Post: #1

Over the last three months I was meeting 2 girls which have in my eyes a sexual blockade and I don't know how to help them overcome it. I think it would be rewarding for me too, as sex would be better. I don't meet those girls anymore as I it is not pleasurable in the long-term and gets boring after 2 or 3 times fucking them.

Case 1: French girl (30 years)
She orgasms, but she likes the fuck to be super slow. Despite not really needing foreplay, she gets right to action and sucks my dick and puts it into her vagina 1-2 minutes later. She gets off quite fast - i basically fuck her for 1-2 minutes very slowly as her vagina is extremely tight and then she comes already. She says herself that my penis fills her out completely and has the perfect size. She also says, she has to be careful that she doesn't urinate when orgasm. So she wants to stop the penetration immediately when/while coming. I told her that this is squirting and she can experience multiple orgasms if she just let it go. But after 3 times of trying to convince her, she always once to stop after orgasm 1 and not go further. I often don't get off obviously after 1-2 minutes so she sucks me dry after. Still, she has that barrier and i would like to solve it.

Case 2: Polish girl (29 years)
She seems to have a bad low sex drive. Meeting her for two weeks now. Every time we fuck, she wants long foreplay. She says she does not like her pussy to be licked. Also when I want to put my fingers in there, she takes them out. After foreplay, i put on the condom and fuck her missionary. I feel her for the first minute but her vagina gets lose/wider and I don't feel her anymore. She always asks if she can go on top then and ride me. I let her do it and she feels indeed much better then. Her vagina gets tighter and so it becomes more pleasurable for me. We both come then after 5-10 minutes (mostly together). She shakes like crazy after. But we never fuck again after that. She just seems to have such a low sex drive that I have never experienced before. If you ask me, I think she found for herself a way to orgasm (by being on top and riding the cock best for her stimulation) and she is not open to do anything else and try something new - maybe because she has bad experience. Obviously, also a blockade/barrier that she needs to overcome and which i would like to help her with as she is a very cute and good girl. I am not going to meet her again i think (only because of this).

Any similar cases with some advises how you have overcome then?

Post: #2

There's a simple way of overcoming them, find girls who aren't crap at sex. You are seeing them for the sex and the sex is crap, they are providing next to no value to you.

Keep these two girls as the low hanging fruits and hit them up once in a while if you must, but it is hard to change girls who are so fucking terrible at sex into something that much better and unlikely it would be worth the effort. With the French girl you can try watching some porn with her and see if she gets the idea and is sufficiently turned on in trying new things. Also see if she enjoys being dominated.

Each guy has his own things he looks for for sex in the outset. I dropped a girl last week who would have sex but for some odd reason wouldn't give blowjobs (or do cum in mouth). Decide on your own boundaries.

Post: #3

With girl 1 draw out foreplay as long as possible. Finger her while hittin her G spot and don't let her stop you until she squirts. Draw out the foreplay some more... Eat her out, kiss her, eat her out, make her squirt again, don't let her stop you. Pay attention to her whole body and pin her hands down above her head when she tries to make a move to stop you.
Then fuck her and don't let her stop you.
You have to get her incredibly turned on first.

Ditch girl 2, and ditch girl 1 if she doesn't let you do above.

Post: #4

Their desire to please you is not as high as their desire to please themselves. You're equals, as opposed to superior and inferior.

Dread/competition anxiety or putting in the long hours of getting them used to pleasing you is all that I can think of.

I made a similar post a few months back, but once the pattern is set, you need next level game to unlock her passion.

WIA