Post: #1

Hello guys
(no native english speaker here.. I'm sorry. you have to be patient! )
I'm very impressed from your forum, you seem like a nice community.

Anyway... I'll try to describe myself.

Short introduction about me and my seduction story:
I'm 25 years old, fit and I live in a hard country to pick up females (everyone says that).
I've never had a strong social life since high school and I've found my first girl at 20 y.o.
I had just two girls in these years and fortunately I discovered the seduction world 4 years ago (I read some books and some european forums).
I already tried to pick up several girls in street -mainly night game- (for almost two years) and I didn't received any good result (just 3-4 numbers and one kiss-close in a date). Yeah I know, it sounds (and it is) terrible!

I already read the "Roosh program" and about the "step number 8" I don't know what to say. Maybe I've some problems to make a link with the girls..
That's all, I need some advices or way to follow!

Thank you guys!
WL

Post: #2

-Lift weights.
-Talk to everyone and anyone to learn to speak well and have a sense of humor.
-Read the game threads on the forum to get a good idea of what you should do on a date.
-Don't focus too much on one girl and just report successes and failures in this thread so we can help you. Don't start new threads about yourself or about anything game related until you become better at game.
-Find a way to make more money.


Cheers

H

Post: #3

(03-12-2016 04:29 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:  1) Lift weights.
2) Talk to everyone and anyone to learn to speak well and have a sense of humor.
3) Read the game threads on the forum to get a good idea of what you should do on a date.
4) Don't focus too much on one girl and just report successes and failures in this thread so we can help you. Don't start new threads about yourself or about anything game related until you become better at game.
5)Find a way to make more money.

1) I'm already going to the gym and now I would like to add some swim sessions (1.78 m - 72 kg [70 in - 158lb] with low body fat).
2) I can increase number of chats with strangers but I don't think that this may help me: I have not problems to talk to strangers (males and females) when I don't want to seduce.
I'm very friendly and sociable.
However I'm here to improve my social skills so if you think that this could help me I'll start to speak with more and more guys.
3) yep!
4) You'll have my news

Thanks for the reply comte!!

Post: #4

(03-13-2016 02:09 PM)W Lion Wrote:  

(03-12-2016 04:29 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:  1) Lift weights.
2) Talk to everyone and anyone to learn to speak well and have a sense of humor.
3) Read the game threads on the forum to get a good idea of what you should do on a date.
4) Don't focus too much on one girl and just report successes and failures in this thread so we can help you. Don't start new threads about yourself or about anything game related until you become better at game.
5)Find a way to make more money.

1) I'm already going to the gym and now I would like to add some swim sessions (1.78 m - 72 kg [70 in - 158lb] with low body fat).
2) I can increase number of chats with strangers but I don't think that this may help me: I have not problems to talk to strangers (males and females) when I don't want to seduce.
I'm very friendly and sociable.
However I'm here to improve my social skills so if you think that this could help me I'll start to speak with more and more guys.
3) yep!
4) You'll have my news

Thanks for the reply comte!!

Good to hear, but the reason I put emphasis on that number 2 is because you'll need to tailor your game and be ready to make dirty jokes in general. I would say start putting "game" as we put it on the forum in a day to day conversational way.

If you can make innuendo/make people enjoy conversation with you in any situation, you will have the ability to naturally do that with women on a night out. I would also tone down any drinking you do so you're more cognizant of your mistakes.

Cheers!

Post: #5

Here I am guys!!

Dear players,
I read again some posts and books about Game and regarding the theory I believe to be okay but I find it too hard to apply.

About the Game unfortunately I've just two stories for you:
1. A recap:
I met this girl in the street two months ago. We went out together twice and the last night I tried to kiss her but she rejected me (she had a boyfriend).
Then I disappeared from her life and three weeks ago she started a chat on What's App. After that I asked for a date.
I was alpha as fuck, I wasn't needy but nevertheless she started to reply always with more and more delay and now she read my last message but she didn't reply (we should meet the day after tomorrow).

2. Birthday party: there was a nice looking girl that I already met some days before for few minutes. Unfortunately there was another girl between me and her.. Anyway, that night I was funny, I did a bit of kino, I danced with her (for fun). Two days later I contacted her to asked for a fucking date (always cocky and funny).. result? She didn't accepted or rejected and after a bit she started to speak about a "cool and nice guy in our campus" WTF? It was a shit-test?

What's wrong with me?!
I will continue on my way, but it's really tough and demotivating.

Post: #6

(03-23-2016 06:10 PM)W Lion Wrote:  Here I am guys!!

Dear players,
I read again some posts and books about Game and regarding the theory I believe to be okay but I find it too hard to apply.

Theory is fun and all, but that's the point. It's much more work to apply it. Less than 10% of your time should be reading theory, it should be mainly practice.

Quote:About the Game unfortunately I've just two stories for you:
1. A recap:
I met this girl in the street two months ago. We went out together twice and the last night I tried to kiss her but she rejected me (she had a boyfriend).
Then I disappeared from her life and three weeks ago she started a chat on What's App. After that I asked for a date.
I was alpha as fuck, I wasn't needy but nevertheless she started to reply always with more and more delay and now she read my last message but she didn't reply (we should meet the day after tomorrow).

How much were you texting her/how much after she texted you? How long were those texts? How were you being alpha(god I hate that word in terms of PUA culture, but lets roll with it)?

You clearly weren't interesting enough for her or were responding fast enough where she saw you as needy.

Quote:2. Birthday party: there was a nice looking girl that I already met some days before for few minutes. Unfortunately there was another girl between me and her.. Anyway, that night I was funny, I did a bit of kino, I danced with her (for fun). Two days later I contacted her to asked for a fucking date (always cocky and funny).. result? She didn't accepted or rejected and after a bit she started to speak about a "cool and nice guy in our campus" WTF? It was a shit-test?

What's wrong with me?!
I will continue on my way, but it's really tough and demotivating.

Plenty of girls have grinded on me and kissed my neck, made out with me, complimented me out the ass, etc. but I never got the bang from them. Simply put charge it to the game. You probably did something wrong as you're new, but it just happens sometimes because it can.

Realize that you going up and talking to a girl is the same is if a plain looking girl came up to you to flirt but you had hot girls lining up to fuck you. They have options better than you objectively speaking, but realize women don't run on logic(a blessing and a curse).

Running game is a way to show your high value that wouldn't come across normally just looking you up and down.

Adding a slight corollary to this as you asked what was wrong with you(which is a good attitude to take on this forum and in life). You're new to this. You were raised your entire life on romantic comedies and that by being a pushover you could get laid.

It's going to take time to adjust your mentality. So make sure to think in those terms and match up your appearance/life with that. You aren't going to magic into women and money.

So keep at it. Report back when you get more approaches in and a bit more detailed than this.

All the best,

Comte