Post: #1

... and wanna tell you shortly what happened and ask you for some input...

So yesterday a 21 yo friend who Im fucking regularly was calling me and asked me if we wold hang together around... I had to decline cause wanted to finish a computer-project...
I have finished it earlier than expected -> have called her -> phone off -> went to the club myself...

There I see her and she immidately came to me and stuff... but was apparently already with another dude...
Obviously thats ok.
Suddenly another friend Im fucking with was also there and so I was in the middle.
The previous 21yo friend got likely a lil jealouse and started to play a silly game by dancing for a bit with me while making out with me, then back to the other dude and so on...
While my other friend has brought me a fresh gin tonic...
so due to the fact that she has treated me in a cooler way and did not play any silly games, i have quickly decided to hang around with her and obviously did take her later back to my home...

The 21yo friend still tried for a bit to play some games and sometimes stared at me, but then has given up and also later went with the other dude...

I mean, my request for input is not a big deal or the situation is not a big deal, I just always feel that after such a situation (when a girl Im fucking with plays such silly "I make you jealouse-games and look I can have both of you..." ) I wanna show her a message that i dont like such a treatment...
So I wonder how you guys react in game ad also afterwards after such spots?


edit:
and sorry guys but my kinda noobish threads at the beginning - part of the reason, other that i still have to learn a lot, is also that Im really impressed of the quality of the community here... it a difference like night and day regards to the pu-communities I have been before active...hence your advices differ oftentimes form their advices, which is good and i can connect with it...so Im always curious whats your opinions on some basic situations and how much the ywill differ....
Regards,
Haxton

Post: #2

First of all, use proper orthography. Capitalize the first words in your sentences. Use correct spelling. Proofread your post. Do not use "..." to start sentences or to end half your sentences. If you like the quality of communication here, contribute to high-quality communication yourself.

Secondly, if you are making out with a girl who is then making out with some other guy while you have a girl who treats you nicely waiting in the wings, stop making out with the whorebag.

She wants to get validation that she controls both of you and when she low-level cucks you by making out with you and then going back to her main guy and going home with him, she is humiliating you.

Don't be mad at her, just ignore her. If she wants to dance with you, just don't, if she goes to kiss you, deny her.

"You're here with that other guy, go there with him, don't dance with me."

This will be more respectful to the girl who is treating you nicely, and will drive the other whore insane and make her want you more later, giving you more control over the whole situation in general.

Post: #3

She was manipulating you bro, obviously to make you confused the way that you are now.
Maybe the other dude is in the same situation with her as you, or maybe he's just a beta who couldn't control his woman, either way she's a playful whore like stated above.

The reasonable thing would be staying with the other broad, good decision.

Post: #4

(08-12-2015 09:19 AM)Artist Wrote:  She was manipulating you bro, obviously to make you confused the way that you are now.
Maybe the other dude is in the same situation with her as you, or maybe he's just a beta who couldn't control his woman, either way she's a playful whore like stated above.

The reasonable thing would be staying with the other broad, good decision.

Good call.
She can stay in your harem, but don't initiate. Let her come to you. She will need to apologize.
In such a case I use spanking (as a mean of discipline).