Post: #1

Don't laugh guys but try it out sometime. Me and a buddy went to a stripclub to visit a girl I knew there before going to the actual club and I kid you not, something just felt different about tonight when we entered. I already felt loose, relaxed, in a chill yet social mood. Usually, I'd have to pump myself up before entering the club, blast loud music in the car, dance a little or slam a beer to loosen up before chatting up girls but today, it was just effortless.

Just think about it. One moment, you're surrounded by hot, sexy naked women who are opening you, YOU'RE blowing out girls haha. You're already warming up talking to girls, HOT girls so by the time you get to the actual club, the hottest girls there are barely making the cut compared to what you previously saw earlier in the night.

Some of you may already know the strategy of opening anyone and everyone (such as a 7-11 employee, bouncer, doorman, taxi driver, etc) before going inside the club to put yourself in a social mood so just take that same philosophy but add hot naked girls to the equation. Anyways, not saying I'm going to do this on a regular basis but it was an interesting observation I noticed about myself and my interactions with girls compared to previous weeks.

Post: #2

I do this sort of thing to if I'm close enough to a strip joint. It is probably the only good thing about such an establishment. But it is a fake mindset though. It may feel like you are blowing off overly sexualised girls but they just trying to make some money off of you and you are not taking the bait.

Another benefit of the strip club that I think you will agree on is that it makes you hornier so you have extra incentive to push your night club interactions even further.

Post: #3

Ha I thought of this idea a few months ago as I had great state coming out of a strip club as well.

Post: #4

I used to do this in Las Vegas all the time before the era of having to get in earlier if you have pre-sale or a table. Now its not as logistically doable, but its a good strategy. I even get a lapdance, get that smell of pussy on me and touch some titties for when I go out. You suddenly don't have any problems escalating because the muscle memory is strong with you the rest of th enight.

Post: #5

(05-16-2015 10:03 AM)JordanH Wrote:  I do this sort of thing to if I'm close enough to a strip joint. It is probably the only good thing about such an establishment. But it is a fake mindset though. It may feel like you are blowing off overly sexualised girls but they just trying to make some money off of you and you are not taking the bait.

Another benefit of the strip club that I think you will agree on is that it makes you hornier so you have extra incentive to push your night club interactions even further.

I see your "fake" point regarding the "blowing off girls" but I should've been more clear that that was my friend who was blowing them off. I'm usually polite to all the girls even if I have no intention of getting a lapdance. I actually feel sorry for them so usually compliment then on something, like their eyes or smile then tell them I'm just relaxing for right now but thank you.

So just merely talking to hot, naked girls already "warms" you up sorta speak but yeah, I agree that you're not really blowing them out as you're just refusing a lapdance. I should've emphasized that it's the talking to hot naked girl aspect that can raise your state.

(05-16-2015 08:41 PM)Drazen Wrote:  I used to do this in Las Vegas all the time before the era of having to get in earlier if you have pre-sale or a table. Now its not as logistically doable, but its a good strategy. I even get a lapdance, get that smell of pussy on me and touch some titties for when I go out. You suddenly don't have any problems escalating because the muscle memory is strong with you the rest of th enight.

Oh shit man, I never thought of that angle. You're right man! The smell of pussy and the physicality in addition to the talking. In my case the other night, I didn't get a lapdance but I was basically just holding my beloved the whole time on my lap talking about her week but I wonder if the girls in the club can "smell" it haha. Or not to get too hippy-ish on you guys but there is an exchange of energy everytime you interact with anybody so you're getting this massive hit of feminine energy to balance out us out so that when you do talk to a girl in club, you're already "tuned in" to her. I might want to experiment with this again in the future.

Post: #6

It wasn't planned, but one time this worked out for me in Mexico.

After a lapdance with one of the hottest Mexican girls I've seen, amazing tig ol bitties, I was so damn hot and bothered I was just determined to get laid that night.

Lo and behold, I was a-jack-hammerin all night and until the sun came up with some sexy college girl. It has to be my record time; between meeting and plowing was prob under 20 min. Just caught her right as she was leaving the club about 2:00 and she dragged me with her.

Post: #7

(05-17-2015 06:00 AM)fucksong Wrote:  In my case the other night, I didn't get a lapdance but I was basically just holding my beloved the whole time on my lap talking about her week but I wonder if the girls in the club can "smell" it haha.

Post: #8

Haha, yeah my next ex-gf will rest on me/sit on my lap while we hug and talk during her breaks. Don't hate