Post: #1

I talked a pretty hot Persian girl yesterday after a yoga class that we're both taking. I got her number and have exchanged a couple light texts. Should I try to meet up with her as soon as possible? I'm wondering if I should try to build some more comfort with her before going for the meetup. Our class meets twice a week, so there's ample time for me to do so. Also, I don't really want to just smoke with her and then caveman her, like I do with most girls. I'm becoming a little more LTR-friendly, and wouldn't mind actually getting to know her better; like I said, she's pretty cool.

Basically, should I go for the meetup immediately, or try to build comfort over time?

Post: #2

Strike while the iron is hot. If you take too long to build rapport then you might shoot yourself in the foot. Women receive interest on a constant basis. She could find someone tomorrow that gives her tingles.

Post: #3

(01-21-2016 09:50 AM)Remington Wrote:  Strike while the iron is hot. If you take too long to build rapport then you might shoot yourself in the foot. Women receive interest on a constant basis. She could find someone tomorrow that gives her tingles.

Texts are used to arrange dates, which leads to sex.
Remember that.

You seem to develop onities.
She could be LTR material. Still - do the same thing

Post: #4

Next time you see her in class suggest coffee after class, or if she has class, get together later that day. And to avoid oneitis, talk to other girls in the same class (in a friendly non flirty way)as wellas guys in the same class. Be social. Meet lots of people.

Post: #5

(01-21-2016 05:13 AM)Agastya Wrote:  I talked a pretty hot Persian girl yesterday after a yoga class that we're both taking. I got her number and have exchanged a couple light texts. Should I try to meet up with her as soon as possible? I'm wondering if I should try to build some more comfort with her before going for the meetup. Our class meets twice a week, so there's ample time for me to do so. Also, I don't really want to just smoke with her and then caveman her, like I do with most girls. I'm becoming a little more LTR-friendly, and wouldn't mind actually getting to know her better; like I said, she's pretty cool.

Basically, should I go for the meetup immediately, or try to build comfort over time?

Do you honestly want to bang this girl? If things dont turn out well, it would be a potentially awkward situation you would find yourself in.

i.e Dont shit where you eat

Post: #6

Be careful here, I'm currently going through it right now and it is not worth the awkwardness/headache. I met a solid 8 on the first day of my English class, immediately got her number and banged her the first night we hung out. Like you I was hoping hey this can turn into a little bit of a LTR thing till the class ends in May. Well it turned out she was a major hoe(always getting drunk, telling me about the dudes she hooked up with the night before, etc) so I backed off. Now I have to sit next to this girl everyday in class. Gonna be a long semester.

Post: #7

Quote:Dont shit where you eat

I'm thinking of asking a T.A. in one of my classes out for a drink. I got some decent eye contact from her and chatted a couple of times. Bad idea, though? She's responsible for grading some of my assignments.

Post: #8

This is a yoga class just go for it. Repercussions: none. Why should there be it's a fucking class. You would be stupid not to.

Where don't shit where you eat applies is work.

Go for a coffee with her after class and bounce somewhere better.

Post: #9

If the class were to meet every day, I'd say wait four days and game her in class constantly, but not disruptively.

Since its twice a week, get her number after talking like twice. Then meet up after class soon; Within the first week of meeting her, ideally.