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RE: Wife Hunting Abroad
(11-20-2015 09:26 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote: but my Russian was not good enough to talk dirty.
Alright, that is what we need some dirty Russian phrases. Who is teaching RVF's "How to speak Dirty Russian 101"??
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RE: Wife Hunting Abroad
I saw this movie a little while back. Some of these guys are sad to say the least. It is obvious that the produces wanted to find the most pathetic men they could find. There is a strong bias against the whole international dating/marriage thing.
Couple of interesting things.
The blond chick that is on the front of the youtube trailer ended up married to an American fat dude. She was not bad maybe a 6 and he is at most a 3 or 4. So it is possible to get a cuter wife than he could get in the US. She seems nice and devoted to him. Speaks almost no english and ended up having his baby. I do wonder about her intelligence level, did not see a lot of spark in her. Funny scene where they are getting married in his home town in America. Time to kiss the bride and he reaches over and macks down on her face like a fucking zombie. It was one of the nastiest, porno kisses I have ever seen. It was a bit disturbing. Everyone in the church looked on with horror as the chick held on for dear life.
There was another dude who I thought was as bad as the Aussie. He was fat also, and in the 2 to 3 range, who fit all the stereotypes of the sedentary low value western male. Never left the house, was always on the computer or video games, truly pathetic. And his social intelligence was down at the retard level. He had been corresponding to a very attractive, 20 something Ukrainian chick, spending tons of money on those letter sites where you pay by the letter. So he goes over on the tour and is not interested in talking with any "normal" Ukrainian chicks. Just wants to see his "girlfriend" who he has never spoken with. He was quite petulant, and demanding when she did not show. Finally forced a meeting with her, and of course she barley even knew who he was and wanted nothing to do with him. She was hot, probably around an 8 in the US. What was so strange is how out of touch he was. It was like he did not offer any value or even know what value was. He was going there, she was going to come back with him. He had a ring for her. And thats all there is to it. Kind of like ordering a pizza.
At some level you cant blame these women. They are making a few hundred dollars a month. They live in a kleptocracy, work their ass off to survive with no real hope of getting out. Someone comes along and offers them a shot to make some real money. I wonder how many Americans would take advantage of this if they were in the same desperate straits?
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RE: Wife Hunting Abroad
We can blame feminism, corporations, the welfare state and all that bullshit, but to me it's "men" like these who share a large contribution for the degradation of feminine quality worldwide. Much like the limp-wristed millennial "man"'s contribution.
Fails to implement said "retard game" in his native country, and then he takes it worldwide. What a fucking tool.
When poster's here say "Men stopped acting like men", this is exactly what they mean.
(11-20-2015 01:33 PM)The Ligurian Wrote: A forum member was kind enough to let me log into their Netflix account and watch the documentary just now. Oh dear...
I anticipated that I would look upon the men with contempt and laugh at their stupidity however I ended up feeling sorry for most of them as they seemed like decent guys but just lost in life as to how to find or have relationships with women. If you are that type of guy then Ukrainian women will chew you up and spit you out with no hint of shame. Ukrainian women will blame you for your weakness and feel no guilt. The men behaved completely irrationally for the most part; met a woman for ten minutes, speak through a translator, think she is 'the one' and then decide to propose. It was never going to end well with that kind of lunacy. When you have had such little contact with women then you will latch onto any woman who shows you the slightest interest. The thing was that all the guys that got shafted talked of things 'not feeling right' and sensed things were not right and yet could not stop themselves from continuing down the road to ruin.
One example is...
Aussie Guy: Proposes to a girl from Kiev he had met through an online site. She was attractive, 38 and had two kids. He was probably 20 years older. On the face of it he was doing it about right. Not hitting on a 19 year old model. A woman who already had kids. However we soon see they could not communicate without a translator. But he flies her to Bali with her two kids to marry. She shows him no affection. The morning before the marriage he receives an email from some mystery samaritan who says do not marry her as she uses foreign men for cash and free holidays. He knows something is not right but ignores the letter and marries her anyway. When the priest says you may kiss the bride she gives him her cheek and looks uninterested in her husband refusing to even pretend to like him. And why should she? He is an idiot in her eyes. She probably sees it as teaching him a valuable lesson. She flies home to Kiev and does not write to him for 6 months. No calls or anything. He excuses this behaviour of 'his wife'. He then deludedly flies to Kiev to 'make it work' where she coldly says after numerous shopping trips ( the only tme she smiles ) I don't love you and here is the ring. He tries to keep his emotions in check and stop her from leaving but she walks out of his room laughing. A heartless cunt. Turns out he never even banged her. That's right, a guy who had other areas of his life in check, career, home etc. yet made the irrational decision to marry a woman he had never even fucked. He no doubt learnt more about women in 6 months than in the previous 60 years. The thing is as she leaves the room he tries to hug her again. This guy would take her back even after everything...
Why would reasonable guys make such stupid irrational decisions with their personal lives? They would never make those decisions in their career but show them a woman whose value they place above their own and that's it, sense goes out the window.
I would not choose a Ukrainian wife if I had no experience with women. They exploit any weakness. These guys in the film who were shafted stood no chance. They came from soft western lives where there are pensions and health care and courts where you get justice and hospitols that treat you. Their hardest decision each week is whether to buy skimmed or semi-skimmed. And they came to a land where it's dog eat dog. These girls they met from provincial cities live in a world where no one gives a fuck about you, where the state is too busy using your tax Gryvnas on whores and Kalyan at the Eshak restaurant. And so they will do what it takes to get their share from anyone foolish enough to allow them. And they will be duisgusted by the fact you let them.
Ukrainian women are actually easy to deal with. Unlike common myths they are romantic and not at all cold once you fuck them. They are DTF and SNL's are not difficult as made out. But you have to embody certain things that they are looking for and the most important is not being a 'Половая Тряпка' - a doormat. Although they did not realise it at the time, the guys were fucked the second they pressed send on their first email.
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RE: Wife Hunting Abroad
(11-04-2015 09:01 PM)Laner Wrote: (11-04-2015 01:50 PM)Travesty Wrote: Been thinking more about Bosnia, Albania, Slovakia, and Montenegro recently.
Anyone have experiences with friends or yourself wiving or dating these girls long term? They seem like the non-status monger version of UA and Russian chicks, and non-slut versions of Polish, Czech, and Hungarian chicks relatively speaking.
I dated a Bosnian Muslim who I am still in touch with now, and based on her and her friends I would say its a good shot. Also similar demographics in Montenegro, more Catholic I believe, and is a very beautiful place.
Albania would be tough one, it seems far more Muslim than Bosnia which seems quite split between Islam, Orthodox and Catholic. I cant say much about the women.
Slovakia is also awesome.
I have a friend who is Albanian and actually went back to the "old country" to get married. When he did this he actually brought up how his new wife had a sister who was looking to get out of Albania and that she would actually be willing to pay a couple thousand dollars to "marry" me for oblivious reasons. I thought it was pretty funny that he blatantly brought this up when I never suggested I was ever interested in an arrangement like this; just something I wanted to bring up because a concern that's been brought up in this thread is whether your foreign wife is gonna see you as a green card dispensing machine. The experience I just described would make me concerned about going after Albanian chicks.
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RE: Wife Hunting Abroad
As far as I know it was a scheme that was cooked up by his wife's side of the family. I think he probably had no idea what he was getting into either. I know I had no idea how financially lucrative or risky these sort of schemes could be until I started looking into it myself. I have another friend who is South American and who actually had relatives who pulled it off and he talked about how the "couple" would have private investigators following them around to make sure they were a legit item.
Actually this is bringing back more memories too. I have another friend who actually did almost got caught in the trap. He was seeing this Hungarian girl who he became totally smittened by and was set to marry...until he told a guy at his boxing gym who is Hungarian also and the guy basically gave him a straight up intervention telling him that the girl was using him for a green card and that he had to be on guard with girls from his country. He broke up the marriage at the last minute and even moved out of the state he was living at the moment to get away from her...and the girl still managed to track him down and showed up at his front step! He later found out that the girl was already the process of moving a lot of her family over and they were already selling their old properties in Hungary in preparation for the move and that apparently her parents had actually told her to basically have sex with him as much as possible to basically cloud his mind (which he took advantage of in many situations such as banging her at the bathroom of a Wendy's while people were standing outside and giggling. His exact words: "I made her my whore"). The whole family was relying on her as their meal ticket to the west and my friend was claiming that he heard that the family was beating the shit out of her after the scheme fell apart.
Lots of the above story was pretty outlandish and I only have his word so who knows maybe he embellished some stuff to make a good story. But still, if even half of it was true it would definitely be enough for me to be wary of seeking out a LTR in these parts of the world. I'm not saying don't do it but just be aware of the risks and to vet with the utmost discrimination.
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RE: Wife Hunting Abroad
Quote:...apparently her parents had actually told her to basically have sex with him as much as possible to basically cloud his mind (which he took advantage of in many situations such as banging her at the bathroom of a Wendy's while people were standing outside and giggling. His exact words: "I made her my whore").
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RE: Wife Hunting Abroad
(08-29-2015 05:39 PM)Travesty Wrote: ^ Yes I doubt anywhere in the U.S. has as many young 7's on average per capita. Great for banging, bad for relationships. That's why I chose to live here up until now.
LA, OC, SD, NYC high end has more talent no doubt. Those places don't seem the best for a wife of course hah.
I want to find a Santa Barbara place (tons of young 7's) without the party girl side haha.
Chicago has quite a few 7's that are actually more my style than NYC 7's. I am more into the Scandanavian, Anglo-Saxon look which Chicago has and dislike the Italian and Jewish looks which NYC I noticed has a ton of.
I will have to visit Minneapolis myself to see what it has to offer.
I just returned from a short trip to Chicago. Octavian, Cobra and I were joking about Chicago being the land of 6.5s, but there is an element of true in this. I was impressed with Chicago on many levels, particularly as being a more livable city than NYC. Running Daygame in Chicago for a few days, I found girls to be sweet and very approachable. Looks wise they are a notch below NYC girls as a comparison.
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RE: Wife Hunting Abroad
(08-29-2015 05:26 AM)iknowexactly Wrote: (08-26-2015 01:11 AM)Merenguero Wrote: Age trolling is the new race trolling and we really need to ease up on it.
I don't know what you mean by trolling, I'm assuming you know nothing about what it's like being over 40 or 50
Young guys are taller than ever. I'm 5'9" and it was fine in the 70s. When you're next to a guy who's 6'4 (there are a lot more now) he's almost a whole head taller. You get blow out doubly, age and height.
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