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Best Place or Approach To Learn Public Speaking
I am working to enhance my public speaking and talking to an audience skill set. While approaches help with speaking and talking to strangers in general (both good skills), they don't replicate the feeling of speaking to 50+ people, and this skill carries some game benefits (but other benefits as well). I'm curious to the members here with more experience, where was the most effective place you learned public speaking?

I'd like a test place to try a few things, as my experiments in the professional world have carried costs, like lost opportunities, and I realized that having a place to practice is much better than just taking shots professionally.
06-18-2015 04:31 AM
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RE: Best Place or Approach To Learn Public Speaking
(06-18-2015 04:31 AM)SunW Wrote:  speaking and talking to strangers in general (both good skills)

Do exactly that for a fortnight. Speak to anyone and everyone within reason nearby you. Not for the purposes of game -- I'd even suggest the opposite, could be an old guy on the way to the lottery. On public transport, at the queue in the shops, wherever. No-one will be too daunting to speak to afterwards.

If you're in school/college/university, join the debating society. You learn to think on your feet and control nerves. From experience, I'd go so far as to argue that the skillsets you pick up in debating actually run counter to game, as you're flexing the principles of structured rhetoric delivering from first principles -- basically bolstering your case with pure logic, something I've often times had to put aside in game.

Toastmasters is a good alternative. There's mostly no requirement to appear in front of 50 + people, but you can park some of the logical thinking aside and mix in banter and such.

You can also practise reading articles, putting it down in dot points and delivering it as a speech, albeit not rigidly structured, in front of a mirror at home. Record yourself. If you can do that in front of a neighbour, bonus points.
06-18-2015 04:48 AM
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RE: Best Place or Approach To Learn Public Speaking
I've heard good things about Toastmasters (supportive environment) though have never tried it.

Take public speaking at community college evening class. Acting I is also good, since it deals more with emotions than the logic of public speaking.
06-19-2015 12:41 PM
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RE: Best Place or Approach To Learn Public Speaking
(06-18-2015 04:31 AM)SunW Wrote:  I am working to enhance my public speaking and talking to an audience skill set. While approaches help with speaking and talking to strangers in general (both good skills), they don't replicate the feeling of speaking to 50+ people, and this skill carries some game benefits (but other benefits as well). I'm curious to the members here with more experience, where was the most effective place you learned public speaking?

I'd like a test place to try a few things, as my experiments in the professional world have carried costs, like lost opportunities, and I realized that having a place to practice is much better than just taking shots professionally.

Join your local Toastmasters group and go two nights a week. After 6 months, you'll be a pro.

Norm: Did you build the Estadio Olimpico?
Pat Healy: No, just down the street the Celinto Catayente Towers.
06-19-2015 12:59 PM
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