Post: #26

(07-02-2011 10:41 AM)Riker Wrote:  Dang she just emailed me saying her friend and her male cousin may come along too, and that she "hopes that's cool"

Guess I got a couple chaperones on this date.

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Post: #27

(07-02-2011 11:16 AM)Gmac Wrote:  

(07-02-2011 11:09 AM)Riker Wrote:  Yea it went through my mind, but the day is nice, I actually want to see one of the places I planned to take her, and her friends are cool (same 2 people I met at the bar, and they like me, though probably worried about her friend, or 1 of the two wants to cockblock, but I doubt it)

I emailed this back haha

Yea thats fine, just going to make it a little harder to kidnap you
thats all, haha

Let me know when you regret it later.

for real, that was some wack line..kidnapping her you know.

Post: #28

(07-02-2011 10:41 AM)Riker Wrote:  Dang she just emailed me saying her friend and her male cousin may come along too, and that she "hopes that's cool"

Guess I got a couple chaperones on this date.

This isn't a big deal, and quite frankly I'd expect them to come along. Remember you're some strange guy, in a strange country. With all the wacky movies and stories out there these days, they just want to make absolutely sure you're not a psycho. Just don't act like it's a big deal and they'll be out of your way.

Post: #29

Hey guys!

So the dude didn't come, just the girl with her best friend. Her best friend is a chubby typical american girl, the cutie (actually an 8 now that I realize it) is super cool! We had alot of fun and I lead the interaction pretty well hardly getting up in my head and just trying to be in the moment and saying what came to mind and whatever I found funny or amusing. It was pretty fun and I think she liked me but it was hard to get to touching her and talking too much privately since her friend was there but its ok I think her friend is on my side now.

We even passed by a sex shop and I suggested we go in and I teased her like hell.

Anyways when we separated she said she really wanted to meet again so that's cool. I'm going to wait till I get an email from her and just take it from there. lol I'm glad I did it though, this was my first "date" with a new girl in like a year and a half since I've had a girlfriend. Next date will give me less anxiety.

Thanks for all the responses!

Post: #30

Next "date" should be one-on-one, with alcohol. If you don't feel like you have a great chance to bang her during or immediately after the next date, I'd move on.

Post: #31

Snap a pic of her

Post: #32

(07-04-2011 12:29 AM)CJ Wrote:  Next "date" should be one-on-one, with alcohol. If you don't feel like you have a great chance to bang her during or immediately after the next date, I'd move on.

Yes. You also need to make an honest attempt to bang on the next date (which includes setting up the logistics that give you a good opportunity to do so) or else she'll assume you're a beta schlub and lose interest. Hot girls assume that every guy wants to fuck them so you might as well be the guy with the balls to go after what he wants. If she suggests another group "date" or anything that would make a bang unlikely then say no.

Post: #33

Hey the girl sent an email right after the date last saturday saying she had fun and went cold after that, we've had no contact till last night were she facebook messages... "Christian, do you know of any free tango shows?"


I gave her a quick response and didn't think too much of it. A friend of mine says its a sign of interest cause she re-initiated contact after this long on a friday night but I have my doubts. Anyways probably nothing going to come of this one but whatever. I'll probably posts pics down the road.

Post: #34

Hang out with her, and push hard for the bang. Doesn't matter who else comes out, use everything you've learned from Roosh to isolate and escalate. That email is like a last second miracle play that ties the game. You're in sudden death OT now, give it your all. GL.

Post: #35

Haha awesome, well I'm having a before going out the club party at my house today and I invited her group and they seem interested in coming. I actually told my homies that if she comes out that if she shows interest they have the green light. Not sure if I should take that back but whatever I'm done stressing!

Post: #36

couple pics for the fun of it

Post: #37

You offered her up to your friends? Haha.

Well good luck, she's a 7 for me. Cute though.

Post: #38

Haha the party never went down but yea I was planning to

Post: #39

7 for me too.

Cute but in a girl-next-door way.

Post: #40

Goddam, it makes me sad that you didn't hit that

It doesn't seem like you were that into it, like you had no motivation

Post: #41

I do but I just don't think I can get her to come out with me alone... should I try anyways, just email her inviting her to do something but to come alone? Just the whole asking to not bring anyone seems weird to me you know.

The other option is try and meet up some night we both go out to a bar or club at night and then try and bring her home after. She's staying here another month.

Post: #42

Why is it that whenever someone posts a picture of a girl everyone has got to give their ten-scale evaluation? It kind of detracts from the topic and I can't help but feel that some people intentionally give a low score in order to seem like they have some sort of superior standard.

Post: #43

(07-11-2011 10:51 AM)Riker Wrote:  I do but I just don't think I can get her to come out with me alone... should I try anyways, just email her inviting her to do something but to come alone? Just the whole asking to not bring anyone seems weird to me you know.

The other option is try and meet up some night we both go out to a bar or club at night and then try and bring her home after. She's staying here another month.

Riker, it's all in how you phrase things.

You don't ask her not to bring anyone, you tell her it's going to be just "you and me." This wouldn't be a problem that you would be addressing if you'd gone out along with her the first time, but now you do. Or if you want to avoid saying anything and make it obvious, have it be a date where there's no way she could try to bring someone else. If at this point she doesn't want to hang out with you alone, you might be in the friend zone.

Post: #44

Yea sounds like a good idea! I don't know what kind of date is something we can only do on our own but now that I think about it she's decently athletic and her friend is not so if I invite to go running with my dog (she loves dogs) to this really nice place I think if she accepts she'd be coming alone.

The thing is what if she asks if she can bring her friend or says she's bringing her. I really don't want to go through another double date like that and not make much progress. I guess if she does that I can be honest and say I just wanted to hang with her and she can take it how she wants to.

Post: #45

(07-09-2011 10:52 AM)Riker Wrote:  "Christian, do you know of any free tango shows?"

Brah, is she just looking for some free tour guide services???? I just read the whole story.

People, men or women, will use whatever they can to get free shit out of you. Some guys will tell you how awesome they are and how you're going to have the time of you're life when you hang out. Then they show up and all you get is scammed out of some Grey Goose. Am I right?

Don't let this girl shake her ass in front of you, just to get shown around town. It sounds like she's leading you to believe something's going to happen and you keep falling for it.

There's been enough interaction between the two of you that is awkward no contact has been made with your dick?

Now, she's welcome to walk the dog while you take a nap. She loves dogs.

Aloha!

Post: #46

Hey guys, just got this email from the 9.... well 8 now that I'm a bit over it haha

Hola!!
Kelly and I were just talking about you today just saying we havent seen you in awhile. how are you? where are you? we miss you.
Lora


I guess I should just hang out with them one night and have them help with social proof for other girls.... or go out with them with a buddy to help me isolate somehow. She seems really attached to her best friend though.... she probably has another month here before she goes back to the states.

Post: #47

Bang
Her

Nothing to lose.

Post: #48

If you care less now, your chances of actually banging her are probably higher. She's contacting you out of the blue, so that is also good.

If she hasn't had sex the whole time she's been in Argentina, then she's probably horny as hell by now. I'd use that to my advantage.

Post: #49

i stopped reading after "Hey cutiepie, whatsup?"

Post: #50

Hey players,

So I sent her this email

Hey Lora!

I've actually been living in the casino lately, I'm going to Rosario
to this tournament on the weekend yay can't wait. Hey honestly I
think you're really cute and fun, but its a little hard to blatantly
hit on you in front of your bff as cool as she is. If you want we can
do something fun next week though, without the crew haha

I know the exclamation mark after her name was better left out, and the yay was pretty gay... sorry guys I'm rusty. Maybe I shouldn't have been upfront about hitting on her either?

That email was sent july 27

Today the 16th I get this

hey christian,
sorry its been awihle since i have wrote back. i went to iguazu, cordoba and mendoza and now i am back in buenos aires until i leave for home. ha i didnt realize that you were trying to hit on me, maybe becasue kel was there aswell. ha i dont really know what to write on that subject. so on to the next, i hope you did well in the casino and are having some good times.
lora


She has another week here before leaving... idk I kinda want to throw the hailmarry and invite her over to my place to drink some beers.... the other option is meeting up at a bar.