(03-31-2017 09:55 PM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  Any of you guys ever play the "grand tour" game when you get her home?

(08-10-2015 02:32 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(08-10-2015 01:07 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  Papaya can you give a brief breakdown of how you end the first date and set up the second? How soon do you text after the first and when do you pitch the second date? I really want to experiment with this style but I always end up going for the first date bang and of course the results are mixed...

Well my game is pretty "niche" for lack of a better word...so I'm not sure how much of this will be helpful to you. I'm 44 so I've been "gaming" chicks since long before I even knew that I was gaming (or it was called that) . I'm only into younger women but I'm 6ft 3 keep in shape and look younger but my logistics are by far my best asset. I live in beach community and my house is literally within 2 blocks of 11 different bars, restaurants, cafe, etc... My front patio faces a street where people often park when going to those venues. (I often sit outside and work on my laptop. I have one buddy that refers to my patio as "spider game" with me just waiting for "victims" to walk by. Patio/spider game is a whole other post)

Long story short on first dates I usually try to hit two or three of those venues (where bartenders and staff know me...big plus) then bounce to my house. If we're drinking and I can get them to my house it's usually a done deal. Once they are there I have tons of DHV material: pics of where I've traveled, with other hot chicks, I keep a surfboard and snowboard in the corner of my home office that's plainly visible when I give "the tour". There's even a pic of me with a well known celebrity (another story) clearly visible when someone comes out of the bathroom. You might say I'm playing "Most Interesting Man In The World Game" at my house. Girls eat that shit up.

But if I get them home and make a move but see I'm not going to close I usually wrap it up quickly with something along the lines "Hey, I've had a great time but I've got an early day tomorrow. We should hang out again...buh bye". I won't let it linger and let it get awkward. The trick is to make them know they fucked it up...even if they dont know how exactly

I'll then open it back for a 2nd date a couple days later with a text something along the lines of the "I had a dream about you" I suggested above or "You still want to learn to surf?" ...calibrated to the girl and whatever is 1st date specific. IE tailored to whatever happened (kiss, petting, finger bang) etc. Second date is just a funnel for getting her back to my house. I've gone as far as 4 dates to close but those have been rare and actually been a long time.

Like I said it's pretty niche to me but I hope some of that helps. I guess the short answer to getting 2nd date is to remain enough of an interesting mystery that the hamster wants more