Post: #1

I met a girl the other day; East Asian, immigrant; I'm guessing late 20s. Very very cute. Find her really attractive, and she has a nice rack for an Asian woman. She's got a great, positive personality always laughing. Anyway, I found she really liked me; God knows why but I'm excited. The only Game part of our interaction was I kept my cool when I found out she was into me but steered in a sexual tension way, not a dopey 'lets be friends way' which was my earlier way to dead-end interest.

So now I got her number. She kind of indicated she'd like a traditional date like movie, dinner, on the beach. Normally I'd say screw it, I'll text you; and then text her to meet me at a bar. But she is kind of traditional so I thought I'll meet her half way. Like maybe I'll pick her up and take her to the lake; but then instead of a movie, just say we'll watch it at my place. We can get take-out and I've got drinks back at my pad.

That sound like a good idea?

Some other stuff. Her English is not that great. It's kind of good because I get to tease her and teach her. But it kind of limits us in some ways. Body language gets across though. I just think it would be a little awkward if we go somewhere in public because it takes some work for us to understand each other.

Any ideas about how I should play this? She is one of the hottest girls I have picked up in a while.

Post: #2

Follow your gut.

Make lots of eye contact, add some more hand gestures and touching during jokes. Stay connected mentally with her and you won't need as much language.

Post: #3

Taking her back to your home could be a VERY bad idea if you don't know for certain that she is open to be there. It's a cultural thing. Depending on how Americanized she is, and where she's from, it could go badly in varying degrees. Chinese, Japanese, or Korean fresh off the boat immigrant? You're gonna have a bad time. If she's Americanized, treat her as an American woman.

Assuming that she is not very Americanized:
You'll want to take her someplace that you can understand what she is saying to you. Do you work figuring out where she's from, and talk about her family. As much as you can, you'll want to figure out what class of people her family came from without doing it directly. It's important to understand who she is culturally before you make a play sexually. Gaming Asian women is varsity level game. Tough, and challenging, but rewarding. The thing that you have going for you is that you know that she likes you. Build on that with direct kino. Find the balance by paying attention to her body language.

Japan is ranked as the place that I crashed and burned the worst. But I learned a lot. When I figured out that exerting good old fashioned American dominance over them produces results, the results were stupid. It was like cheating.

Search the forum about how to game women from the location that she is from. You'll find some good stuff in there.

Post: #4

Curious to know how it went.... Details?

Post: #5

She was away on a trip; I'm meeting her in about an hour. Thanks for the advice, see what happens.

Post: #6

(08-10-2015 08:44 PM)arcterex Wrote:  I met a girl the other day; East Asian, immigrant; I'm guessing late 20s. Very very cute. Find her really attractive, and she has a nice rack for an Asian woman. She's got a great, positive personality always laughing. Anyway, I found she really liked me; God knows why but I'm excited. The only Game part of our interaction was I kept my cool when I found out she was into me but steered in a sexual tension way, not a dopey 'lets be friends way' which was my earlier way to dead-end interest.

So now I got her number. She kind of indicated she'd like a traditional date like movie, dinner, on the beach.

First part bolded is that you already put her on a pedestal. Obviously she likes you for whatever reason and SHE FEELS lucky for you to like her. Remember that. It's not always a bad thing to be excited just don't let those emotions over power you.

The second part I would shoot for the beach. It's an easy place to escalate. You can rub lotion on her back and neck. Make sure to use strong and soft hands. Play beach volleyball and make sure to constantly touch.. Walk along the water holding hands. Splash her with some water.

Plus most women find the beach romantic and have a fantasy of fucking on the beach. Use this to your advantage.

Post: #7

I hung out with her today for about an hour. It went okay. Language is a barrier for sure, but took the advice to use eye contact which helped ALOT. Language was a bigger impediment than I thought (don't know why- thought we understood one another better last time we met) -- impediment to getting anywhere and maybe I "misunderestimated" the challenge. Just when I thought it was all a waste, we got alone and made out. That was it. Like I said she is traditional, so maybe that happening on the first date is a lot for her. I was okay with that outcome; it was not bad for an hour's time. She's free on Sunday so maybe we'll hang out again; this time at my pad.

Post: #8

Could have always opted for a longer date to give you more time and opportunity to get the bang.

My favorite line "I'm having so much fun with you I don't want this morning/day/night to end"
Then venue bounce or try to get to your spot or theirs.

Update us on how it goes after you hang out with here again.