Post: #1

Hey,

Apologies if I used the wrong subforum, but it seemed correct. I happen to have a thing for grinding/doing "perreo" in clubs, and I was wondering:
What have you guys found to be the best countries/cities/specific clubs/bars in the world for doing this easily with random strangers?

Thanks!

Post: #2

Any venue in Southeast D.C. Thank me later.

Post: #3

Pretty much any club in N̶o̶r̶t̶h̶ ̶A̶m̶e̶r̶i̶c̶a̶ the Western Hemisphere, it's not like faggy/feminist Europe where people dance in "groups" or by themselves.

Post: #4

There are plenty of people who dance in groups here in NA too. Perhaps it's simply "easier" to break into those groups here.

Post: #5

I am one of these guys, I love that shit too, sometimes more than sex.

You probably want to go to Barbados Crop over (many parties before the crop over day and crop over is very sexual), Trinidad Carnival, Jamaica in December, lots of parties, California became big on those type of parties, it's really popular out there, New York summertime, one of the best parties I have ever been was a water party in NY, that shit was wild, grinding like crazy. In DR this is becoming common, less frequent than in anglo-saxon cities but if you go to the clubs in the hood you will see that a lot.

Merenguero care to name a club in south-east DC?

Post: #6

Some context and a few questions:
This stuff is not a thing at all where I live, I have therefore never done it with a random stranger in a club, only former GFs and fuckbuddies. I love the idea of doing it in a club, though. Waterparties or foam parties seem ideal. Some questions to you and anyone else open to answering:

1. Is grinding almost certainly still going to be very common in 10 years?

2. Is mid 30s too old to be doing this or totally acceptable? I am mid 20s now with good body composition, facial structure, hair etc and hope to maintain that into 30s, is it very likely I can still grind up some young ass in 10 years given that?

3. I am travelling to mexico this year, anyone know if grinding is big up there? I may visit Ecuador and Costa Rica too, but that is not for sure yet. Would love to hear some grinding experiences with those countries.

Thanks!

Post: #7

Being good looking helps a ton. You try dancing with her and the only thing she will base her judgements on is your looks and what she is looking for that night. Yes any club in the US is good.

Post: #8

(04-02-2016 08:03 PM)pitt Wrote:  Merenguero care to name a club in south-east DC?

I was screwing around. I have my doubts about this guy, but we'll see where it goes.

Post: #9

Puerto Rico!!!

Post: #10

(04-02-2016 11:01 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(04-02-2016 08:03 PM)pitt Wrote:  Merenguero care to name a club in south-east DC?

I was screwing around. I have my doubts about this guy, but we'll see where it goes.

You have doubts in the sense of suspecting I'm a troll? While I do greatly enjoy trolling in other places, this topic is intended to be quite serious. The fascination with grinding has been with me from a young age.

I have some additional information that would possibly enhance your view of me as a troll:

I intend to maintain a circadian rhythm centered around equatorial times(I have not been applying this yet), in such a way that I go to bed around 18:00 and wake up around 3:00, maybe I would shift it for an hour, to be able to wake up around 2:00. Quick breakfast, quick shower, head to club. I like the idea of orienting the circadian rhythm around equatorial times, since the fluctuation in day length in places further away from the equator makes consistency impossible if one uses it as a basis for sleep/wake times. Besides all this, I do not intend to touch a drop of alcohol, I would like to grind and bring home some girls(my standards aren't that high, lol, I have a thing for girls that are considered lower level by most), without damaging my physiology in the slightest. I strive towards maintaining a state of persistent bliss by modulating my sleep/wake cycle, diet, light exposure, movement patterns, and engaging in meditative practices. I have had some minor success with pickup inside my health/bliss-seeking context, but I have not tried the proper circadian rhythm thing(which is pretty much an inversion of nightlife times).

Now you know a little more about me and my aims with regards to nightlife/women. Either you sort of get and appreciate my particular flavor of strangeness(relative to the societal norm, I think any deviation from optimizing physiological function is insanity/strangeness), or I just confirmed your views of me just trolling(assuming those were the views from which your doubt originated).

All this being said, I'd still like my questions #1 - #3 answered.

Post: #11

Was a good troll but ruined it with the 30s question.

7/10

Post: #12

(04-03-2016 02:59 AM)Beirut Wrote:  Was a good troll but ruined it with the 30s question.

7/10

Who do you think he is? He's not Dash or Special Ed.

Post: #13

(04-03-2016 02:59 AM)Beirut Wrote:  Was a good troll but ruined it with the 30s question.

7/10

Why would the 30s question ruin anything? I'm guessing you are implying the average age here is around or above that?

Would appreciate you not being a dick and trying to stop my questions from getting answered by calling me a troll.

Post: #14

(04-03-2016 03:23 AM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(04-03-2016 02:59 AM)Beirut Wrote:  Was a good troll but ruined it with the 30s question.

7/10

Who do you think he is? He's not Dash or Special Ed.

Tbh i dont know anything about the usual people who troll on here so no idea.


Tip for the troll: you cant act totally dumb in one post then smart in the next.

Post: #15

(04-03-2016 03:35 AM)Beirut Wrote:  

(04-03-2016 03:23 AM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(04-03-2016 02:59 AM)Beirut Wrote:  Was a good troll but ruined it with the 30s question.

7/10

Who do you think he is? He's not Dash or Special Ed.

Tbh i dont know anything about the usual people who troll on here so no idea.


Tip for the troll: you cant act totally dumb in one post then smart in the next.

Ok, let's go with me being a troll then. If I can get answers to my topic as if I were not a troll, that would still be appreciated.

Post: #16

(04-02-2016 09:21 PM)LoftyCraneBirds Wrote:  Some context and a few questions:
This stuff is not a thing at all where I live, I have therefore never done it with a random stranger in a club, only former GFs and fuckbuddies. I love the idea of doing it in a club, though. Waterparties or foam parties seem ideal. Some questions to you and anyone else open to answering:

1. Is grinding almost certainly still going to be very common in 10 years?

2. Is mid 30s too old to be doing this or totally acceptable? I am mid 20s now with good body composition, facial structure, hair etc and hope to maintain that into 30s, is it very likely I can still grind up some young ass in 10 years given that?

3. I am travelling to mexico this year, anyone know if grinding is big up there? I may visit Ecuador and Costa Rica too, but that is not for sure yet. Would love to hear some grinding experiences with those countries.

Thanks!

1- Yes. Note that grinding is part of the culture of the countries that I have mentioned. This will be prevalent for the next 100 years at the very minimum.

2- Mid 30s still pretty young, I have been to few raves with a friend who was 42. Girls in those parties are just interested in grinding, as long as you are not an ugly fuck, you should be fine but even ugly fucks be dancing though.

3- I have never been to Mexico but I doubt that is common there.


Guys, his questions seems to be legit, if a topic does not interest me, I simply don't participate in it.

Post: #17

I'm with Pitt, I don't get the hate here. It's a funny newb type question, but a valid topic.

I dance perreo with Peruanas here in Lima all the time. With chicas I just met, chicas I've been dating, it's fun and high energy and they all love it.

The average Peruana is horribly lackluster at sex, so good perreo is a great method to feel chicas out as being a good fuck.

This is obvious for most guys, but it needs to be said. You're not going to get any perreo action at a salsa bar or any latin dance-specific venue. Discos that play reggaeton or venues that play EDM are what you want.

Post: #18

I'm always a bit confused about how to proceed with grinding. Not to ask a dipshit question, but does this mean the girl is down? Or do they just oblige anyone on the dance floor? Are you supposed to get hard?

Post: #19

It's similar to kissing. I wouldn't consider it a huge positive since some girls tend to grind with multiple guys in one night without getting escalation but it's not a negative from a guy's standpoint. It certainly beats getting blown off right off the bat.