Post: #26

I've got some sympathy for her given the "mother of 4" part of this thread's title. From the article, the said "4" are a pair of four year olds, a three year old and a nine month old. None of them are school age and that nine month old is going to be screaming intermittently through the night, waking up the others presumably (if the others aren't routinely relocating from their own fucking beds to the parents' bed, which happens a hell of a lot.) Those of you who say you'd be able to maintain a normal or healthy sex life under those circumstances, all I'm going to say is this: try it.

From appearances this is not a career woman who gives zero fucks about her trophy kids. She's done the traditional thing we espouse on this website: she's a housewife who stayed home to look after the kids. While she may not be Maria Kang in post-baby terms, she has kept her figure together. Given the state of most women in the West at present she gets some major fucking brownie points for that alone, although I suppose that's a depressing observation on its own.

And I do think he has fallen down on his end. Why he's stopped going to the gym, who knows, but his pre-marriage picture had a distinctly feminine vibe to it already and I'd guess giving up the gym left his T levels to drop off at a cataclysmic rate. Maybe he stopped going when she first had kids and he was trying to help, or maybe he was worried about his job seeing as he is the primary breadwinner in the family; who knows. Either way, it's happened and he needs to clean himself up.

Having said that, I can identify the one aspect that more than anything else is likely to doom their marriage:

Quote:It’s like Sam and me: we tend not to talk about sex — or the lack of it. I avoid the subject, and I don’t think Sam wants to start a discussion in case I get upset. We both hate confrontation and would prefer to brush things under the carpet. When he does try to initiate sex and I refuse, I never elaborate on why and he doesn’t push.

If he hates confrontation, or isn't prepared to assert himself, then he's up shit creek. You can't have two followers in a marriage like this where it is the traditional pairing of housewife plus breadwinner. If your wife is a careerist shrew and self-obsessed enough to ignore you most of the time you can get away with the autopilot of numbly going to work, coming home, watching TV, and silently going to bed, but it's apparent to me she's expecting him to lead the relationship and she doesn't like the fact he won't speak the fuck up and tell her he's unhappy that they don't get to fuck anymore. If you say you love someone but you don't have the guts to tell them when you think shit is not working, I say you don't actually love them as much as you think.

God save us from people who mean well. -storm

Post: #27

That chick turned from 'cute college girl' into 'empowered career woman' edit...what she's a stay at home mom?
That dude turned from 'possible closet homo' into 'possible closet pedophile'

Post: #28

(02-18-2016 09:17 PM)Dr. Howard Wrote:  That chick turned from 'cute college girl' into 'empowered career woman' edit...what she's a stay at home mom?

Yup. I did a double-take too.

God save us from people who mean well. -storm

Post: #29

I wasn't expecting him to be the one crashing into the wall. Dressing like a hipster fag isn't helping the situation either.

Post: #30

Well fuck that assumption, she's staying at home.

Post: #31

I'd guess he has some kind of undiagnosed hormonal disorder.

Post: #32

In all fairness, his touch would make my skin crawl too. He looks like hipster lesbian.

Post: #33

Beta face evident in the before picture. Not a surprise that he thought he could get fat once he got a wife and it would be cool.

Post: #34

Gustavus just beat me to the Pat reference.

But here's the gif anyway...

Post: #35

I don't blame her for a minute. And I guarantee if you showed 100 women the before and after pictures, 99 of them would agree that she had every right to be turned off.

But suggest that a man whose wife puts on weight after marriage (wedding cake is fattening, blah blah) might need a little bit of help from Papa Pfizer? Hoo boy.

Post: #36

Sweet mother of god that picture makes me want to go to the gym right now.

Post: #37

Holy Shit! I thought she was a bitch when I read the article.

After seeing the pics I think she's a saint hanging in there waiting for him to lose 50 kilos and stop dressing like a lesbian.

Post: #38

It's been mentioned already as a possibility, but I'm prepared to say for certain that his hormones are a mess. His T levels are very low. Due to his extreme level of fat, he has very high estrogen. This is causing him to grow man boobs, and has given him the feminine features that make him look like a lesbian.

He has severe metabolkc syndrome, including fatty liver disease, and pre-diabetic blood sugar and insulin levels.

Due to these first two conditions, he js probably depressed, due to chronically low levels of dopamine. The low levels of dopamine cause him to drink heavily and eat for the dopamine boost they provide.

Even if she's willing to have sex with him, he probably can hardly manage the exertion to be on top, and likely has trouble getting it up at all.

He has pretty much destroyed his body.

Post: #39

That's the thing about the game, it's always playing, even if he's not.

Post: #40

When you're single, game is optional. When you're married, game is mandatory.

-some old wise man wrote that on ROK comments a long time ago, always remembered that one.

Post: #41

If you're gonna give your kids outside-the-box names, you and them better be rock solid individuals.

Don't name your kid something like Dilbert if he has downs syndrome. It just makes things worse.

In this article the twins are Pepper and Cherry. The last name is Halfpenny.

Can you picture that guy walking in somewhere and saying "hi I'm pepper halfpenny's dad."

I guarantee pepper grows up with some real problems.c

Aloha!

Post: #42

Dude looks like Chaz Bono.

Post: #43

I'm on a recovery day after 5 days in a row of workouts and I feel bad for resting now.

Post: #44

He must of been touched as a child. Something isn't right with him.

Even when he was thinner he looks low T with burdened eyes, very lesbian looking like Justin Beiber or Ellen. Something is off about his body language in both pics.

His weight gain in very feminine. Its not like he has a beer gut or just a fuck ton of crisco fat from working too hard and eating like crap. His skin is still doughy and youthful and his fat colelcts in his hips and breasts like a woman.

I find it amazing she is somewhat thin after pumping out 4 kids, nature does a good job keeping women slim if they have kids early. More amazing is how that low T dude could pump out sperm strong enough to impregnate her.

Over / Under 3.5 of the kids are biologically his...?

Post: #45

Can't blame the woman here.

Post: #46

(02-19-2016 12:51 AM)kosko Wrote:  He must of been touched as a child. Something isn't right with him.

Even when he was thinner he looks low T with burdened eyes, very lesbian looking like Justin Beiber or Ellen. Something is off about his body language in both pics.

Beta face.

Post: #47

Fuck this chick. This dude would be roasted by feminists if she got fat and he lost his urge to chase after her.

A. In marriage - a traditional one anyway - you vow to fuck each other. All of that better or worse, richer or poorer, good times and bad, etc. specifically refers to the vow to "have and to hold", meaning fuck each other.

B. Imagine if the dude came home and said, "After working all day, I'm too tired to spend my money supporting you." This is the female equivalent.

C. He's laughing with her and entertaining her, basically giving her everything she wants from a relationship, and getting nothing in return. Any decent person would admit it wasn't fair and try to fix it.

D. She's a horrible mother. No woman who callously ignores her husband's needs can be a good mother. And she's eventually going to be a single mother.

E. A wife should be cooking healthy meals for her family. Breakfast, lunch and dinner.

I blame this broad all day. You know how easy it is to get a husband to lose weight? Cook healthy meals and have sexual rewards for meeting weight loss goals. The weight is gone in 6 months.

Post: #48

When a woman says that her husband's touch makes her skin crawl, it's over. It's likely been over for a long time. She hasn't merely lost interest — she actively despises him.

Post: #49

Looking at his picture, I can almost hear Alex Jones:

DON'T YOU GET IT, YOU MORONS! THEY ARE P O I S O N I N G YEEEW! THERE'S ESTROGEN IN THE WATER! I just can't take it anymore, folks.

Post: #50

Aside from the hubby looking like a paedophilic lesbian, they both look like soulless, aged zombies. There is absolutely zero youthfulness in these 26 year olds, fucking scary.