Post: #1

So I have decided to take the plunge and take charge of my game scene, by doing the 100 approaches as suggested by Roosh and the other members of the forum.

I sincerely hope that all the veterans and pro's out there would help me as I go along to achieving my goals. Thanks.

Physical stats:Sikh Guy(Google Sikhism if you dont know about it) and wear a turban with a beard(no im not a muslim).
Pretty well built body, into hard core gyming, neither lean nor bulky, more on the strong side well defined chest and biceps. Im 5ft 5 inches tall. If anyone is wondering my turban is not something that puts me down I play more of an exotic card. I believe my deficiencies stem from Beta behaviour and poor game. Age 22.

#1 Was alone at the mall and decided to go over and talk to a cute Asian girl, handling the reception of a Chinese restaurant. Me "Hey, How are you doing"(I was walking towards her from the right, stopped slightly looked over my shoulder and said this) "Could I please see the restaurant menu?" She:"Mumbled something shy inaudible" Me(After looking through the pages" Do you guys serve sesame chicken, its been a long time I had that?" She: (Replies pretty much inaudibly)
So I say thank you and bail.

Post: #2

I really hate you right now. I read your entire post in an Indian accent.

I probably would've plowed through that set for about a minute more. Tease her about her not knowing what the restaurant serves, despite the fact she works there. Joke about not bringing your friends there because they all love sesame chicken.

At the end of the day, if she continued being unresponsive, I would have left it alone.

Post: #3

Glad to see you are taking initiative and started your approaches. In the long run you will appreciate the hell out of it and you'll give yourself a pat on the back. As for your approach I would suggest using some humor in order to crack a smile on her face, because the approach you did could be taken as a simple inquiry by another customer walking by so why not ask if they serve fortune cookies with a smirk on your face? even if she doesn't respond who cares, just make sure that your approach stands out and not become another customer service situation. If humor is not your thing, just keep going at it because you simply asked her two questions, she mumbled something incoherent and you left. Good start and keep going strong.

Post: #4

(05-18-2015 10:36 AM)Il Bersagliere Wrote:  I really hate you right now. I read your entire post in an Indian accent.

I probably would've plowed through that set for about a minute more. Tease her about her not knowing what the restaurant serves, despite the fact she works there. Joke about not bringing your friends there because they all love sesame chicken.

At the end of the day, if she continued being unresponsive, I would have left it alone.

a. I dont have an Indian accent, ive been born and brought up in the US.
Hey, there is no reason to hate.

Post: #5

Dont worry about it, you did a good job by walking over and saying something, that deserves respect. She probably didnt speak english anyways so dont sweat it too much. Approaching is a good habit, you wont get results every single time but when you do youll see why its worth it

Post: #6

(05-18-2015 11:54 AM)edtf Wrote:  Dont worry about it, you did a good job by walking over and saying something, that deserves respect. She probably didnt speak english anyways so dont sweat it too much. Approaching is a good habit, you wont get results every single time but when you do youll see why its worth it

Im perfectly fine with the result. I lost 2 chances earlier in the day when i was in the book store. Im pretty much happy that I got my head together, used the 3 second rule and approached. Yes, i get your advice and humour is kinda not my thing, i have more of a serious look about me.

Post: #7

Gagan good Job on Approaching, Don't put too much thought into it, The Only wrong Approach is the one that you didn't make. So for today I will critique you on those 2 missed approaches you didn't make.

One a day is not enough, Do 10 Approaches today, come back and report.