Post: #1

I understand this is petty question and I didn't plan on asking it on this forum . But I keep noticing this girl often looking at me in my classes 3 days a week, 3 months in. Because of this, this is a question that I am often reminded about. Very often when I enter class, am around her, or sometimes in the class, I notice this. Yet when I talk to her she is completely cold unless i catch her very isolated, in that case she will engage in conversation even holding up her end asking questions. I don't understand and I just want to get this bitch out of my head.

Post: #2

When in doubt, whip it out.

Post: #3

Clearly R_P's advice is the only Alpha move, but your problem is that you're to concerned with one particular girl.

A part of being attractive as a man is having abundance of girls. The more popular you are, the more popular you become. It's why chicks go crazy for famous celebrities. Now, chances are, you're not going to get famous at your school unless you take R_P's advice and whip it out.

That said, you could also just stop worrying about this ONE chick and think about some of the other 4.5 billion girls out there. Game doesn't work with a sample size of 1. You can't analyze 1 girl's behavior or reaction and draw conclusions from it because her reaction can be based on any of several hundred factors that you have no control over. Only if you get the same reaction from several girls after doing the same thing can you infer a correlation.

Post: #4

Guys often get so caught up with "what do I do?, what do I say?" etc to a girl that it's easy to over look some basic facts. Like that girls, especially younger ones, get nervous too.

Next time you talk to her see how long you can hold direct eye contact with her. If you can make her break eye contact first she'll be so into you it won't really matter what you say. Afterwards she's going to go tell her friends "I think RMT is so cute...but I can't explain why"

Post: #5

You're in college. Get some weed. Then the next time you talk to her, finish the conversation with. "want to smoke some weed after class?" And then escalate and bang.

And for christsakes, talk to other chicks as well.

Post: #6

(04-12-2016 12:13 PM)Running Turtles Wrote:  Clearly R_P's advice is the only Alpha move, but your problem is that you're to concerned with one particular girl.

A part of being attractive as a man is having abundance of girls. The more popular you are, the more popular you become. It's why chicks go crazy for famous celebrities. Now, chances are, you're not going to get famous at your school unless you take R_P's advice and whip it out.

This apparently works especially well if there's like cheese whiz dripping out of the tip when you do

Post: #7

(04-12-2016 12:23 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(04-12-2016 12:13 PM)Running Turtles Wrote:  ...

Now, chances are, you're not going to get famous at your school unless you take R_P's advice and whip it out.

This apparently works especially well if there's like cheese whiz dripping out of the tip when you do

Oh yeah! You gotta stand out. Also works if it's a weird color...

Post: #8

It's possible the girl finds you curious or interesting but doesn't want to be seen socializing with you because it would lower her status in her mind. Reminds me of an incident that happened to me weeks ago in which I approached a girl who was giving me a lot of eye contact over months, but when I started talking to her she would just answer briefly and turn her back on me. After that I completely wrote her off.

Post: #9

Next the bitch. She must find it cute that when you approach her she shuns you. Boom Bye!

Post: #10

I think ThundercockVeritas (nice screen-name by the way) is right. You have a status problem with her.

Soft next (don't engage with or speak to her for a bit). If possible, chat other girls in the class up and make sure she sees it. This is a "systems-based" approach in that it will potentially serve you it two ways: 1) It might raise your status in her mind thus piquing her interest; and 2) MORE IMPORTANTLY, you'll improve your game by talking to the other girls and one or more of them might hook on you as well.

Whenever possible, pursue these "systems-based" strategies, that are win-win for you.

Post: #11

There was a girl like this I knew in College many years ago. She had very interested body language and eye contact in class on more than one occasion. I ran into her outside of class once so I approached. She was very social and engaging until I made a romantic/sexual/obvious flirting comment and she went total deer in the headlights. I knew a waste of time when I saw one and moved on.

I learned later from a girl in her sorority that she was super into me, but every time I flirted with her it caused her hyper-religious semi cult-like upbringing to short circuit her brain. If I knew that was why she behaved that way at the time, I'm still not sure I would've acted any different.

Anyway, if you get a chance ask about her upbringing. It's possible she was raised very conservative and religious. Also, if there are any other women from her hometown/church/cult attending the same school you have 0% chance. Good Luck

Post: #12

Quote:Next time you talk to her see how long you can hold direct eye contact with her. If you can make her break eye contact first she'll be so into you it won't really matter what you say.

This isn't true. I do this all the time to girls and nothing comes of it. Not a thing.

Post: #13

Most women do not have the social skills that men have. They are used to the man entertaining them, and the man leading the conversations.

Ever hear a girl say how funny she is? Yet, she rarely ever contributes to the conversation. She thinks she's funny, because guys are constantly complimenting her, entertaining her, and making HER laugh. So she somehow thinks she is the funny one. I hate hanging out with girls, because they are so damn boring and lack any sort of social intelligence. If I'm not trying to fuck them - I'm not hanging out with them. Way too boring(probably why I can't stand to be in a LTR).

If she doesn't want to talk. Great. Fuck her brains out.

Post: #14

Honestly, try and use humor to break down her shell. But don't think about it so much. When you think about it too much you're coming from a place of reaction rather than action. make your move and she'll either bounce or react. It's better
to be on the offense than defense.

Post: #15

If she's cold around others and warm when alone, just ask her to meet you alone.

You'd need to do this to bang her anyway.

Post: #16

2nd What DannyAlberta said

Normal people have goals, smart people have systems