Post: #126

Damn I said sweep the leg not break it off and beat him with it!

This guy has some fire he just needs to direct. Those Counterstrike guys are extremely competitive and driven. They just waste their energy on Counterstrike.

Hey is your warning at 80% now?

I think you should put Going Strong on ignore. He seems like a good guy with good info, he obviously enjoys riling you up though.

Post: #127

(12-20-2015 04:24 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

(12-20-2015 04:20 PM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  For sure. I was so much happier when I had alot of male friends, even during the time I didnt get no pussy at all. No friendship seriously drags ur self esteem down the shitter.

You like lifting and are athletic. Repeat what you did in your teens with Counterstrike friends. Just do it now with a local sports league, martial arts, or outdoor clubs. Easy fix.

Instead of hanging out at the internet game room you will be at the gym, field, or out on a trip with people.

You sound like you enjoy team competition and comraderie. A sports league like rugby or hockey may be your best best.

I used to love competition even since a kid. I played soccer, hockey and I won some district championships in judo.
The thing I liked the most when I was a kid was to fight other kids, I loved teenage mutant ninja turtles and other fighting movies.

So yes, competition is huge for me, thats probably why I was so drawn to counter-strike when spending lots of time infront of the comp.

Most likely I will start school again 8 months from now, I will make sure to join martial arts aswell as a team sport in the new town.

Post: #128

(12-20-2015 04:27 PM)Travesty Wrote:  Damn I said sweep the leg not break it off and beat him with it!

This guy has some fire he just needs to direct. Those Counterstrike guys are extremely competitive and driven. They just waste their energy on Counterstrike.

Hey is your warning at 80% now?

I think you should put Going Strong on ignore. He seems like a good guy with good info, he obviously enjoys riling you up though.

He is on ignore now. Warning is 0% it says.

Post: #129

Yeah if you are the competitive type that is something that non competitive guys will never understand. That is a need to be happy that rivals sex drive.

Get a loan from your parents and go to a martial arts gym or sign up for a local sports league literally today or tomorrow. No reason to wait 8 months. Maybe after joining either you could find a part time job associated with one after you get involved.

This is one of those make or break moments where you need to force yourself to do this now today. Not wait.

Post: #130

(12-20-2015 04:34 PM)Travesty Wrote:  Yeah if you are the competitive type that is something that non competitive guys will never understand. That is a need to be happy that rivals sex drive.

What exactly does that mean?

Post: #131

If a guy is competitive he needs to compete to be happy, just like guys have a need for sex to be happy.

For many competitive guys that competitive drive is very strong and has an extremely large need to be satisfied.

Post: #132

(12-20-2015 04:59 PM)Travesty Wrote:  If a guy is competitive he needs to compete to be happy, just like guys have a need for sex to be happy.

For many competitive guys that competitive drive is very strong and has an extremely large need to be satisfied.

Lol what you say is so true. Maybe Its related to sex-drive aswell. Lately I havent even felt much of a sex drive, so I started asking myself if maybe I have low testosterone.

This might be due to the very fact I dont do shit (other than gym, usually alone). Competition seems to boost my happyness and my sexdrive, It seems like they are all connected somehow.

Post: #133

Bootcamp Fix Your Social Life:

1. Join a gym and lift
2. Join some martial arts or team sport
3. Go back to university
4. Travel to a non Western country for at least a month
5. While travelling get used to going out alone
6. Get a job in a cool business (small, upstart, has girls)
7. ???
8. Profit

Post: #134

(12-20-2015 04:16 PM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  

(12-20-2015 01:09 PM)Going strong Wrote:  

(12-20-2015 10:46 AM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  For fuck sake Im no god damn troll, what the fuck is even this to troll about? If you are so convinced well then dont fucking answer or just remove my damn thread then, fucking idiot

To begin with, I am not the forum moderator, so I can't remove your thread, obviously. Or were you actually insulting not me, but the forum moderator?

In both cases, it makes you a, I quote, "fucking idiot" yourself: either thinking that a simple forum member can remove a thread, or by insulting the forum moderator.

Also, you might be "depressed and feeling lost and weak", but you do have some big foul-mouth on you, dude!

Ah, to Travesty and even Phoenix:

You are wrong to give this OP credit for his (virtual) show of "anger". Because, his show of anger is just that: purely virtual. It's internet virtual bravery.

Calling me over the internet, "a fucking idiot", do you think it shows that "OP has balls and is starting to fight back"?

No. It would be commendable (in some way) if OP were to try and tell me that in-real-life. But, insulting someone that lives thousand of miles away, over the internet, it's not "valuable anger", it's female, coward aggressiveness.

To end the matter: OP, congratulations, you've made it to the list of people who have insulted me over the internet. Curiously though, none of these people ever asked to meet me in real life... Funny how internet warriors become very shy when it comes to actually meeting people in real life...

Dude get the fuck off my nuts, reading half that shit painfully reminded me of my mother - and my mother is a pain in the ass. Now I love my mother, but I dont love you, and you also seem to be a pain in the ass - I used to be an internet warrior in my teens and quite frankly I was darn good at it, but If you wanna keep arguing about nonsense I suggest you go join some jezbel forum since the estrogen dominated creatures on there seem to enjoy wasting time on completely useless bullshit, thanks and good bye.

I accused you of being kind of an internet warrior, and you replied by saying: be careful, I'm a darn good internet warrior! Strange rebuttal...

More importantly, dude, learn this: a real man does not disrespect his mother in public.

You might think that your mother is "a pain in the ass", but keep it to yourself or your close family circle. Never utter this (insulting) opinion about your mother in front of strangers.

One other thing: Your mother, you said, is "a pain in the ass"? How about being thankful to her instead, kid? Because, from your own admission, she provides you, at 27 years of age, with free hosting and food.

One should always be grateful with people who give away free hosting and food, especially as the law does not force them to do so: do you know that by law, your parents do not have to give you free accommodation and food, at your age? So, be grateful to them. Dude, so much is wrong in your personality... I give up on trying to give you real-life, concrete advice (as I did on this thread, only to be rewarded with childish outbursts and insults). (Actually, I bet you are 17 and absolutely not 27, but, never mind, I'm out of this thread)

Post: #135

(12-20-2015 05:06 PM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  Lol what you say is so true. Maybe Its related to sex-drive aswell. Lately I havent even felt much of a sex drive, so I started asking myself if maybe I have low testosterone.

This might be due to the very fact I dont do shit (other than gym, usually alone). Competition seems to boost my happyness and my sexdrive, It seems like they are all connected somehow.

A more direct solution - quit porn for 90 days.

You don't need to go no fap completely. Should probably restrict it to one day a week, though.

Post: #136

Guys - the problems of one man in tandem with the entirety of his different physical body, entire family history, entire life story, influence of family, heritage, race, country, religion - all of it creates an environment that no one of us can imagine how tough it really is or not.

What I mean by that is that we do not even know if you were in the exact same position as OP, whether you would be doing much better. Problems are different for everyone despite being quite similar on the surface.

Sure - OP has a lot going for him on the surface, but that does not mean that his challanges are not real or easy. Even movie starts who have everything like looks, money, easy unlimited pussy commit suicide or go into years of drug-abuse, because their difficulties are their to master. Kids of billionaires sometimes walk the same path and their challange is to stay off drugs and make something out of their life instead of becoming a coke-head slacker.

Of course some people have it infinitely easier, but even they have things to master in their lives despite what everyone sees on the outside. Lucky bastards commit suicide every day of the week - and OP is nowhere near in circumstances to those ones.

Post: #137

Alright guys, seems like my account got suspended for a week due to my earlier aggressive outburst lol, anyway Im back.

New years eve, spent all day and night by myself, no invites to parties, three "happy new year" in my phone (from relatives), basicly my current social life is as bad as it has ever been. My social life at 20 was better, my social life at 18 was better, hell my social life at 10 was better, MUCH better.

Its time to fix this, I cannot fucking stand it no more, Im wasting my time walking around having the self image of a friendless loser (true) when I look good, jacked and like Im "one of the popular ones", holy fuck is this weird.

Anyway, Ive decided to go back to university, 8 months from now. I will be studying for 3 years, adding 1 year of .. what do you call it in english, "practise" at a workplace within my study field? All in all 4 years total, so I will basicly be 28 when I enter university again, and I will be 32 when I get my exam.

Even tho It is very common for scandinavians to "restart their career" nearing their 30s - so I will have plenty of peeps my own age there - the majority will ofcourse be people in their early twenties. Im not quite sure If this is of an advantage or not for me, what do you guys think, regarding the girls, are 19-23 year old girls easier as an somewhat "older guy", or is it more difficult?

Anyway, basicly I will be a college student again, including the whole package of a college-lifetyle. Parties, socialising and other activities. I did go to college before, as I mentioned it my opening post, however those 2 years went by fast with me basicly sitting in my room doing nothing but playing games with just the occasionaly once in a full moon party, so I have never really lived the college experience: This means I need to gather knowledge how to go about building up a good social network with friends and girls as effectively as possible making my college years worth to remember, Im open to all kinds of tips regarding this.

I will also join a martial arts "dojo" in my new town, most likely Judo (which I excelled in as a kid) or just pure MMA, I havent decided yet.

I took some time to look up the martial arts club near my current home, but they only accepted newbies 2 times a year - november and june, so I will have to take it up at the same time as I start my studies in the new town.


Some random goals I came up with this week:

1. Start meditating every day for 20 minutes, this seem to calm my mind and make me more present in the interaction with others.
2. Start a PE routine (penis enchantment?), basicly I want to have a bigger cock, cause it would feel fucking powerful, I think Im gonna order one of these "bathmates" which Ive read great reviews on, but also do a jelq routine for 10-20mins 4-5 times a week.

3. Im actually considering doing my very first steroid cycle this year, probably a simple low dose of testosterone for 10-12 weeks to try it out. Im basicly very very close to my natural potential when it comes to muscle and strenght gains at this point after all these years of VERY HARD workouts. Im nearing 300kg i deadlift and 200kg in benchpress, a newbie steroid cycle will probably put me above these numbers, so that would be awesome.

Im not quite sure how I gonna go about the "girl problem" - I dont want to enter university feeling like a fucking virgin again, given I havent had sex with a new girl for years. So I would really need to boost my sexual confidence and experiences. Would you recommend any certain kind of game litterature? Ive studied some Real Social Dynamics, but to be honest they just make me confused and seem to give contradicting advice all day every day.

I would also need some friends, I feel fucking lonely but Its damn hard making "new friends" where I live now, a very small place and Its kind of like the social groups have already formed and people arent really that "open" for new guys it seems.

Oh and by the way, my mom told me she can lend me money for the first three months of rent If I find an apartment, so now I just have to be on the look out for available places to live. Hopefully I will get a place of my own the coming months, that would be great.

All help regarding game/college life/how-to-go-about-this-girl-situation is highly appreciated!



Happy new year by the way, best wishes for 2016.

Post: #138

1. Video Game Addiction

Basic Training in the army is designed to be easy enough that anybody without a glandular disorder can pass it, but hard enough that you feel like you accomplished something, so as to build unit cohesion and strengthen your personality (Drill Instructors don't yell at you because it's the best form of education, you catch my drift?). Video games are similar, except the only outcome they desire is that you spend money on them. The most popular ones are pure skinner box.

This isn't to say there aren't great games with cathartic value in them - but you mentioned two that are the epitome of skinner box.

Your youthful desire for cammeraderie got shunted into video games. This is why they're so dangerous.

2. Nobody Respects You Until 35

A quote from good-ole Cappy Cap. There are no opportunities for young people these days. Go to College? Everybody's going to College, and the curiculum's been dumbed down to make sure everybody can go to College. $20k+ in debt for the equivalent of a 1950s High School Diploma.

On top of that, this generation is irresponsible and narcissistic. You're assumed to be just like them, even if that isn't the case. Until you're 35, nobody gives a shit about you.

It's terrible. It's harmful. But it is what it is. You're 27, dude, you're in the same boat as 90% of guys your own age.

3. Mother's Apron Strings

The above poster calling you our for dissing your mother is correct to do so - but I suspect your resentment comes from being limited by the feminine protecting instinct. Brother, the worst decision of my life was to not join the army full-time - a decision I made because my mother begged me not to. Good Lord, I wanted to put some rounds down range in the sand box, and I never had the opportunity because of my mother's bad advice, because she didn't want her baby boy to risk dying.

You resent your mother because you allow her to control you. Here's what you need to learn: our mothers are women too, and they're often quite silly. With your father gone, YOU are now the man of the family, and it's up to you to gently guide your mother away from folly. Don't be afraid of asserting yourself.

4. New Years Eve

NYE is for faggots who don't know how to drink. And idiots that want to hear whatever latest pop song is suddenly popular. Who cares if you were invited to a party? How about this instead - next Thursday you go out, and you MAKE it a party. You don't need the 'permission' granted by Dec 31stto party - party on your own damned merit, and people will be happy to party with you.

You're fine, kid, you're just staring into your own navel too much.

Post: #139

(12-31-2015 09:15 PM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  Some random goals I came up with this week:

1. Start meditating every day for 20 minutes, this seem to calm my mind and make me more present in the interaction with others.
2. Start a PE routine (penis enchantment?), basicly I want to have a bigger cock, cause it would feel fucking powerful, I think Im gonna order one of these "bathmates" which Ive read great reviews on, but also do a jelq routine for 10-20mins 4-5 times a week.

3. Im actually considering doing my very first steroid cycle this year, probably a simple low dose of testosterone for 10-12 weeks to try it out. Im basicly very very close to my natural potential when it comes to muscle and strenght gains at this point after all these years of VERY HARD workouts. Im nearing 300kg i deadlift and 200kg in benchpress, a newbie steroid cycle will probably put me above these numbers, so that would be awesome.

80/20 principle.

20% of your effort produces 80% of your results
80% of your effort produces 20% of your results

You should be choosing to expend effort where it wins you the greatest returns. That would be goals related to your social life.

You didn't do that, because you're too attached to your comfort zone. You're doubling down effort into gym training, which is where you're already proficient.

I already gave you a suggestion about improving your friend network - contact three people per day who you could reconnect with, and send them seasons greetings. Did you do it?

Post: #140

Curious as to what you decided to study and where

Post: #141

@Rontgennurz

So let me get this straight. You are a "Jacked good looking dude"(by your own account) who has no social life, friends or girls in your life. And your answer is to take steriods and penis pump your way to success?

Since you are already "Jacked" how is getting more muscle and pumping your penis going to help you suddenly succeed with women? You really think thats whats missing?

Post: #142

(01-01-2016 02:28 PM)8ball Wrote:  @Rontgennurz

So let me get this straight. You are a "Jacked good looking dude"(by your own account) who has no social life, friends or girls in your life. And your answer is to take steriods and penis pump your way to success?

Since you are already "Jacked" how is getting more muscle and pumping your penis going to help you suddenly succeed with women? You really think thats whats missing?

No, but Im not doing everything "cause of women". Hell, If I worked out solenly to get more women I would have been pleased with my physique after 2-3 years of training.

It is my hobby, my passion, therefor my consideration.


Regarding my cock, I want to have a porno one, that would be hella cool I must say and any man claiming not wanting to have a big dick is a liar.

Post: #143

(01-01-2016 03:24 PM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  

(01-01-2016 02:28 PM)8ball Wrote:  @Rontgennurz

So let me get this straight. You are a "Jacked good looking dude"(by your own account) who has no social life, friends or girls in your life. And your answer is to take steriods and penis pump your way to success?

Since you are already "Jacked" how is getting more muscle and pumping your penis going to help you suddenly succeed with women? You really think thats whats missing?

No, but Im not doing everything "cause of women". Hell, If I worked out solenly to get more women I would have been pleased with my physique after 2-3 years of training.

It is my hobby, my passion, therefor my consideration.


Regarding my cock, I want to have a porno one, that would be hella cool I must say and any man claiming not wanting to have a big dick is a liar.

1. Don't say 'hella', it's hella stupid.

2. Chicks really don't care that much; you can have a 12 inch Johnson, but if you don't know how to charm them and make them want *you* then you're not going to get anywhere. Stop comparing yourself to porn, it's unhealthy

Get out of this fantasy/media culture you're immersed in and go check out reality.

Post: #144

(01-01-2016 07:03 PM)Aurini Wrote:  

(01-01-2016 03:24 PM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  

(01-01-2016 02:28 PM)8ball Wrote:  @Rontgennurz

So let me get this straight. You are a "Jacked good looking dude"(by your own account) who has no social life, friends or girls in your life. And your answer is to take steriods and penis pump your way to success?

Since you are already "Jacked" how is getting more muscle and pumping your penis going to help you suddenly succeed with women? You really think thats whats missing?

No, but Im not doing everything "cause of women". Hell, If I worked out solenly to get more women I would have been pleased with my physique after 2-3 years of training.

It is my hobby, my passion, therefor my consideration.


Regarding my cock, I want to have a porno one, that would be hella cool I must say and any man claiming not wanting to have a big dick is a liar.

1. Don't say 'hella', it's hella stupid.

2. Chicks really don't care that much; you can have a 12 inch Johnson, but if you don't know how to charm them and make them want *you* then you're not going to get anywhere. Stop comparing yourself to porn, it's unhealthy

Get out of this fantasy/media culture you're immersed in and go check out reality.

1. How about you stop trying to be my daddy telling me what and what I hella shouldnt do?

2. Chicks do care, Its a big blue pill myth that chix dont give a damn about cock size, there are even evolutionary reasons why they like bigger dicks - men have always since the beginning of time been concerned about their cock size, you really think this is cause of "nothing" ? Men want to be big, powerful, and that includes the size of their cock. ANY MALE if asked by "god" would choose an 8inch porn cock instead of an average sized one, learn to face the truth.

Post: #145

^Are you motherfucking serious?


You've gotten really good advice from some very experienced, worldly, highly respectable people not only on this board but in LIFE (quintis doing a podcast for you benefit), and all you can say is that you want a bigger dick? And then lash out yet again when you're told that's fucking stupid?



Yes, bitches like bigger dicks.



No, using a penis pump isn't a good idea.


You should aspire to have the wisdom to know what you can change, and what you can't, and act accordingly.

Post: #146

(01-01-2016 10:05 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  ^Are you motherfucking serious?


You've gotten really good advice from some very experienced, worldly, highly respectable people not only on this board but in LIFE (quintis doing a podcast for you benefit), and all you can say is that you want a bigger dick? And then lash out yet again when you're told that's fucking stupid?



Yes, bitches like bigger dicks.



No, using a penis pump isn't a good idea.


You should aspire to have the wisdom to know what you can change, and what you can't, and act accordingly.

Oh Im very serious, and I do appreciate the help Ive gotten from some people, as I have made posts thanking them. However, a disrespectful attitude will be met by one, as one shouldnt tell me what I should and shouldnt do - If I want a bigger dick, along with other things, I will try get one. Now I dont care what person X does with his penis, so he shouldnt care what I do with mine and the argument: "its stupid" is the worst if I ever heard one.

Isnt it quite interesting tho, how one latches onto the fact I mentioned increasing my cock size, trying to lecture me on how stupid it is, instead of spending the energy to maybe help out with the other questions I had. Sometimes it feels like people on internet forums give "advice" to boost their own ego and take an imaginary authority role instead of actually helping out, oh well.

Post: #147

(01-01-2016 10:20 PM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  

(01-01-2016 10:05 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  ^Are you motherfucking serious?


You've gotten really good advice from some very experienced, worldly, highly respectable people not only on this board but in LIFE (quintis doing a podcast for you benefit), and all you can say is that you want a bigger dick? And then lash out yet again when you're told that's fucking stupid?



Yes, bitches like bigger dicks.



No, using a penis pump isn't a good idea.


You should aspire to have the wisdom to know what you can change, and what you can't, and act accordingly.

Oh Im very serious, and I do appreciate the help Ive gotten from some people, as I have made posts thanking them. However, a disrespectful attitude will be met by one, as one shouldnt tell me what I should and shouldnt do - If I want a bigger dick, along with other things, I will try get one. Now I dont care what person X does with his penis, so he shouldnt care what I do with mine and the argument: "its stupid" is the worst if I ever heard one.

Isnt it quite interesting tho, how one latches onto the fact I mentioned increasing my cock size, trying to lecture me on how stupid it is, instead of spending the energy to maybe help out with the other questions I had. Sometimes it feels like people on internet forums give "advice" to boost their own ego and take an imaginary authority role instead of actually helping out, oh well.

Honestly I could give a real response here, but you don't seem to be worth it. Let's break it down.

1. You come here saying your life sucks

2. You get lots of good advice, harsh though it may have been

3. You get angry and lash out.

4. You come back talking about depression

5. People still, for some reason, take you seriously enough to address your concerns, despite you having to be indignant the whole time.

6. Nobody cares what you do with your dick. It just shows that the things you are focused on are superficial and trivial, which is not an attitude that will benefit you in the long run.


(Pretty sure this falls under one of Tuth's "types of RVF forum trolls" guidelines)

All that said, I really do hope you get your shit together. Hell, I'm not in the best place in my life right now either. But I'm not looking for a pity party as you seem to be. You said that people on forums who give advice are only doing so to feel like they have authority. In that case, what does that make guys who come here asking for said advice?

Post: #148

You don't live with your mom. Your mom lives with you.

If you're stuck in the situation for the time being, then I'd say that's the first step towards having the right mentality.

Some of the guys 'I've known' who were still living with a single parent at that age had the following dynamic going on: they'd work their butts off in their free time to keep the household going like a surrogate spouse, but their parent would still try to lay down all sorts of "rules" like they were 12 years old, because "this is my house/you live under my roof/I pay the mortgage". Because they were a boomer who made out like a bandit in fucking 1976 or whatever when you could buy a place for a song, but their kid can't earn a living wage. And now they get an indentured servant out of the deal as well.

Wot a racket.

Post: #149

Son, you gotta get your life together before you even think about lengthening your dick. Besides, if you're between 3 and 8 inches, your dick size is probably perfectly fine. Obviously being toward the upper end of that spectrum is best, but it isn't as big of a deal as the media and porn makes it out to be.

If you want to try jelqing a bit in the spare time you have after doing all the other things you need to do, fine, but this should not be your primary concern.

Besides, you should be in monk mode right now devoting your time to getting your money and life situation right. Get a fleshlight if you need a release. Girls are the cherry atop the life sundae, build up the sundae first.

Post: #150

I honestly have no sympathy for crybabys like yourself. You live in a first world country you are good looking and have nothing physically or mentally wrong with you and still you have the balls to complain about your lot in life. As someone who knows what actual suffering it piss me off to see people like you complain about insignificant problems such as the size of their dick. Get out there and do some thing with your life and stop complaining. I'm in a much worse place then you but but still I get up every morning and try my best with the hand I've been dealt in life.