Post: #1

Hello, All

After spending sometime in DR, I had a love for the Spanish language.
I thought i'd ask the great minds of this board if they had any ideas on how to achieve my goal. Not to mention, I hope to retire in and live on some Spanish speaking island. At the moment, I can't afford to live their in order to get true culturally immersion, so that is out of the question. I'm an IT guys so I can't find a job their unless I could work for some large U.S based company. So the next best think is to live with someone that can speak the language fluently e.g. native speaker of course I learn better from women

I'm far from fluent but have enough basic conversation skills to function. The trouble is that, I don't have alot of reinforcement when I return back in my own country USA. Has anyone every thought about getting a Dominican/Mexican/[Insert your fav country here] chick to live with you for 3 or 4 months in order to improve your language skills? I'd love to find someone that might want to move to Michigan could stay in my home for FREE, for a few months to help me master the language. I think this could work, but i'm not sure how to go about it. Where could I post offers for something like this and get a positive reply? Any thoughts/ideas?

Post: #2

One thing you need to put in mind is that dominican spanish is not the best spoken spanish, i have met few spanish people that couldnt even understand dominicans.

However i have met many dominicans that speak really good so you may want to find a dominican person who speaks decent. I know many interesting dominican women, i think they would love to move to the states if you could provide them a visa. What age range are you looking for? You just want them to live with you without banging them? How do i know that you will keep it real with them? I could definetely find you a good dominican girl that would live with you for a certain a period ( and i mean a real hot one), but i need to be sure that you wont force her into prostitution or any shit like that. If you are a real cat, send me a pm and we can discuss that.

Your idea is good, however im wodnering if you really been to DR, why didnt you speak to one girl while you were there? I dont know how good your game is but you could have gone to santo domingo local universities and approach tons of girls, make lots of contacts and i am sure you would have a girl who would love to move with you in the US. I know tons that will be up for it.

p.s. Dont athlone things (avoiding approach), mixx it(approach)

Post: #3

(07-22-2011 08:20 AM)pitt Wrote:  One thing you need to put in mind is that dominican spanish is not the best spoken spanish, i have met few spanish people that couldnt even understand dominicans.

However i have met many dominicans that speak really good so you may want to find a dominican person who speaks decent. I know many interesting dominican women, i think they would love to move to the states if you could provide them a visa. What age range are you looking for? You just want them to live with you without banging them? How do i know that you will keep it real with them? I could definetely find you a good dominican girl that would live with you for a certain a period ( and i mean a real hot one), but i need to be sure that you wont force her into prostitution or any shit like that. If you are a real cat, send me a pm and we can discuss that.

Your idea is good, however im wodnering if you really been to DR, why didnt you speak to one girl while you were there? I dont know how good your game is but you could have gone to santo domingo local universities and approach tons of girls, make lots of contacts and i am sure you would have a girl who would love to move with you in the US. I know tons that will be up for it.

p.s. Dont athlone things (avoiding approach), mixx it(approach)

Hey, Pitt

Yes, that is something to keep in mind. That is also the reason why i'd like to find a Dominicana. My primary reason would be to learn Spanish only. But, if shes hot and wants to bang me why would i say no I would want a chick 21+ as for me i'm a normal guy that has a 9-5, i'm not into prostitution shit, I just want to learn. If you want more details just PM me. As for bringing one from Dem Rep. I'm not sure how to do that unless you marry one or use a K1 visa. I don't really wanna cheat the system and give a girl false hope like that. I'm met a few nice Dominican girls, in fact my ex-novia is from Santiago, DR. As for me going to DR, Yes, I've three times and i'm going back in Aug. I personally would rather get one from NY or something so I don't have to deal with immigration stuff. Unless you know of a magic way to get a Dominican to the states, I hear the process if next to impossible if they don't already have money in excess of 15K USD which makes no since sine the year salary of most is something like 10K USD per year.

Post: #4

What part of the US do you live in?

Latinos are everywhere these days. Go to the local barrio and start being a regular at some bars. Get to know people, start a social circle. It's not gonna be easy, but it has to be easier than trying to import some girl from another country or region in the United States.

Post: #5

Kingadam what dominican girl that lives in NY would like to find a guy to live with him so he can learn spanish? What would she gain from that? Thats next to impossible, it wont happen. A girl fresh from DR would be interested because she knows she could work, learn english or if she knows she could get some benefit that she wouldnt get at home then she may come.

I dont think the visa would be that hard, she is coming for vacation, 3 months stay, the immigration wouldnt make things that hard.

Anyway the best option i see for you is for you to go do DR yourself and approach tons of girls, fuck lots of them and then invite a "good" one to come live with you in the states for 3 months.

Post: #6

How about you just go to the Spanish part of town and get a girl. She doesn't have to live in your house, but having a gf would definitely help. Make sure you don't just learn from 1 person though, get out and talk to everyone.

Post: #7

(07-22-2011 09:09 AM)Ajiaco Wrote:  What part of the US do you live in?

Latinos are everywhere these days. Go to the local barrio and start being a regular at some bars. Get to know people, start a social circle. It's not gonna be easy, but it has to be easier than trying to import some girl from another country or region in the United States.

I unfortunately live in Michigan, that big cold place up north just shy of Canada . I've only met ONE Dominicana here from NY that speaks Spanish fluently and yes shes hot but not the type I'd want to make this kind of offer to. I'm attempting to find places here where I can break into a Latino social circle but I find a ton of Latino's that don't speak Spanish, so that kind of defeats the purpose. I do have one lead for some place in another city that has a higher percentage of Latino's then my city.

Post: #8

(07-22-2011 09:16 AM)pitt Wrote:  Kingadam what dominican girl that lives in NY would like to find a guy to live with him so he can learn spanish? What would she gain from that? Thats next to impossible, it wont happen. A girl fresh from DR would be interested because she knows she could work, learn english or if she knows she could get some benefit that she wouldnt get at home then she may come.

I dont think the visa would be that hard, she is coming for vacation, 3 months stay, the immigration wouldnt make things that hard.

Anyway the best option i see for you is for you to go do DR yourself and approach tons of girls, fuck lots of them and then invite a "good" one to come live with you in the states for 3 months.

Agreed, Hence why this is a difficult task and why I posed the question on this board. I'm hoping that someone has a unique idea to make it happen. My thinking about NY was maybe an undocumented person, maybe a person fresh off the boat or someone that wants to move and get out of the city and needs a few months of no rent and wants to live for FREE so they could save some money. I've researched the VISA process and it's NOT easy for a poor single Dominicana women to visit the states. You basically have three options:

1) Marry / Get Engaged (K3/K1 Visa) $3-4K
2) Au Pair (Nanny) (J1 Visa) Cost $8K (Reoccurring cost minimal wage)
3) Unskilled Worker Visa (H2B Visa) $3-4K (Reoccurring cost minimal wage)

I'm gonna try to find a social circle but a Dominican in my state is like finding a four leaf clover.

- King

Post: #9

(07-22-2011 10:12 AM)KingAdam79 Wrote:  

(07-22-2011 09:16 AM)pitt Wrote:  Kingadam what dominican girl that lives in NY would like to find a guy to live with him so he can learn spanish? What would she gain from that? Thats next to impossible, it wont happen. A girl fresh from DR would be interested because she knows she could work, learn english or if she knows she could get some benefit that she wouldnt get at home then she may come.

I dont think the visa would be that hard, she is coming for vacation, 3 months stay, the immigration wouldnt make things that hard.

Anyway the best option i see for you is for you to go do DR yourself and approach tons of girls, fuck lots of them and then invite a "good" one to come live with you in the states for 3 months.

Agreed, Hence why this is a difficult task and why I posed the question on this board. I'm hoping that someone has a unique idea to make it happen. My thinking about NY was maybe an undocumented person, maybe a person fresh off the boat or someone that wants to move and get out of the city and needs a few months of no rent and wants to live for FREE so they could save some money. I've researched the VISA process and it's NOT easy for a poor single Dominicana women to visit the states. You basically have three options:

1) Marry / Get Engaged (K3/K1 Visa) $3-4K
2) Au Pair (Nanny) (J1 Visa) Cost $8K (Reoccurring cost minimal wage)
3) Unskilled Worker Visa (H2B Visa) $3-4K (Reoccurring cost minimal wage)

I'm gonna try to find a social circle but a Dominican in my state is like finding a four leaf clover.

- King

Does she have to be Dominican? Are you certain there are no Spanish communities in the entire state of Michigan? What about joining a meetup group for other people who are interested in learning Spanish? How about regular phone convo with a Spanish speaker or do you need to see her face to face?

Post: #10

Sounds like a an over-complicated method to me dude. My recommendation would be to live in a Spanish speaking country and immerse yourself in the country, meet girls in their own environment. Hell,, you'll even be exotic being foreign if you play you cards right.

You say there may not be career prospects? How bad do you want it? If you want to make it happen then go after it. I think trying to find the right girl or someone just so they can live with you to learn the language is not entirely the right way to go about it.

Certainly living in the country is a whole lot better...You get to learn a new language, a new culture, new landscape, and most importantly new women. I'm sure there could be opportunities in South America with the right skill set. I went to Spain with minimal Spanish and spoke fluent after a year.

Granted it was only a year, but I found jobs, met people and did things where I was immersed in the language 24/7..the only way to learn it to fluency for me. Sure you can learn languages in your own country, I don't knock that, but if you have the means and the facility, live in the country every time.

Post: #11

(07-22-2011 01:39 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(07-22-2011 10:12 AM)KingAdam79 Wrote:  

(07-22-2011 09:16 AM)pitt Wrote:  Kingadam what dominican girl that lives in NY would like to find a guy to live with him so he can learn spanish? What would she gain from that? Thats next to impossible, it wont happen. A girl fresh from DR would be interested because she knows she could work, learn english or if she knows she could get some benefit that she wouldnt get at home then she may come.

I dont think the visa would be that hard, she is coming for vacation, 3 months stay, the immigration wouldnt make things that hard.

Anyway the best option i see for you is for you to go do DR yourself and approach tons of girls, fuck lots of them and then invite a "good" one to come live with you in the states for 3 months.

Agreed, Hence why this is a difficult task and why I posed the question on this board. I'm hoping that someone has a unique idea to make it happen. My thinking about NY was maybe an undocumented person, maybe a person fresh off the boat or someone that wants to move and get out of the city and needs a few months of no rent and wants to live for FREE so they could save some money. I've researched the VISA process and it's NOT easy for a poor single Dominicana women to visit the states. You basically have three options:

1) Marry / Get Engaged (K3/K1 Visa) $3-4K
2) Au Pair (Nanny) (J1 Visa) Cost $8K (Reoccurring cost minimal wage)
3) Unskilled Worker Visa (H2B Visa) $3-4K (Reoccurring cost minimal wage)

I'm gonna try to find a social circle but a Dominican in my state is like finding a four leaf clover.

- King

Does she have to be Dominican? Are you certain there are no Spanish communities in the entire state of Michigan? What about joining a meetup group for other people who are interested in learning Spanish? How about regular phone convo with a Spanish speaker or do you need to see her face to face?

As for being a Dominicana that just a preference. I know there are but it's difficult to just join closed communities without knowing someone that can bring you in. Joining a meet-up group is good but i'm looking for more. I don't thing that an hour or two is going to cut it. I need 10 hours or more a day. Phone conversation would be good or even Skype but it gets expensive and people sometimes don't have the patience to help someone over the phone for long periods of time.

Post: #12

(07-22-2011 01:48 PM)dk902 Wrote:  Certainly living in the country is a whole lot better...You get to learn a new language, a new culture, new landscape, and most importantly new women.

I second that.

I am not really sure I understand your whole point of jumping through so many hoops and complications, all for being able to learn/practice a language with a native speaker.

It just seems like you are trying to turn something that could be a lot more exciting and fun, into a complicated mess.

I am assuming that going to another country and spending a few months or even a year or two there is not possible for you due to work, money etc. In this case, find a job with companies already there. Most of the big companies from the U.S. have branches or full fledged operations in many South American countries so start looking at their career pages and see if you can weasel your way in to one of the vacancies.

If you are good at what you do and have a decent amount of experience, I am pretty sure any company would be willing to hire you provided you are willing to settle down in terms of pay as per local standards etc.

Post: #13

You are making this too complicated, dude.

http://portalmichiganlatinos.com/

That page is full of events. Go to one and mingle.

Post: #14

(07-22-2011 02:03 PM)KingAdam79 Wrote:  As for being a Dominicana that just a preference. I know there are but it's difficult to just join closed communities without knowing someone that can bring you in. Joining a meet-up group is good but i'm looking for more. I don't thing that an hour or two is going to cut it. I need 10 hours or more a day. Phone conversation would be good or even Skype but it gets expensive and people sometimes don't have the patience to help someone over the phone for long periods of time.

Dude, you just want to fcuk. Stop beating around the bush. An hour or two adds up twice a week will add up and get you up there in six months or less.
How would you do 10 hours a day when you work for 8 hours? Are you going to talk for the whole evening? Don't you have to run errands? Cook, clean and other shyt?

Hahahaha, you are a craven cat lolololololol

Post: #15

(07-22-2011 03:02 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(07-22-2011 02:03 PM)KingAdam79 Wrote:  As for being a Dominicana that just a preference. I know there are but it's difficult to just join closed communities without knowing someone that can bring you in. Joining a meet-up group is good but i'm looking for more. I don't thing that an hour or two is going to cut it. I need 10 hours or more a day. Phone conversation would be good or even Skype but it gets expensive and people sometimes don't have the patience to help someone over the phone for long periods of time.

Dude, you just want to fcuk. Stop beating around the bush. An hour or two adds up twice a week will add up and get you up there in six months or less.
How would you do 10 hours a day when you work for 8 hours? Are you going to talk for the whole evening? Don't you have to run errands? Cook, clean and other shyt?

Hahahaha, you are a craven cat lolololololol

HAHAHA LMAO.... Naw... fcuking would be nice but it's not my intent. I really want to learn. I have actually enrolled in a Spanish class at the local community college. I STRONGLY disagree with the 1 or 2 hours adds up theory sorry. Ask anyone that's taken 4 years of Spanish in High School if they can speak fluently. I think the only way to get fluent is to spend a great tell of time communicating in that foreign language. I hate to say it but it's obvious that you've never attempt to learn a foreign language and are not fluent. Again, When i say fluent I mean being able to talk to real people, I don't mean knowing the answers to some mock Rossetti Stone computer test. THESE WILL NOT MAKE YOU FLUENT.

Post: #16

(07-22-2011 08:20 AM)pitt Wrote:  p.s. Dont athlone things (avoiding approach), mixx it(approach)

Post: #17

Why the Athlone hate? If the dude doesn't have to approach the way many of us do to get his nut then power to him.

Post: #18

Athlone i wasnt hating, i was being sarchastic.

Yeah if you are happy with yourself then fine but if i were you i would listen to what torontokid and moma are telling you on the other topic, it will be more beneficial in the long run.

Post: #19

Spanish is really not that difficult as a language. You have some really quick ways to learn. 1) Language schools in Ecuador and Guatemala 2) Summer session spanish classes teach you basic spanish in 6-9 weeks.

As i speak several languages, i'll break down how to learn languages here.

First of all, learn some basics. You can either attend a college class or learn it on your own. Learn enough so that you know some usable words.

Secondly, get some major exposure to the language. You can do this with an Internet connection. Or conversely, start watching Telemundo or Univision. Watch some movies in Spanish, listen to some music in Spanish. And watch lots of YouTube videos in Spanish.

Then, you will want to take the next step and either visit a latin country or get some heavy exposure locally. The Detroit area has a Little Mexico.
Visit your local latino population, call your local maid service (always well stocked with Latina chicks) unless you live up in yooperland.

Getting a foreign chick works best when you both have an interest in getting to know each other. THAT'S how you learn quickly. Because you're dying to tell her stuff and ask about her. Some random chick WON'T be the same.

Post: #20

get a woman to live with you? im going to assume youve never actually had to live with a woman before and forgive this heinous error in judgment.

i think you should find a hispanic community and make friends and hang out with them a lot to observe. and mimic how they speak, then study on your own so you know kind of what theyre talking about.

if you want ask how to flirt in spanish and approach in spanish. just skip the next part of propositioning them to live w you.

imo some things should not be combined and some idealized fantasy of having your own personal whore who will successfully teach you a new language and you two will live together does not even sound appealing i have a headache just thinking about it

Post: #21

(07-25-2011 01:00 AM)hypesession Wrote:  get a woman to live with you? im going to assume youve never actually had to live with a woman before and forgive this heinous error in judgment.

i think you should find a hispanic community and make friends and hang out with them a lot to observe. and mimic how they speak, then study on your own so you know kind of what theyre talking about.

if you want ask how to flirt in spanish and approach in spanish. just skip the next part of propositioning them to live w you.

imo some things should not be combined and some idealized fantasy of having your own personal whore who will successfully teach you a new language and you two will live together does not even sound appealing i have a headache just thinking about it

LOL.... You are correct in your assumption that it has been awhile that I've actually lived with a women so I've forgotten about the headaches they cause. I'm actually gonna take the advice of a few of the fellow members and attempt to mingle in the hispanic community the issue is these please are like 2 hours away so its gonna be hit or miss and take alot of time. I also enrolled in a conversational Spanish class too. I'm report my success.

- King

Post: #22

LiveMocha.com. Get at it.

Post: #23

I am originally from MI (detroit) & I currently live in the DR so I am speaking from experience.

This is funny you are trying to get some pussy on some indirect shit.
Import a chick to MI just to teach you spanish, are you nutz.

I agree with the others you are making this way to difficult IF it's spanish you really want to learn.
There are much easier ways to learn it than importing spanish speaking chicks.

In love with the spanish language..I say BS this is not the first time you heard spanish being spoken in DR nor in MI.

There are a ton of mexicans in MI go to mexican village near the ambassador bridge and find you a chica to teach you, they just not a sexy as the dominicans...

But your idea does have some merit, I know a few friends here in the DR who did the exact thing you mentioned, except one thing the live here.

They found a decent chick and moved her in for about 6 months and did learn the language mostly domestic everyday shit like "pick up your fucking clothes", "where are you going", "I need some money" and so on, basically like having a wife bitch at you all day but in spanish.

To me it's not worth it.. And DONT EVEN THINK OF BRINGING HER BACK TO THE STATES... you guys really need to stop being simps.

1. The chances of you getting her a visa to come is slim to none after spending a bunch of $$.
2. If it does happen what makes you think she will stay with you for free, cause you offer room and board lol, if she is an at least a 7 here in the dominican she will have a ton of guys offering her much more than your free room and board in the states.

Basically you SOL, what probably really happen is you came to the DR fell in love with the women or A woman and now you trying to rack your brain on how you can have your cake (job $$$) and eat it too (sexy dominican chick to fuck uhumm I mean teach ya spanish).

If that's the truth just be 100 with yaself an admit it. lol


So you have two options.

1. Figure out a way to come to the DR for say 1 month min (3 months is better) for total immersion in the language (chicas) no need to move her in if you live here.
2. Buy rosetta stone, pilsmeur, live mocha, whatever, take spanish at the college, pay for private spanish lessons and learn spanish & watch all the spanish channels telemundo whatever, for some strange reason they come in clear than Muth#*$ even if you don't have cable, go figure.

But importing chicks to the states to teach ya spanish is a no go and gonna be a disaster.

PM if ya need more info

P.S. Don't listen to PITT he doesn't know shit lol.... he just speaking in theory. All his girlfriends are hoes just kidding. Sup Pitt!!!!

Post: #24

(07-29-2011 12:26 AM)txbeachbum Wrote:  I am originally from MI (detroit) & I currently live in the DR so I am speaking from experience.

This is funny you are trying to get some pussy on some indirect shit.
Import a chick to MI just to teach you spanish, are you nutz.

I agree with the others you are making this way to difficult IF it's spanish you really want to learn.
There are much easier ways to learn it than importing spanish speaking chicks.

In love with the spanish language..I say BS this is not the first time you heard spanish being spoken in DR nor in MI.

There are a ton of mexicans in MI go to mexican village near the ambassador bridge and find you a chica to teach you, they just not a sexy as the dominicans...

But your idea does have some merit, I know a few friends here in the DR who did the exact thing you mentioned, except one thing the live here.

They found a decent chick and moved her in for about 6 months and did learn the language mostly domestic everyday shit like "pick up your fucking clothes", "where are you going", "I need some money" and so on, basically like having a wife bitch at you all day but in spanish.

To me it's not worth it.. And DONT EVEN THINK OF BRINGING HER BACK TO THE STATES... you guys really need to stop being simps.

1. The chances of you getting her a visa to come is slim to none after spending a bunch of $$.
2. If it does happen what makes you think she will stay with you for free, cause you offer room and board lol, if she is an at least a 7 here in the dominican she will have a ton of guys offering her much more than your free room and board in the states.

Basically you SOL, what probably really happen is you came to the DR fell in love with the women or A woman and now you trying to rack your brain on how you can have your cake (job $$$) and eat it too (sexy dominican chick to fuck uhumm I mean teach ya spanish).

If that's the truth just be 100 with yaself an admit it. lol


So you have two options.

1. Figure out a way to come to the DR for say 1 month min (3 months is better) for total immersion in the language (chicas) no need to move her in if you live here.
2. Buy rosetta stone, pilsmeur, live mocha, whatever, take spanish at the college, pay for private spanish lessons and learn spanish & watch all the spanish channels telemundo whatever, for some strange reason they come in clear than Muth#*$ even if you don't have cable, go figure.

But importing chicks to the states to teach ya spanish is a no go and gonna be a disaster.

PM if ya need more info

P.S. Don't listen to PITT he doesn't know shit lol.... he just speaking in theory. All his girlfriends are hoes just kidding. Sup Pitt!!!!

Hey, txbeachbum

LOL.... We'll i'll tell you that i'm sincere in learning Spanish but without consent practice with human feedback it's difficult. I do practice each day but I lack the proper reinforcement.(Spanish class is in the works) Of course indirect pussy is good too. But at this point my desire to learn is far greater then pussy,i'd gladly take a UGLY chick in my house that is willing to teach me. As for the Detroit area i'm not familiar with it (I live in the East Lansing, Okemos area). I'll take your suggestion and check out the Mexican village. As for free OVER the AIR Spanish TV i've never seen that in LANSING, OKEMOS and EAST LANSING. I just bought a Roku for that vary reason it has a Dominican TV channel on it for FREE via the instant streaming.


(SEE BELOW)YES, This is basically true. Except the love thing, I want to learn Spanish so I can have more opportunities to smash other Spanish speaking chicks, POINT BLANK PERIOD! I also hope to live in a Spanish speaking country at some point when i retire. What's wrong with that

QUOTE("Basically you SOL, what probably really happn is you came to the DR fell in love with the women or A woman and now you trying to rack your brain on how you can have your cake (job $$$) and eat it too (sexy dominican chick to fuck uhumm I mean teach ya spanish).")

I'll be in DR, In Aug / Early Sept we should link up i'll buy you beer.

Thanks,

- The King