Post: #1

I just got out of a two year relationship. I have since began gaming other girls but feel rusty. The vibe and energy I'm putting out is off. My notch count is in the 20's so I wouldn't say I've been with many women but this relationship put a halt to the momentum I had going before it. Any tips on getting your game on point after a relationship?

Post: #2

The search function

Post: #3

And practice

Post: #4

As quietdog said, practice. It's going to take time and effort to get back on point. Get out and hit the pavement. Day game night game online game. It'd like riding a bike eventually you will find your stride again.

Post: #5

Why is your vibe and energy off when you talk to a girl you are attracted to? Don't you feel the thrill? I don't get it.

I just ended my LTR and I feel like I'm on fire. The shit I had to deal with my GF [hardcore Russian] was waaaay more intense than things that new girl throw at me now. Besides, it feels like like a thrill to me to talk to girls now, I'm super engaged.

You seem like you look at it from "skills" perspective meaning that it the pickup skillset you used to have is gone now. I don't view it that way. I have no idea what my skills are. But I'm damn sure that I'm much more comfortable talking to super hot girls and enjoy "gaming" them with all my heart like never before. I don't know maybe it's primitive sexual hunger or stuff like that but what I know is that I want to meet a cool girl so I'm very engaged when I have a girl I'm attracted to in front of me. I'm driven purely by my feelings toward her and eagerness to enjoy each other.