Post: #26

This thread is going how I expected.

Post: #27

Far from bragging, far from neediness. This is more of a selfish act. No one doubts the impact that keeping a journal has on solidifying a habit. So I am doing this to solidify habits in the way I interact with girls, in my writing process, and in my storytelling process.

Of course I don't take criticism personally when the criticism is related to game because I know that some people here have years of experience and wisdom in gaming. But I'm not going to take bodybuilding advice or fashion advice from the guys here. Much rather go to a bodybuilding forum or a fashion forum for that. Nothing personal.

I'm going to eat then update the thread.

Cheers!

Post: #28

Post: #29

(10-22-2015 08:16 AM)poorlilrich Wrote:  Here's our text convo (girl 1):
....
Me (Thursday morning; we're supposed to go out tomorrow): Hey do you want to pregame before heading out, or just go straight to the bar?
Her: Let's play it by ear? I'm also feeling a littttttle bit under the weather so I'm gonna see how I'm doing tomorrow :/
Me: Damn that sucks. Feel better soon!

Girl 1 continued:

Me: Damn that sucks. Feel better soon!
Her: Thanks! Yea so let's touch base tomorrow and then go from there. Is that okay with you?
Me: Yuuuuup
Me: Just got out of class
(random stuff about me having class late on thursday and early on Friday)
Me: I have class at 11 but still need to do the reading
Her: Ooooh slacker
Her: Jk
Me: Haha bite me
Her:

So we're supposed to hangout tonight. I have no idea whether she'll flake.

Post: #30

(10-22-2015 09:34 AM)poorlilrich Wrote:  Girl2
....
Her (She drops the hammer.. about a day later): Hi! So, I think there's something I should let you know - I started seeing a guy at the very beginning of the semester and things have been going well between us. I feel like the right thing to do is for me to see where things go with this guy. So I'd love to hang out as friends if you re up for that. But I understand if you're not in the mkt for new friends haha
Me:What kind of asshole would I be to get in between young love.
Me: And I'd love to hangout. Tho it would be very hard to keep my hands to myself. Soooo no promises there
Me: But I understand if you're not in the mkt for friends who think you're cute haha
Her: Haha 1. Thanks for being great... and somehow still incredibly charming... about this. 2. I'm always in the mkt for friends and you're cool and interesting

Here's a picture. I have edited it so much that she isn't recognizable.
http://i.imgur.com/t2ToGEB.jpg

This one isn't looking so rosy.

Me: Now that we got that awkward stuff out of the way.. up for drinks and dancing on XX street?
(I sent this text at noon, and we had class at around 6. She hadn't responded by then. While in class I played it cool and aloof, as if nothing was wrong. I cracked jokes and she laughed at most of em.)
Her (after class): Hi! I forgot my iPhone at home and just saw your text. But nice job in class today! (I had a presentation)
Me: All props go to the diet coke! Told you about the Popeye thing (inside joke)
Me: You ever been to XXX bar?
Her: I have not - though I ve heard great things
Me: Yea it's divey and can get wild but I love it!
Me: We should go!
Her: I fed want to check it out so let me know next time you go and maybe I can convince a crew to come!

Stick a fork in that one ladies and gents. I will probably stop texting her, but will still talk to her in class.
We had class together and I played it cool and aloof for the most part.

Post: #31

Girl3

So I messaged this girl on POF. I'd say she is a solid 7, but I've never met her so +/- .5, Russian, tight and slender body, and cute face. We have a bit of a history, which will give context to our conversation. We first started talking on POF like 2 years ago but it didn't go anywhere. Then we briefly talked like a year ago and it fizzled out. Then I matched with her on Tinder but didn't send her a message. So this is the fourth time we've crossed paths.

Me (Oct: 17th on POF): Hey! What are you getting into this weekend? (this is my generic opening line on OKC, Tinder, and POF. Thoughts?)
Her: Hey there
Me: What's up little miss Russia?
Her: Nm wbu
Me: Bummed that it's getting cold
Her: Yea it sucks
Me: Texting at work? what if you get caught
Her: Really ?! lol
Me: Dunno if I can keep up with such a badass
Her: Probably not
Me: Challenge accepted
Me: Let's grab a drink this weekend if you're free (my go-to line for setting up a date)
Her: What do you have in mind?
Me (Thursday): Saturday night on XX street?
Her: Do you know nice spots there because I don't
Me: Yea my two favorites are XXX and YYY
Me: Where do you usually go out?

So we are tentatively supposed to meet up on Saturday. We'll see what happens.

Pic: http://i.imgur.com/LWwAHwS.png

Post: #32

Girl4

Messaged her on OKC the weekend of October 17th. She's a 7 imo; I haven't met her, so +/- .5, dirty blonde (I think?), works out, perky tits, grad student.

Me (Oct 17th on OKC): Hey! What are you getting into this weekend?
Her: That sounds like I'm getting trapped somewhere! I hope that doesn't happen (then tells me what she did last night)
Her: Today ... studying chemistry
Me: Haha what if you get trapped somewhere fun
Me: So far I've had a lazy saturday.. I went out last night and it was a blast!
Me: (something about my undegrad years..relates to chemistry)
Her: (bla bla about school)
Me: (bla bla about school) Are you from the area?
Her: (bla bla about school and law school)
(we talk about where we're from.. both out of state)
Me: How did you get into XXX studies
Her: (she goes into this 6 sentence paragraph on why she's studying XXX and why she likes it)
Me: (dumb joke) I love when people follow their passion!
Me: How do you like XXX city; I feel it's the stereotypical college town
Her: Haha you're probably right (bla bla) I haven't really hung out much at the college-y places, though. But now I want to haha, out of curiousity; I'll have to find a partner in crime.
Me: Haha I'll be your partner in crime but when it's your turn to do the keg stand you gotta!
Me: Do you have a favorite neighborhood in XX?
Her: (No basically because she is directionally challenged)
Me: Ha I'm also directionally challenged! I've been here for 2+ yeras and I couldn't draw a rough map of the citiy
Her: (makes joke)
Me: Exactly!
Me: Are you free this weekend? Let's grab a drink
Her: I'm actually going home this weekend for my big sister's birthday bash! May I take a rain check?
Me (Thursday night): Sounds like a blast! Have fun!
Her: Aww thanks!!

pic: http://i.imgur.com/UH9KKsV.png

Post: #33

(10-23-2015 03:52 AM)plrsss Wrote:  Hey this is poorlilrich. The other account got suspended for a week. I am not arguing with the suspension and I understand I was in the wrong. But ain't nobody got time for that. I'll repost the pictures and make sure they're not identifiable.

(10-22-2015 10:37 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  You say you aren't a newbie but your first kiss was at 21. You essentially had your first hit at 21 and have been learning and improving for 4 years.

Despite claims of kissing double digits, you've only gotten 9 lays in 4 years while being college age.
That's 2.25 lays a year.

Which honestly is an average for a frat boy with no real game. Or anyone in college that's just social with no game.
Over 4 years..your game should have exponentially grown and you learned from the mistakes you made after not pulling dozens of girls you kissed. That doesn't seem the case.

I would consider you a newbie.

I would highly recommend you take Linux's advice and maximize your look along with your game approach.

Well I was a newbie when I graduated college. I had 1 lay and like 70 makeouts. I was probably a newbie a year after I graduated college. But since January of 2013 I've had 8 lays, since June I've had 3 lays (all 7.5+). Not great, but given the quality of the lays, not too shabby. And I pride myself on quality, so most of my makeouts have been with 7+, and 7/9 of the lays have been with 7+.

And notch count isn't really indicative of game. There are so many other factors at play: how often you go out, what quality of girls are you pulling...

I haven't been focusing on game since i graduated college. For the last two years, I've just been focusing on myself: school, reading, writing, working out, wardrobe. And most of my dates have been coming from tinder, okc, pof. But I feel this is the perfect time to focus on game because I won't have free time after I graduate and start working next year.

Not to sound douchey but I am the 1%:
- 6'1
- better shape than 98% of guys
- top undergrad
- top 14 law school
- will be making 160K next year at 26
- fashionable: I own 10+ blazers, 10+ suits, and 18+ pairs of shoes; and I don't wear jeans or sneakers

All this just to say that I understand that the advice is well-founded, but game is my focus; and my look/other soft factors are pretty much taken care of.

I appreciate all advice, suggestions, and critiques. But please keep it relevant to game. I don't want this to turn into a thread about how I need to get into the gym 6x a week, buy the newest Calvin Klein suits, get the Drake haircut, and to diversify my portfolio.

I have some work to finish up, but I will update the thread when I'm done.

picture from earlier this year; don't mind the jizz stain on the mirror
http://i.imgur.com/7rrSVyF.png

Post: #34

This guy is a textbook example of getting banned because he didn't read the forum rules not to mention his dialogues are cringeworthy.

If you are still here within 24 hours:

-More confidence
-less thirst more abundance mentality (the fact that you made a second account when your first got suspended is proof enough you are persistent in all the wrong ways because you are obsessing over every dialogue which will fuck you over)
-Patience $50 says you respond immediately to all messages.
-Up your style game and work on getting muscle you are too old to be staying skinny which even I'm trying to move past.
-Don't report back conversations until you at least get a date set up unless you are having issues.
-You are newbie don't even deny that and internalize it so you can keep growing even though you are low man on the totem poll.

Post: #35

Grimacing texts.

Humblebragging.

Big baller troll.

Conclusion & Result:

Post: #36

I'd rather not be banned, and rather continue updating this thread. But I understand that management has an image to uphold and can't tolerate rampant dissidence.

(10-23-2015 08:45 AM)hwuzhere Wrote:  This guy is a textbook example of getting banned because he didn't read the forum rules not to mention his dialogues are cringeworthy.

If you are still here within 24 hours:

-More confidence
-less thirst more abundance mentality (the fact that you made a second account when your first got suspended is proof enough you are persistent in all the wrong ways because you are obsessing over every dialogue which will fuck you over)
-Patience $50 says you respond immediately to all messages.
-Up your style game and work on getting muscle you are too old to be staying skinny which even I'm trying to move past.
-Don't report back conversations until you at least get a date set up unless you are having issues.
-You are newbie don't even deny that and internalize it so you can keep growing even though you are low man on the totem poll.

Well I'm texting 8+ girls currently, so my only goal was to get dates for Friday and Saturday, which I tentatively have. I don't really care if in the process I lose some of the girls because I know that getting a date is relatively easy. For example, last Saturday I sent out a bunch of messages on OKC and got 7 bites (all 7+), 6 of which I am still talking to. And I can usually go out to the local bars, and meet someone. So really, appearing cool in front of women / appearing not needy in front of women isn't a priority of mine. My aim is solely to amuse myself, and to have fun without being a slime ball. Slime ball behavior is manipulative behavior and underhanded behavior.

Yes my text may seem cringe worthy, but that is because I don't give a fuck if the woman rejects me. I am speaking my mind. I made a promise to myself a while back that I will always speak my mind and never hide my intentions. And this applies to women, coworkers, classmates...etc. If I go out w/ a woman today and I enjoyed her company, I will text her tomorrow, and I will try to go out again next week. If I didn't enjoy her company I will not text her again. If she has a problem with me, then she can kick rocks. Plenty of women waiting in the wings.

I thank those who have given legit advice regarding the texts. I have learned quite a bit even in this short time period. I will have to start the thread on another forum, and hope that the comments are just as insightful.

Yea I know I am an arrogant cunt, but that's the way life goes when you want to accomplish great things. More people should be arrogant cunts, instead of supplicating cunts.

You don't achieve greatness by following rules. You don't achieve greatness by kissing ass. You achieve greatness by being the best there is at what you do, and not giving a fuck what others say or think. I'm far from the best there is at what I do, but I'd be damned if I'm going to take advice about fashion from a PUA. Just like I wouldn't take advice about picking up girls from a fashion designer.

The herd mentality in this thread is hilarious though. One guy mentions lifting and fashion. And everyone piles that recommendation as if it's the gospel. The funny thing is I haven't posted a single apparel of fashion in this thread. That's what's wrong with the world, people don't come to their own conclusions. Instead they look around to see what other people are saying, and follow suit.

This thread wasn't intended to be boastful or arrogant. I intended to update it religiously, but I guess some people can't take a strong personality.

I wish y'all the best, and truly hope that y'all are happy in your pursuit of game.

Scarface's statement rings very true. You don't chase women for the sake of chasing women. You chase women to bring them into your world. If your world consists of chasing women, then which woman is going to want to stay in that world. A lot of pua are misguided in that they chase women for the sake of chasing women, and they do not have a sufficiently fascinating world to keep the high quality women. Hence their ideal woman is an airhead bimbo stripper or model. Men shouldn't place airhead strippers or models on a pedestal. They're nothing except a hot piece of ass to slam.

George Clooney did it right. Started out as a used car salesman. Then worked hard and made it big in hollywood. Cultivated his faculties such that he was more than just a good actor. Banged a bunch of airhead strippers and models. And settled down with a renowned and beautiful lawyer.

#EndRamble. Play on players.

Post: #37

This thread delivers.



My advice to the OP (because once you get banned permanently here you never come back):

Start your own blog.

These types of players "logs" belong in the newbie forum because if you weren't a newbie, you wouldn't need that level of feedback and validation. But too late for that now.

Quote:Grimacing texts.

Humblebragging.

Big baller troll.

This, basically.

We don't care how much you make, where you went to school, what you look like, how many girls you're texting, or what the actual girls you banged look like. When you come out of the gate guns blazing here you're gonna get shot down. That's how it works, and if you've read this forum for any length of time you'd have known that.

Post: #38

OP you've had more come backs than Rocky. You've given us the "gift" of your exploits and expect gratitude. It doesn't work that way. They don't teach social intelligence at Georgetown?

Post: #39

This guy is insane.

Who spends money on silver memberships just to post one or two "look at me" posts before being banned.

Amazing.

Post: #40

(10-23-2015 08:21 AM)blck Wrote:  Not to sound douchey but I am the 1%:
- 6'1
- better shape than 98% of guys
- top undergrad
- top 14 law school
- will be making 160K next year at 26
- fashionable: I own 10+ blazers, 10+ suits, and 18+ pairs of shoes; and I don't wear jeans or sneakers

DC molds the best.

I was waiting for him to say he buys the best escorts when he doesn't meet a girl on the weekend.

Hey lawyers, why is it that so many law guys are overconfident douche dorks?

Post: #41

(10-23-2015 01:51 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

(10-23-2015 08:21 AM)blck Wrote:  Not to sound douchey but I am the 1%:
- 6'1
- better shape than 98% of guys
- top undergrad
- top 14 law school
- will be making 160K next year at 26
- fashionable: I own 10+ blazers, 10+ suits, and 18+ pairs of shoes; and I don't wear jeans or sneakers

DC molds the best.

I was waiting for him to say he buys the best escorts when he doesn't meet a girl on the weekend.

It's the 18 pairs of shoes that cracked me up.

I don't think my girlfriend has that many! (this may not be true)

Post: #42

(10-23-2015 01:51 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

(10-23-2015 08:21 AM)blck Wrote:  Not to sound douchey but I am the 1%:
- 6'1
- better shape than 98% of guys
- top undergrad
- top 14 law school
- will be making 160K next year at 26
- fashionable: I own 10+ blazers, 10+ suits, and 18+ pairs of shoes; and I don't wear jeans or sneakers

DC molds the best.

I was waiting for him to say he buys the best escorts when he doesn't meet a girl on the weekend.

Hey lawyers, why is it that so many law guys are overconfident douche dorks?

Doesn't wear sneakers, but is in better shape than 98% of guys. I guess he either does his roadwork, weightlifting, and bodyweight exercises barefoot or in dress shoes. D.C. doesn't mold the best. It molds far from it.

Post: #43

(10-23-2015 12:54 PM)BigPoppa Wrote:  Yea I know I am an arrogant cunt, but that's the way life goes when you want to accomplish great things. More people should be arrogant cunts, instead of supplicating cunts.

Only women are cunts.

Quote:You don't achieve greatness by following rules. You don't achieve greatness by kissing ass. You achieve greatness by being the best there is at what you do, and not giving a fuck what others say or think. I'm far from the best there is at what I do, but I'd be damned if I'm going to take advice about fashion from a PUA.

You're right you don't achieve greatness following rules, instead you get banned.

Quote:The herd mentality in this thread is hilarious though. One guy mentions lifting and fashion. And everyone piles that recommendation as if it's the gospel. The funny thing is I haven't posted a single apparel of fashion in this thread. That's what's wrong with the world, people don't come to their own conclusions. Instead they look around to see what other people are saying, and follow suit.

Once again with the "herd mentality" term - you don't think other guys just like you posted things like you have and haven't gotten banned ? Think again.

Quote:This thread wasn't intended to be boastful or arrogant. I intended to update it religiously, but I guess some people can't take a strong personality.

Except you WERE being boastful, you even mentioned right above about being an "arrogant cunt". There is nothing strong about your personality, it's rather borderline annoying on here. Especially when you don't listen and didn't follow forum guidelines to begin with.

Quote:I wish y'all the best, and truly hope that y'all are happy in your pursuit of game.

Likewise, hopefully another forum accepts your input.

Quote:Scarface's statement rings very true. You don't chase women for the sake of chasing women. You chase women to bring them into your world. If your world consists of chasing women, then which woman is going to want to stay in that world. A lot of pua are misguided in that they chase women for the sake of chasing women, and they do not have a sufficiently fascinating world to keep the high quality women. Hence their ideal woman is an airhead bimbo stripper or model. Men shouldn't place airhead strippers or models on a pedestal. They're nothing except a hot piece of ass to slam.

I'm not sure what you think, but most of us on here don't consider ourselves part of the PUA scene or lifestyle. We're just here to learn, build, and improve ourselves and our game with women.

You shouldn't be chasing women, women should be chasing you.

You're misguided thinking our ideal women are strippers or models. Let alone placing any women on a pedestal - the Everything Else Manosphere is a testament to that.

Quote:George Clooney did it right. Started out as a used car salesman. Then worked hard and made it big in hollywood. Cultivated his faculties such that he was more than just a good actor. Banged a bunch of airhead strippers and models. And settled down with a renowned and beautiful lawyer.

A post wall career whoring lawyer with an agenda ?



You lost all credibility with that last statement.

Post: #44

I'm going to buy more blazers, suits, and definitely shoes. I am waaaay behind in my shoe game. Thanks OP!

Post: #45

poorlilrich --> plrsss --> BigPoppa....

I have been hearing more and more about the problem with mutating viruses.

Damn things are resilient: