Post: #1

A few months ago I met a party girl at a club who became a regular. A couple of weeks ago we went to visit a friend of hers who lives by the beach for the weekend.

We spent the whole day drinking at the beach. A friend of hers was also visiting there; she's single had been flirting with me during the day. She's also bi. They're very close friends, they've made out and threesome jokes were made. Atmosphere was sexually charged.

We drank into the evening and went out for dinner. When we're back at the house all three of us decide to head for the bedroom together. We're in there getting warmed up. I make out with both of them and they make out with each other. Vibe was good, though both sloppy and drunk. I'm grabbing on both of them and escalating. About 10 minutes in the girl I've been seeing said she doesn't want to go through with it and left.

Thinking she might be upset I said 'fine', followed her out and we hooked up in the living room. Her friend stayed in the bedroom. I later asked her why and she said it would be too weird with her good friend. I have no threesome experience. Since there's a high bar to practising 'threesome game' I'd appreciate your input.

Questions:
- Are there any unexpected / unintuitive things to keep in mind with threesomes?
- Could I have played it better or was this reaction inevitable but just delayed by horniness and booze?
- Did she get jealous? (we've been slipping into relationship mode a bit lately; they're about equally attractive)
- Was it more akin to LMR and could have been overcome?

Post: #2

You should have not left the room and started banging the friend. When in these situations you have to be way more aggressive and in control of situation. My success with this has come by acting fast and not talking about it..you just take total control.
She got jealous and did'nt want to share at the last second.The same thing happend to me about a year ago but not until I switched to banging the other girl...I asked her why she left the next day and she said "I cant do that with someone I care about" so I said WTF? Its ok with people you dont care about?

Anyway there is two types of threesomes in my opinion..the first is when you just take over and smash and the second is when the girls have it planned that they are gonna fuck you....Alcohol and a Boat seem to make these happen pretty quickly..

I wanted to add once you have one it will change your life..If I see two girls that I have a shot with I go fucking nuts

Post: #3

From how I read it, he banged his girl not the friend...

Post: #4

(06-21-2011 09:51 PM)Gmac Wrote:  From how I read it, he banged his girl not the friend...

I did too..did I word something wrong?

Post: #5

(06-21-2011 09:57 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(06-21-2011 09:51 PM)Gmac Wrote:  From how I read it, he banged his girl not the friend...

I did too..did I word something wrong?

No that was my bad. I blame the red wine. Carry on...

Post: #6

(06-21-2011 09:43 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  You should have not left the room and started banging the friend. When in these situations you have to be way more aggressive and in control of situation. My success with this has come by acting fast and not talking about it..you just take total control.
She got jealous and did'nt want to share at the last second.The same thing happend to me about a year ago but not until I switched to banging the other girl...I asked her why she left the next day and she said "I cant do that with someone I care about" so I said WTF? Its ok with people you dont care about?

Anyway there is two types of threesomes in my opinion..the first is when you just take over and smash and the second is when the girls have it planned that they are gonna fuck you....Alcohol and a Boat seem to make these happen pretty quickly..

I wanted to add once you have one it will change your life..If I see two girls that I have a shot with I go fucking nuts

Yeah it was my girl I smashed in the end. Thanks for the feedback, it's spot on.

It was somewhat planned since the idea had been flying around all day, but flirting and doing can be far removed. You're right I should have just gone for the smash right away. I took too much time to get things going and missed out. Newness of the situation mixed with booze slowed me down.

Next time I'll take control.