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(07-29-2015 06:12 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  You're really not lowering my self-esteem hiding behind your screen. I am going to ask Roosh to remove this post or there will be consequences.

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Just for good measure.

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(07-29-2015 06:18 AM)Il Bersagliere Wrote:  Just for good measure.

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TL;DR: OP is every American girl ever.

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I want to date a PUA.
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She would be a good WYB thread candidate
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I would say "pointy elbows," but I can't see her elbows.

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Gentlemen: Although I fully realize I have no place making this request -- solely for the sake of the former Member whose goofy broad this once was -- would you consider removing the pictures or blurring out the faces?

The banned Member in question may not have handled himself well on the Forum but he is a stand-up dude in real life. Take my word that he remains on excellent personal terms with several of the longest-term and most esteemed Members here, and even meets with them regularly around the country.

Even though this is all her own goddamn fault, I fear this exposure of her will lead to adverse consequences for the former Member in question. (Just to be sure: I don't give a damn about this bird. It's "Bros before Hoes" all the way...)

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Wow, i just woke up to use the john and I get this great thread.

7 or 6 (if you have a tattoo) WB, with tattoo i'd have to be drunk and not putting in that much effort. You're cute enough.

As for the OPs post, i did something similar in college. I feel bad about how i treated them, however it takes two to tango.

Alau, you were attracted to this man for all of the wrong reasons. You knew better, but had a willing disconnect between your better judgment and those tingles down below. How you handle this hurt will basically determine how you deal with men in the future.

Outing your PUA ex boyfriend will not make this feel better, nor will any type of revenge. It's time you sit down, notice all of the warning signs that drew you in, and be smarter for next time so you're not drawn to a person like this again.

Do NOT rush into any relationship or even casually date for at least a year. Read a book, walk in the park, learn to cook, and take time to be yourself.

You've already passed on 3 smart aces because you were still drawn to this bad boy. Do you think when you're in your 30s you'll still be able to pull smart well off guys like that? You'll find men oh definitely, but it will be mid level Mark instead of Joe Esq of Joe Co and Partners.

Since you're 24 you can take time to heal and get back in the game by 25. Otherwise, the hurt, charmed by bad boy, hurt cycle will continue until you're 35, alone, and have 4 cats.

You've been warned.
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(07-29-2015 06:30 AM)Tokyo Joe Wrote:  Gentlemen: Although I fully realize I have no place making this request -- solely for the sake of the former Member whose goofy broad this once was -- would you consider removing the pictures or blurring out the faces?

The banned Member in question may not have handled himself well on the Forum but he is a stand-up dude in real life. Take my word that he remains on excellent personal terms with several of the longest-term and most esteemed Members here, and even meets with them regularly around the country.

Even though this is all her own goddamn fault, I fear this exposure of her will lead to adverse consequences for the former Member in question. (Just to be sure: I don't give a damn about this bird. It's "Bros before Hoes" all the way...)

I remember meeting you after the lecture and you were nice. It is my fault.. can someone delete my pictures? i do not want my information on here and I am not going to out the former member. I do not want to ruin anyone's life. i was just infuriated.
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I'd say send an apology to Tuth, Roosh, and everyone in this thread. Someone will take pity.
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(07-29-2015 06:33 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  It is my fault.

That's a good start, but I think that a detailed, carefully thought out apology would get you more traction here.

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(07-29-2015 06:34 AM)The Beast1 Wrote:  I'd say send an apology to Tuth, Roosh, and everyone in this thread. Someone will take pity.

I already emailed Roosh Sad
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That's good! Now send one to Tuthmosis (he is our moderator you know).

And post a general one for this thread to everyone you insulted prior.
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OP gives us the OkC link but then asks for the pictures to be removed....
Typical female logic!

Final verdict:

Thread: 8.5/10 (after pics)
OkC profile: 3.3/10 (level of self entitlement: Delusional)
OP: 4.9/10 would not bang

Case closed!
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(07-29-2015 06:37 AM)Aquiles_Baesta_Parada Wrote:  OP gives us the OkC link but then asks for the pictures to be removed....
Typical female logic!

Final verdict:

Thread: 8.5/10 (after pics)
OkC profile: 3.3/10 (level of self entitlement: Delusional)
OP: 4.9/10 would not bang

Case closed!
Good day to all.

I did not want them posted on the website. I quickly deactivated my profile. The person could have at least messaged them to some other members instead of posting them here.
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(07-29-2015 06:43 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  I did not want them posted on the website. I quickly deactivated my profile. The person could have at least messaged them to some other members instead of posting them here.

I'd like to hear more about how well you did on your SATs.

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Possibly the sexiest post I've read on this board.
OP is brimming with femininity. Surprised she hails from DC. (A D.C. 7.5). The thought process is what makes her attractive. Hot and cold, on and off, unpredictable...I can easily understand why missing player kept her on tap

There's a ton of game here as well if you read closely.

As to OP, you got two options

1) You can try to hurt him by "exposing" him

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2) You can heal

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(07-29-2015 06:54 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Possibly the sexiest post I've read on this board.
OP is brimming with femininity. Surprised she hails from DC. (A D.C. 7.5). The thought process is what makes her attractive. Hot and cold, on and off, unpredictable...I can easily understand why missing player kept her on tap

There's a ton of game here as well if you read closely.

As to OP, you got two options

1) You can try to hurt him by "exposing" him

Or

2) You can heal

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Thanks for your response. I am not going to hurt him by exposing him. i shouldn't have ranted on here... I was just extremely mad and thought there would be some decent guys on here that would give me some advice on how to move on/not be so resentful. And yes, for those who want to know... I have mostly ONLY dated nice, awkward, "beta" guys... and i have all positive relationships with them still. i would rather you be awkward than not yourself at all/an asshole for no reason. i would not be so "hot" and "cold" and "on" and "off" if there was no reason to be. The lying and manipulation did it for me.
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(07-29-2015 06:58 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  i would not be so "hot" and "cold" and "on" and "off" if there was no reason to be. The lying and manipulation did it for me.

So, what you are saying is that your poor behaviour and unappealing personality is all his fault.

Hmmmm.

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(07-29-2015 07:00 AM)Suits Wrote:  
(07-29-2015 06:58 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  i would not be so "hot" and "cold" and "on" and "off" if there was no reason to be. The lying and manipulation did it for me.

So, what you are saying is that your poor behaviour and unappealing personality is all his fault.

Hmmmm.

i would have acted "normally" if he hadn't been lying and manipulating me the entire time. Even his own friend told me that he probably has issues and possibly some form of social disorder. I really would never treat someone like shit for no reason.
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(07-29-2015 06:54 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Possibly the sexiest post I've read on this board.
OP is brimming with femininity.

I agree, actually. The SAT score stuff is what reminds you where she hails from. To be honest, the description--if you read between the lines--is pretty fist-biting too. She values her "solitude." I can't remember ever reading that, and I've seen tens of thousands of OKC profiles.

The ups-and-downs tell me she must be amazing in the sack. My penchant for crazy broads is well-documented on this forum, and this one set off alarms from the jump. It takes a particular brand of girl to join a forum like this, pay money for the fucking silver membership, and then write a wall of text about her horrible relationship with her man. This checks off every box in the column. Our banned member didn't manage this craziness properly, and now she's almost gone and hurt herself or others.

(07-29-2015 06:58 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  Thanks for your response. I am not going to hurt him by exposing him. i shouldn't have ranted on here... I was just extremely mad and thought there would be some decent guys on here that would give me some advice on how to move on/not be so resentful. And yes, for those who want to know... I have mostly ONLY dated nice, awkward, "beta" guys... and i have all positive relationships with them still. i would rather you be awkward than not yourself at all/an asshole for no reason. i would not be so "hot" and "cold" and "on" and "off" if there was no reason to be. The lying and manipulation did it for me.

OP, if you can promise to be a quality, sweetheart chick to the next genuinely good guy you meet out there--and not let some not-so-great treatment turn you into resentful, damaged bitch--I can see that your problem goes away.

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(07-29-2015 06:58 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  i would not be so "hot" and "cold" and "on" and "off" if there was no reason to be. The lying and manipulation did it for me.

So, what you are saying is that your poor behaviour and unappealing personality is all his fault.

Hmmmm.

i would have acted "normally" if he hadn't been lying and manipulating me the entire time. Even his own friend told me that he probably has issues and possibly some form of social disorder. I really would never treat someone like shit for no reason.

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(07-29-2015 07:09 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  
(07-29-2015 06:54 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Possibly the sexiest post I've read on this board.
OP is brimming with femininity.

I agree, actually. The SAT score stuff is what reminds you where she hails from. To be honest, the description--if you read between the lines--is pretty fist-biting too. She values her "solitude." I can't remember ever reading that, and I've seen tens of thousands of OKC profiles.

The ups-and-downs tell me she must be amazing in the sack. My penchant for crazy broads is well-documented on this forum, and this one set off alarms from the jump. It takes a particular brand of girl to join a forum like this, pay money for the fucking silver membership, and then write a wall of text about her horrible relationship with her man. This checks off every box in the column. Our banned member didn't manage this craziness properly, and now she's almost gone and hurt herself or others.

(07-29-2015 06:58 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  Thanks for your response. I am not going to hurt him by exposing him. i shouldn't have ranted on here... I was just extremely mad and thought there would be some decent guys on here that would give me some advice on how to move on/not be so resentful. And yes, for those who want to know... I have mostly ONLY dated nice, awkward, "beta" guys... and i have all positive relationships with them still. i would rather you be awkward than not yourself at all/an asshole for no reason. i would not be so "hot" and "cold" and "on" and "off" if there was no reason to be. The lying and manipulation did it for me.

OP, if you can promise to be a quality, sweetheart chick to the next genuinely good guy you meet out there--and not let some not-so-great treatment turn you into resentful, damaged bitch--I can see that your problem goes away.

I have always been nice to the men that I date..that's why I am friends with them all even after we had broken up. He is the only one that i have acted this way with for reasons i have mentioned. I am not going to be resentful because i know that there are good men out there and that not every guy is the same. He is the only one who has seen my "crazy" side.... because he brought it out, and i got tired of his abuse.
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(07-29-2015 07:15 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  I have always been nice to the men that I date..that's why I am friends with them all even after we had broken up. He is the only one that i have acted this way with for reasons i have mentioned. I am not going to be resentful because i know that there are good men out there and that not every guy is the same. He is the only one who has seen my "crazy" side.... because he brought it out, and i got tired of his abuse.

Something's not computing.

Why did you feel it necessary to come in and insult all of us, calling us--if I remember correctly--"basement-dwelling losers"? We didn't hurt you. This person did, and you lashed out at complete strangers. We have feelings too. What if I really did live in a basement?

It sounds like more than just him saw your crazy side.

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