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Competitive Sex
Have you been with a girl that says to you "my last (x) boyfriend was soooo big..."? If you have, this thread is for you.

Make a note. Sometimes you cannot thrill a new girl simply by banging the fuck out of her. You need to bring a special uniqueness to your fuck with her. You need to allow her muse to sing to you and be free enough to give her the special snowflake fuck she deserves... so that she remembers you. There is no remediation for a next date/fuck if you are not memorable in bed to her in a good way.

I see a lot of postings around here by guys who last like 2-3 minutes. This is not the way. You need to last at least 15-minutes after foreplay. All of the minutes after that are bonus points. Women who like and/or love sex with strong men also like/love orgy style sex. Be two to five men all at once to her one woman presentation... or hell... make her into three women in one session.

I am surprised that we do not offer each other sexual advice and techniques so often as we give out conversational strategies to defeat the female psyche. Working on the car and knowing how it handles is the next step. Some are obvious, others are foreign. But none are out of or beyond our intelligence.

Out fuck her last fuck. It's time to huddle up and discuss the plan.
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(01-04-2016 05:26 PM)Black_Eagle_Six Wrote:  Have you been with a girl that says to you "my last (x) boyfriend was soooo big..."? If you have, this thread is for you.

Make a note. Sometimes you cannot thrill a new girl simply by banging the fuck out of her. You need to bring a special uniqueness to your fuck with her. You need to allow her muse to sing to you and be free enough to give her the special snowflake fuck she deserves... so that she remembers you. There is no remediation for a next date/fuck if you are not memorable in bed to her in a good way.

I see a lot of postings around here by guys who last like 2-3 minutes. This is not the way. You need to last at least 15-minutes after foreplay. All of the minutes after that are bonus points. Women who like and/or love sex with strong men also like/love orgy style sex. Be two to five men all at once to her one woman presentation... or hell... make her into three women in one session.

I am surprised that we do not offer each other sexual advice and techniques so often as we give out conversational strategies to defeat the female psyche. Working on the car and knowing how it handles is the next step. Some are obvious, others are foreign. But none are out of or beyond our intelligence.

Out fuck her last fuck. It's time to huddle up and discuss the plan.

Nah I'm good. I'll do what I want.

If a girl ever told me that, I'd laugh, because I already fucked her. I don't care or give a shit.

It's a shit test, that's it, that's all. If anything maybe an insult to your manhood.

Correlating women who love sex and/or strong men to also loving orgy style sex is hilarious on its face.

Sure you can fuck her good and make her keep coming back for more, some bitches you just can't please.

So you move onto the next one.

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I was waiting for a URL to a landing page of dick pumps and stamina pills.
01-04-2016 05:39 PM
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(01-04-2016 05:34 PM)kaotic Wrote:  It's a shit test, that's it, that's all. If anything maybe an insult to your manhood.

Well... yeah, dude. That's the point. This is about getting past that "moment" and into the fray... in a good way. Nothing more, nothing less.
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RE: Competitive Sex
I've never actually dated a girl who claimed how big her ex's dick is. if so, it would suck, that's pretty damn rude.

The worst I've experienced is dating a LTR where we talked about our past sex lives, and she claimed she had sex 3/4x a day with her ex. fast forward 1 month into our relationship, and I'm not even allowed to touch her, or literally have to beg to have sex. This comes after she has had multiple FWBs, and an active sex life, but doesn't even want to give it to the guy who committed to her. That of course really makes you question your manhood, and yourself. I think whether its a FWB/LTR, if there is any comparison or competitive sex going on, I think it would be best to eject.

Simply not worth it when you can woo a girl, and have both of you satisfied.
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(01-04-2016 06:29 PM)Black_Eagle_Six Wrote:  
(01-04-2016 05:34 PM)kaotic Wrote:  It's a shit test, that's it, that's all. If anything maybe an insult to your manhood.

Well... yeah, dude. That's the point. This is about getting past that "moment" and into the fray... in a good way. Nothing more, nothing less.

This is how you get past the moment:

Agree and amplify, then tell her to describe her ex's dick, and then look down at yours.

Offer a comparison side by side photo, tell her not to forget girth, vascularity, and manscaping.

Then offer to have sex with her imagining her ex's dick is yours. See how she reacts.

If she reacts in a positive way, then absolutely lock her down and put a ring on it.

It's a great way to getting into the fray....in a good way.

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RE: Competitive Sex
Just have a ton of fun, do something new and exciting, and do not fuck up. You'll be fine. Play drums or guitar so your fingerblasting skills are on point.

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RE: Competitive Sex
Ask her if that's why her pussy is so loose and flabby.
01-05-2016 10:20 AM
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If that statement or something like it ever came out of a girl's mouth to me, I'd tell her something like this: "Well then you should totally get back together with him! I've got a feeling about you two." Bonus points for saying it the way a girl would with uptalking.

In my view, a woman trying to use dread game on a man (and that's what this shit test is like) needs to encounter a zero-fucks-given response.
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Why would i be worried about pleasing her?

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First of all, troll?

Secondly, she's there to please me. It's like blow jobs. What a gross thing, but chics love giving them because they're pleasing me.

Third, *as far as I know*, I've given women great sex by slowly caressing them and taking time to warm them up, and I've given them great sex by throwing them on the porch railing and banging the shit out of em.

I don't pretend to know the best way with every girl, the best way with most girls, or even the best way with one girl. Sometimes they like lovemaking, sometimes they just want to get fucked. I will make an attempt to figure a chic out in the moment, but it's not something to think about too much.

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Title should be: "How do I use game to compensate for a 2" penis?"

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Usually I'm the guy on the other side of that question. If women are comparing you in any way to their previous lays in a negative way you might need to step up your bed game. Often a girl won't do or say anything to compare me - her coming back again and again says it all.

As for the OP:

Quote:I see a lot of postings around here by guys who last like 2-3 minutes. This is not the way. You need to last at least 15-minutes after foreplay. All of the minutes after that are bonus points. Women who like and/or love sex with strong men also like/love orgy style sex. Be two to five men all at once to her one woman presentation... or hell... make her into three women in one session.

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(01-05-2016 04:56 PM)Gmac Wrote:  Usually I'm the guy on the other side of that question. If women are comparing you in any way to their previous lays in a negative way you might need to step up your bed game. Often a girl won't do or say anything to compare me - her coming back again and again says it all.

This post really wasn't about me right now. I got that sort of feedback when I was much earlier in the timeline -- in my late teens and early twenties -- until I decided to do something about it. This is the newbie area and I was writing from that perspective -- for the specific crowd. That's all. Guys need to sometimes confront such a situation and defeat it. Bed-game must be taken as seriously as social-game. That was the point of my post -- dick pills and penis pumps aside. We are here to help each other, right?
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(01-05-2016 10:20 AM)OneManWolfPack Wrote:  Ask her if that's why her pussy is so loose and flabby.

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The notion of sex being "competitive" or having to "outfuck" a girl's previous paramours is nonsense. Not only that, it's the beta male's idea par excellence.

The extent to which a sexual experience is memorable for a girl is determined largely by one thing: how much the guy is into it. Girls love to be fucked by men who love fucking them, and that completely overwhelms all other considerations.

I wrote a post about this which I'll reproduce in full below (the question in the OP of that thread was how to make a girl come but it's basically the same question):

(03-27-2015 07:38 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  IKE, this is a complex subject but here are the two things that should be held in mind at the same time:

-- Yes, it is very good to make a girl come hard when you're fucking her. And it is absolutely true that girls remember men who make them come hard and form a much deeper sexual attachment to them and become addicted to them.

-- But no, that does not mean that you have to spend an hour eating her pussy, or "making her squirt" (LOL) or trying to stick fingers into her holes in some particular way. All of that nonsense is useless and a waste of everyone's time.

Here is the key:

The thing that gets a girl more excited -- by far -- than anything else is when she is being fucked by a man who truly loves fucking her. When a man acts like a pig in shit -- utterly relaxed, and utterly absorbed in the joy of fucking the girl in the exact way he wants to do it -- something happens to a female which is unlike anything else. It drives them crazy and makes them wet and dripping and that is the source of the deepest and strongest female orgasms. It is not any particular technical skill or trickery on the part of the man -- it is his relaxed but savage concentration on the sheer raging joy of fucking and using the girl to his heart's and his balls' content exactly as he wants to at every given moment.

Add to this two more things if possible:

If you can talk sexually to a girl before and during the fucking -- if that is something that comes naturally to you -- that is a very big deal. They are suckers for language more than just about anything else, and they can come just from listening to a man if the man is very sexual and fluent and shameless. If you feel like it at all, talk to them when you're fucking them, tell them what they are and how you think about them, call them names, if and as they flow off your tongue. But this cannot be forced -- it must come somewhat natively, or not at all.

Finally, the girl must be taught to become an expert masturbator. She should be playing with her pussy in many different sexual contexts involving you -- when talking to you on the phone, when sucking you off, when taking cock in any hole. This is something she should just learn to do, and if you are fucking her with relish and delight and making her excited, it will not be a hard skill for her to come by.

Put these things together, and virtually any girl in the world can be made to come, and come hard. But the precondition, the thing that makes it all possible, is that you have to be very into fucking her. But then again, if you're not then you shouldn't care anyway, and shouldn't even be with her. So it all works out. Smile

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(01-04-2016 05:34 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Oh and also:

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I suspect a journalist looking for material or quotes.

The Total Frat Move podcast this week got the same question (17:30 mark, episode title Dating Apps Are For Thursday Through Sunday)

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(01-05-2016 10:20 AM)OneManWolfPack Wrote:  Ask her if that's why her pussy is so loose and flabby.

Winner.
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"Out fuck her last fuck. It's time to huddle up and discuss the plan."



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