Post: #26

I wouldn't be friends with chicks I want to fuck. But I wouldn't mind being friends with chicks I don't want to fuck, but wouldn't mind fucking if they initiate it. Basically I would be friends with average looking chicks, if she has other good qualities.

Post: #27

(06-07-2011 01:41 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  I have never been a big advocate either.

When traveling, swooping, boxing, horseracing and dressing sharp are the things I am most interested in, what do I have in common with girls to be friends?

I have occasionally created a "temporary friendship" with girls to leverage other girls, with mixed results.

It seems that the energy and effort is just not worth it.

I would be interested if someone has figured out a formula for this.

Do you do horseracing? My respect for you keeps increasing.

Post: #28

I cannot, will not and refuse to befriend most women. They're beyond annoying at times, they dress like sluts and when you look at them like one they become offended. Alot of them are dumb and care too much about trivial things. But, one of my best friends is a woman. She is beyond amazing for a woman period.

Post: #29

If they're cool and not a drain on your time or resources, why not?

Post: #30

I have many female friends, but only one i have not fucked. She is very nice and super cool and has super hot friends and she loves to help me out and get me laid, shes basically my RooshVforum that i can call on the phone. oh yea and shes like 250lbs so it works out.

Post: #31

(06-07-2011 06:20 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  I have a male friend, I met him in 2004. (omg! LOL) We went out once, but we are more friends than a couple. He tells me everything that he wants (even about his GF) and I tell him everything I want (men, friendships, so on)... He gaves me a male perspective of the facts I don't know what I would do without his opinion sometimes. He is more objective than my female friends.

why is there a lizard in the lions den?

Post: #32

I used to be one of those beta dudes that had a bunch of hot female friends who fucked OTHER GUYS then came to cry on my shoulder when they had problems. In my early 20's I realized that as much as I bullshitted about "valuing their friendship" I really didn't. I was just staying their friend on the off chance that they might hook up with me (a tactic that rarely worked).

Finally, I came to the conclusion that this was all bullshit. I made a list of all of my hot female "friends" and asked 2 questions:
1) If I had the chance to fuck them, but it would ruin the friendship would I do it?
With just 1 exception, the answer was YES for every single one of my hot friends.

2) If I KNEW that I had no chance of ever fucking them, would I remain friends with them?
Again, with just 1 exception, the answer was NO for every single one of my hot friends.

At that moment I made it a point to try to bang every chick (except one) on my friend list. All of the information they gave me when I was in the friend zone? I used every bit of that info to try to get into their pants. Over the course of a few years, I wound up banging a bout a third of them, and the rest I severed contact with.

I will say that fucking these girls destroyed the friendship, but honestly, who gives a shit? the few months I spent fucking this big titty Asian chick in the ass (she loved anal) and sucking on her thick juicy nipples was worth VASTLY more than our previous 5-6 year friendship when she would call at all hours to whine about the most unimportant shit you could imagine. She wound up hating my guts afterward, but getting a piece of that sweet ass was more important.

I actually think this allows me to have a more honest and healthy friendship with women. Now, if I am friends with a girl (which is rare), it is not some backdoor beta move to try to fuck them. I actually give a shit about their opinions.

Post: #33

My female friends are either girlfriends or wives of my friends, or girls I party with and have/am fucking. I don't go to the mall or talk to them on the phone and shit though. I go to parties at their house, grab their ass at the bar, etc. So no, don't really have female friends that I chill with like I do my boys.

Post: #34

(11-07-2011 03:21 PM)RedBull Wrote:  

(06-07-2011 06:20 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  I have a male friend, I met him in 2004. (omg! LOL) We went out once, but we are more friends than a couple. He tells me everything that he wants (even about his GF) and I tell him everything I want (men, friendships, so on)... He gaves me a male perspective of the facts I don't know what I would do without his opinion sometimes. He is more objective than my female friends.

why is there a lizard in the lions den?

Read the introduction thread, then my recommendations, dear newbie.

Post: #35

I had this discussion with some women I know a few years ago. They're acquaintences, so I could come strong at them. I told them that all of the male "friends" that they have are only orbiting them so they could possibly fuck during a weak moment. They were all like, "EWWWW...that's terrible!" We had a couple of overlapping circles of friends, so we all ended up hanging out a lot. They had guys in the circle, that they weren't fucking, buying them drinks, etc. They LOVE it. I told them men don't really benefit from female friendships unless they help them bang other chicks (and that's only if your female friends are down for you like that, and will help you. Some chicks actually get jealous if you're banging other chicks, because that's less attention for them). Men don't necessarily get insight into the minds of females, because we can't really trust women's opinions with regards to other women. So unless you're banging, about to bang, or getting some kind of help banging other chicks, men don't really get much from female friendships. One correction...they help us get into nightspots...HA HA!