Post: #1

I'm rolling dolo at a hotel bar, girl who works at the hotel is on break, I see her, hold eyes, she looks away, I waive for her to come, she sits with me and talks and talks and talks. I hardly have to say anything and she talks in that direction. I decide to try 'shut up & eye fuck' game. A minute later she's got her foot on mine, briefly holds my forearm and loves the eye contact. Her radio goes off and she has to run, I don't see her again. I go for coffee here during the day, whenever I see her I'll tell her to join me when she's got a break, restarting will be easy.

Question is: how do you deal with girls who talk lots, do you let them run or do you interrupt with say a qualifier or try to take hold of the conversation so you're doing the talking? Most of the girls I get are either quiet or in between where we're taking turns (I do day game 99% of the time, so I expect to do most of the talking), I don't get the chatty girls, so far it seemed easy just sitting back and doing non-verbal, the IOI's were solid.
btw, I felt the frame was mine, whatever I'd say she'd talk in that direction, rather than her just blabbing about whatever she wants and me being nice and listening.

Post: #2

depends what they are chating...if they are chating about other people than you guys...then its time to say her fuck off and talk about sex.

Post: #3

If the girl is seriously talking A LOT, it kind of kills the boner.

I've noticed when I go out sometimes two girls will sit facing each other and talking, and literally not stop for the entire night. I don't understand how they can conduct such marathon bullshit sessions. Realize that you'll never be able to produce enough words to keep up in situations like that, so I think you were right to just stare at her and nod your head or whatever.

If it gets to the point where she is talking so much that it's downright annoying, you should probably move on and not waste your time.

Post: #4

^^ its crazy sometimes. I had to sit in the backseat of an SUV while my mom and her friend talked nonstop in the seats in front of me for three hours to and 3 hours back on a road trip. Idk how they found so many things to talk about

Post: #5

(06-26-2011 04:16 AM)tjuan Wrote:  Question is: how do you deal with girls who talk lots, do you let them run or do you interrupt with say a qualifier or try to take hold of the conversation so you're doing the talking?

This rarely happens to me--maybe one out of five times--but when it does, I quickly guide the conversation into more provocative topics, dripping in innuendo. I kino these girls more than the average prospect, since they're invariably more receptive to it. I don't mind chatty girls at all, since I'm a chatty MFer myself, and they--for some reason--dig the idea that "we had so much to say to each other." Eventually, you can shut them up with the make-out. Win-win.

Post: #6

I dont mind the chatty types, for someone who isnt a natural socializer letting them run their mouth on autopilot gives me time to think.

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