Moma
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MiXX
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RE: Dancing
(05-25-2011 03:21 PM)Moma Wrote: I was thinking about Mixx's being a salsa dude and I might start to go to some spanish venue's and get my footwork polished.
Salsa is cool when you are latin and dancing with white, foreign girls...it gets you easy lays. When you are dancing with other latinas, who are great dancers, it gets you nothing but a peck on the cheek and a thank you....it is not DHV.
So, here is my take.
If you are going to dance with women who are new to salsa...then being a intermediate/good salsa dancer will get you laid - FAST!
If you are going to dance with women who are great salsa dancers, like a natural dancing latina, then dance something to get her out of her comfort zone and into your playing field...like West Coast Swing OR Tango. Something to make her feel you are in control, not her.
Women who are really good salsa dancers rarely turn into bangs by guys they happen to meet the same night - very rare. Unless, you are already banging her, but then banging her had nothing to do with your dance skills.
I dance salsa often, and it mostly with White or French girls who are crazy and enthusiastic about learning it, then it becomes fun again. On and off the dance floor.
Mixx
(This post was last modified: 05-27-2011 05:29 PM by MiXX.)
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rozayINTL
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RE: Dancing
I can't stress how big dancing is. I'll give my own approach -
first, make sure your hands aren't staying in one place the whole time - i see dudes doing this, usually their hands on her thighs like they are grabbing a little imaginary ball, or not even making contact
best place to lay your hands is where the inner thigh connects w/ the hip, lay your hand out flat, your fingers will usually lay down where that crease is. at first just have it there lightly, I can tell right from the start that a girl is feeling that, always. - nice zone as well, dats my secrete location - feel her panties or whatever, they love that shit. you can change up how your fingers are/where they are, to let her know you like how shes moving
keep it moving, keep it interesting (by that i mean transition her from facing away & grinding the ass on you, to having her FACE YOU - grind on your legs/straddle you/however she wants to do it - great time to attempt the make out/lightly grab her ass if you are comfortable).
however, be cautious. i have made some dance floor blunders when belligerent -- getting slapped in the face (hard) in front of my friends, a girl choking me (I dont even know what the fuck happened - it was halloween), dancing with a 6 so I wouldn't black out/fall on the ground and start vomiting, waking up on a girl's FLOOR the next morning that I had been dancing with, getting attacked/swung at by a frat bro dressed like my grandpa (never found out why)
Also some day, I am going to learn salsa. That's actual dancing - grinding which I've just gone over doesn't even compare
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Samseau
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RE: Dancing
Every notch I have, I danced with her in some form before I banged her. Even if it was just some shitty grinding, dancing was essential or extremely useful to building kino. I know not every guy needs to use the dance floor, but I use it with every seduction to a great effect. Girls love dancing and it gets them hot. Incidentally, every bar I frequent has a dance floor.
I could write pages on good dance floor game. How to approach, how to build a convo while dancing, how to isolate, how to kino escalate, how to get the kiss, what to do if she bounces, how to avoid cockblocks, what kind of moves to get her exicited, etc. I find it not to be too much different from talking game, except that you start with physical attraction instead of vibing with her.
(This post was last modified: 05-30-2011 10:23 AM by Samseau.)
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MiXX
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RE: Dancing
(05-30-2011 10:22 AM)Samseau Wrote: I could write pages on good dance floor game. How to approach, how to build a convo while dancing, how to isolate, how to kino escalate, how to get the kiss, what to do if she bounces, how to avoid cockblocks, what kind of moves to get her exicited, etc. I find it not to be too much different from talking game, except that you start with physical attraction instead of vibing with her.
We'll settle for a few paragraphs with highlights!
So, bust it out man!!
MiXX
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docsedated
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RE: Dancing
(05-30-2011 10:22 AM)Samseau Wrote: Every notch I have, I danced with her in some form before I banged her. Even if it was just some shitty grinding, dancing was essential or extremely useful to building kino. I know not every guy needs to use the dance floor, but I use it with every seduction to a great effect. Girls love dancing and it gets them hot. Incidentally, every bar I frequent has a dance floor.
I could write pages on good dance floor game. How to approach, how to build a convo while dancing, how to isolate, how to kino escalate, how to get the kiss, what to do if she bounces, how to avoid cockblocks, what kind of moves to get her exicited, etc. I find it not to be too much different from talking game, except that you start with physical attraction instead of vibing with her.
@ Samseau : I Second Mixx's opinion on busting out a detailed instrauction manual for dance Game and accept my thanks is Anticiaption.
I dance well actually very well since I enjoy dancing and can dance to any rhythm, I do not care if there is someone on the dance floor or not I start dancing and usually invite a kind of a shy girl to dance and start dancing but closing is still a problem , either I am escalating too fast or too slow but girls loose Interest.
Answer this for me
1. What to do when Girls are shy to go to Dance floor or girls who are generally timid, Do you start light movements where you are standing ?
2. Also Roosh is not a big Advocate of approaching using dance game and recommends using dance for builiding Kino after a girl is hooked , What do you Dance masters say to that ?
"Timidity is dangerous, Better to enter with boldness. Any mistakes you commit through audacity are easily corrected with more audacity." (Robert Greene)
(This post was last modified: 05-30-2011 12:10 PM by docsedated.)
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latinlover
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RE: Dancing
(05-30-2011 10:22 AM)Samseau Wrote: Every notch I have, I danced with her in some form before I banged her. Even if it was just some shitty grinding, dancing was essential or extremely useful to building kino. I know not every guy needs to use the dance floor, but I use it with every seduction to a great effect. Girls love dancing and it gets them hot. Incidentally, every bar I frequent has a dance floor.
I could write pages on good dance floor game. How to approach, how to build a convo while dancing, how to isolate, how to kino escalate, how to get the kiss, what to do if she bounces, how to avoid cockblocks, what kind of moves to get her exicited, etc. I find it not to be too much different from talking game, except that you start with physical attraction instead of vibing with her.
3rded, bust a data sheet out!
I am no gentleman
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Samseau
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RE: Dancing
(05-30-2011 10:44 AM)MiXX Wrote: (05-30-2011 10:22 AM)Samseau Wrote: I could write pages on good dance floor game. How to approach, how to build a convo while dancing, how to isolate, how to kino escalate, how to get the kiss, what to do if she bounces, how to avoid cockblocks, what kind of moves to get her exicited, etc. I find it not to be too much different from talking game, except that you start with physical attraction instead of vibing with her.
We'll settle for a few paragraphs with highlights!
So, bust it out man!!
MiXX
(05-30-2011 12:09 PM)docsedated Wrote: (05-30-2011 10:22 AM)Samseau Wrote: Every notch I have, I danced with her in some form before I banged her. Even if it was just some shitty grinding, dancing was essential or extremely useful to building kino. I know not every guy needs to use the dance floor, but I use it with every seduction to a great effect. Girls love dancing and it gets them hot. Incidentally, every bar I frequent has a dance floor.
I could write pages on good dance floor game. How to approach, how to build a convo while dancing, how to isolate, how to kino escalate, how to get the kiss, what to do if she bounces, how to avoid cockblocks, what kind of moves to get her exicited, etc. I find it not to be too much different from talking game, except that you start with physical attraction instead of vibing with her.
@ Samseau : I Second Mixx's opinion on busting out a detailed instrauction manual for dance Game and accept my thanks is Anticiaption.
I dance well actually very well since I enjoy dancing and can dance to any rhythm, I do not care if there is someone on the dance floor or not I start dancing and usually invite a kind of a shy girl to dance and start dancing but closing is still a problem , either I am escalating too fast or too slow but girls loose Interest.
Answer this for me
1. What to do when Girls are shy to go to Dance floor or girls who are generally timid, Do you start light movements where you are standing ?
2. Also Roosh is not a big Advocate of approaching using dance game and recommends using dance for builiding Kino after a girl is hooked , What do you Dance masters say to that ?
(05-30-2011 06:49 PM)latinlover Wrote: (05-30-2011 10:22 AM)Samseau Wrote: Every notch I have, I danced with her in some form before I banged her. Even if it was just some shitty grinding, dancing was essential or extremely useful to building kino. I know not every guy needs to use the dance floor, but I use it with every seduction to a great effect. Girls love dancing and it gets them hot. Incidentally, every bar I frequent has a dance floor.
I could write pages on good dance floor game. How to approach, how to build a convo while dancing, how to isolate, how to kino escalate, how to get the kiss, what to do if she bounces, how to avoid cockblocks, what kind of moves to get her exicited, etc. I find it not to be too much different from talking game, except that you start with physical attraction instead of vibing with her.
3rded, bust a data sheet out!
Give me 1-2 weeks and I'll have a guide out!
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