Post: #1

I'm not good with groups of girls and social circles. One on one is pretty easy for the most part but I have a ways to go with large groups. With that being said, I made a thread a while back about artsy girls. I did some research and planned on hitting a bunch of hipster spots this weekend to finally get the ball rolling. Guess who I met the other day on POF? An artsy white girl in her mid 30's who loves hispanic guys and is a regular at all the artsy spots I looked up. She's a straight up hipster girl (volunteering, into the art/museum scene, those ugly thick glasses, etc)

This is my dilemna - I'm VERY serious about fucking as many artsy girls as I possibly can. My original plan was to try to squeeze myself into the scene at their bars/venues and work from there. The odds would of been against me because of how I look but I was and still am determined. This girl is already feeling me and its my fault for leading her on like I want a relationship and all that shit. How can I use her to snake me and my wingman into the scene and her group of friends? Fuck her and get closer? Play it cool with no sex and get introduced to everyone? This is a gold mine but I'm not sure how to do it. We haven't met up yet but we should later this week for some drinks...

Post: #2

Anyone? I know some playas around here can give some good advice with this

Post: #3

Hold off on any sex with her if you wanna get invited in to her circle of friends. With how emotional chicks are its best to play it safe in this situation imo.

Make a good impression and go from their. Make her feel like ur interested in the same shit she is.

Post: #4

I ended up fucking her but she still wants me to meet her circle of friends. I guess I should just play it cool and not fuck her again?

Post: #5

Quote:An artsy white girl in her mid 30's

Stop right there. Do you have any idea what you're getting yourself into? Is she divorced? Is she a single mom? Does she have any ulterior motives? If she doesn't have kids, you know her biological clock is ticking at the eleventh hour and fifty-ninth minute. Be sure to triple up on the condoms.

Quote:This girl is already feeling me and its my fault for leading her on like I want a relationship and all that shit.

Let me guess. You used beta bait. Well, just cut off any contact with her if you don't want to see her anymore. She is not entitled to your commitmet.

Just because a man treats a woman out on a date and buys her gifts doesn't mean he's entitled to sex, but by that same token, just because a woman gives a man sex doesn't mean that she's entitled to his commitment.

Post: #6

I've read online of these types of situations of banging a girl then getting introduced to her friends and banging them, but seriously I think it rarely happens. With most girls I've been with, if I had sex with them and then attempted to bang her friends it would be game over. The only time I remember it happening was in college. The only exception is if a girl is bicurious and I'm dating her, I have tried to go for a threesome with one of her friends. Some girls will entertain the idea others will flat out say no way.

Unless she is very open, banging her to get into the group, then trying to hook up with girls in the group probably won't work.

For the social circle aspect, this is my advice and what I do although it takes some time(few months). Join the same groups and go to the same spots as they do. If there are hipster bars, get one of your buddies and go to happy hour there once a week, get to know the bartender, and the regulars. Do it over and over again and build your cred, learn about the same stuff they are into. I don't bang a lot of hipster chicks so I have no idea what they like. After a little while you'll become familiar and they'll be more comfortable with you. It's a long term plan, but it does work if you put the time into it.

Post: #7

She has a 16 yr old kid and is divorced. At this point, I'm thinking about trying to get a sugar mama thing going with her. She's already told me how much she makes and I'm starting school in the fall...times are hard.