Post: #1

I find it very hard to get sexual in conversations with girls I've just met. Its like there is a block.

Other guys do it no problem, but I just actually freeze and something safe comes out of my mouth.

I'm sure its just a phase I'm passing through.

I wonder how guys have become more comfortable carrying their balls out there.

tips?

Post: #2

Stop masturbating

Whenever I stopped for a while, I couldn't stop saying innapropriate sexual innuendos all the time. I didn't notice it until someone was kind enough to bring it to my attention. Like at subway when they asked if I wanted double meat on my 6 inch sandwich. I couldn't hold back. It made me feel threatened.

Post: #3

Ok Done ! Easy!

Yesterday at the pool - a girl arrives, trophy asian playgirl type, very very nice, and we say ' come in come in ' she says she doesn't have any swimmers, and I said 'you don't need them' she loved it. Could have been not spanking the monkey for a while. Definitely was feeling in a very comfortable environment for me with friends and it just came out my mouth - the best way - very natural actually. I surprised myself.

Post: #4

I masturbate all the time and it comes more natural to me than ever. I have been exposed to this kind of humor since I was a child (my father was somewhat alpha around my mother and other women, constantly making sexual innuendos and "busting"). However, for the longest time I couldn't get the courage to be like this around girls/women on my own. Around guys, everyone thought I was the coolest guy ever, I never held back what I was going to say.

What I do, is look for key words that people use and try to turn it into a sexual innuendo, as somehow they are making a sexual advance on me or trying to "pick me up" etc. If a woman says "It only took me 5mins..." I'll stop her and say something like.. "5mins? I bet I could make it last longer than that..." with some sly smile, raised eyebrow or something. If she says "can you help me do it?" I'll say... "do IT? Already? I'm not that easy! You've gotta fines me a little bit, I'm not a piece of meat.." You get the picture...

Two things...
1. Body language is KEY... you can say ANYTHING and have it mean ANYTHING... without the right body language it's complete shit. You'll come off as insecure if you're not congruent physically with what you're saying verbally.
2. Use this in small doses after at least 8-10mins of conversation, otherwise you might come off as a creepy, sex-crazed weirdo.