Post: #1

Girl is coming over for date #2 (no bang yet) and I'm in a place where both are legal. She's into smoking but also happy drinking. Which, in your opinion, is the best wingman in this situation?

Post: #2

Smoking. Not something I do often but girls are more chill and horny with trees. They can be horny and sloppy with alcohol. I think a smoking session would prove to be the better option. Then again, por que no los dos?

Post: #3

TBH you should go with the option that doesn't fuck you up. I had whiskey dick once with one of the hottest girls I ever pulled it was fucking embarrassing.

Some guys when high just dont want to do anything and cant get it up.

Else I dont see the problem or clear advantage with either or both.

Post: #4

Any other opinions?

Post: #5

Yes. Both.

Post: #6

Pull out the weed after two drinks.

Post: #7

If you choose alcohol, monitor her intake. Between tipsy and drunk is the sweet spot. If you choose weed, make sure it's high grade, otherwise she can experience paranoia and close the legs until she comes down, usually the next day.

Post: #8

(09-11-2015 05:37 PM)RougeNoir Wrote:  If you choose alcohol, monitor her intake. Between tipsy and drunk is the sweet spot. If you choose weed, make sure it's high grade, otherwise she can experience paranoia and close the legs until she comes down, usually the next day.

Low grade or mids at best.

Post: #9

(09-11-2015 05:37 PM)RougeNoir Wrote:  If you choose weed, make sure it's high grade, otherwise she can experience paranoia and close the legs until she comes down, usually the next day.

So by that logic, low grade weed causes paranoia?

Paranoia will be more pronounced according to the particular strain you take in.

On the paranoia scale:

Sativa > Indica.

Why?

The ratio of CBD (cannabidiol) compared to THC in Indica is higher, so it mitigates the paranoia (anxiety attacks) that THC might create. It's also a muscle relaxant, so you would be too relaxed to even get paranoid, i.e. couch lock.

My experience with Sativa in a similar situation:

Like you, I was on a second date with a smoking hot chick recently. What's more, she was a virgin. She actually instigated the weed smoking idea, and I happily sourced some given the reward that I was likely in for.

After a few puffs on a j-bird together, we retreated to the bedroom. Mid make-out, I was overcome with an extreme panic attack. What made it worse, is that I didn't want to let her know what I was experiencing, in case by proxy it caused her to freak out as well (or at the very least, kill the mood and cause her to rethink the situation). It got so bad, that I was physically shaking too, kind of an intermittent shiver.

As this wasn't the first occasion this had happened to me on weed (although not as severe), I knew that it was all in my head, and if I could ride it out for an hour or two, things would be fine.

So, knowing that it would be impossible to perform in that state, I suggested we watch a movie, in order to buy myself some time to escalate later.

We literally watched the movie in silence, as I attempted to get my shit together. That weed must have been some strong Sativa (coupled with the enormity of the moment - taking her V card), because after the movie was finished, the effects were still quite pronounced in terms of anxiety.

Thankfully, within another 30 minutes, I felt more relaxed and able to resume activities. I pushed through about 15 minutes of my dick being only half responsive, to experience a boner of raging proportions when I made the executive decision to take the condom off and go in raw.

The relief that I felt in that moment when I knew that everything was back on song was truly memorable, and knowing that I was this stunner's first consolidated it.

My advice to you - if you decide to have some weed, go with Indica (if you have the option of picking the strain).

Post: #10

Man up and bring out the cocaine.

Tbh I'd just stick with alcohol, weed doesn't really get most people in the mood

Post: #11

If you haven't yet banged, alcohol.

If you have banged, weed.

Post: #12

I've had some of the craziest sex after smoking weed.

Alcohol... not so much.

Only you knows how your body reacts to those substances though.

Post: #13

Here's the report. Opened with a bottle of wine...wasn't feeling the vibe. Smoked a joint, got the bang. Thanks to all for the input. Much appreciated!

Post: #14

Yes some mild weed is definately better, or roll a spliff and don't put much in. Last thing you want is to both be so fucked you're just sat there in silence. I had that last week on a zoo date, girl brought her own weed and it was going great, after a smoke she just sat there in silence.

Its not very impressive but I like to have a couple of beers then roll a small one skin joint (3" long) which is just enough to give a little tickle. Bubblegum is my favourite strain for this.

The better you know a girl the higher you can get but in the early days less is more ime.

Post: #15

(09-11-2015 05:33 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Pull out the weed after two drinks.

He's a genius.