Post: #26

I've been with three single moms they all had pretty nice, tight vaginas to be honest. Then a couple of weeks ago I banged this 20year old chick and it went something like this..

Post: #27

^^^
In other words, you likely happened to be with single moms who had their vaginas sewn tighter after delivering babies, as well as a 20-year-old who's had the sexual experience of someone 1.5 to 2 times her age.

on the bangs of course, but just wanted to posit an explanation.

Post: #28

Here is my sociological analysis of single mothers. This might be the game section, but we all operate with the framework of a society and need to be aware of what's going on in the larger sense.

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Some people have a very high need for drama in their lives. They feel empty if their world consists of just going to work and coming home to sweetie.

Single mothers generally fit this category. Most of them don't become single mothers by accident. They are the type of women who get into situations where they're the "victim" and constantly need rescuing.

What better way to better be an eternal victim that to get involved with a guy who won't support his own kid? What better way to make your life an endless soap opera?

That's a lifetime of sympathy, gossip, court dates, meetings with "counselors" and possibly even prison visits. It's like winning the drama lottery!!

Then when a "rescuer" comes along, these women start drama with him. Then they need another rescuer. Or, if they do find a good guy, they suddenly start picking fights with everyone at work. Or they end up with one of those imaginary "illnesses" that only women seem to get.

On and on it goes. The constant tornado of drama and crisis. For some reason it always seems to land on these women.

Years ago, society (i.e. your grandad and his pals) would call women like this on their mental and emotional shortcomings and label them "hysterics." We don't do that anymore. But we should, because kids are the victims of the lack of emotional maturity shown by these women.

Women have always loved soap operas and radio "serials." Society used to try to keep them from becoming soap operas themselves. That's no longer the case, unfortunately.

Get involved with a single mother if you wish. But be aware that more often than not it's like stepping into someone else's hurricane. Nice place to visit, as they say, but if you plan on sticking around, you better be prepared.

All this is spoken from experience, sad to say. You don't want to have to learn this stuff the hard way. The hotdog/hallway effect (which I too have experienced) will be the least of your problems.

Post: #29

(01-28-2016 04:57 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  Short answer is no. She knows she can count on someone coming along to help her pick up the pieces. Her impetuous nature doesn't always allow her to see a future as a pump and dump.

By now we all know they women blow up most marriages, for a variety of reasons. Men tend to be fixers, so unless a situation is unbearable we are less likely to blow things up. Part of this is because we have the ability to hit the reset button easier than women on average. Men are able to call on their powers of deductive reasoning to better understand the problem at hand. Because of her emotions, a woman is more likely to put her own happiness ahead of those of the family unit. She may start out with what she perceives is a logical argument, but before long it dissolves into her feelings. She is capable of turning her amicable nature off like a light. She doesn't "feel" the spark anymore. She loves you, but she's no longer "in love" with you. Most men will grind it out in hopes of turning things around until he finally reaches his breaking point.

The difference is by the time he has his mind set on departing it has been well thought, with both sides of the ledger taken into account. Since women don't play by those rules, there's less attention paid to the consequences for her hasty actions. Many times she doesn't even realize that her actions are sabotaging her own marriage.

She just knows she wants out.

In light of your post, I'd like to add that something I continuously hear guys on here say (in light of reflecting on their own mothers), that women love conditionally EXCEPT for their kids. Men thus, are the idealistic true romantics.

I call bullshit re. women even unconditionally loving their own kids. Modern Women love everyone except THEMSELVES conditionally. As men we know words mean nothing, even from other men, and actions are all that counts. Bottom line, is men's actions are typically more reliable, predictable. So when a women selfishly shit-bombs a marriage, it doesn't matter whether she knows or not she's hurting her own kids doing so. Fact is, she is whether she "wants out" or not.

I think many guys cucked in marriage prison just do so praying it'll help the kids. Think of the level of self-demeaning sacrifice it takes for HIM to put the kids first, before himself. Is the women EVER completely sacrificing herself JUST for the kids. Fuck no. A rarity that's <1%.

And it really should be akin to child abuse, life abuse permanently damaging tons of opportunities their kids would otherwise have for stability.

So not only is modern marriage a total trap for men, esp with some Round 2 bitch sporting another's spawn, it's the seeding grounds that grows the worst form of sociopathy currently known to humanity, that perpetuates most of the bad aspects of life we fight today.

Post: #30

(01-28-2016 11:01 PM)Rawmeo Wrote:  That's the word, "deseperate". This is why I try to look for single moms when I need a quick bang, and when I don't feel like running game and putting some effort.

You all got some good points there. I find that some single moms have cute bodies, but deep inside, those girls have no sense of responsibility and didn't care about the well-being of her child, nor her future prospects. They run on emotions rather than logic.

@DarkTriad I also do that. It makes the situation very ankward, but inside, the girls know that you're not wrong.

The ones who try hardest to hide the guilt of their morally damaging irresponsible solipsistic existence will typically pick 1-2 topics... like their kids, or career, and constantly drop little locate-points to lure you into their "accomplishments" in either of those two arenas.

Simple psych. "look at me, putting out so much energy to make life great for me and my kids." Naw bitch, your greatest level of value is your lowest common denominator. In this case, a shady lying untrustable twat that high jacked kid's lives for your benefit. Most of them should have had their uteruses removed.

It sickens me to think I've given such scum pleasure through sex. Wtf is there to commit to with these women? Not a damn thing. And no matter what story they spin about the ex being a bad guy, we all know it's a shallow one-sided story, the most damning elements of which you'll only hear by talking to their ex-husbands (for which I have before... the story always reveals the same extremely horrible beast we call westernized women).

Post: #31

(02-02-2016 03:21 PM)Ingocnito Wrote:  

(01-28-2016 11:01 PM)Rawmeo Wrote:  That's the word, "deseperate". This is why I try to look for single moms when I need a quick bang, and when I don't feel like running game and putting some effort.

You all got some good points there. I find that some single moms have cute bodies, but deep inside, those girls have no sense of responsibility and didn't care about the well-being of her child, nor her future prospects. They run on emotions rather than logic.

@DarkTriad I also do that. It makes the situation very ankward, but inside, the girls know that you're not wrong.

The ones who try hardest to hide the guilt of their morally damaging irresponsible solipsistic existence will typically pick 1-2 topics... like their kids, or career, and constantly drop little locate-points to lure you into their "accomplishments" in either of those two arenas.

Simple psych. "look at me, putting out so much energy to make life great for me and my kids." Naw bitch, your greatest level of value is your lowest common denominator. In this case, a shady lying untrustable twat that high jacked kid's lives for your benefit. Most of them should have had their uteruses removed.

It sickens me to think I've given such scum pleasure through sex. Wtf is there to commit to with these women? Not a damn thing. And no matter what story they spin about the ex being a bad guy, we all know it's a shallow one-sided story, the most damning elements of which you'll only hear by talking to their ex-husbands (for which I have before... the story always reveals the same extremely horrible beast we call westernized women).

Have to agree, vast majority of these single mothers(either via divorce or having kids but never got married), are a total, unmitigated train wreck. Its true that these chicks always have stories about how awful the ex was, making him seem like the devil incarnate, but in reality most of the problems are due to their own selfishness and stupidity. They all claim that the ex was "abusive" to them necessitating the termination of the relationship but any chick who wont acknowledge her own shortcomings in the failure of the relationship is a chick you don't want any part of and most of the time, these single mothers never take any blame for anything.

So pump and dump-yes, Spin as a plate-maybe but be very careful, LTR-fuck no, marriage- are you high?

Post: #32

So many variables.

- what are you looking for?

- are you making this clear?

- are you vulnerable (financially/emotionally/weak for her)?

- is she a ho?

- could she be a ho?

- do you have exits?

- is she in my social circle?

They have their merits, you can keep your game tight or are visibly not in the same status level as them. Not all single mothers are hoodrats looking for a free ride. They are hard to come by as well hence the general disposition against them.

I used to bang one single divorced mother who was very well off (dominated in court) and it was the simplest deal of sex until it ceased to be convenient (for the women: I was used)

I am inclined to be more agreeable to the theory of womens psychology in this thread and I think women can get carried away and have an inability to see certain things in the long term/take shit for granted.

What DOBA mentioned, I think, is the runner up prize to getting husband that she wants. The thing is, a lot of people will hate on it because it fits the narrative of a woman burdening a guy with kids. This is completely true and comes down to it but it's the guys fault for taking that shit if it truly is not what he wanted (brainwashing regardless)

Nonetheless (and I know all the above is inline with the thread opinion), I think it is regardless.

If you know she has a kid, it's on you to make the decision because she knows shes at a handicap. Single moms are easy pickings if your game is tight enough that you can dangle that carrot in front of her face for long enough for you to decide if she does it for you or not. Then that shit is on you.

If you know the consequences and play the game, then game on playa.

Post: #33

(01-28-2016 07:44 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

(01-28-2016 12:49 PM)Rawmeo Wrote:  Those who read a few of my posts know that I've been bitching single moms for a while on the forums, and on some other group chats, claiming they are "damaged goods". This post talks about real "single mothers", girls who had a kid outside of wedlock and leave the babydaddy after a few months. I'm not talking about widows, who are in a completely different category.

Whenever I hear a girl complaining about the trials of being a single mom, I act deeply sympathetic and then say "I'm sorry. How did your husband die?". When tries to explain that she's not a widow and that she dumped the guy, I act confused.

It's BRUTAL, but I can't take credit, I think I got it from this forum. Really helps them put their lives in perspective.

Brilliant! I had a single mother droning on about how the father of her child preferring his kids by other women. My response "So you're, like, part of an informal harem, then?"

I should say that she didn't take this well. No major loss for me, of course. Because, after all, she was part of a harem!!!