Post: #1

4 months ago a friend of mine basically confessed to me that she has always been attracted to me. I began to hang out with her and I thought we really hit it off. I began to grow very fond of her all the while her interest seemed to wane. A couple months in she let me know that she was stuck on her ex and promptly ran back to him in what she called a "last ditch" effort; apparently wanted to make sure this guy was or wasn't "the one." That lasted 3 weeks and now they're done for good. To be clear, she's about to turn 20 and I'm approaching my 22nd birthday if that is further indication to her behavior(i really don't know).

I had completely stopped talking to her when she got back with her ex but now that she's single again we have renewed our friendship, though it would appear we aren't on the same page. I'm still very interested and she maintains that she has no interest in any guys for the foreseeable future(sounds like a cop out to me). I sat down and spoke with her last week and told her that I was still interested and things have kind of been tense since then.

I want her interest to be renewed but I don't know how to get to that point. I've found it extremely difficult to remain apathetic about the situation and I feel like keeping distance is going to be my best bet. I've still been texting her some since our talk, but I'm good friends with her roommates so it has been difficult not inviting her and them places. I feel like I may have already fudged this one up but I want to know if there's anything left here to salvage. Any advice? How can I get myself out of this mess?

Post: #2

Clearly didn't bother to read the sticky before this first post of mine. Would still take advice or am just as happy if this thread gets deleted. Either way

Post: #3

Quote:she maintains that she has no interest in any guys for the foreseeable future(sounds like a cop out to me).

dude forget her fuck other women

Post: #4

(06-26-2011 09:36 PM)Samseau Wrote:  dude forget her fuck other women

Agree. She's set you up to play the sympathetic chump. You can do nothing now but waste your time sympathetically listening to her whine about her ex, and you get to be the emotional punching bag for his ways. He got the sex, you get the shit. (and no sex)

Treat her like the plague and stay the hell away from her. Work on your own self-improvement and go out with other women that aren't fucked up over their ex instead.

In general, never let a women tell you about an ex, which is a sure move into beta territory with her. Joke with her "You shouldn't kiss and tell!" If she presses, "I'm not interested in hearing about your ex." which is generally enough to show her she's being rude.

Post: #5

if you didnt read sticky you should.....we help guys with difficulty running game...we have no interest in ONE-ITIS.

as for your advice.....when you are interested in a girl more than she is....you will loose her...trust me on this.