lots of implants going into the ass. Tanning salons. I know many lizards that say oh I am going to get a tan..I don't like looking like this..blah blah.

I know a lot of brothas who are strictly into white women and most of the them do it because of less drama (attitude) and the fact that they don't want to have to be able to bench 300lbs just to throw their bitchez around in the bedroom.

I was at Caribana this weekend and then Jambana the day after and the sistas there looked damn good (in the face) but so many of them looked like trucks on two legs..but they know that dudes are still jumping over each other to ease their sticks into this mammoths so they have no incentive to lose weight. If it ain't broke, why fix it?

Sexual incentive is usually the driving force for a lot of people to change (improve) their looks. Why do dudes get haircuts? Shaves? Wear nice cologne? Buy new shirts and trousers?
Shiit back in the day, I only got a haircut when I secured a date and the same goes for a shave.
One lizard I had newly opened (a Harlesden chick) told me she'd break me off something if I got a haircut.

Why do women walk in painful high heels and stuff thong strings up their arses? Do their hair, painful braids etc?
To attract males.
Why would a woman (who is not an athlete) go to the gym to lose weight?

To quote Mixx, a woman loves attention even more than dyck. If a fat chick is getting lots of attention - "gurrll, you got a ghetto booty" why would she be bothered to exert any discipline?

Why do guys go to the gym? Two reasons.

1) To improve their sports performance
2) To attract more lizards.

As we all know, not many dudes older than 21 are really tumping iron for that improved American football performance.

In South London, the gyms were often packed because in London, you could literally lay a black lizard off of a tight body type.
Weigh the cost of a gym membership or even pushups in your council flat over buying Moschino jeans, Christian Dior shirts.

I was never a cat into putting down major cheese for the garms and when I got my body right, I could write a living testimony on how many lizards I was able to get my bellend into.

Post: #60

I would not say they are "very" similar. Look at the red on these maps where it's broken down by race: http://www.conquering-obesity.com/obesit...stics.html

Luckily obesity is not as huge a problem in my neck of the woods as other places. However when I'm down south visiting family, I REALLY see it.

I'm not disputing the fact that blacks are at the bottom of ladder when it comes to the SMP. However it doesn't mean ALL black individuals are at the the bottom. Nor are all white individuals at the top. Surely any sane man would choose Gabrielle Union over a Rosie O'Donnell. We are only taking about group averages here. But at the individual level, people often break with the trend. Things like obesity will keep a lot of women from transcending whatever place their group falls on the SMP.

Post: #61

I grew up around white people, in a upper middle class area of London. All I saw growing up was "sexy" women on TV (the media said so), in the paper everyday (nude page 3 girls) and then in my early teen's I glimpsed a few playboys, mayfair, hustler magazines only to find more "sexy" white women. Black women were "exotic" to me b/c I did not grow up around them or even see them in magazines etc.
I never saw myself different or was treated different until a political party started with this immigrants go back home nonsense.
In high school, a nice white girl told me her black girlfriend liked me - I was not interested and told the white girl I prefered her. She still kissed me but did not want her friend to find out, fast forward a couple of years now and I would not touch the white girl now but the black girl looks good.
Now we are in the porno age, log onto your computer and you will see mostly white girls performing all kinds of sex acts. For a horny male like myself, white women are by far is the easier thing on the earth. To get into a black girls pants I would have to jump over many hurdles to prove that I am not a "playa", that is fine if you are looking for a wife but I am not. Now bear in mind I am talking decent black girls, not the fatties that seem to make up a large majority of the black population.
The world is so small these days that I can go online and literally hookup with girls around the world, I have had "dates" with girls in Scandinavia and Eastern Europe with this method.
A white girl will not think twice about performing oral sex, a black girl will rarely do that to me. Now I am sure for the white readers they might have an easier time of it dealing with black girls, for me that is not the case. So I prefer to swim in easier waters with little or no competition.
Black teens hit on middle aged white women b/c they are easy and most times they can get money! A few guys I know have gotten cars from divorced middle aged white women, who like to brag how much money they have or got from there ex-husbands.

Post: #62

(08-03-2011 09:54 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I grew up around white people, in a upper middle class area of London. All I saw growing up was "sexy" women on TV (the media said so), in the paper everyday (nude page 3 girls) and then in my early teen's I glimpsed a few playboys, mayfair, hustler magazines only to find more "sexy" white women. Black women were "exotic" to me b/c I did not grow up around them or even see them in magazines etc.
I never saw myself different or was treated different until a political party started with this immigrants go back home nonsense.
In high school, a nice white girl told me her black girlfriend liked me - I was not interested and told the white girl I prefered her. She still kissed me but did not want her friend to find out, fast forward a couple of years now and I would not touch the white girl now but the black girl looks good.
Now we are in the porno age, log onto your computer and you will see mostly white girls performing all kinds of sex acts. For a horny male like myself, white women are by far is the easier thing on the earth. To get into a black girls pants I would have to jump over many hurdles to prove that I am not a "playa", that is fine if you are looking for a wife but I am not. Now bear in mind I am talking decent black girls, not the fatties that seem to make up a large majority of the black population.
The world is so small these days that I can go online and literally hookup with girls around the world, I have had "dates" with girls in Scandinavia and Eastern Europe with this method.
A white girl will not think twice about performing oral sex, a black girl will rarely do that to me. Now I am sure for the white readers they might have an easier time of it dealing with black girls, for me that is not the case. So I prefer to swim in easier waters with little or no competition.
Black teens hit on middle aged white women b/c they are easy and most times they can get money! A few guys I know have gotten cars from divorced middle aged white women, who like to brag how much money they have or got from there ex-husbands.

There goes the rationalization hamster. How hard is it to say I prefer white women because they are more attractive than black women?

Post: #63

(08-03-2011 11:15 PM)Theogreat Wrote:  

(08-03-2011 09:54 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I grew up around white people, in a upper middle class area of London. All I saw growing up was "sexy" women on TV (the media said so), in the paper everyday (nude page 3 girls) and then in my early teen's I glimpsed a few playboys, mayfair, hustler magazines only to find more "sexy" white women. Black women were "exotic" to me b/c I did not grow up around them or even see them in magazines etc.
I never saw myself different or was treated different until a political party started with this immigrants go back home nonsense.
In high school, a nice white girl told me her black girlfriend liked me - I was not interested and told the white girl I prefered her. She still kissed me but did not want her friend to find out, fast forward a couple of years now and I would not touch the white girl now but the black girl looks good.
Now we are in the porno age, log onto your computer and you will see mostly white girls performing all kinds of sex acts. For a horny male like myself, white women are by far is the easier thing on the earth. To get into a black girls pants I would have to jump over many hurdles to prove that I am not a "playa", that is fine if you are looking for a wife but I am not. Now bear in mind I am talking decent black girls, not the fatties that seem to make up a large majority of the black population.
The world is so small these days that I can go online and literally hookup with girls around the world, I have had "dates" with girls in Scandinavia and Eastern Europe with this method.
A white girl will not think twice about performing oral sex, a black girl will rarely do that to me. Now I am sure for the white readers they might have an easier time of it dealing with black girls, for me that is not the case. So I prefer to swim in easier waters with little or no competition.
Black teens hit on middle aged white women b/c they are easy and most times they can get money! A few guys I know have gotten cars from divorced middle aged white women, who like to brag how much money they have or got from there ex-husbands.

There goes the rationalization hamster. How hard is it to say I prefer white women because they are more attractive than black women?

Theo, are you on soul patrol or something?

Post: #64

"Theo, are you on soul patrol or something?"


^^Nope just sick of the foolishness, people need to just be honest about their preferences.

Post: #65

theogreat has got to be the biggest black beta male troll I've ever seen, why isn't this guy banned? Every single post of his is him crying about the hardships and downfall of the black brotha. In every single thread he sneaks in, its him giving put downs to any guy talking about black guys having any sort of success/advantage. Every time someone tries to come with a decent logical rational argument against his girly bitching, finger pointing, denial of black guys getting more major poon then his girly ass, the guy goes on a hissy tirade and comes up with pathetic rationalizations about why he is not getting any; he then hilariously tries to convince everyone around him that the entire race of blackie is as doomed as his pathetic chump ass because of his failings, mediocrity and loser status despite the counter examples eloquently put out by various members of the forum.

I mean FFS you have athlone, speakeasy, and bunch of other guys pointing out that black guys are getting poon in real life and have developed specific workarounds against hurdles; but no, he has to bitch, moan, and cry like a little girl. I mean if you are so convinced that black guys have it the worst and you have racial guilt about being black, then why the hell are you posting in this forum and not crying in your little corner? I live in an upscale suburb of Chicago with a majority white population, and black guys athletes/non-atheletes on average get the cream of the crop w/ white women here. I have seen black guys holding hands with hot white women plenty of times. Satisfied? Of course not because you're a beta chump loser/clever troll feeling bad because a bunch of black brotha's are getting laid with white girls; at the same time you can't seem to do anything except waste everyone's time with pseudo social commentary about the hardships of yourself, on an reclusive internet forum trying to garner sympathy by attacking other successful black guys, all the while crying in your little hole. You are sitting at home behind the comfort of a computer screen while complaining about girls of other races not liking you, I wonder what platonic stereotype you are fullfilling doing that. Please GTFO, nobody and especially the cool black guys care about your failure as a black male.

Post: #66

Ha! Theogreat is on that Black Power Tip.

But seriously he does sound bitter. You also come off as some kinda white knight for Black Females. Trust me...... If more black chicks looked like Keisha Pulliam as opposed to Gabourey Sidibe there would be less black dudes hopping the fence.

Post: #67

(08-04-2011 08:41 AM)Ohiogang Wrote:  theogreat has got to be the biggest black beta male troll I've ever seen, why isn't this guy banned? Every single post of his is him crying about the hardships and downfall of the black brotha. In every single thread he sneaks in, its him giving put downs to any guy talking about black guys having any sort of success/advantage. Every time someone tries to come with a decent logical rational argument against his girly bitching, finger pointing, denial of black guys getting more major poon then his girly ass, the guy goes on a hissy tirade and comes up with pathetic rationalizations about why he is not getting any; he then hilariously tries to convince everyone around him that the entire race of blackie is as doomed as his pathetic chump ass because of his failings, mediocrity and loser status despite the counter examples eloquently put out by various members of the forum.

I mean FFS you have athlone, speakeasy, and bunch of other guys pointing out that black guys are getting poon in real life and have developed specific workarounds against hurdles; but no, he has to bitch, moan, and cry like a little girl. I mean if you are so convinced that black guys have it the worst and you have racial guilt about being black, then why the hell are you posting in this forum and not crying in your little corner? I live in an upscale suburb of Chicago with a majority white population, and black guys athletes/non-atheletes on average get the cream of the crop w/ white women here. I have seen black guys holding hands with hot white women plenty of times. Satisfied? Of course not because you're a beta chump loser/clever troll feeling bad because a bunch of black brotha's are getting laid with white girls; at the same time you can't seem to do anything except waste everyone's time with pseudo social commentary about the hardships of yourself, on an reclusive internet forum trying to garner sympathy by attacking other successful black guys, all the while crying in your little hole. You are sitting at home behind the comfort of a computer screen while complaining about girls of other races not liking you, I wonder what platonic stereotype you are fullfilling doing that. Please GTFO, nobody and especially the cool black guys care about your failure as a black male.

Lol ^^^Dude, I am simply telling the truth if you have a problem with that than thats your issue. In my posts I have pointed out that Race matters with regards to how Black men fair in the SMP. It helps explains why Black men in aggregate are not getting hot non black women. If you can point to some evidence that suggests otherwise than I would like to see it. Your friends in Chicago are exceptions to the rule because white women in general as well as Asian/Latina women are not checking for Black men period and thats the truth. You becoming hostile and defensive won't change anything so you can calm down already. And can you please highlight the posts where I was going on girly tirades about me not getting any? Look dude stop watching all that IR porn and Black athletes/entertainers with good looking non black women because their status and cash flow is not the same as your status and cash flow.

@Rakishness- Nah bruh, I am not bitter about anything just telling the truth.

Post: #68

I am not Black bruh, and I don't think there is a singular "truth" to this although I don't know which area you live in to make you think black guys are always looked down upon. You have simply repeated exactly what I had pointed earlier without offering counter arguments or disproving any of what I said except saying its false. It is irritating though how you try to rail on and on about black people not getting any, in every single thread, when there are plenty proving otherwise. I think your problems are your own being a bitter black guy and all that.

Post: #69

(08-04-2011 11:25 AM)Theogreat Wrote:  Your friends in Chicago are exceptions to the rule because white women in general as well as Asian/Latina women are not checking for Black men period and thats the truth.

Hmm. Are you from the deep south? Location matters I think. Basically if you live in Mississippi I doubt you'd ever see a black guy with a good looking white chic.

If you live in a major city it isn't uncommon to see a black guy with a good looking white girl even if he isn't wealthy.

Post: #70

(08-04-2011 11:51 AM)rakishness Wrote:  

(08-04-2011 11:25 AM)Theogreat Wrote:  Your friends in Chicago are exceptions to the rule because white women in general as well as Asian/Latina women are not checking for Black men period and thats the truth.

Hmm. Are you from the deep south? Location matters I think. Basically if you live in Mississippi I doubt you'd ever see a black guy with a good looking white chic.

If you live in a major city it isn't uncommon to see a black guy with a good looking white girl even if he isn't wealthy.

There goes that rationalization hamster. Black men like I said before are not getting with hot white women. If you consider a ghetto, overweight, white chick hot than thats you. Why the denial?

Post: #71

Theo, he was not rationalizing, he was merely making an anecdotal observation from his POV. Why is his conclusion any less valid than yours?

Indeed you do seem quite bitter as others have noted.

Post: #72

Shaming languages contribute nothing to the discussion. It is easy to dismiss the other opinion as nonsense when you resort to insults from the beginning.

From my experience, it is uncommon to see a black guy with a good looking white girl if he isn't wealthy.

Athlone has talked about this. It's either a black guy with status (athlete, rapper, etc.) or a token that is in with the crowd. For the latter, he pulls more once in because he is different. Contrast game.

There are different points of view on the table, but you won't easily find a black guy with a hot white girl in a black area of a city for example.

Again, money does come into play as a ghetto brotha from the hood won't have a chance against an attractive white woman from upper class.

I don't know where the black posters here reside, but the examples have been major metro areas like New York and Chicago.

I'm not sure if it's as common in other cities like Philly or Atlanta. Maybe, maybe not.

To put it in approximate ratio, for every Asian with a white woman, I see three black man and white woman couples. That's not many.

Post: #73

(08-04-2011 11:49 AM)Ohiogang Wrote:  I am not Black bruh, and I don't think there is a singular "truth" to this although I don't know which area you live in to make you think black guys are always looked down upon. You have simply repeated exactly what I had pointed earlier without offering counter arguments or disproving any of what I said except saying its false. It is irritating though how you try to rail on and on about black people not getting any, in every single thread, when there are plenty proving otherwise. I think your problems are your own being a bitter black guy and all that.

Post pics or GTFOH!!!!

Post: #74

(08-03-2011 12:31 PM)Theogreat Wrote:  Speakeasy,
Please take a look at the statistics for obesity among white and hispanic women, they are very similar to Black women.

This is not true.

Quote:It is much more acceptable to make generalizations regarding the personality and character of black women than to stand up and saying "I prefer white women because I just find them more attractive than black women" they turn it into "I prefer white women because there are no suitable black women out there and x,y,z..."

Because there can't be anything at all wrong with the general personality/character traits of African-American women, right?

Sure.

Quote:For them to admit to themselves that they find white women more attractive would justify the same Eurocentric beauty standards that work in favor of white men. It's an ongoing internal struggle. Who wants to risk the backlash from such a statement when you could simply justify your preferences by playing the victim?

Yes, this has to be it! Because surely...

1. All black men who make such complaints are quite wary of their status within the racially conscious black community and don't want the backlash from it.

2. There's nothing wrong with black american women at all, so concerns about them must be a coverup.

3. A guy who singles out black american (40 Million) women specifically for any generalized socio-cultural criticism is clearly also speaking for all blacks (over 1 Billion) on Earth.

How did we all fail to see this before?

Quote:There goes that rationalization hamster.

Shaming language.

There is only one thing I hate more than a radical feminist, and that is a white knight.

Quote:Post pics or GTFOH!!!!

Why don't you?

Post: #75

(08-04-2011 12:53 PM)Theogreat Wrote:  Post pics or GTFOH!!!!

Why don't you? You contribute nothing.