Post: #1

High end lounge bar: Im spitting game. Plenty of cuties....

Then I start talking to this middle eastern muslim chick. One of the hot ones.

She had these dark green eyes w/light green flecks. Pretty face and piercing eyes.

I just felt dizzy when I was looking at her and within 2 feet of her. Felt like I was drunk w some kind of homebrewed neurological cocktail. It was almost like I was starting a spatial distortion from a shroom trip.

But if I was at a distance, say 5 feet, I didn't feel anything.

I asked her if she was feeling the "energy" between us... and she was saying I feel the love between us (she had traveled to india and done the hippie thing).

Anybody ever had this before? It was def some kind of different and I've had mad hot girls.

So to recap, felt this insane dizziness when standing next to this girl when she was looking at me head-on- pupils dilated, first hit of a bong head-high style buzz....which goes away when shes not looking into my soul.

Weird as sh-t. Still can't explain it....

Whats your guys experience...

This was just an unreal feeling.

Post: #2

Interesting. Some people are into that stuff about auras and kundalini energy. It might be mumbo jumbo or there might be a kernel of truth to it.

There should be a game "X-Files" for weird occurences like this.

Could be genetics/pheromones.

Post: #3

...but did you bang?

Post: #4

(05-21-2016 11:23 AM)DVY Wrote:  I just felt dizzy when I was looking at her and within 2 feet of her. Felt like I was drunk w some kind of homebrewed neurological cocktail. It was almost like I was starting a spatial distortion from a shroom trip.

Possibilities:

A) You drank a roofie-colada.
B) You drank a roofie-colada.

Post: #5

(05-21-2016 11:23 AM)DVY Wrote:  High end lounge bar: Im spitting game. Plenty of cuties....

Then I start talking to this middle eastern muslim chick. One of the hot ones.

She had these dark green eyes w/light green flecks. Pretty face and piercing eyes.

I just felt dizzy when I was looking at her and within 2 feet of her. Felt like I was drunk w some kind of homebrewed neurological cocktail. It was almost like I was starting a spatial distortion from a shroom trip.

But if I was at a distance, say 5 feet, I didn't feel anything.

I asked her if she was feeling the "energy" between us... and she was saying I feel the love between us (she had traveled to india and done the hippie thing).

Anybody ever had this before? It was def some kind of different and I've had mad hot girls.

So to recap, felt this insane dizziness when standing next to this girl when she was looking at me head-on- pupils dilated, first hit of a bong head-high style buzz....which goes away when shes not looking into my soul.

Weird as sh-t. Still can't explain it....

Whats your guys experience...

This was just an unreal feeling.

Yes. Like being thunderstruck. This could be the "flow state" of game if it is reciprocal. Has happened a few times and each time, you felt that effortless sense that the rest of the world faded into the background, and there was only the two of you.

In a way, it doesn't really matter if it is some mystical shit, or just chemicals, it doesn't happen often, so why not savor it?

It is almost something totally separate from getting the bang. Of the two cases I remember, one was when I was travelling through Europe for the first time and I met this Swiss girl in Salisbury after checking out Stonehenge. She had amazing violet eyes, and we just connected electrically and immediately drifted off from the group, talking about everything and everything, staying up all night. A real "Before Sunrise" moment.



The tricky thing about this kind of feeling is that it is quasi-mystical, and can lead to a sense of having found "the one," which is the gateway to spectacular foolishness. I was ready to leave my whole life to travel around with this Swiss chick, and I thank god she was more practical than I was, even though it hurt at the time. She just said that she felt it too, and there was something special about it, but we really didn't know each other, and we both had lives to get back to. So we parted and just left it as a moment.

The other time it happened it was a girl who walked into a store where I was working who had that hips lips and tits look, Mediterranean skin, and a sprinkle of freckles across her nose. We both just froze when we saw each other, and even though I had no game at the time, things just took their course on their own. I boldly told her, not because I was bold, because I was in the grip of an intense connection, that she would have to break up with her boyfriend if she wanted to see me.

I was only 19 and she was my absolute personal ten. Voluptous, long dark hair, unstudied sensuality, flashing eyes, big tits. We started hanging out and it turned out she had some bucks, so we spent all our time going at it in her room at her parent's house. Her dad used to play for the Lakers and was a cool dude, and just sort of smirked at me when I showed up, or talked about the NBA.

They belonged to an expensive health club, so we would use their membership, and grope each other in the sauna and steam room. Should have been perfect.

Except here was the problem. In spite of the powerful nature of our sexual connection, we had absolutely nothing in common. She was as dull as a dishtowel, and it turned out her tits were kind of mushy, and that became a metaphor to me for her whole character. Nothing there.

She also knew more about cars than I did, and one time I found out she was trying to hide a piece of chewing gum in her mouth while she was kissing me. It created a sense of cognitive dissonance that can only happen when you are young and haven't thought things through yet. On the one hand, physically, she is your perfect type, better looking than any woman you have ever been with, and on the other, you find yourself dreading having to see her, even if her house has better leftovers than anything than has ever been cooked at your house.

Teenager Cognitive Dissonance Loop:

But she has big tits.

But I'm unhappy.

But she has big tits.

But I'm unhappy.

I was in a quandary, and was so inexperienced that I had no idea how you even break up with a girl, because didn't fooling around mean something, and wouldn't it hurt her feelings?

As it would turn out, her female intuition knew something was off, and due to a completely random miscommunication in a phone call, I was let off the hook easily.

Feeling obligated, and pressured by guilt, one night I called her, talked with her for a few minutes, and then said, finally, "Can I come over?"

She misheard what I had said, and said, "What? It's over?'

Luckily I had the presence of mind to drop my conversational thread and pick up on hers, "Yes. It's over. I think it would be best for both of us."

So, to get back to the OP, yes this is a real feeling, yes it is amazing, yes it is rare, and it may be mystical or spiritual, and it may not. Just remember not to do anything too rash because of it because you may end up married to a girl who drives a stick better than you.

Last note. Every time I tell a guy about how I broke up with this girl he laughs. Every time I tell a girl she gets mad.

Post: #6

I love the x-files idea, every now and then some weird unexplainable shit happens. Just last night i woke up in the middle of the night to find jizz on my PJs. Weirdest thing as I didnt have anyone over.......

Post: #7

@Debeguiled- yea you described it perfectly. It was like being thunderstruck.

Electric fields of energy sucking me into her and vice versa.

The weirdest thing was that when I was looking at her face, it looked like her face zoomed up to 3x dimensions (can't explain this either) and all my periphery vision dissapeared. This effect also made me feel a touch of vertigo.

Post: #8

Yeah, it's cool when that happens. Very rare. You gotta jump on that when it does.

Post: #9

Despite that connection* being quite rare (sometimes once in a lifetime) giving you an incredible high, making you feel like you've discovered "the one", I caution against anything more than a fuck-buddy relationship with chicks such as these for this is a classic borderline personality disorder tell.

*whether consciously or unconscious, this is a trap designed to ultimately bring about a man's demise as you are eventually devalued and replaced with the flavour of the month.

Post: #10

(05-22-2016 08:52 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:  Despite that connection* being quite rare (sometimes once in a lifetime) giving you an incredible high, making you feel like you've discovered "the one", I caution against anything more than a fuck-buddy relationship with chicks such as these for this is a classic borderline personality disorder tell.

*whether consciously or unconscious, this is a trap designed to ultimately bring about a man's demise as you are eventually devalued and replaced with the flavour of the month.

Damn this hits really close to home. I'm not sure if this insight is universal, but it would make sense.

Post: #11

Middle Eastern chicks are a trip. I've had a few random situations where I witnessed their spiritual powers take hold.

One evening last summer I took a walk and this chick stopped me and asked me for directions. I was a little on edge at first wondering whether or not she was going to lead me somewhere to get jumped and abducted by some jihad thugs but she put me at ease. Next thing I know we are walking around the city together at sunset. Some strange connection formed between us. Apparently she had just come to the country from some place I don't recall and it was her birthday. We jumped right into the deepest subjects. The meaning of life and relationships and what makes people tick. She wanted to stop walking so she could touch my face. Then she put her fingertips on my cheeks and started telling me some far out spiritual shit. We kept walking for a while before we split. A long hug and a kiss goodbye and that was it.

The strangest thing about it was how she popped into my world at that exact moment and had the conversation that I needed to have with someone. It was like god summoned her out of thin air to talk through my troubles with me and then she vanished.

I could have pushed for the bang, asked for her number, or any other tactic one would use on the typical broad. This was a different experience though, or at least that's how I have found myself rationalizing it.

Post: #12

(05-22-2016 08:52 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:  Despite that connection* being quite rare (sometimes once in a lifetime) giving you an incredible high, making you feel like you've discovered "the one", I caution against anything more than a fuck-buddy relationship with chicks such as these for this is a classic borderline personality disorder tell.

*whether consciously or unconscious, this is a trap designed to ultimately bring about a man's demise as you are eventually devalued and replaced with the flavour of the month.

Isn't this the fuckin' truth.

Post: #13

Yep, every once in a while it happens. Last time it happened for me I was at a conference in Miami. I met this stunning little black chick, and there it was.

I was in a LTR at the time, and that happening reminded me that I still had it in me and that was what I needed. The black chica felt the connection too, but she also had a boyfriend, yada yada - no bang.

But I dumped my 3 year, live in girlfriend immediately and never regretted it. Even though I never banged her, I'm forever grateful to that little hottie for waking me up.

Post: #14

It's unusually strong chemistry. The key is to just enjoy the rush, and make sure you don't confuse it with falling in love. When I was young, I thought that feeling actually was love. Now I know that love is just brain chemicals, so enjoy the rush, and even pursue the rush with chicks that have special chemistry. Just don't get carried away.

It is kind of amazing when a chick makes me feel light headed. I'm being a little cynical when I say it's just brain chemicals. It can make life take on a whole new meaning. The experience can make the whole world seem beautiful. Just remember it doesn't last forever, and if the girl in question is a slut, or is damaged, then be careful, and let her go when it makes sense to do so.

Post: #15

We are electro chemical beings. Chemistry is when the electro chemicals resonate and mesh with each other and communicate, have something to say! The soul is more electro than chemical.

Electric/energetic chemistery is normal. Women are typically much more attuned to this than men, who will might say they feel a warmth or just get a boner. But the woman experiences a whole lot more, she is like a dog who smells and feels a whole range of pallettes of meaning and is often able to read what they mean.

Men will often go into an altered state of consciousness, and not be able to deal with it and lose their bearings/head. It can be intimidating for men. Women can be just as much be intimidated by it, some people call it love, but that doesn't mean it is love.

Post: #16

I believe the French would call this a coup de foudre.

Post: #17

This used to be a woman's most potent weapon against a man, possibly the most famous historical example being that of Cleopatra.

Western women have been taught that such things are some sort of mix between barbarism and feminine weakness, which is no surprise considering that for a woman the ability to turn on this kind of mojo is their version of level 100 game.

Post: #18

(05-21-2016 11:23 AM)DVY Wrote:  High end lounge bar: Im spitting game. Plenty of cuties....

Then I start talking to this middle eastern muslim chick. One of the hot ones.

She had these dark green eyes w/light green flecks. Pretty face and piercing eyes.

I just felt dizzy when I was looking at her and within 2 feet of her. Felt like I was drunk w some kind of homebrewed neurological cocktail. It was almost like I was starting a spatial distortion from a shroom trip.

But if I was at a distance, say 5 feet, I didn't feel anything.

I asked her if she was feeling the "energy" between us... and she was saying I feel the love between us (she had traveled to india and done the hippie thing).

Anybody ever had this before? It was def some kind of different and I've had mad hot girls.

So to recap, felt this insane dizziness when standing next to this girl when she was looking at me head-on- pupils dilated, first hit of a bong head-high style buzz....which goes away when shes not looking into my soul.

Weird as sh-t. Still can't explain it....

Whats your guys experience...

This was just an unreal feeling.

This has definitely happened to me before. It was like the entire outside world faded away and I couldn't speak right away.

Post: #19

She might have been using pheromones. The science is without proof so far and I´d say my personal experiments are also somewhat inconclusive, but don´t count it out. On pheromones, I´ve had girls start smelling me and kissing the spot where I had sprayed, but I also had many nights where nothing out of the ordinary happened. I´m thinking maybe some brands or some types are useless, but others might have an effect, depending interaction with your personal natural pheromones.

Post: #20

(05-29-2016 08:09 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  I believe the French would call this a coup de foudre.

Or folie a deux.