Post: #26

Disney-princess chicks are the ultimate red flag. I don't know how parents allow this to happen without feeling morbid shame. I guess mama thought it was cute and daddy wasn't going to have anybody tell him how to raise his daughter.

If a girl is hard into Disney after age 14 she's guaranteed to be a hot mess. Her favorite media items are literally selling her a princess fantasy since before she could feed herself.

Post: #27

One of the wiser philosophers had some thoughts on this.

Schopenhauer:

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word...

The nobler and more perfect a thing is, the later and slower is it in reaching maturity. Man reaches the maturity of his reasoning and mental faculties scarcely before he is eight-and-twenty; woman when she is eighteen; but hers is reason of very narrow limitations. This is why women remain children all their lives, for they always see only what is near at hand, cling to the present, take the appearance of a thing for reality, and prefer trifling matters to the most important."

Relevant thread: /thread-32048.html

Post: #28

I keep telling my girl, who is 29, that she is still mentally 18 years old; the same as the day I met her.

Shouldn't expect anything else really.

Post: #29

I've had a few, but this thread would be better with a photo.

Post: #30

(12-31-2015 09:29 PM)Indy Wrote:  I've had a few, but this thread would be better with a photo.

Photo of what?

Post: #31

I think that 80% of people cannot learn - identify a problem, identify an avenue to solve the problem, implement it, assess and refine. Women are especially poor at this.

But women can actually improve themselves just like we teach men to do on this forum:

*Go to the gym
*Eat healthy
*Dress well
*Project a positive vibe
*Have interests and goals outside pop culture and climbing the career ladder

A 7 can become a 9 doing these things.

Post: #32

What’s Up With Women Who Never Grow Up?

Post: #33

Of the 26 year-old overweight girl who'd be a 6 if she lost 70 lbs.

Post: #34

(12-31-2015 10:42 PM)Indy Wrote:  Of the 26 year-old overweight girl who'd be a 6 if she lost 70 lbs.

Come back in a 1000 posts and about 20 rep points my man.

Post: #35

I think it is important to understand the limitations of women. When I was married and still blue pill, I expected my wife to be rational and able to have intellectual conversations. This caused a lot of problems. I'd attempt a conversation and soon she'd take something personally or have some kind of meltdown.

Once I understood that women can't communicate like this, and started treating them like little girls, I found it far easier to get along successfully.

Post: #36

(01-01-2016 10:17 PM)RoastBeefCurtains4Me Wrote:  This caused a lot of problems.

One thing I've found in my years around the RVF/Manosphere/etc: most men and women are mentally autonomic - they operate, act and react on a set of biases and insecurities built up long before we met them. It's very difficult for most people no matter their intelligence level to admit their own biases and then to concentrate on changing them. (Politicians understand this, thus we see the same cheap political rhetoric in campaign after campaign amygdala-jacking the voting populace.)

That's one reason that a guy who's trained himself into good game is so impressive - really changing your mindset and social behavior is a tough thing to do that requires re-wiring core psychological circuitry.

I especially tend to be really in my head analyzing and experimenting with my mind and behaviors, and it took me a really long time to understand that most people aren't doing that and are just responding emotionally to whatever ego threats are thrown their way.