Post: #1

Pretty self explanatory. The thread about guys with the worst sex lives was hilarious, but I feel like this thread would be a little more informative and inspirational.

Post: #2

Unfortunately, my friends don't have an RVF account to post with...
*ba-dum-tsssh!*

Post: #3

Dupe. Use search.

Post: #4

I have two friends who have more notches than me.

One of them is getting married and has been with the same girl for about 3 years, but before that he was plowing through girls. Nothing to brag about though, as the majority of them were 5's and lower which he admits, but he was strictly going for notches. Almost 100% from POF.

The other one is a young buck. 22 years old and banging strange on the regular, but I wouldn't say his game is better than mine, he just grinds a lot more and utilizes his (very fruitful) social circle. He is a good looking cat with a fun personality, but honestly a lot of his bangs are underage girls he likely meets through his little brother who's in highschool. Illegal and certainly low hanging fruit. The rest of his bangs are from Tinder.

Both of these friends are very game-aware and know how to play.

Post: #5

The #1 player I know:

- Top 10 % in looks. He gets approached regularly by attractive girls in clubs.
- When not drinking: social butterfly, can talk and banter with anyone and keep the conversation going indefinitely.
- When drinking: is a raging aloof asshole prone to bizarre behaviour. He was approached at a college party a few years back by a chubby chick. She asked him some questions and tried to engage him, he just remained silent and grinned at her. Then he poked his finger in the Michelin Man crease bulging above her skirt and said "What the fuck is that". She got mad at him. Later that night, she drunkenly put her hands all over him; he went home with another chick.
Another time he was approached by a cute blonde at a club who wanted to dance. He barely acknowledged her. I literally had to push him into her arms to send him away to the dance floor. 5 minutes later he's standing by the dance floor making out with a brunette that he went home with.
- Above all he's a guy with a curious mind. More introvert than extrovert. I think that enables him to have flowing conversations (when not drunk) since he wants to find out more about the other person. Always reading new books and researching new obsessions.

Bonus: I suspect he might be a forum lurker. He told me one time "I'll either marry a Polish chick and have five children or get killed in some South American shithole".

Post: #6

He sacrifices quality for quantity.

Post: #7

I don't really have any friends who get laid a lot. Most of them are either married or in LTR's and have never been big poon hounds.
However I have a couple of friends who do pretty well for themselves.

#1: You wouldn't think this guy did well, he's average height, bad skin, hairy, averagely dressed and not in shape. He's also stingy/cheap. However he is charismatic as hell and has a huge social circle. I can't recall one time I've been out with him and we haven't run into someone he knows. Many girls have told me that at first they didn't find him attractive but after talking to him they change their tune completely. He refuses to use Tinder or any online dating and completely looks down upon it. All his bangs come from social circle game.
However he can't keep a girl to save himself as he's basically a teenage boy in a grown mans body. I think girls are initially pulled in by his charm and see him as a "fixer up'er" but when he refuses to change they all end up dumping him.
His last girlfriend quizzed me about where I buy my clothes from in front of him, clearly a hint for him to dress sharper, but he didn't care.

#2: Completely different from #1, this guy is 6'4", decent looking and 100kg of muscle. He is also one of the smartest dudes I know but unfortunately has no ambition. Really into cross-fit and downhill mountain bike riding he literally has every girl in both clubs throwing themselves at him. In fact the girls at his cross fit club even worked out a pecking order for taking their run at him, it was incredible. He's the kind of dude you go out with and he doesn't have to approach, hot girls approach him. He does quite well for himself but could do better if he was more confident, didn't care about girls feelings and actively approached himself.

Post: #8

My mate is a very pretty boy, tall and genetically blessed.

No game at all, he just walks into a bar, and they chicks come to him.

He picks the best one, takes her home and bangs her.

He gives me the shits.

With his looks and my game, I could hit the 10s I reckon.

Post: #9

(01-21-2016 06:58 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  My mate is a very pretty boy, tall and genetically blessed.

No game at all, he just walks into a bar, and they chicks come to him.

He picks the best one, takes her home and bangs her.

He gives me the shits.

With his looks and my game, I could hit the 10s I reckon.

Where is that? In australia? Is it that easy if you are much above average looking?

Post: #10

(01-22-2016 04:45 PM)thecrazy Wrote:  

(01-21-2016 06:58 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  My mate is a very pretty boy, tall and genetically blessed.

No game at all, he just walks into a bar, and they chicks come to him.

He picks the best one, takes her home and bangs her.

He gives me the shits.

With his looks and my game, I could hit the 10s I reckon.

Where is that? In australia? Is it that easy if you are much above average looking?

Yes, I have seen it happen. If one is good looking/tall/ripped with at least 2 of the above qualities, he is guaranteed to have females approaching him. He just has to then engage and isolate.

Post: #11

(01-22-2016 04:45 PM)thecrazy Wrote:  Where is that? In australia? Is it that easy if you are much above average looking?

Yeah, but I imagine its easy in any country if you're 6'4" and look like elvis...

Post: #12

Bangs everything that qualifies as a woman under the son. A complete sleaze ball with no shame for the monsters he's shacking up with. He's still one of my favorite sons of bitches and a crazy partier as well as genius comedian.

Tall, glasses, constant upbeat tone in his voice that constantly makes him sound like he's cracking a joke at something or someone all the time, and if you didn't know him he would look nerdy or background noise loser at a club.

The second the bastard opens his mouth there's always some bitch laughing her way into his bed: hambeast or hottie. I hate how he'll bang anything, but I can respect him for his craft. I would put it as a first hand account of how game trumps looks every time.

Seriously all he does is make them laugh like crazy with sex jokes.

Essentially this:

Post: #13

Originally posted this in the "biggest red pill you had to swallow" thread

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I have an ex-friend who is pretty much the epitome of the alpha bad boy, almost like he's the Platonic form of bad boys everywhere that we constantly refer to when we talk about the poor dating decisions women make and how that has led to the dating culture we have today. The time period when I first discovered Roosh also happened to be the time when our friendship was at it's closest so it was almost like God brought him into my life so I could see first hand in the real world that the ideas I was learning about were the real deal as opposed to unsupported internet speculations. Of all the guys I've met during my life, he is the one I would say is the most successful with women. To give you guys a quick rundown of what he is like:

- Lost his virginity at 14 and has been banging ever since. Had a notch count in the 80s about 3 years ago and probably has hit triple digits by now. Maybe that doesn't sound like a lot to people here but for a guy who has never heard of game and never want to college (ie. Wasn't surrounded by hot chicks 24/7) I'd say that's pretty good.

- Was locked up in juvie as a teen and apparently was involved in some sort of gang and was listed in the registry for gang members in the police station of his hometown. Also has been locked up in jail for short amount of times in his adulthood.

- Is an amateur MMA fighter with the looks of one ie. Tattoos and exotic hair styles

- Never graduated high school and instead got his GED.

- Has never been able to hold down a job for more then a few months. Constantly leaches off of relatives and girls he's dating. I'm not talking just about bumming rides and meals (though he does do that) but I mean that a girl he's dating will move him into her home (or her family's home) and support him financially while he's sitting in the basement smoking weed and getting into shenanigans.

- What was more impressive then his notch count to me was how deeply in love girls would fall in love for him. For me that was a shock because I was used to seeing guys desperately moving earth and sky for whatever girl they were into. These guys were all stable, educated guys that were willing to put in 200% for their relationships, the opposite exact type from my ex-friend. They also got the exact opposite results from him.

- At one point he was juggling two serious relationships at once. One was the mother of his children who was obsessively in love him to the point that her dad actually had expressed to my ex-friend “I've never seen her be as in love with anyone else as you”. The other girl was the daughter of a rich Wall Street lawyer who had killed himself leaving her with a fortune. This girl would lavish him with stuff such as: paying for trips to Brazil for when he wanted to train BJJ/MMA there, getting him front row tickets to UFC events which cost 4 figures, letting him drive her car or giving him rides to wherever he wanted, baby sit his daughter while he would be out doing whatever he wanted among tons of other favors. My favorite story was one time I was visiting him at this porn shop he worked at at the time and him asking me if I was hungry. I said yes and he gave me a debit card and told me to pick up something for both of us. I looked at the card and it was his girlfriend's card. Besides these two girlfriends he would still be banging tons of other chicks on the side included married women, girls in relationships, etc.

- I think the word “ignorant” is trite and overused but if I did have to use it, it would definitely apply to him. Despite being Puerto Rican he for some reason hated blacks and would constantly refer to them by the n-word. He actually straight up refused to watch the NBA just because it consists of mostly black players. His reasoning for hating blacks was: “Ya know, they always sag their pants and they're just so hood and ignorant!” which was hilarious because of all the people I knew he was the most “hood” out of all of them. He also hated Dominicans for some reason. Funny thing is that the rich girl I talked about above is pretty liberal and has SJW tendencies but none of his racism seemed to ever bother her.

My friendship with him coincided with when I started becoming active on the forums here so it was pretty informative to have a concrete example of all the stuff we talk about on here in real life. I got to see a real life alpha Chad Thundercok type in real life as I was reading those types on here. I was a lot luckier then the rest of you guys in that I didn't have to swallow the red pill by being crushed by some girl and instead was able to mostly learn about it by observing the behavior of a real life natural.

Post: #14

Guy I know who gets laid the most is a late 30's 5'9" decent looking Korean guy in Seoul. He's extremely manipulative and is very good at convincing women to see him as a sleazeball that only they can reform. Makes decent money as a legal consultant and I admit he does sometimes sacrifice quality for a sure thing. Still, I've seen him bag 5-8's on a regular basis. Has an Excel worksheet with the number of bangs he's gotten and I had to scroll down on the mouse wheel 6-7x before it ended. Definitely 300+ notches.

Post: #15

We all have the friend who fucks anything with a vagina. One guy's maxim is : You dont fuck the face.

Quality wise I know a good looking guy who gets approached all the time. One girl came up to him and said, 'I like what I see.' He also spends money on drinks and takes girls out to dinner and dates. He is the perfect amalgamation of beta and alpha traits.

Post: #16

-Good looking
-Is into acting (surrounds himself with hot girls)
-plays in an amateur rock band
-fit
-isn't too fussy, bangs high quality gash but won't turn down a 6

Post: #17

My buddy who gets laid the most has no game awareness, but he has a huge set of cojones.

He is the most unpredictable, unreliable person you would ever meet. He cheats, steals, and is downright crazy but he is one cool mofo to hang with because he always has your back, especially when things get rowdy.

He was once married with kids. One night we went out and he meets this girl, he smashes it the same night in his car, and to make a long story short, he leaves his wife and kids to be with this woman. His wife and kids now live with his mother and his new gf lives with him. He continues to have sex with his wife and hooks up with more more girls than ever, some really crazy stuff. At the same time he has managed to save up enough money to buy a house and travel whenever he likes.

He approaches like it was a habit, he opens to groups of girls, all sizes and all races. If we go out dancing he'll engage in some small talk and then quickly take the woman to the dance floor, sometimes women will act shy like they don't like to dance but he pulls them anyway. Two seconds later he is kissing them and usually soon thereafter he disappears to either the bathroom or his car. Once this happened and I was left talking to two girls who were friends with the girl my buddy was smashing in his car, they were like, "where is my friend, where did your friend take her?" His at home girlfriend is usually blowing up his phone when he is out, after all, the night they met he was cheating on his wife. He always lies to his gf, tells her he is working (he works security) and couldn't pick up the phone.

I once set him up with one of my female friends who said she was looking for a "good guy." They went out one night for coffee. Then a few days later she said she was off from work and invited him over her place. He called in sick and took off to see her. The minute he arrived at her house he wasted no time and got naked. She claims "he was too aggressive", according to her, nothing happened. According to him, he was fingering her and got jerked off but no cigar. Anyway, she was bent on seeing my buddy again, she told me "he's definitely a player, he takes days to answer my texts and calls, I just want to sit down with him and explain why I wasn't ready to have sex that night." My buddy met her a third time about a month later, he hit it and split, to this day she wants to see him.

So long story short, the guys who get laid the most are the guys who put themselves first, they don't care about looks, they don't care about a woman's career, education, car, marital stats etc. These guys have a mission, and it's to have fun and enjoy life. My buddy gets shot down A LOT. He spends money buying girls drinks and being mr. nice guy - UNTIL HE GETS LAID!!! Once that happens he becomes a total prick. He lives for the moment and that moment changes every second.

One day we went to the beach and he went up to a beautiful woman who was putting sunblock on, after a few minutes he's rubbing sunblock on her back and she's doing the same to him. Women go crazy for him, he is aloof, and quite frankly doesn't care what women or even society thinks of him. He is now in his mid 40s and he is killing it more than ever. Lastly, I remember him being heart broken over this girl in high school. She crushed him at the early age of 17, it's like that one single episode changed him for life, after that one incident he never let a woman penetrate his soul or his heart, truth boys!!

Post: #18

Anyone noticing a pattern here?

Post: #19

^Looks matter?

Post: #20

^ Well, that and the pattern of the guys who bang the most chicks often having a wide spread, quality wise. That's definitely been true for a lot of the natural players I've known. The ones who racked up the most could get the hottest girls but were fine with banging the most rugged bitches (often while dating the hottest).

It has been true for me at times as well.

For a lot of these guys I attribute it to above average sex drive. For others it was alcohol, partying, and altogether don't give a fuck attitude. I was probably more the latter than the former.

As far as looks mattering, of course, they do. I hope this thread doesn't derail, but the whole looks don't matter thing is meant to mean looks don't have to matter for YOU and is no excuse for not succeeding with women. You can rise above it.

There are also stories in this thread about players who didn't look like much, evidincing that truth. No doubt it makes things tougher, but I think everyone knew a guy like that growing up or knows (perhaps even is) one now.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #21

I'd say the bigger pattern here is attitude/demeanor.

Not all of these "naturals" are male models, they just don't give a fuck and girls pick up on that vibe. They are confident, do what they want, and have a good time doing it. Women follow that lead and want to be a part of that good time.

Of course looks are important, but women are driven emotionally. Control her emotions and you've got it all.

Post: #22

(01-22-2016 07:53 PM)Hazaer Wrote:  Yes, I have seen it happen. If one is good looking/tall/ripped with at least 2 of the above qualities, he is guaranteed to have females approaching him. He just has to then engage and isolate.

It happened for me all the time in england, so i was wondering if in australia was the same.

Post: #23

(01-22-2016 07:56 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  Yeah, but I imagine its easy in any country if you're 6'4" and look like elvis...

It is not the same everywhere. I am very good looking myself, in england i used to be approached every time i went out at night, in italy i think it never happened. .

Post: #24

(01-23-2016 11:06 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  ^ Well, that and the pattern of the guys who bang the most chicks often having a wide spread, quality wise. That's definitely been true for a lot of the natural players I've known. The ones who racked up the most could get the hottest girls but were fine with banging the most rugged bitches (often while dating the hottest).

It has been true for me at times as well.

For a lot of these guys I attribute it to above average sex drive. For others it was alcohol, partying, and altogether don't give a fuck attitude. I was probably more the latter than the former.

Well - the thread title is friend who gets laid the most. I'm curious how people'd respond if they were describing the friend who fucks the hottest women.

G

Post: #25

Some of the posts in this unlikely thread have been surprisingly inspiring.