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RE: Getting shitfaced in a bar tonight? Think twice: a cautionary tale
(01-01-2016 03:20 PM)N°6 Wrote:  Interesting points in this thread which have branched away from the diversity double bisexual rape murder.

The class differences in the uk is astounding. I take it that clubs which are at the continental level of female class are kept guarded by the British class system?

I wouldn't say the class system plays much of a factor not bars that are generally open to the public. I think it works like any other bar, as in it ends up attracting a type of crowd and that's just that. I'll take two bars in my town as an example. One which never charges an entry fee but has classy people and the other which charges on Saturdays and is quite a dive.

One that doesn't charge is quite small, gets packed easily but has expensive drinks along with a strict dress code. It attracts a higher class of people and has no fights. This venue looks amazing from the outside too, looks like an old gothic castle.

One that charges has cheap drinks (Sambuca shots for £1 etc), no dress code and multiple bars dotted around the place. It quite often attracts people looking for fights and is of lower class. Walking behind this place during the daytime it looks like a prison (high walls with barbed wire etc)

The only times I can think class plays a factor is members only establishments. These venues will typically charge an annual subscription fee on top of an entrance fee and will allow you to bring a few friends along to who will also pay an entrance fee. These places is where you will notice the real class difference. The guys there will be of a higher social class (as they feel it necessary to pay annual fee) and the girls will be of the highest quality too. These private nightclubs is where celebrities will hang out.

Another thing to bear in mind would be the age difference between the dailymail article and some of the pictures CBW posted. He mentions the four blonds are all in their 30s whereas the majority of the Dailymails pictures are of girls in late teens/early 20s. So going out and getting shitfaced is still new to them.

Our legal drinking age is 18 in England.

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(01-01-2016 03:52 PM)JordanH Wrote:  The only times I can think class plays a factor is members only establishments. These venues will typically charge an annual subscription fee on top of an entrance fee and will allow you to bring a few quests along to who will also pay an entrance fee. These places is where you will notice the real class difference. The guys there will be of a higher social class (as they feel it necessary to pay annual fee) and the girls will be of the highest quality too. These private nightclubs is where celebrities will hang out.

You are forgetting location.

I can tell you approximately which class a person is from depending on which suburb or bit of countryside around my city they live.

I've said this before on here but I cannot tell you the number of times that I still get asked by people, on first meeting, what school I went to. I'm 34.

It's a weird country.

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In the U.K. how often do men in a higher class marry down versus higher class women that marry down.

I probably already know the answer to that as it should be obvious in the anglosphere but i'm curious as to how prevalent it is compared with the past.
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I've just had a think about this.

The answer is no, not really.

You have to remember that class and finances are, although slightly correlated, two separate rankings of social status.

So you will find men marrying down on one category but not the other. And then only by one ranking (it's the easiest way to think about it although this ranking is obviously not real or discrete).

Women never marry down. I can't think of one person I know who has.

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The problem is there's this brief period of life in your 20's where you've got this moronic notion that nightclubs are actually a good place to go. So you put up with the horrid loud noise, chest-puffing idiots, women who look like they escaped from a bodyworks plasticization vat, and ten dollar domestic beers. And apparently now you also get murdered by immigrants afterwards.

Once you hit your 30s you get smart and go back to drinking the way you did as a teenager: house parties.
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(12-31-2015 09:50 AM)Going strong Wrote:  Tonight is the night when alcohol consumption will be at its highest, around the world: People will usher in the New Year with drinks and toasts, having fun, which is perfectly cool and traditional.

I can agree with the basic premise of the OP, but the example seems a little outlandish and is obviously an extreme incident, making it all but irrelevant to the advice you're trying to give.

Quote:But, even though 99,5% of people going to bars will have a great night and be safe, still, I'd like to tell of one recent bar story, that could serve as cautionary tale:

You said yourself 99.5% of people are going to be fine. And I'll add that the vast majority who do get hurt are going to experience nothing that even slightly resembles this example.

Quote:How the story goes from here, well, you've guessed it already Confused : the illegal Rwandan (Jean-Claude Nsengumukiza, who was just out of jail for rape, having served 4 of his 8 years, and should have been expelled from France one week earlier), enters the apartment with them, beats them up, rapes them during twelve hours, and strangles them to death. Confused Angry

This part really blew my mind.

We should have been able to guess it already that the scenario described would have led to a convicted rapist finaggling his way into the apartment, beating and raping a man and woman for 12 hours, and then strangling them to death?

Yeah, I saw that one coming... Dodgy

There are plenty of reasons for us to caution each other about going out on one of the year's most chaotic nights and even plenty more for cautioning against getting this drunk in public, but this example just comes across as fearmongering to me. We can encourage each other to make better, more streetsmart decisions without resorting to irrational paranoia.

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^^ That's my city.

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^ Take another look at that gaping hole.

I think you better upgrade to a bigger ball...

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(01-01-2016 11:55 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  ^^ That's my city.

Lovely isn't it?

Birminghan supposed to be one of the layup capitals of the United Kingdom, no?

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(12-31-2015 01:10 PM)Byzantium Wrote:  Rape has a strong association with a particular religion as well, which is why Sweden has "mysteriously" experienced a 1,472% increase in rape since the 1970s.

And sometimes both the race and religion factors overlap.

http://www.expressen.se/kvallsposten/sko...-fortegna/

The Grönkulla School in Alvesta closed after reports of a rape at the facility spread on social media. A Somali boy had apparently been sexually harassing a 12-year-old girl for some time. On October 17, he allegedly took his attentions a step farther, pulled the girl behind a bush and raped her. The girl's father had been unsuccessful in trying to get the school to address the problem earlier, but even after the reported rape, the school's management did not act. The boy was allowed to continue going to the school – just on a schedule different from the girl's. Her distraught parents told the news website Fria Tider: "We are being spat on because we are Swedish." In protest against the school's management, many parents, viewing the school as having sided with the perpetrator, moved their children to other schools.

I remember that story and it is good that Swedes have at least some sense left in them.

As for OP's story - it's another day in liberal EU migration paradise where multi-cultural romanticism should count for more than realism and common sense.

Vienna activists had a good take on the "refugees welcome" craziness:





Of course the couple should have had more common sense in the situation, but they will learn and be more careful in the next life for sure. It is also interesting that the perp raped both the man and the woman, but I guess being the one at the top does not make him gay.

Getting shit-faced drunk and waltzing around with strangers is never a good idea. Usually you lose your wallet in those circumstances but letting a stranger into your pad is just first-rate dumb - never mind, that he was a black migrant. This would not be wise with almost anyone.
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Two good reasons I don't go out on NYE: the roads are full of drunk-driving assholes and predatory cops are looking to bust somebody for a DUI. Chances are, habitual drunk drivers will get away and some poor schmuck who had maybe three beers is going to get busted.
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(01-01-2016 11:19 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  Or these girls (whom I know and are all over 30):

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(01-02-2016 06:14 PM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  It is also interesting that the perp raped both the man and the woman, but I guess being the one at the top does not make him gay.

I think this idea originated from some confused wording in the OP. It's not true; the girl was raped, the guy was not.

Quote:Dans la nuit du samedi 19 au dimanche 20 décembre, Julien Tesquet, 31 ans, et Elise Fauvel, 24 ans, sont morts étranglés à Rouen. La jeune femme, originaire de Dieppe, a également été violée.

The quote above says that the man and the woman were both strangled, and the woman was also raped.

I'm only posting this correction to make a more general point. If something about a news story, a study, a claim, and so on, seems very unusual, strange, or illogical, it's worth checking if it's actually true. Very often, information gets incorrectly reported, lost in translation, or is based on a single unreliable claim that is repeated by others without any verification. Use your common sense and a rough and ready instinct for likelihoods and orders of magnitude.

Another example was today's thread about "150" armed militia men supposedly occupying a government building in Oregon. This struck me as a somewhat implausibly large number. It's not that easy to organize 150 people for an undertaking. So I read further, and sure enough, the number of 150 was based on a single claim from one of the militiamen (who has an obvious interest in exaggerating the number), while an outside visitor to the site estimated the number as closer to 15.

These things don't matter too much if it's just a random news story, but it can be a problem when guys start basing their decisions or behaviors on some ill-reported, confused, or misunderstood "studies" and the like. Always ask: does it make sense? Does the number sound about right? Is this the sort of thing that would normally happen? And so on.

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(01-03-2016 12:39 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  I think this idea originated from some confused wording in the OP. It's not true; the girl was raped, the guy was not.

I'm only posting this correction to make a more general point. If something about a news story, a study, a claim, and so on, seems very unusual, strange, or illogical, it's worth checking if it's actually true. Very often, information gets incorrectly reported, lost in translation, or is based on a single unreliable claim that is repeated by others without any verification. Use your common sense and a rough and ready instinct for likelihoods and orders of magnitude.

Another example was today's thread about "150" armed militia men supposedly occupying a government building in Oregon. This struck me as a somewhat implausibly large number. It's not that easy to organize 150 people for an undertaking. So I read further, and sure enough, the number of 150 was based on a single claim from one of the militiamen (who has an obvious interest in exaggerating the number), while an outside visitor to the site estimated the number as closer to 15.

These things don't matter too much if it's just a random news story, but it can be a problem when guys start basing their decisions or behaviors on some ill-reported, confused, or misunderstood "studies" and the like. Always ask: does it make sense? Does the number sound about right? Is this the sort of thing that would normally happen? And so on.

Final tip: if you're going to read any piece of text -- a news story, an article, an RVF post, etc -- then, even if it means little to you, it's always worth reading with attention. It doesn't take that much more time, and it's a good habit to get into. Always reading with attention, and always listening with attention, is probably the single best thing you can do if you want to become smarter and better informed.

You are technically right, the newspaper says that only the woman was raped, but, the man was indeed found (partially) naked on the floor. So, I assumed that, logically, he had been at the very least molested, if not penetrated: what other reason for the murderer to get him naked? Anyway, it's just an unsavory detail in this very sad story, story that might have been avoided using some common sense (the obvious common sense of not letting a homeless stranger playing the Good Samaritan walk, at 4 AM, into one's apartment).
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RE: Getting shitfaced in a bar tonight? Think twice: a cautionary tale
This is but one example of what happens when you make women responsible for your safety. Whether it's your own personal safety or the safety of your entire society.

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I threw a pretty big party with some friends on New Year's Eve and boy am I glad that I hired a bouncer.

That guy was worth every penny I spent on him. Every fucking penny.

No randoms got close to getting in and he had my back on every occasion, letting me make decisions but already having the best solution laid out when dealing with each and every problem.

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This story is now at the heart of a vocal political clash between right- or center Right senators, and the extreme-leftist female French Justice Minister:

http://www.paris-normandie.fr/detail_com...ne-taubira

see here for details: /thread-50253...pid1194080

"«Comment un tel dysfonctionnement est-il possible ? Comment des condamnés pour de tels crimes peuvent-ils voir leur peine réduite de moitié, et être remis en liberté sans contrôle ? Comment une personne condamnée à une interdiction du territoire français peut bénéficier d’une réduction de peine alors que les moyens d’assurer sa reconduite à la frontière ne sont pas assurés ? » Nous l’annoncions dans nos éditions d’hier : trois semaines après le double meurtre de Julien Tesquet et d’Elise Fauvel, survenu à Rouen dans la nuit du 19 au 20 décembre, le sénateur-maire (UDI) de Bernay, Hervé Maurey, a interrogé hier après-midi au palais du Luxembourg la garde des Sceaux sur les conditions dans lesquelles le suspect, Jean-Claude Nsengumukiza, était libre et sur le territoire français, alors qu’il aurait dû être expulsé dans son pays d’origine après avoir purgé une peine de huit années d’emprisonnement pour viol"

Also, related to my thread is this one: /thread-53039.html (story of yet another incautious Western woman inviting at night an illegal migrant to her flat and getting murdered)
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That picture of Merkel, Putin and his dog is priceless. I love that look on his face.

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