Post: #1

kind of a vent..bumped into my exxx..but really it was almost about 6 years ago but we only went out for 3 months...everyone thought we were perfect for each..and maybe we were..anyways..due to me travelling for my job we didn't think we were both ready for a commited relationship..

just found out that the guy she met a month right after me..she married him

when i bumped into her she said she got married..blah blah blah...kind of made me think..sigh..i just smiled and told her i was happy for her.

feelsbadman

Post: #2

That she is still on your mind at all is a problem in itself.

I doubt a six year old fling with whom you were only serious for a three month period is worth anywhere near the level of consideration you're now giving her in your mind.

Post: #3

Based on my calculations that means she has probably been married for 4 or 5 years which means she is probably pining for some strange right now (if she is not already geting it from someone else).

Sounds like an opportunity to me.

Post: #4

It's okay to cry sometimes and re-evaluate your entire existence.

Post: #5

+1 Lumiere

Reading the response/approach of Shennie and then Lumiere, just made me realize the difference between beta and alpha!