Post: #1

I met a crazy idiot girl new to NYC. We"ve been texting each other. She texted me a lot of questions about what sports I like, what do I like doing, etc., like she was qualifying me hard, texting back andcforth for an hour.

She forgot my name and asked me what is was. I texted back that I'd tell her I see her. She then asked me if I forgot her name. I told her that I didnt which is the truth. She asked me what it was and I said I'd tell her when I see her. She texted me her name anyway.

She texted that she got out of a relarionship 2 weeks ago and wasnt looking for a relarionship. And said she was too busy working and that we may never see each other again. She said I seemed nice and that one day we could be friends.

I then texted back:
"do you think I'm looking for a friend? youre a weirdo."

She replied with:
"lol... good nite."

I never met a girl this stupid before. Do you guys agree with my last text to her? What do you think about all this?

Post: #2

She lost interest after seeing you and tried to soft next you.

Your answer wasn't important at this point, I wouldn't have answered and nexted her.

Post: #3

But what you said makes no sense because she was the one who texted me after we met., I wasn't the one who texted her.. On top of that she was qualifying me, not the other way around. So what you're saying doesn't compute.

Post: #4

(03-08-2016 02:18 AM)nidall Wrote:  But what you said makes no dense because she was the one who texted me, I wasn't the one who texted her.. On top of that she was qualifying me, not the other way around. So what you're saying doesn't compute.

You mean the texts were after the meetup?
I thought they were before.

Post: #5

This girl was probably trying to disqualify herself.
Doing really weird shit is a go to thing for girls with low self-esteem.
Shes just doing this shit till you give up, freak out or just get fed up and stop communicating with her.

Post: #6

You're in New York. She has a line of guys ready to fuck her. You said something or she simply lost interest because that's who girls are. Don't fret it and move on to the next one

Post: #7

My recommendation is always: Don't try to over-analyze it. Oftentimes the behaviour of Girls can't be logically analyzed and explained by certain causes. If you want the bang, then ask her for another meetup. If she refuses to meet you again, NEXT!
You did nothing really wrong, but don't get hung up with analyzing your text game.

When I numberclosed a Girl, I tell her:"I will call you at [insert specific time/date]." Then I don't contact her until my call. Sometimes I even turn my phone off in order to not feel the urge to textgame her. I then call her, set up a date and meet her on the date. In the meantime I don't run any textgame anymore. At first I thought, that "keeping them warm" via textgame is essential and necessary. I have tried out both for several months and my personal results didn't really Change. Therefore I concluded, that I don't Need to have textgame. I don't use Facebook or any social media. I don't use whattsApp, because I value my privacy and personal data. Since I am in my early 20s, a lot of People consider me weird for not using These Services, but I simply don't Need them. I write a lot of emails and when I Need to communicate, I call the People on the phone.

Cheers, shy.

Post: #8

Well just to let all you guys know, this bitch is japanese and brazilian. The reason I bring this up is because I've noticed a very strong pattern of behavior in the past with japanese girls that I've dealt with in game. I'm not alone in this assessment.

For some unknown and crazy fucking reason, japanese girls are highly flaky no matter how strong your frame or game is. My friends and I have had FAR better luck with girls from other asian countries. But japanese bitches are very weird. A friend of mine with top notch game had experienced this weirdness from japanese girls that even he can't explain.

Someone here said that japanese people hold this long historical hidden hatred/ bitterness with americans. I guess its that WW2 thing. Coincidently, this same guy mentioned the same behavior from these stupid idiots too.

From now on when I meet a jap bitch I'm just going to treat her like a piece of fucking shit that she is.

Post: #9

(03-08-2016 05:34 PM)nidall Wrote:  Well just to let all you guys know, this bitch is japanese and brazilian. The reason I bring this up is because I've noticed a very strong pattern of behavior in the past with japanese girls that I've dealt with in game. I'm not alone in this assessment.

For some unknown and crazy fucking reason, japanese girls are highly flaky no matter how strong your frame or game is. My friends and I have had FAR better luck with girls from other asian countries. But japanese bitches are very weird. A friend of mine with top notch game had experienced this weirdness from japanese girls that even he can't explain.

Someone here said that japanese people hold this long historical hidden hatred/ bitterness with americans. I guess its that WW2 thing. Coincidently, this same guy mentioned the same behavior from these stupid idiots too.

From now on when I meet a jap bitch I'm just going to treat her like a piece of fucking shit that she is.

Post: #10

Don't let your emotions get the best of you.
That's what children / women do.
I tend to do the same, I'm not at all judging you.

After getting some other notches, you won't think about this anymore.

Post: #11

I thought I lost guessaban with this one but odds are actually looking up.

Post: #12

(03-08-2016 05:34 PM)nidall Wrote:  Well just to let all you guys know, this bitch is japanese and brazilian. The reason I bring this up is because I've noticed a very strong pattern of behavior in the past with japanese girls that I've dealt with in game. I'm not alone in this assessment.

For some unknown and crazy fucking reason, japanese girls are highly flaky no matter how strong your frame or game is. My friends and I have had FAR better luck with girls from other asian countries. But japanese bitches are very weird. A friend of mine with top notch game had experienced this weirdness from japanese girls that even he can't explain.

Someone here said that japanese people hold this long historical hidden hatred/ bitterness with americans. I guess its that WW2 thing. Coincidently, this same guy mentioned the same behavior from these stupid idiots too.

From now on when I meet a jap bitch I'm just going to treat her like a piece of fucking shit that she is.

Japanese girls are flaky in part because they're not giving you rejections on the spot. This is too impolite for them. So them flaking on you later is them doing the rejection that wanted to, albeit 'more politely' in their eyes. So is the drawn out way she tried to reject you over text. Also you should've just texted her name when she asked.

It's true Japanese are quite strange as a culture, but you can learn to adapt to it. Just understand that screening is extra important to weed out time wasters They are more friendly and polite as a baseline, so it takes more experience to screen out the 'friendly' from the 'sexually interested'.

The last two paragraphs are simply misinformed, or worse -- absolving yourself of responsibility. You meet one and you assume all of them will reject you in the same way? That's not strong game bro.

Post: #13

If she's japanes Brazilian most likely she's 3rd generation Brazilian and culturally way more Brazilian than Japanese. Don't view them as Japanese. If you have no idea about them I'd say they are to Brazil what 3rd generation Chinese Americans would be to the USA.

Post: #14

(03-08-2016 05:34 PM)nidall Wrote:  Well just to let all you guys know, this bitch is japanese and brazilian. The reason I bring this up is because I've noticed a very strong pattern of behavior in the past with japanese girls that I've dealt with in game. I'm not alone in this assessment.

For some unknown and crazy fucking reason, japanese girls are highly flaky no matter how strong your frame or game is. My friends and I have had FAR better luck with girls from other asian countries. But japanese bitches are very weird. A friend of mine with top notch game had experienced this weirdness from japanese girls that even he can't explain.

Someone here said that japanese people hold this long historical hidden hatred/ bitterness with americans. I guess its that WW2 thing. Coincidently, this same guy mentioned the same behavior from these stupid idiots too.

From now on when I meet a jap bitch I'm just going to treat her like a piece of fucking shit that she is.

You obviously are inexperienced in dealing with young flaky women. Japanese is either none or a very small part of it and you're just flailing about for excuses.

Young women change their mind all the time:

Get a number....get a few texts, she disappears.
Get a number...get a first date and it goes well, and she disappears.
Get a number....get several dates...and she disappears.
Get a number...get a bang ( or two ) and she disappears.
Sometimes they stick around.

You need to read alot on the forum here and start trying to date alot more women.

You're getting way to bent out too shape about this from what any player who has experience collecting numbers and texting women already knows; They change their mind like the wind. It's something you're going to have to accept and deal with if you're planning on being in the game.