Post: #1

I apologize beforehand if i made a new thread that already exists.
Okay so now to start.

So to begin with i had a very short but quite physical relationship (no bang) i had planned to make a LTR but it only lasted about 2 & 1/2 months. She somehow she got attached to me and continues to like me even though we're no longer dating. (I understand how because she wants me but I don't want her emotionally) Now on our last 'date' out i fingered her, then I didn't talk to her for about 2 days and then proceeded to break up with her.
Now, after about a month of not talking (her little bout after i broke up with her) she decides to start texting me again. Now at first it was the usual still emotional stuff, but time passes and she basically asks me to come back. My reply was ' I don't plan on dating for a while but i'm all grabs for a physical relationship if you know what i mean '.
I got no reply for a while, about 3 days, I assumed she decided to block me, just as I was about to delete all info I had about her (number, messages, etc, etc) she messages me and says yes to my offer. We made plans but both schedules are pretty hectic so not a lot of time. I've fingered her twice since that message and shes more than willing to Skype video chat with me. Not much time has passed since the last one and she messages me a lot.

Now my question here is should i Bang her and leave, bang and have a fuck-buddy, or just move on from this? Maybe just get something less and settle for that and leave?

On no circumstances do i plan to get into a LTR with her (again) but if its necessary for a bang i suppose i might. What i fear is that she has gone batsh*t crazy and just want me to bang her and make her have a kid but hell nah.

So have you all had situations like this?
Thoughts?

Post: #2

@ wisetell.

This should be in the NEWBIE FORUM.
You cats with low-to-zero rep points, low total posts & open threads about 'the one that got away' should heed this advice.

That aside.

By my count you've fingered her on 3 separate occasions & failed to get the bang.
How?

You left that crucial piece of information out.
Where you not in a private location? (ie. your bedroom)

You need to follow through, caveman her if you must.
Her underwear I assume is already off, you should be taking this all the way home.
Football analogy: It's 4th down & inches. You man up & power run that shit across the line of scrimmage.

Have her touch you, hold your dick, jerk your dick, suck your dick.
Escalate for both parties.

& buddy, hate to tell you, you're already in an LTR.
3 months is an LTR.

Have you been working other women in this time?
If not, do. Sex begets sex. Women can sense that you're getting laid & are far more willing to give it up.

Lastly I think you should limit your conversations with her. So far, she's the only one to have benefited in this LTR. You've already invested A LOT. & she's shown that she responds positively to an aloof nature.

Post: #3

I'm trying to figure out how you were in a physical relationship with a girl without constantly banging. If you have only fingered her 3x in 3 months, you have not established your desires for whatever you consider this thing with the girl.

1026 is on point with having her touch your dick. Sometimes, you just need to go caveman when a woman isn't making her own moves.

If you have a rotation, bang those girls out, and put the prude on the back burner. She is not worth your time if she is not satisfying your wants and needs. If/When you decide to hang out with her again, get the bang, and then go back to remaining aloof. From what you have said, that seems to be the most effective way for her to keep her on the line.

Post: #4

I didnt even think to post this in the Newbie forum i apologize.
Yes i was in a rather physical relationship, but considering the circumstances of both of us we have no time to/ no means. Neither or us has a car but we go to normally the same place on occasion. I have considered cavemanning it but there has truly been no time even though I try to make time. I fail to get the bang via time constraints by the way, and not in a private location because there are none available for which we can both show up at.
Also i never said that the 2 1/2 months was not a LTR but rather im suggesting that what im in now is more a Friends with Benefits situation.
I have Limited my conversations with her
The only rotation i have is hitting others up i have no means of currently hitting clubs.

Either way Thanks for the tips, I had always planned on remaining aloof ha.

Post: #5

Apart from what Remington and 1026 said you need to arrange logistics.
If that was the key issue in your failure, try one of the following:
1. A friends house
2. Ask roommates/parents to go out
3. Scout for locations which could be private (e.g. the park)

Arrange your logistics, make plans in advance and get the bang.
Once done, keep her as FB. You don't have the resources for more (from what I understand).

Post: #6

@Wisetell
How old are you?