Post: #1

First off I have thoroughly searched the forum for anything and everything stripper related and I found tons of good info. I was just wondering if any pro's could give me any custom tips on the following situation.

Every year I go out of town for business and last year I went to a strip club on a whim one evening. I do not spend big bucks at strip clubs cause even before I swallowed the red pill I knew it was a scam and that the girls just work over the guys and well you know the story. Well to my surprise I ended up talking to this very tasty non trashy stripper (is there such a thing) for 6 hours without giving her more than say 20 dollars. My gut was there was a real connection as she would always come down off the stage and sit with me and we generally just had a really good time the entire time talking. She is probably about 26 and I am mid 30's. She is probably a 7.5 but her personality makes her in my book nearly a 8.

I was going to see if I could take her out for breakfast after she got off (the dont close till 3am) but to be honest with you I simply ran out of gas and I was to much of a puss to ask her out last year. Now this weekend I will again be going to that same strip club and I am wondering how to proceed. On one side I was thinking play it the same as I did last year but more alpha and use what I have learned from the RVF but on the other side I was thinking lie lie lie and maybe that would be a good way to go. I could say how I am probably moving there and talk about big money that I don't have and go that route. She may remember that I have a steady gf cause I messed up and mentioned that last year. I also know she is big into jewelry (makes her own) and my buddy who has always had good frame and good luck with the ladies suggested I give her a couple of gems that he gave me for free to give to her. They look expensive but I got them for free and they are cultured gems not natural but would still sell for maybe $100 a piece and I have 5 of them. The old me would think that is the way to go but the new me thinks giving her gifts is beta. I dont think she does drugs so I can go that route as I dont really do them either. Logistics are not great as I will be in a motel room that isnt terribly fancy but is only about 1.5 miles away. Also she will be getting off late and thats not good for anyone unless she is a night owl. I would see if I could get her to leave before 3am but its a small place and my guess is she HAS to stay till close. One more thing she doesnt drink at work but probably does outside of work.

Long story short I want to tap that but if I dont I may have something else lined up so its not the end of the world if I dont sample that.

Any and all suggestions from any seasoned RVF's is welcomed.

Post: #2

Are you even sure she still works there and she will work at the time you are there? My guess is that you are overthinking this.

Post: #3

She's going to be massively creeped out you remembered her so much you bought her jewelry.

Just be there and if you run into her game as usual and get her number. But stop overthinking this, it sounds pretty cringe-worthy if you would show up with jewelery for her and shows that you read way too much into the initial interaction.

I'm assuming you're going with friends.

Post: #4

Don't waste your time. There are plenty of women that are 10x better than a decent looking stripper.

Strippers don't have souls and manipulate you to make extra singles. SHE. DOES. NOT. GIVE. A. SHIT. ABOUT. YOU. Nor will she remember who the fuck you are.

Oneitis will lead to your downfall. Go out and have fun instead of wasting your time for a girl that is not worth getting and STD over.

Post: #5

Strippers and bartenders tend to be pretty messed up. I would avoid trying to game a stripper unless you're super good. Yes, challenging yourself is good, but even if you're a tiger, a hand grenade will fuck you up. Different types of bad ass.

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Post: #7

I've pulled a stripper and they're messed up. It was good fun but they operate on a whole other level of drama and narcissism to your average girl. Unless she is seriously hot I would avoid. Do it if you can (its an experience after all) but stay wired at all times for drama. You might well find it isn't worth the effort.

Post: #8

It sounds like you have gotten a little obsessed with this girl in your head. Not a big deal but you should chill out a little before making any moves.

I think you should try an experiment. Find a hot stripper at a different strip club, talk to her, pay her a little, and see if she too has a warm personality.

Strippers run game for a living. It's a fun game but, by default, you have to resist the urge to think that there are real feelings involved. Sometimes there are true connections, but unless you advance those connections outside of the strip club setting, you're typically just paying for attention.

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/forumd...d7bb1cc4a9

^^ Note that it is a skill for a stripper to make money off of gaming clients.

More importantly, there are plenty of hot girls out there and you don't have to confine yourself to those who have learned, professionally, how to use a man's emotions and sex drive to get his attention/cash. Strippers are not necessarily the highest quality girls, physically or otherwise. They just market their bodies as if they are.

Post: #9

Say your plan does work out. What do you plan to do thereafter?

Post: #10

I stopped reading when you mentioned this happened last year...

Post: #11

As someone who has spent a lot of time in strip clubs, I don't even know if the original post is serious, but I'll post my thoughts to help anyone who is reading.

Quote:I do not spend big bucks at strip clubs cause even before I swallowed the red pill I knew it was a scam and that the girls just work over the guys and well you know the story. Well to my surprise I ended up talking to this very tasty non trashy stripper (is there such a thing) for 6 hours without giving her more than say 20 dollars.

If you become a regular at a certain club this is really no big deal. They're still girls and some of them might legitimately like you. However, you're failing to realize that most of these girls are shaking their ass in your face for a few singles or jerking guys off when they pay for a few lap dances because they're a fucking train wreck in their personal lives and no guy wants to put up with them and their bullshit. Have fun while you're at the club, spend only what you plan on spending, and don't give them any of your personal info. You're not there to find a wife, and they don't want to be "saved."

Guaranteed this girl is a single mother. I've met some of them who find ways to sneak that info into a conversation and are basically looking for a guy (simp) to pay their bills. You really need a different kind of game to go into these places and not get flossed, but they're still girls so a lot of the same rules about them being opportunists obviously apply, it's just taken to an extreme.

Post: #12

I cosign with the over thinking part. Go have a no fucks given attitude. Don't give her any money or gifts. Your presence should be enough. Be sharp and witty. You can mention that you remember her if the conversation is going that way, but don't bring it up outta nowhere.

I got strippers' numbers by just simply being funny, laid back and not giving a shit why they came up to me to begin with. But if you get worried about asking her to leave with you just remember, you're not gonna be the first or last guy to try.

Post: #13

OP are you T-Pain?

Post: #14

(04-30-2015 10:54 PM)Avon Barksdale Wrote:  OP are you T-Pain?

Post: #15

Wow lots of responses. And I knew I was going to catch some crap from you guys when I mentioned the gems and also when I mentioned I wanted to bang a stripper I met a year ago. But for the guys trying to give me some good tips to getting to sample that I tip my hat to you and really appreciate it. That and if it doesn't work out which I suspect it will not I still have a near for sure date lined up that I feel good about it leading to a SNL and so I will go in with a who gives a F attitude on the stripper.

I will try to reply to some of what you guys are saying.

I am pretty sure she still works there cause she talked like she had been there for several years and she is still listed on their website.

Good point about being creeped out if I bought her jewelry. I was all ready thinking this was not a good idea even though I got the gems for free and they are just loose gems not set into anything.

She may just have been REALLY good at what she does cause I have been in a lot of strip clubs and usually when my wallet doesn't open for them they are not nearly as "friendly" as this girl was. But I thought there was a connection but I was probably wrong.

If I can get her number or get her to leave or take her out after work I was going to meet her for coffee the next day and let it slip that I have a 15 year old bottle of pappy van winkle's bourbon back at my hotel which is actually just makers mark in a bottle I all ready enjoyed but I am sure she wouldn't know.

Oh and Vitriol you are 100% correct she did let it slip she is a single mother. Granted most are single mothers but yes she did let that slip. Thats why I was thinking I could let it slip I am moving to town and talk about me being the vice president of a up and starting company which is actually true but I am not moving there and so far getting the business that me and my friend are starting up is going slower than we had hoped what with trademarks and everything. But if I could fake the $$$ thing maybe I could run that kind of game to get the SNL?

Anyways I have to run as I am all ready getting a late start for the weekend. I will keep everyone posted as far as how things went and if anyone has any more good tips post them.

Post: #16

Go read the stripper web forum section aptly named hustle hut. And its a proverb here and on any pua and seduction forum since tome immemorial. If you are asking about any particular girl you're already lost her. You simply dont have the game needed and can chalk it up to leearning and apply it the next time

Post: #17

I think it's ridiculous that we live in a world where all a chick has to do is get high enough to take her clothes off in front of strangers and she can get paid -- a man has to actually work for his money or he will be broke.

What exactly is the endgame at a strip club?

If guys want to get their dicks sucked or fucked, they're better off dealing with escorts, since most strippers only want to do their escorting within the confines of a club, where it is much more expensive and less comfortable.

I think guys who live up in strip clubs are just losers.

Save your money and use it to work on yourself, make yourself more attractive, instead of lying to yourself that you're running game on a bitch whose entire goal is to get as much money off as you can before moving on to the next sucker.

I've banged a couple of dancers, but I met them at regular nightclubs, they are very easy to spot because they don't look like nor dance like "regular chicks", but I won't go to strip clubs and trick off my money, just so what, I can say I saw some titties and ass?

You can see titties and ass on your computer for free.

If you can't get titties and ass for real, then you need to look at yourself and figure out what your problem is and fix that shit.

We're spending too much time fat shaming, and not enough time on simp shaming, the power is in the money, if fuckin' simps would cut off the dollars to fucking strippers, webcam girls, and escorts, who are all mostly women who HATE men, you'd have a good percentage of highly-attractive women who'd actually think about straightening up and flying right.

At the end of the day, this is a forum for players, not for simps.

Stop advising these fucking simps.

Post: #18

team simp shaming

Post: #19

Banging a stripper is being in the right time, right place, with some game.

That's what happened to me and I didn't pay shit, I also played dumb pretending I didn't know what she did for work.

Don't give or pay these hoes who ALREADY get that sort of shit.

Talk about putting stripper pussy on the pedestal, I've never seen this.

Don't be a save a hoe and don't support their livelyhoods.


I literally want to say "Stripper Game Recognized" because she's got you writing about her, wanting to give her stuff.

Post: #20

(04-30-2015 05:01 PM)Mibdmth Wrote:  I also know she is big into jewelry (makes her own) and my buddy who has always had good frame and good luck with the ladies suggested I give her a couple of gems that he gave me for free to give to her. They look expensive but I got them for free and they are cultured gems not natural but would still sell for maybe $100 a piece and I have 5 of them. The old me would think that is the way to go but the new me thinks giving her gifts is beta.

Regarding the gems, don't just gift them up front. Use them as the pretext to get her to your place.

Snap a few photos of the gems on your cell phone (only show two of them, not all five). Then when you get to the club, you say to her "hey, remember last time we were talking about jewelry? can I get your opinion on something...?".

She will come over to your place to see the gems and tell you if they are good or not. If you don't have sex, no big deal. If you hit it, gift her one of the gems or don't - up to you.

Post: #21

(05-01-2015 01:12 PM)Virtus Wrote:  Go read the stripper web forum section aptly named hustle hut. And its a proverb here and on any pua and seduction forum since tome immemorial. If you are asking about any particular girl you're already lost her. You simply dont have the game needed and can chalk it up to leearning and apply it the next time

Most women in the adult industry are nothing more than misandrists.

We're talking about an entire population of women who would be poor, homeless, and starving, if it weren't for loser males who bust ass to make their little money only to trick it off to women who don't give two fucks about them.

There should be more of an effort to keep this women impoverished until they get with the program, make them earn their money in the same fashion that we do.

A bitch sitting in her room fingering herself is not work.

Doing lines of Katy Perry and then getting on a stage and twerking is not work.

We have to get worthless pieces of paper along with notable skills just to get money, that is our reality as men, NO ONE will take care of us, why make it easy on women, especially women who despise you?

Post: #22

Are a lot of guys that invest into strippers really that stupid?

Surely even the most foolish would have even the slightest awareness the money is the primary factor..

Post: #23

(05-01-2015 11:36 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  Are a lot of guys that invest into strippers really that stupid?

Read the OP.

This guy is talking about trying to rekindle a "connection" he made with a stripper at a club a year ago.

That should tell you everything that you need to know.

Post: #24

@Mibdmth

take the money you would have spent on this stripper bitch and get a gym membership.

Start lifting and go out in the none stripper world and have real interactions.

Also you'd be surprised the gym is like a strip club with good looking girls walking around in next to nothing ....though don't go for the girls go for yourself

a little iron (lifting) in your life should snap the 'bitchassness' outta you

Post: #25

I admit I am new to the whole pua thing. That being said I have a steady gf who is hot and puts out for me and only me at the drop of a hat so I am not that thirsty. I also hold good frame with her and she basically is like a wife from the 50's as far as cooking and cleaning and doing as her man says so I don't think I am being painted fairly on this thread cause you guys don't know me and that's the bottom line. I do work out at the gym but I will admit it's only been for the last 6 months or so and yes I could still loose some weight but I have still banged women that are 8's plus but not in the last couple of years which is why I read the RVF daily to get a edge that might help me bag the younger chick's not just the easy ones. I rarely get to get out of dodge though but when I do I plan on getting some strange or give her hell trying and maybe it's just the salesman in me but I am going to try to make the most out of all the leads that I have and see which one bites. After hearing all the Mibdmth bashing though I say it has lit a fire under my ass to show you guys that you are wrong. If not the stripper I still have a date lined up for Sunday evening and I am going to jump in for the big win!