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RE: How does hypergamy work in Third World Countries?
In general, in developing/third world countries, women tend to seek out men who are rich and/or powerful. This includes men who are highly educated professionals (top doctors, engineers, lawyers etc), owners of successful businesses, powerful politicians etc.
In contrast, in the developed Western world, hypergamy tends to take the form of the woman dumping her boyfriend for the somewhat famous club DJ or the exciting bikie gang member.
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RE: How does hypergamy work in Third World Countries?
(09-16-2015 01:06 AM)Biologist Wrote: In general, in developing/third world countries, women tend to seek out men who are rich and/or powerful. This includes men who are highly educated professionals (top doctors, engineers, lawyers etc), owners of successful businesses, powerful politicians etc.
I agree, it's how it was in the 1950's here (somewhat). Women didn't work (generally), or at least they didn't want to, or feel a societal pressure to, so they went after a man who brought home the bacon: A man who was responsible, successful, and could be a good father - a man who could take care of them. But now, that shit doesn't really matter considering chicks are pressured into not settling down or having kids, and instead pressured into working themselves. A man who is success and responsible takes a back seat to the bad boy that makes their vagina tingle. And if, or when, he takes off, they will make a smooth transfer to the next guy that gives them their primary need in a "relationship": tingles.
All those 'provider' guys will just have to wait in the wings until she's ready to "settle down".
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(This post was last modified: 09-16-2015 01:58 AM by WanderingMan.)
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RE: How does hypergamy work in Third World Countries?
We see more hypergamy in the West for the following reasons:
Erosion of traditional institution of marriage, which relies on long-term heterosexual monogamy.
"No fault" divorce and divorce as a life choice for women(gender bias in legal system).
Propagation of ideas and values that encourage so called sexual liberation among women. Obviously this can work as an advantage to players, but it doesn't promote the idea of families and marriage.
The fallacy that women should fuck around sexually until their 30s, and settle down and make a family when they tire of the carousel; Alpha fucks, beta bucks more or less.
There are other reasons but these seem the most significant. Many less developed societies still place great importance on traditional sex roles and the family, hence less hypergamy.
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RE: How does hypergamy work in Third World Countries?
(09-16-2015 12:16 PM)Ingocnito Wrote: Think: Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs - Just with a pussy as a tool to achieve them, and solipsistic behavior and goals for achieving success... and you've got your answer.
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RE: How does hypergamy work in Third World Countries?
My family came from a very poor village in India…
Dating isn’t very common, so for women to be hypergamous they have to find a guy via an arranged marriage. To make themselves more marketable they go to the local college, get some basic education and try to take care of their appearance. The local colleges are usually single sex.
Then they wait for the next Indian guy from UK, USA, Canada, Europe etc. to come over to India looking for a wife.
If a village Indian woman marries this guy then her family has won the lottery – when she’s moves abroad she’ll send her family money and eventually arrange for them to move to her. Because marrying abroad makes such a big difference to the woman’s family, there’s intense pressure for her to say “yes” to the next guy who comes looking.
A lot of Indian guys who live abroad know their value in this and they try to wife up the hottest village girls they can find. However, some of the foreign born Indian guys who do go down the village wife route have something wrong with them. They may have no game, not have a job, be divorced, have been to jail etc.
If it's a FOB Indian who moved abroad and who's now coming back for a wife, then that's who is, that's the culture.
Some of them are the kind of guys who cannot marry a respectable Indian girl in the country that they live in, so they look in India. The fact that they have a foreign passport is a huge deal in India.
A lot of these women are very good quality and are usually virgins, but they usually get fat after pumping out a few kids.
(This post was last modified: 09-18-2015 02:58 PM by WalterBlack.)
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RE: How does hypergamy work in Third World Countries?
(09-20-2015 12:12 AM)kosko Wrote: There is no welfare state or support system in developing nations. Hypergamy is more temperd as women have nothing to fall back on if they chose the wrong male. As a man, if you can get ahead, you will have options -- which isn't a promise here in the west.
The major downside is that it is more harsh to men. Omega men in the west can still get buy living their sexless lives as wage slaves or dependents via the Govt. In the harsh jungle of a developing nation, omega males struggle to survive. This is because competition is more fierce and death can be more of an option if you fuck it up.
Beta males by contrast in the developing world have a much better chance of getting something than here. They won't swim in pussy, but the simple objective of finding a wife to raise a family is much more attainable.
The only advantage the West has is access to sluts and easier bangs. The man with not much but a tiny fruit farn in Guatamala still has a better chance to find a simple feminine woman to have s family with versus us in USA/West here.
Only in complete broken places, or in places with aristocracy would you have even more extreme top level controls over pussy. If a woman in Somalia has a better chance getting ahead being #34 in Ummahs harem then she will do it, if Saudi Kings rule by cockblocking men from ample pussy then have no qualms in housing and being beneficiaries to tons of women. 100s of women likely cycle through their system and after non are fit for marriage robbing equal numbers of men opportunity for wives.
When my cousins get bored with western women they go back home to get married. Young women chilling who are more then willing to settle down quickly. My cousinmarried a 18 year old broad not even 8 months into a one year trip back home. Dude just got tierd of USA girls and bounced back to the village, found a wife. It was set up for him for a bunch of girls for him to meet, girls already vetted, the one he liked the most he proceeded with to do his own screenings, and it was done.
I have to edit that as it makes little sense, even to me who wrote it. Androids.. I can't type on them.
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